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UK

#732 Nov 30, 2011
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Heartbroken

United States

#733 Feb 19, 2012
My husband cheated with a shemale 6 months ago. He said he didn't know what was wrong w him. Something about the forceful nature of penetration that he says he can't do w me. It's a lie because I let him do anything. I am disturbed and afraid. He barely pays attention to me lately. We also have childrEn. So terrible:(
Confused

Brisbane, Australia

#735 Feb 22, 2012
jonjill wrote:
i want to have sex w/ guys in front of my wife. is this the same thing?
How does she feel about it?
Confused

Brisbane, Australia

#736 Feb 22, 2012
rosier_i69 wrote:
I understand the idea of allowing your man to complete his fantasy, fulfill his desires, etc, etc... but ask yourself this: If he told you he wanted to have sex with another woman because he liked her DDD ta-tas, how would you respond? I don't disagree with open relationships, I don't disagree with polyamory, but for me, this is the kind of thing I would want to know about before a marriage where the agreement was monogomy. I do think partners change, and preferences can change, and sometimes those changes happen together, and sometimes apart. If you only say yes to allow him his desires, then what happens to your desires? I love that you are trying to respect his wants, needs, and desires, but is he respecting yours? After all, there are two people who matter in this decision (and children) Before making a decision, maybe some counseling could be an option, as this is obviously important to you and him. Maybe you can come to a workable arrangement, but don't do so as a compromise of yourself, as you will end up resenting him just as much as people are telling you he may resent you for not allowing this fantasy to play out in real life.
Well it's been a couple of years since I read this. Still nothing has happened, ty makes a lot of sense.
Confused

Brisbane, Australia

#737 Feb 22, 2012
La-Dee-Da wrote:
I am going through the same thing, but I do not follow all the advice that says not to make your husband feel like what he wants is wrong. I flat out don't like it and I have the right to state my honest feelings. My bf doesn't make any sense about his attraction to shemales. He says he isn't bisexual but I think he is. He will say he is only attracted to shemales because they look like women, but at the same time says that he doesn't really get turned on by normal females. He also insists he isn't attracted to regular guys, but when watching a movie, most of the time will say things about a handsome male actor like: "If I was gay, and I'm not, I'd f--- that guy anytime, anywhere!" Sounds pretty gay to me! I tell him I think he is gay but he doesn't want to be and can't accept it and so shemales allow him to pretend he is straight.
But there is nothing straight about two people who have the same type of genitals having sex, no matter how you slice it. If I were you I'd insist that my husband open up some more and discuss exactly what it is about shemales that turns him on. Saying "I don't know" all the time doesn't fly. He is expecting a LOT out of you, so he can at least reciprocate.
This response comes a long time after your post, so maybe it's all resolved by now. If so, what happened?
We are still together. Nothing has happened, he try's to pretend they don't interest him anymore. Also says he doesn't want to be screwed only wants to screw them. He has never commented on men looking handsome though? That would worry me more. My husband thinks he there is something wrong with him because he likes shemales, I think that is way he Denys it now. I have noticed though in the last year he no longer watches porn as much and has slumped into a depression, don't know what's causing it though? Lack of porn, no shemale action or general life?
How are things with you and your bf?
Confused

Brisbane, Australia

#738 Feb 22, 2012
Heartbroken wrote:
My husband cheated with a shemale 6 months ago. He said he didn't know what was wrong w him. Something about the forceful nature of penetration that he says he can't do w me. It's a lie because I let him do anything. I am disturbed and afraid. He barely pays attention to me lately. We also have childrEn. So terrible:(
Is it his guilt or you think he liked shemale more?
Amith Bhai

Dubai, UAE

#739 Feb 22, 2012
confused wrote:
I dont know what to do, whether I should be worried? Let him do it?
Im I not good enough? I dont know what to think. I have asked him these questions its always I dont know as the reply
Let him and join with them.may be you can enjoy more than ur hubby.You will get two d**k and he will get 4 Boobs
Chudeezy

Newark, CA

#740 Feb 24, 2012
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Chudeezy

Newark, CA

#741 Feb 24, 2012
Im waiting
Confused

Brisbane, Australia

#743 Feb 28, 2012
Chudeezy wrote:
Im waiting
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Confused

