GF disappointed about gangbang

GF disappointed about gangbang

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Since: Feb 09

Detroit MI

#1 Mar 6, 2009
I'm not making up something stupid and fantasizing. This happened last night and my gf is pretty pissed off.

Last night, we went out and got pretty wasted. Came home and things got out of hand. My girlfriend ended up having sex with me and my friends, 5 of us. I think a couple of them came inside of her. Shes really pissed off about it, actually she hasnt even gotten out of bed yet (its 1pm, my time). she is not the type to have affairs or cheat, at least I dont think so. Im blaming the alcohol.

shes really mad at me...and i assume herself...i guess she doesnt remember too much about it but i guess she trusted me to not allow anything like this to happen to her...i feel bad and i was drunk...i dont know what to say to her.......
Stone Brook

Brownsburg, IN

#2 Mar 6, 2009
Well, this is a tricky one. First of all, is she on the pill? You said you think a couple of them came in her. If that's the case, you and her coule have a whole world of problems on your hands. Also, diseases....my advice, have her go to a Dr. and get checked out. That would be number 1.

But the whole "she's mad at me," you know what, you didn't force her to f*ck your friends. It was heat of the moment and everyone got caught up in it. Nobody should be mad at anybody.

My wife and I had a similar situation. We got ripped one night and went to a swinger's club. At the club, we talked to a few different couples and at the end of the night, my wife f*cked me and a couople of other guys (with condoms). I also f*cked a couple of women too besides my wife. But at the end of the night and next day, we both said we had a great time. Nobody was mad at anybody.

But as I said, I would get her to a Dr. before anything. Afterwards, you 2 need to just sit down and talk it through.
paulo234

Greenfield, MA

#3 Mar 6, 2009
Dump her

Since: Jul 08

Iraq

#4 Mar 6, 2009
I understand where you are coming from.. you know like you should of taken care of her. But like the other guy said you didn't make her bang anyone. She probably feels guilty and embarrassed, how can she look at your friends the same way ever again.

Since: Jan 09

Waukegan, IL

#5 Mar 6, 2009
It's both of your faults. She trusted you with keeping her "safe". She let herself gett out of hand. It's a 50/50 thing. All you can do is talk, rationalize, and apologize.

“...what happened to the gland?”

Since: Feb 09

San Rafael, CA

#6 Mar 6, 2009
MessyJessie wrote:
It's both of your faults. She trusted you with keeping her "safe". She let herself gett out of hand. It's a 50/50 thing. All you can do is talk, rationalize, and apologize.
I have to agree here...

This is the kind of situation that probably isn't going to end well, at least immediately... I can see blame games and all sorts of illogical back-and-forths going on. But you have to stick through it...in the end it might make you stronger as a couple.
Matt

Mulberry, FL

#7 Mar 6, 2009
dude. Wtf. You guys just got to be responsible for your OWN actions. Its her own fault for "assuming" that you would take care of her. You just gotta be concious of your decisions and responsible for the results. Cause and Effect. If the effect is just intangible emotional garbage, then she has to get over it because its not a real "problem". Remember, when you point a finger at somone , theres four fingers pointing back...

Since: Jan 08

Timmins, Canada

#8 Mar 6, 2009
Matt wrote:
dude. Wtf. You guys just got to be responsible for your OWN actions. Its her own fault for "assuming" that you would take care of her. You just gotta be concious of your decisions and responsible for the results. Cause and Effect. If the effect is just intangible emotional garbage, then she has to get over it because its not a real "problem". Remember, when you point a finger at somone , theres four fingers pointing back...
While I agree with many of your points, I'm still trying to figure out someone could have 4 fingers pointed back at them.... maybe if I was that 6 fingered man from "The Princess Bride"...
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Since: Feb 09

Detroit MI

#9 Mar 8, 2009
As of Sunday March 8th, she has chosen to take a break from this relationship due to these events..... :(
Hunnie

Seattle, WA

#10 Mar 8, 2009
Better not bang her for awhile, because now she could have AIDS!

“In the Spirit of Crazy Horse”

Since: Apr 08

Pine ridge South Dakota

#11 Mar 8, 2009
Hey if she can do 5 guys and you were there it sounds to me that you are both to blame. She felt that fucking your friends was hot. You are not the victim. You wanted to see her with your friends. Why not beg her to come back, Tell her you love her and become swingers? This could be a life changeing moment. Or not...

“I'm the Boss”

Since: Mar 09

Drummondville Quebec

#12 Mar 8, 2009
FutballGuy wrote:
As of Sunday March 8th, she has chosen to take a break from this relationship due to these events.....:(
She's a slut you're better off without her ...

“I'm the Boss”

Since: Mar 09

Drummondville Quebec

#13 Mar 8, 2009
MessyJessie wrote:
It's both of your faults. She trusted you with keeping her "safe". She let herself gett out of hand. It's a 50/50 thing. All you can do is talk, rationalize, and apologize.
Its her fault she wasn't raped she pulled the train ... he needs to dump her ...
Monte

West Palm Beach, FL

#14 Mar 8, 2009
Part of the responsibility of a relationship is protecting eachother and this guy failed miserably. She needs to find a better guy to be with, she is bed now thinking this same thing...i am hearing, Billy Idols "White Wedding" in the backround...

“In the Spirit of Crazy Horse”

Since: Apr 08

Pine ridge South Dakota

#15 Mar 8, 2009
My advice is to start drinking heavly.
azz

Australia

#16 Mar 8, 2009
its not his fault she did a gang bang, we all know when you get pi$$ed anything can happen she needs to take responsibilty for puting herself in that position

“I'm the Boss”

Since: Mar 09

Drummondville Quebec

#17 Mar 8, 2009
Monte wrote:
Part of the responsibility of a relationship is protecting eachother and this guy failed miserably. She needs to find a better guy to be with, she is bed now thinking this same thing...i am hearing, Billy Idols "White Wedding" in the backround...
Its her fault ...She spread for the whole gang ...

“I'm the Boss”

Since: Mar 09

Drummondville Quebec

#18 Mar 8, 2009
azz wrote:
its not his fault she did a gang bang, we all know when you get pi$$ed anything can happen she needs to take responsibilty for puting herself in that position
CORRECT ...
buttster

Atlanta, GA

#19 Mar 8, 2009
FutballGuy wrote:
I'm not making up something stupid and fantasizing. This happened last night and my gf is pretty pissed off.
Last night, we went out and got pretty wasted. Came home and things got out of hand. My girlfriend ended up having sex with me and my friends, 5 of us. I think a couple of them came inside of her. Shes really pissed off about it, actually she hasnt even gotten out of bed yet (its 1pm, my time). she is not the type to have affairs or cheat, at least I dont think so. Im blaming the alcohol.
shes really mad at me...and i assume herself...i guess she doesnt remember too much about it but i guess she trusted me to not allow anything like this to happen to her...i feel bad and i was drunk...i dont know what to say to her.......
It really should be what she has to say to you. Maybe it was the booze or maybe this will happen again, that's something you have to think about. Don't let her hurt you, woman can get laid with a snap of a finger.

“In the Spirit of Crazy Horse”

Since: Apr 08

Pine ridge South Dakota

#20 Mar 8, 2009
Ok so she blowed a couple of your buddies. Big deal. Im sure one day you will look back and laugh at this. Hiowever that day is not today. You need to just kiss and make up. But not on the lips.

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