LONG SEX: vagina tightens up?

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matt

Boca Raton, FL

#1 Jul 12, 2007
when i have sex with my girlfriend.. we go for a good.. hour or two and evetually she tightens up to the point where it is way to painful for her and not even enjoyable for me.. it lasts for a good hour - hour 1/2
why does this happen? is there a way to fix it?
is it because were a tad young?

“SMOKERS, DRINKERS, OBESE UNITE”

Since: Jun 07

INDIANA

#2 Jul 12, 2007
It is because she might be having an orgasm or -- She has spasm down there due to a medical condition - or she doesn't want to and you have forced her!
Liz

King Of Prussia, PA

#3 Jul 12, 2007
matt wrote:
when i have sex with my girlfriend.. we go for a good.. hour or two and evetually she tightens up to the point where it is way to painful for her and not even enjoyable for me.. it lasts for a good hour - hour 1/2
why does this happen? is there a way to fix it?
is it because were a tad young?
Young? like how young?... as a girl who has sex... some girls dont like having sex for long amounts of time... i know a girl who cant have sex for longer than 20 minutes but i know other girls who can do it for hours... its just prefference... but once you meet their time limit your vagina practically shuts down... you can loose vagina lube... sometimes the girl might just get bored... even if the sex is amazing... it can get boring if its dragged on for too long... try new positions... switch it up... and if it starts to feel dry or starts to hurt put some lube on there... whether by oral, actual lube, or you just throw some spit on your dick and put it back in... anything works
matt

Boca Raton, FL

#4 Jul 13, 2007
shes 15 im 16.. and NO she doesnt get bored lol.. def not she gets pissed.. and to tell u the truth im tierd by then lol at first i thought it was when u use the spermicidal lubricant condoms... but we stopped using them and it didnothing.. so ya.. it only happens after like a couple hours..
bill

Liverpool, UK

#5 Jul 13, 2007
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Since: Jun 07

INDIANA

#6 Jul 13, 2007
She gets pissed - That is when you stop doing what you are doing! you need to realize that. If she ever says stop - and you don't - that is rape. You need to realize that a girl that age isn't like a older girl and should not be having sex - but if you must continue to play russian roulette with a egg target and sperm arrow - then get her on the pill - ask her to have a vaginal exam to make sure - if she has slept with others - that she doesn't have cyst that can fill with the fluid build up during intercourse and anything diease like herpes! Once you have herpes they stay forever and well they can cause damage to your penis and can give her cancer. Do you give fourplay between intercourse - this will make her happy as well as you! If you make the girl feel wonderful about this and it isn't just a lay session - you will keep her happy and flowing. They make toys and this will make her happy too.
No anal stuff - you would not want that and she trust me doesn't want that either - you think it is dry in there it is a desert in there and she could bleed to death if done wrong and it isn't fun for the woman.
If you are thinking about leaving her because of this - then did you ever really love her or even like her? I know it is all cool to lose your virginity and be a bunny for the night - but you might want think about adult things on a adult level - because having sex is a adult thing! Just think about this while having sex next time!!
bill

Liverpool, UK

#7 Jul 13, 2007
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matt

Boca Raton, FL

#8 Jul 13, 2007
umm... u seem to be way over reacting?
i would never leave her for this..
maybe u dont know about it but im definatly in lovewith her.. ad she me.. we were each others first and onlys... and its staying that way..
and maybe it is that way because after like 3 - 4 hours of sex it takes me longer to cum.. so shes orgasimed liek 03287503 times and im still going and she might gettting a lil tierd and shes mainly doing it for me... its not rape..IF ANYTHING she rapes me some times ... lol
its not an adult thing ANYo ne can do it..
its natural... its making love..
i just dont agree with ANY form of one night stand.. its not worth it..
if theres no love it sucks.. well i can only imagine it owuld..
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matt

Boca Raton, FL

#9 Jul 13, 2007
ooo i see why u thin k its RAPE.. noo i meant she gets PISSED that it tightens up cuz she is still horney and wants to do it... not RAPE... lol

“SMOKERS, DRINKERS, OBESE UNITE”

