Watching wife dance with others

Watching wife dance with others

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United States

#1 Jun 2, 2011
I know this has been covered before but thought it might be interesting to get some reaction. My wife and I have been doing dance classes (usually salsa) for several years. Obviously, in classes the changing partners is relatively choreographed but I still get a kick out of seeing her elsewhere in the room dancing with another man...and enjoy dancing with other women as well. Last month for the first time, we went to a couple of dance clubs and decided it would be fun to also dance with other people since it does kind of turn us both on. It's definitely different at a club than in a class from the standpoint there are a lot less rules so to speak about what you do. In classes, she has been felt up a little before where a guy will just brush her breast or maybe let his hand wander down a bit. Nothing major but I would get really turned on by this when she told me later so she knew that.

Anyway, we have been to this club twice now and the first time she danced with five different guys (I danced with two other girls), the second time she danced with nine different guys (I danced with four other girls, as we were out a good bit longer). What has surprised me and maybe both of us is how turned on we get and the sex has been incredible afterwards. She is getting felt up like crazy in this club and to be honest, so am I. Are there other couples that just enjoy going out and dancing like this? It is a huge turn on for me to be dancing with a woman and look over to see her dancing with another guy, sometimes in a bit of a compromising position. We're planning to go out again this weekend and are both over the top looking forward to it given the last two times.

United States

#2 Jun 2, 2011
Not unusual and like you said on here a lot. My hubby and I get a sitter for the night and go out once a month to a local club for this exact thing. He is turned on by watching me dance with guys and so am I. I usually end up dancing with 10-20 guys a night. Sometimes it's less but that's usually because I end up dancing with the same guy for a long time. I usually try to keep it to 2-3 songs with a guy and then move on as we have a no kissing rule, and if you stay with a guy longer than that they usually move in for the kiss. I almost always wear black short shorts with a sort of loose white top that is a little cropped as well. Sometimes wear a bra and sometimes don't. Guys get very excited when they feel no bra!

Our rules are simple. The guys can fondle my butt all they want and I will usually if the guy turns me on at all let them feel of my breasts as well. Almost all of the guys go for the butt, and probably a third feel of my breasts. One or two a night will do more than a light grab of the butt or brush of my breasts. The one or two are usually ones I dance with several songs and I might let them kiss my neck but never on the lips. I do grab their butts as I like it and it usually pulls them in to do more to me. Hubby wants to see me fondled so he gets what he wants. I do let guys go under my shirt if I have a bra on but just let one do it without the bra a couple of months ago for the first time. Hubby loved that and I will probably let it happen again. I just didn't know how he might react. That guy spent probably five minutes massaging my braless breasts under the shirt and kissing my neck. Hubby and I left right after that and had some fun. lol

United States

#3 Jun 3, 2011
Sounds like fun. My wife and I have fantasized about this and she used to be quite the party girl. I would enjoy.
Melinda 22

Woodburn, OR

#4 Jun 3, 2011
I'm not married, but my boyfriend (several years older than me) loves to stay at our table and set his beer while I'm on the floor dancing with other guys, and since I love to dance it's a natural arrangement! I dress for the occasion with short skirts and a bare tummy top things like that, he likes it when I grind on the guy, both front and back, and I was let the guy be pretty much is free is he wants to touching my butt and though I don't like to have my boobs grabbed, attach or caress or nuzzling his face into them as we dance is kind of cool, and my BF really likes to see that. Makes him hotter when we go home and be together thinking about it, I think he secretly picturing me with those other guys are pretending he's them or something!

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