sex with the babysitter

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Since: Jul 09

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#6 Jul 6, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
How can you talk to a girl about sex stuff. I just want to know if she's pill-safe and if she tells her friends gossip about the 2 of us.
well have u ever tried asking her about it
Mee Too

Asheville, NC

#8 Jul 7, 2009
Have you ever seen "Fatal Attractions?" These things do not end well, and thinking it will just continue to go on as it currently is is wishful thinking. Your girlfriend isn't just a walking p#%$y. She's a woman with emotions and a heart, and she's going to want more from you. I would say get out while you can, but I know you aren't going to listen to that - you're thinking with the wrong head right now.
wantsbetter

London, KY

#9 Jul 7, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland:
You started the mess you now find yourself in. Now man-up and ask her: 1) Are you on the pill? or ask, have you been fixed? 2) Admit that you have done your wife very wrong. 3) Tell her what kind of jerk you are. 4) Tell her you are now worried that she might sue your cheating a**. 5) Tell her that all you ever wanted from her was to get in her pants. 6) Tell her you deserve to be sued by her, and DIVORCED by your wife.
Now, that isn't difficult, it is? All you need is the balls to admit that you are the jerk that caused all this mess.
scorpion

Riyadh, Saudi Arabia

#10 Jul 7, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
How can you talk to a girl about sex stuff. I just want to know if she's pill-safe and if she tells her friends gossip about the 2 of us.
You are weird man..i dnt get you..
You fu&&d her and she plays with yourcock and you have post-intercourse pillow talks..and she tells you to keep it inside and want you to come in..and still you do not know how to ask her if she is on the pill? it is not like you have to talk dirty..it is a simple question..and you are not asking a girl you met on the street and you dnt know..she is your f**k buddy dude!! you should have asked these questions right after the first f**k

Since: Oct 08

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#11 Jul 7, 2009
Your done in the mess now, so ya might just as well enjoy it as long as ya can...

Since: Jul 09

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#12 Jul 7, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
How can you talk to a girl about sex stuff. I just want to know if she's pill-safe and if she tells her friends gossip about the 2 of us.
ok just be brave n ask her is she on the pill if things dnt go right then tell her u know it was a stupid question or something like that and props for having an affair and keeping it from ur wife n kids for this long
wantsbetter

London, KY

#16 Jul 13, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland, wrote:
“I don't know how to talk to a girl about sex stuff. She wants sex and likes to feel me inside her. She has never ever said anything about birth control or condoms or anything. I just want to know if she has protected herself from the possible consequences. It would be a major life crisis for her if she got pregnant. I don't know if she thought all of that through. And I don't know what she tells her friends about the 2 of us.

I'm afraid if I asked her if she's on the pill, she will twist things around like girls do, and say did I just assume she's on the pill? And if I'm worried about this why do I make love to her, just all this stuff that girls twist around if you ask them simple questions. So I would rather not talk to her at all, but still want to know what the deal is with her.”

Anonymous in Lakeland:

Apparently you are a moron. You have sex with your young baby setter. Then, you get on here and announce it to the world, while claiming you are a profession (your posts don’t appear to be written by someone who is professional).

Let me break down your post fro you:
You wrote:“She has never ever said anything about birth control or condoms or anything. I just want to know if she has protected herself from the possible consequences.”
WHAT MAKES YOU THINK ALL THE RESPONSIBILITY BELONGS TO HER.? HAVE’NT YOU EVER HEARD OF “CONDOMS?”

You wrote:“It would be a major life crisis for her if she got pregnant. I don't know if she thought all of that through.”
DID YOU THINK ALL OF THAT THROUGH BEFORE YOU PUT YOUR HORNY ROD IN HER? I THINK THE “MAJOR LIFE CRISIS” YOU ARE WORRIED ABOUT IS YOUR OWN A**. I DON’T THINK YOU ARE WORRIED SO MUCH ABOUT HER HAVING TO FACE A “MAJOR LIFE CRISIS”, AS YOU ARE ABOUT WHAT IT WILL MEAN FOR YOU IF SHE GETS PREGANT. A DIVORCE AND HAVING TO PAY CHILD SUPPORT FRIGHTENS YOU, HUH? YOU SHOULD HAVE THOUGHT ABOUT THIS BEFORE YOU PUT YOUR SLIMY ROD IN HER, MORON.

