Straight guy gay fantasies

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Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#1 Nov 15, 2010
Im a straight guy but sometimes I have some fantasize about having sex with a guy. I think about being seduced and taken by a strong man. I get hard thinking about him F'ing me, first slow and then faster and harder. I am not gay, obviously curious. Not sure if I would ever do anything with a guy but the fantasy gets me hot.

Any other guys curious?

Since: Nov 10

Escalon, CA

#2 Nov 15, 2010
I''m like you except I know I want a man. I consider myself bi. I absolutely know what you're saying about being taken by a strong man. Have you tried any anal play?
Jeff

Brooklyn, NY

#3 Nov 15, 2010
Curious about the pic u were to send me....yes.
Frank Stanton

New York, NY

#4 Nov 15, 2010
Thills wrote:
Im a straight guy but sometimes I have some fantasize about having sex with a guy. I think about being seduced and taken by a strong man. I get hard thinking about him F'ing me, first slow and then faster and harder. I am not gay, obviously curious. Not sure if I would ever do anything with a guy but the fantasy gets me hot.
Any other guys curious?
You are not straight.
Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Nov 15, 2010
Strat199 wrote:
I''m like you except I know I want a man. I consider myself bi. I absolutely know what you're saying about being taken by a strong man. Have you tried any anal play?
I have. I love it.
Hotjgw

Canada

#6 Nov 15, 2010
Thills wrote:
Im a straight guy but sometimes I have some fantasize about having sex with a guy. I think about being seduced and taken by a strong man. I get hard thinking about him F'ing me, first slow and then faster and harder. I am not gay, obviously curious. Not sure if I would ever do anything with a guy but the fantasy gets me hot.
Any other guys curious?
Yes i do to ! Slowly striping each other stroking a hot hard one and to me what gets me really going is kissing him !
Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#7 Nov 15, 2010
Frank Stanton wrote:
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You are not straight.
What am I then?
Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#8 Nov 15, 2010
Frank Stanton wrote:
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You are not straight.
I have never been with a guy in any way.
Join Free
Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#9 Nov 15, 2010
Hotjgw wrote:
<quoted text>Yes i do to ! Slowly striping each other stroking a hot hard one and to me what gets me really going is kissing him !
Sounds hot. Are you straight?
Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#10 Nov 15, 2010
Jeff wrote:
Curious about the pic u were to send me....yes.
Sent.
Thills

Brooklyn, NY

#11 Nov 15, 2010
Hotjgw wrote:
<quoted text>Yes i do to ! Slowly striping each other stroking a hot hard one and to me what gets me really going is kissing him !
Sounds hot! Are you straight?
Frank Stanton

New York, NY

#12 Nov 15, 2010
Thills wrote:
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What am I then?
Your either gay or bi and closeted. I'm gay. I don't fantasize about women, and I don't know of any gay guys who do.

Since: Nov 08

Location hidden

#13 Nov 15, 2010
Thills wrote:
Im a straight guy but sometimes I have some fantasize about having sex with a guy. I think about being seduced and taken by a strong man. I get hard thinking about him F'ing me, first slow and then faster and harder. I am not gay, obviously curious. Not sure if I would ever do anything with a guy but the fantasy gets me hot.
Any other guys curious?
Thills, we throw too many labels about these days. It seems that we are more open about another guy's sexual orientation, but when something happens to us personally, we still grab for a label. Your dreaming of a sexual encounter with another guy is very common. Many guys probably do not remember their dreams. A large number of very active guys into sex with other guys never remember a dream of M2M sex, or even a bisexual encounter.

I have never trusted many of the "scientific studies" on this issue of gay dreams by straight guys because I do not trust the cohort (the group of guys being studied). If you are a "scientist" and advertise in The Advocate for men to participate in a sex study, you have ruined the objectivity of the study because a high percentage of the guys will be gay. Straight men are not likely to be reading The Advocate. The "cohort" of men would be readers of that particular magazine and not objective in their thoughts and opinions.

One answer to you initial post instantly stuck a label on you, that you were not straight. That is the general attitude of the zealous born-again Christian fanatic. Everything is bad and a sin to the Christian masochists. Most of the damnation of gay guys comes from individuals who detect an urge within themselves for some type of sexual encounter with another guy. Some do not get the courage to do so until later in life. I suggest you not worry about your dream or even experimentation with an actual sexual encounter. Please have information of HIV and other infections that might be transmitted during a sexual act. I have had many married guys ask me to spank them while nude. In some cases his wife knew all about it. He was better to get a spanking from another guy than spend tons of money on a psychiatrist. Good luck. It is great you can be open about your feelings. If you discover you have a great attraction to other guys, the world is not going to end. Please do not hide what you find from YOURSELF. Some men find out they really need a relationship with another man, and do so. Those men who deny they need such a sexual outlet become "fag haters." The man who is the most vocal against gay men is often a very disturbed man because he cannot accept his own need for sexual satisfaction with a member of his own sex. The writer Ernest Hemingway could not accept his own need for an intimate male friend. Once, he ran across a street in Spain and slugged an obviously gay man simply because the man was gay. Eventually, Ernest Hemingway killed himself. Had he been honest about his own sexual feeling, he might not have ended his life.
bandito

