Helping the disabled

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CloudSage

Battle Creek, MI

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Oct 18, 2010
 
I work as a caregiver and one of the men I work with, who is physically, not mentally, disabled has asked me to help him have an orgasm. Without going into too much detail, his disability kicked in about six months ago, and his wife, for one reason or another won't touch him in that way.

He was really embarrassed about asking and just wants some release now and then. I told him I would have to think about it.

There's no attraction involved, and I think I'd like to help him out. I really want some advice and/or opinions, but I can't ask anyone I know about it for obvious reasons.
jack

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Oct 19, 2010
 

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CloudSage wrote:
I work as a caregiver and one of the men I work with, who is physically, not mentally, disabled has asked me to help him have an orgasm. Without going into too much detail, his disability kicked in about six months ago, and his wife, for one reason or another won't touch him in that way.
He was really embarrassed about asking and just wants some release now and then. I told him I would have to think about it.
There's no attraction involved, and I think I'd like to help him out. I really want some advice and/or opinions, but I can't ask anyone I know about it for obvious reasons.
you sound like a nice person
there would be nothing wrong in you helping out in this situation
you do not say if you are male or female
i have done something similar
CloudSage

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Oct 20, 2010
 

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I am male, actually.

I ended up doing it today before even getting any feedback. It was an interesting experience to say the least. I don't have much practice doing that to anyone but myself, but apparently I did a good job!

This might be an every day thing, it might be an every week thing, I don't know. But I think I enjoyed it a little and am kinda looking forward to doing it again.
jack

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Oct 20, 2010
 
CloudSage wrote:
I am male, actually.
I ended up doing it today before even getting any feedback. It was an interesting experience to say the least. I don't have much practice doing that to anyone but myself, but apparently I did a good job!
This might be an every day thing, it might be an every week thing, I don't know. But I think I enjoyed it a little and am kinda looking forward to doing it again.
same here
i dont do it very often
he enjoys it and doesnt stand much of a chance with anyone
i am waiting for him to ask me to call round
keep in touch
pete

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Dec 9, 2010
 
jack wrote:
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same here
i dont do it very often
he enjoys it and doesnt stand much of a chance with anyone
i am waiting for him to ask me to call round
keep in touch
i have done it for a younger man
he loves it and ask me round for a drink and watch tv
we both enjoy each others company
nothing gay or love or anything like that
he just needs someone to bath him and wank
adam

Brighton, UK

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Jan 4, 2011
 
pete wrote:
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i have done it for a younger man
he loves it and ask me round for a drink and watch tv
we both enjoy each others company
nothing gay or love or anything like that
he just needs someone to bath him and wank
i am disabled
i have a carer
yes he baths me
i got desparate and asked a favour and offered money
we watched a dvd and had a drink
then we had fun
i gave him his money back
hope he will do it again with me
Sara

San Antonio, TX

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Jan 5, 2011
 
Dad is disabled and I bathe him and help him out when he needs relief.
joyman61

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Jan 5, 2011
 
there is a girl i met on one of the dating sites that wanted someone to come to her and eat her out all night long but they had to love doing it.I was going to go there but i never got her address.she has cerebal palsey by the way.
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Joanie

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Jan 5, 2011
 

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CloudSage wrote:
I work as a caregiver and one of the men I work with, who is physically, not mentally, disabled has asked me to help him have an orgasm. Without going into too much detail, his disability kicked in about six months ago, and his wife, for one reason or another won't touch him in that way.
He was really embarrassed about asking and just wants some release now and then. I told him I would have to think about it.
There's no attraction involved, and I think I'd like to help him out. I really want some advice and/or opinions, but I can't ask anyone I know about it for obvious reasons.
I know some girls who blow their disabled brothers. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it! You are actually doing a very kind deed.

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Mar 13, 2011
 
Since I'm actually disabled and not full of shit, like many other people on here I'd say have him talk to his wife about it. If she still refuses then give him a helping hand. It hard being disables when it comes to relationships and sex. People assume you're retarded, can't get it up. or don't have a sex drive. It's extremely frustrating.
randy_tom

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Mar 26, 2011
 
i am shure we would all like to help disabled people and i am one of then we all have needs that need fore filling so yes i am up fore helping out we all need loveing .

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Mar 26, 2011
 
CloudSage wrote:
I am male, actually.
I ended up doing it today before even getting any feedback. It was an interesting experience to say the least. I don't have much practice doing that to anyone but myself, but apparently I did a good job!
This might be an every day thing, it might be an every week thing, I don't know. But I think I enjoyed it a little and am kinda looking forward to doing it again.
You sound like a compassionate guy for helping him out. You siad it was an interesting experience so I will assume you enjoyed it too. Did you wank him off or give him a bj?
Phinaeus Latherpants

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I have sex with disabled people so they'll let me use their handicapped parking tags.
Theodore

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Jul 7, 2011
 
Phinaeus Latherpants wrote:
I have sex with disabled people so they'll let me use their handicapped parking tags.
My wife and I are both disabled and many times cannot find a disabled parking spot because of people like you! If you want to use a disabled parking spot then go out and run in front of my car. I will gladly disable you!!!
gail

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Jul 4, 2012
 
Sara wrote:
Dad is disabled and I bathe him and help him out when he needs relief.
my sons disabled and i masturbate ......m..him after a bath it helps him sleep.

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