You wrote:“I'm afraid if I asked her if she's on the pill, she will twist things around like girls do, and say did I just assume she's on the pill? And if I'm worried about this why do I make love to her, just all this stuff that girls twist around if you ask them simple questions.”
YOU ANSWERED YOUR OWN QUESTION, MORON. NOW MAN-UP, MORON. WHAT IS YOUR PROFESSION, LYING?
On the Lam

Grand Rapids, MI

#17 Jul 13, 2009
To summarize:

You're 40, a father of 3, a working business professional, you've been sleeping with the babysitter for several months, and you're..."afraid to talk to girls about sex stuff...".

Assuming this is true, you're bankrupt morally and probably literally, if your "professional" writing skills are any indication of your business capabilities.

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Lick it up

Bloomington, IN

#18 Jul 13, 2009
In merry olde England, they have a saying: "DON'T SH*T WHERE YOU EAT." Guess what, bub: You have dropped a big brown steamer in the middle of your own dinner plate, right on top of your Porterhouse!

I would say that you have to stop doing the babysitter immediately. Hopefully she will be okay with this and not run to your wife and tell everything.

She may just want sex for now, but if you keep doing her, eventually she will most likely fall in love with you and want you leave your wife to be with her.

If you want to do that, its your call but rest assured your wife will do her damndest to leave you with nothing but the clothes on your back.

I wish you the best in trying to fix this mess that you created. I hope for the sake of your three children that you can somehow resolve this and learn from your mistakes without destroying their lives as well as your wife's life.
darkcloset

United States

#19 Jul 13, 2009
Either this guy is a complete fuckup or he's a troll
Eurobabe

Homebush, Australia

#22 Jul 13, 2009
You are stupid if you think that this babysitter is intrested in YOU as a person. One of your first remarks is that you are a "professional"- easy she is after your dosh. She doesn't love you.

As for whether she is on the pill- HELLO IDIOT she isn't she wants you to bang her brains out and eventually she will come crying to you "Oh I am pregnant what will I do", your wife will find out and you will be up for child-support NOT ONLY from your wife but from this slut.

Frankly- you are nothing but an idiot and I DO hope your life fucks up. Your nothing but a jackass with no moral OR ethical values.

I hope your wife sues your ass in court and the babysitter leeches you dry- SCUM!
Eurobabe

Homebush, Australia

#23 Jul 13, 2009
Mee Too wrote:
Have you ever seen "Fatal Attractions?" These things do not end well, and thinking it will just continue to go on as it currently is is wishful thinking. Your girlfriend isn't just a walking p#%$y. She's a woman with emotions and a heart, and she's going to want more from you. I would say get out while you can, but I know you aren't going to listen to that - you're thinking with the wrong head right now.
If she was a woman with a heart she WOULDN'T get involved with a married man with kids. Don't you DARE define a woman as someone that sleeps with a married man.

She is a HOME WRECKER.. get your facts straight
Eurobabe

Homebush, Australia

#24 Jul 13, 2009
wantsbetter wrote:
Anonymous in Lakeland:
You started the mess you now find yourself in. Now man-up and ask her: 1) Are you on the pill? or ask, have you been fixed? 2) Admit that you have done your wife very wrong. 3) Tell her what kind of jerk you are. 4) Tell her you are now worried that she might sue your cheating a**. 5) Tell her that all you ever wanted from her was to get in her pants. 6) Tell her you deserve to be sued by her, and DIVORCED by your wife.
Finally a person that also finds this guy to be a complete jackass
Now, that isn't difficult, it is? All you need is the balls to admit that you are the jerk that caused all this mess.
Finally a person that also thinks this man is a jackass
Eurobabe

Homebush, Australia

#25 Jul 13, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
I don't know how to talk to a girl about sex stuff. She wants sex and likes to feel me inside her. She has never ever said anything about birth control or condoms or anything. I just want to know if she has protected herself from the possible consequences. It would be a major life crisis for her if she got pregnant. I don't know if she thought all of that through. And I don't know what she tells her friends about the 2 of us.
I'm afraid if I asked her if she's on the pill, she will twist things around like girls do, and say did I just assume she's on the pill? And if I'm worried about this why do I make love to her, just all this stuff that girls twist around if you ask them simple questions. So I would rather not talk to her at all, but still want to know what the deal is with her.
Hope she gives you AIDS MORON

“Now with 99.9% Less Sugar”

Since: May 09

Las Cruces, NM

#26 Jul 14, 2009
You, Sir... are a douchebag. You not only cheat on your wife, you do it without a condom. This babysitter could have STD's. If she had sex with you so easy what in the world makes you think you are so special that she isn't or hasn't been with someone else. And who KNOWS what the guy's she's been with have, or who they have been with and what THEY have.. and so on and so on.

