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curious to know

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Apr 10, 2012
 
please answer
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Apr 10, 2012
 
That's a question that has been hotly debated over the years. The best answer I can give you is that girls' sexual feelings can be just as intense as boys', however boys think about sex more frequently than girls do. Also, girls have an easier time controlling their sexual desires as they have lower levels of the aggressive hormone testosterone.

That's a general answer. Of course, individual girls vary quite a bit from those who are essentially asexual to those who are very sexual.

Hope that helps.
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Apr 10, 2012
 

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can u tell it in percentage, i mean how many girls have more desire of sex than boys.......
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Apr 10, 2012
 
I wouldn't want to put a figure on it, but probably only a small percentage. Also, given that you're in India, I would think more young women there would keep their sexual thoughts and feelings to themselves due to cultural taboos.
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Apr 10, 2012
 
i liked your answer,, thank you,, may god bless you..

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Apr 10, 2012
 
achyfi wrote:
I wouldn't want to put a figure on it, but probably only a small percentage. Also, given that you're in India, I would think more young women there would keep their sexual thoughts and feelings to themselves due to cultural taboos.
It also would depend on the age. If you compare a 18yr old boy with an 18yr old girl, most likely the girl would have less sexual desire than the boy. However if you compared a man in his late 30's to a woman in her late 30's, the women would have more desire. Women go through their sexual peak when they are around that age, whereas men go through their sexual peak around 18.
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Apr 10, 2012
 
are you sure delilah ji
its really very amazing fact,,
i also believe it.. somewhere in my mind,, it was going on,,.girls do have desire,, but they have to hide it..

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Apr 10, 2012
 
curious to know wrote:
are you sure delilah ji
its really very amazing fact,,
i also believe it.. somewhere in my mind,, it was going on,,.girls do have desire,, but they have to hide it..
I never claimed that girls did not have sexual desire. I claimed that young teenage boys tend to have MORE sexual desires. But when you compare them at ages around 30-40, women will overpower men.
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Put it this way. Imagine you meet two people, John and Stacy. Stacy adores haute cuisine but won't touch fast food, while John is less discerning in his dietary preferences, and feels the need to snack more often.

Would anyone really say Stacy enjoys her food any less than John? Does the fact that Stacy has a different eating pattern and is more selective in her diet mean she derives less pleasure from her meals, or looks forward to them any less?

Of course not. It's a crazy way of looking at it, but somehow thousands of people fall for exactly this kind of thinking when it comes to the way they view sex.

Generally speaking (with plenty of exceptions), women desire QUALITY when it comes to sex, whereas men are more content with QUANTITY. Obviously, ideally, both men and women want quality and quantity. Men may think about it more often or want it more often, but that doesn't mean they have the greater desire. Hopefully the analogy above shows why.

It definitely doesn't mean they get the greater pleasure. The glans of the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as the entire penis. Many women can have multiple orgasms, men have a refractory period. I've never seen or heard of a man having such an earth-shattering orgasm that his entire body is wracked with pleasure, sometimes orgasms in women can end up leave you trembling, faint, unable to be touched because you feel so sensitive. That's how powerful it can be.

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achyfi wrote:
That's a general answer. Of course, individual girls vary quite a bit from those who are essentially asexual to those who are very sexual. Hope that helps.
On the topic of asexuality, it's definitely true that there are women who act like they don't like sex at all. But most of us are growing up in cultures that have said for thousands of years that women are bad when they are sexual, and even though we're less religious than we have ever been, it still exists and still shapes a lot of women's sexuality.

If all your life you're made to feel like a disgusting person for liking sex, it's going to affect you badly. It's going to make you suppress your feelings, because you're afraid of what the consequences could be.