Brisbane, Australia

#744 Feb 28, 2012
zozodaddy4 wrote:
Had a shemale escort that was very feminine come to my hotel and had no problem having sex while my 10yrold daughter watched and asked questions. She was fascinated watching me taking it from behind and giving head. Shemale finally had my daughter lay in front of my face. Made me eat her out while she did me again.
You are sick and need to see someone, men like you need to be hung!
Bbssfc

UK

#745 Mar 21, 2012
zozodaddy4 wrote:
Had a shemale escort that was very feminine come to my hotel and had no problem having sex while my 10yrold daughter watched and asked questions. She was fascinated watching me taking it from behind and giving head. Shemale finally had my daughter lay in front of my face. Made me eat her out while she did me again.
Really??? That actually happen or are you kidding??
john

Kew, Australia

#748 Apr 19, 2012
why don't you have a threesome. instead of you missing out why don't you join in.
40thbday

Los Angeles, CA

#749 Jul 13, 2012
On my husbands 40th birthday I got him a hot black tranny as he has always fantasize about. We went out clubbing and dancing and met with the hottest tranny I've ever seen in my life. For a moment I thought she was a real lady. When we were done clubbing I had reserve a room in the same place we were having drinks. The three of us headed to our room and in our way I was picked up on and made out with a couple of guys. In fact, my husband had them do me in the elevator and hallway of the hotel. They came inside me but I was more interested in watching my husband get his with this black tranny. As soon as we walked in the room my husband was placed on all fours and this tranny took out a nine inch cock and started to bang my husband hard core. He moaned like a little bitch and next thing I see is him sucking a real cock. The tranny exploded in his mouth and he swollow every single drop.
ANro

UK

#750 Jul 13, 2012
why dont you ask him if he can do it with you with a strap on? maybe that could be a good compromise
vido

Hamburg, Germany

#751 Jul 19, 2012
thats easy ...when he wants it he can have it. but you have the right to be against it. you are compeletly right about marriage being a serious relationship. so be brave and firm. he should choose what he finds more important.
Another Confused Wife

Perth, Australia

#752 Jul 21, 2012
Hi there,

I am now in the same position with my husband. We are in our 20's and have been married less then a year.

I have given him the green light to safely try this tomorrow. But i am of course hurt and confused.

Please let me know how you dealt with this? Or if anyone else can offer me any support i would be most greatful.

Thank you,
Mrs w
I need guidance

Australia

#753 Jul 25, 2012
I am in the same situation I have just found out that my partner looks at that porn long story short we have two kids together very in love but he likes sleeping with she males he truly sees them as woman I did not understand it at first there men but I find it lovely and sweet that he looks at them the way they want to be seen. He said he has not slept with any while we have not been together as it would not be fair and he would hate to lose me and the kids I lost it a little and broke down and cryed after I thOught I was ok with it he promisede he would not go and sleep with one but I said i would alow it if we did it together as a couple, but not that that would ever happen we have kids we don't ever get them looked after and I could not bring my self to get them looked after knowing I was not spending time with them just so we could go act like stupid teens out on the town even worse going to watch him fuck some one els. That said deep inside I'm ok with it, it just hurts that I'm not enough I do every think he wants and what all for nothing all for him to go off and enjoy him self like I have not put my self out there enough. I'm so thankfully for this post it helped me a lot this last month I think he has fallen in love with me in a hole new light because I'm exepting him for who he is as I told him I love him unconditional I may not like it but I still love him he thought I was going to run and take the kids
I need guidance

Australia

#754 Jul 25, 2012
I am in my 20s as well my parter is a little older though I have done so much looking around about this and it seems a lot of men would do she males despite what men say I'm only going off all the convos I have been reading in the las month on the Internet
Another Confused Wife wrote:
Hi there,
I am now in the same position with my husband. We are in our 20's and have been married less then a year.
I have given him the green light to safely try this tomorrow. But i am of course hurt and confused.
Please let me know how you dealt with this? Or if anyone else can offer me any support i would be most greatful.
Thank you,
Mrs w
meee

Stockton, MO

#755 Jul 25, 2012
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