You've jeopordized your wifes health. You could pass on chylmadia to her... which is symptomless in many men.. AND woman sometimes.. and gone untreated can lead to infertility. What a great guy you are.

And for what? Ego-boost? A little adrenaline? A stupid freaking orgasm. You've thrown away your vows for a woman you can't even communicate well enough with to ask if she's taking a birth control.

You're SELFISH. Birth control? You're more worried about what will happen if she gets pregnant than the health risks involved in unprotected sex.

I really hope your wife finds about this, for her own safety and health if nothing else.

Oh and I am sure she's not on the pill, she might have mentioned if she was. Later she can say, when she comes to you with pregnancy " I never told you I was on the pill!"

You let her feel your junk while on a ride with your kids... the babysitter. Was your wife also in the boat? Father/Husband of the year material right there, bud.

How would you feel if your wife was doing the same... screwing the young gardner boy... without a condom... passing off whatever he may have on to you. Rubbing HIS junk in your presense.. etc.

Well, there is nothing we can say here that can help you. If you can't even ask the chick if she's on birth control because you 'can't talk about sex stuff to girls'. Ugh. Grow up. I can see why you fell for the young babysitter, you have the mentality of a 12 year old , but less self control.

Since: Jun 09

Scarborough, Canada

#28 Jul 14, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
I can't talk to girls about sex stuff. I'm too afriad to ask.
wait wait wait wait!!! et me see if i got this straight. you can't talk to/ask her about the sex you guys are having but you're very comfy f*ing her?....nicely twisted mon ami.

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Since: May 09

Las Cruces, NM

#29 Jul 14, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
It gets very dark in Pirates of the Caribbean, and nobody could see what she was doing. She reached down and felt and put her hand right on the dick. And she stroked and grasped the dick and it caused some penis growth as she did that.
This is what I am up against. She is a very penis oriented girl. How would all of you react if a girl plays with your dick.
Sometimes when we're actually making love, she says "don't hold back, I want you to come", which I think she means ejac. in her.
She's a nice girl but she has some tough life lessons to learn, and I am concerned about what she wants to see happens with us.
I'm not sure what she wants to see happen and don't want her to think this will go on forever or anything like that.
You are so hopeless. I didn't mean that your family could see... I meant that you were behaving that way within inches of them. You can't control your penis?

Hey I tell you what, I like having my vagina rubbed... I really really do - and my boyfriend does it fantastically. But if somone that wasn't my boyfriend rubbed my vagina I would stop them. Even if they were very vagina oriented guys.

This will be my last response... I started out this post feeling sorry for wife, but I am not anymore.. with how completely emotionally and morally, sexually and just literally retarded you are, she will probably be LUCKY to find out your cheating so she can get the heck out of there finally and be with a real man eventually.

Since: Jun 09

Scarborough, Canada

#31 Jul 14, 2009
"congratulations sir, it's a boy". i doubt you marriage would survive that. i hope your wife takes you to the cleaners when she finds out.

and no you can't spy on ppl. we can't/ won't help u.

Since: Jun 09

Scarborough, Canada

#32 Jul 14, 2009
Anonymous in Lakeland wrote:
I don't know how to talk to a girl about sex stuff. She wants sex and likes to feel me inside her. She has never ever said anything about birth control or condoms or anything. I just want to know if she has protected herself from the possible consequences. It would be a major life crisis for her if she got pregnant. I don't know if she thought all of that through. And I don't know what she tells her friends about the 2 of us.
I'm afraid if I asked her if she's on the pill, she will twist things around like girls do, and say did I just assume she's on the pill? And if I'm worried about this why do I make love to her, just all this stuff that girls twist around if you ask them simple questions. So I would rather not talk to her at all, but still want to know what the deal is with her.
waow...i'm amazed. a guy without balls is able to have and maintain (at least to an extent) an extra marital affair.
HHC

Since: Dec 07

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#33 Jul 14, 2009
If this story is true...I hope this guy has a good enough job to pay child support for his current children and the new one he more than likely has on the way. Child support and alimony. Oh the pain of it all when you can't keep your pecker in your pants!

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