And it's also true that there has been far less research into medical sexual problems in women than men. When men have problems with impotence and desire and such, it can prevent them from having families or having sex at all - as a result, the medical profession has treated it more seriously and focussed on finding ways of fixing male sexual problems. That's why there's stuff like Viagra. It's only very, very recently that there have been moves to focus more on equivalent medical problems in women.
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Apr 11, 2012
 
puppygirl wrote:
Put it this way. Imagine you meet two people, John and Stacy. Stacy adores haute cuisine but won't touch fast food, while John is less discerning in his dietary preferences, and feels the need to snack more often.
Would anyone really say Stacy enjoys her food any less than John? Does the fact that Stacy has a different eating pattern and is more selective in her diet mean she derives less pleasure from her meals, or looks forward to them any less?
Of course not. It's a crazy way of looking at it, but somehow thousands of people fall for exactly this kind of thinking when it comes to the way they view sex.
Generally speaking (with plenty of exceptions), women desire QUALITY when it comes to sex, whereas men are more content with QUANTITY. Obviously, ideally, both men and women want quality and quantity. Men may think about it more often or want it more often, but that doesn't mean they have the greater desire. Hopefully the analogy above shows why.
It definitely doesn't mean they get the greater pleasure. The glans of the clitoris has twice as many nerve endings as the entire penis. Many women can have multiple orgasms, men have a refractory period. I've never seen or heard of a man having such an earth-shattering orgasm that his entire body is wracked with pleasure, sometimes orgasms in women can end up leave you trembling, faint, unable to be touched because you feel so sensitive. That's how powerful it can be.
Let me ask you this, What do I need to prepare for dinner to get at those nerve endings?

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Apr 11, 2012
 
Let's just say that everybody is different. Everybody.
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Mar 5, 2013
 
Well let me tell little about biology of sex.A female(I'm not using the word woman cuz this goes for all mammal females)Starts ovulation in perticular age in every species.The ovulation causes her wanting sex ,eggs comes down to uterus from ovaries and now it's time for them to get sperm to make a baby.The sexual desire is like pain or any sensory indication.(That tells you now you should have sex to reproduce.)Where in males , a male just have to give a sperm for reproduction,so there ain't any perticular time and fells feel horny all the time.And becaause of testosterone males are lot aggresive in matter of sex.where females have speical times when they feel super horny. their vaginas sometimes get wet without any stimulation(sorry if that sounded gross)becuase they feel desire for sex.I have a dairy farm where i keep buffaloes.I obeseved that the male buffaloes can be ready for sex anytime but female buffaloes goes for it only in their ovulation times.In their ovulation they grows so desaparate if they don't get sex.They keep mooeing loudly and do lot of unusual stuff.I think now you got answer.Every one feels intense sex(If you're not feeling it with higher intensity there's gotta a problem with you regardless of your gender.)it's just females feel it in certain period and fellas are ready to dig anytimw.
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Mar 18, 2013
 
Both men and women have equal sexual urge or desire but women have to hide their desires , womens will never show their desires openly whereas all mens are free to openly show their sexual desires in public.

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Mar 19, 2013
 
Siddharth choudhary wrote:
Both men and women have equal sexual urge or desire but women have to hide their desires , womens will never show their desires openly whereas all mens are free to openly show their sexual desires in public.
That's not true at all.
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Nov 24, 2013
 
Girls have more feeling on sex
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Dec 17, 2013
 
Depends upon individual .. Depends upon her personality , her believes (taboo).etc...
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Jun 13, 2014
 
Right, girls have stronger sex desire than boys. But they don't show it

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Jun 13, 2014
 
Intensity probably equal. Frequency males more. Most descriptive was the definition of a female nymphomaniac, she wants sex half as often as the typical male. Now this is a generalization. Not to say there are not some variations within this.
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#24
Jun 13, 2014
 
I love sex I told my step brother I want to have sex with him 5 days a week and 4 times in one day we do it but after the 5 days we so tired we have to take a bake for a few days then we do again for 5 more days I always want more sex no matter what but I drain my brother were he ccouldn't blow his load.

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