Guatemala City, Guatemala

#14 Nov 15, 2010
What the problem is that we've been made to believe that we are either straight, gay, bi or transgender. In reality we're all inclined to have some or more of these preferences. We are a mixture, so to speak, of all these descriptions. Each person is unique and labels don't do us much justice. To label you gay or bi doesn't mean anything. They are just that;labels. Do yourself a favour and relax; follow what you think suits you.
john

Roanoke, VA

#15 Nov 15, 2010
Thills wrote:
Im a straight guy but sometimes I have some fantasize about having sex with a guy. I think about being seduced and taken by a strong man. I get hard thinking about him F'ing me, first slow and then faster and harder. I am not gay, obviously curious. Not sure if I would ever do anything with a guy but the fantasy gets me hot.
Any other guys curious?
I have the same thoughts and ut makes me so horny also . I used to oplay with a buddy but never went to far . just rubbing and stroking him
bandito

Guatemala City, Guatemala

#17 Nov 15, 2010
MasterDavid wrote:
<quoted text> Thills, we throw too many labels about these days. It seems that we are more open about another guy's sexual orientation, but when something happens to us personally, we still grab for a label. Your dreaming of a sexual encounter with another guy is very common. Many guys probably do not remember their dreams. A large number of very active guys into sex with other guys never remember a dream of M2M sex, or even a bisexual encounter.
I have never trusted many of the "scientific studies" on this issue of gay dreams by straight guys because I do not trust the cohort (the group of guys being studied). If you are a "scientist" and advertise in The Advocate for men to participate in a sex study, you have ruined the objectivity of the study because a high percentage of the guys will be gay. Straight men are not likely to be reading The Advocate. The "cohort" of men would be readers of that particular magazine and not objective in their thoughts and opinions.
One answer to you initial post instantly stuck a label on you, that you were not straight. That is the general attitude of the zealous born-again Christian fanatic. Everything is bad and a sin to the Christian masochists. Most of the damnation of gay guys comes from individuals who detect an urge within themselves for some type of sexual encounter with another guy. Some do not get the courage to do so until later in life. I suggest you not worry about your dream or even experimentation with an actual sexual encounter. Please have information of HIV and other infections that might be transmitted during a sexual act. I have had many married guys ask me to spank them while nude. In some cases his wife knew all about it. He was better to get a spanking from another guy than spend tons of money on a psychiatrist. Good luck. It is great you can be open about your feelings. If you discover you have a great attraction to other guys, the world is not going to end. Please do not hide what you find from YOURSELF. Some men find out they really need a relationship with another man, and do so. Those men who deny they need such a sexual outlet become "fag haters." The man who is the most vocal against gay men is often a very disturbed man because he cannot accept his own need for sexual satisfaction with a member of his own sex. The writer Ernest Hemingway could not accept his own need for an intimate male friend. Once, he ran across a street in Spain and slugged an obviously gay man simply because the man was gay. Eventually, Ernest Hemingway killed himself. Had he been honest about his own sexual feeling, he might not have ended his life.
I guess we are from the same school of free thinkers. I've discovered that atheist seem to be much more intelligent and tolerant. I wish these so called CHRISTIANS would abide what The real CHRIST, JESUS preached about compassion, love for your neighbor, family, etc. Most of them don't even read the bible, they just judge; as if they are the ones without sin. It's really sad.

Since: Nov 10

Escalon, CA

#18 Nov 15, 2010
Thills wrote:
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I have. I love it.
Awesome. It's such a pleasurable act. Embrace all of these fantasies and try a man. I just love the warmth of penis. The feeling of it in my hands, mouth, and arse just drive me insane.
Hotjgw

Canada

#19 Nov 16, 2010
Thills wrote:
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Sounds hot! Are you straight?
Love women but seeing gay porn where they are hugging and frenching naked makes me wonder and very hard
Melissa

Tonganoxie, KS

#20 Nov 16, 2010
Thills wrote:
Im a straight guy but sometimes I have some fantasize about having sex with a guy. I think about being seduced and taken by a strong man. I get hard thinking about him F'ing me, first slow and then faster and harder. I am not gay, obviously curious. Not sure if I would ever do anything with a guy but the fantasy gets me hot.
Any other guys curious?
I had bf who use to do that. He'd ask if he was gay and I'd ask him if he was attracted to women. So it wasn't an issue then and there. In fact I was a little turned on by it.
Melissa

Tonganoxie, KS

#21 Nov 16, 2010
We've still thought about it trying it with another guy. I don't know though, I don't feel like he's ready.

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