Since: Jun 07

INDIANA

#10 Jul 13, 2007
Did you read the rest of my post MATT - One more thing - before you do "ADULT" things you might want to learn how to spell and education is important. I am not making fun of you - but having sex is a "ADULT" thing that children are not suppose to do - but if your already doing it - then start taking adult responsiblity. She might get pregnant and a condom is only good for about 15 minutes - so you might want to quit and change out.
I am glad to see that you don't agree with one night stands - I don't either - Are you overweight? I know - I like overweight men and it takes longer sometimes....
Medically speaking - you might want to be tested for diabetes, penial pulups (okay my spelling is bad too. LOL) Even if you are not overweight - you might want to test for things - A boy your age should be shooting like a gun and not having this problem. If your girlfriend is just wanting you to have intercourse with her and nothing else - tell her that you need some more stimulation then that. Trust me - 3 hours is way too long - after 15 minutes I personally go numb and can work a crossword puzzle - don't ask. LOL
So am glad to see no pushing or rape issues - that is great - good for your relationship but you both need to sit down and talk - ask eachother what the other likes and doesn't like. I hope you have a nice long relationship and no preganceies (spelling) before it is time. Children hold you back if you have plans on going to college and the college doesn't understand the life sometimes gets in the way of education - trust me - I had possible cancer and they kicked me out due to low GPA because I had to miss class - My grade would have been an A+ in one my classes but because class due to surgery for a week - it dropped the grade down to a D+.
Think about that and stay safe!
abc

Bridgewater, NJ

#11 Jul 16, 2007
how can you make sex long?
mike

Iver, UK

#12 Jul 17, 2007
I'm 24 and have the same kinda problem that matt has - I last about 15 minutes the first time, but when I go in the second time, I last for like an hour... and by that time, I become as tired as hell!! My wife obviously loves it, but I tend to get slightly agitated... also, in between thrusting, she gives me oral and strokes my penis using lubricant oil; we then try every position we can think of but this, still, does not impact on how quickly I shoot.

After the second time is over, I, for the life of me, shudder to go in for the third time!!

So, what i'm really asking is... do I have a problem?
DD Lady

Fresno, CA

#13 Jul 17, 2007
mike wrote:
I'm 24 and have the same kinda problem that matt has - I last about 15 minutes the first time, but when I go in the second time, I last for like an hour... and by that time, I become as tired as hell!! My wife obviously loves it, but I tend to get slightly agitated... also, in between thrusting, she gives me oral and strokes my penis using lubricant oil; we then try every position we can think of but this, still, does not impact on how quickly I shoot.
After the second time is over, I, for the life of me, shudder to go in for the third time!!
So, what i'm really asking is... do I have a problem?
You need to spend more time on her...getting HER ready, then it won't matter as much how quickly you shoot 'cause she'll be satisfied. Don't put so much emphasis on things and it will work out...just remember, foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom...it starts when you first wake up...make her feel special all the time not just when you want something.

“SMOKERS, DRINKERS, OBESE UNITE”

Since: Jun 07

INDIANA

#14 Jul 18, 2007
mike wrote:
I'm 24 and have the same kinda problem that matt has - I last about 15 minutes the first time, but when I go in the second time, I last for like an hour... and by that time, I become as tired as hell!! My wife obviously loves it, but I tend to get slightly agitated... also, in between thrusting, she gives me oral and strokes my penis using lubricant oil; we then try every position we can think of but this, still, does not impact on how quickly I shoot.
After the second time is over, I, for the life of me, shudder to go in for the third time!!
So, what i'm really asking is... do I have a problem?
Yep - does your ejaculant smell like bleach?
If it does you might want to be check for diabetes!
My exhusband found out after months like that!
mike

Iver, UK

#15 Jul 18, 2007
You need to spend more time on her...getting HER ready, then it won't matter as much how quickly you shoot 'cause she'll be satisfied. Don't put so much emphasis on things and it will work out...just remember, foreplay doesn't start in the bedroom...it starts when you first wake up...make her feel special all the time not just when you want something.
Thanks for your response.

Without purporting to have the perfect relationship, my wife and I have an immense amount of affection for one another - in fact, she is the only woman I have ever been with and vice verse on her part. Ergo, making her feel special has almost become mundane for me and it is something that I do out of second nature.

In terms of satisfying her sexually, I know that, on average, she climaxes twice during our first session and about 6-7 times on the follow-up. Though she loves this, I cannot but feel the frustration of holding out for an hour.

As for foreplay, we tend to engage in intimacy for a prolonged period of time before actually undressing one another - i'd say about 15-20 minutes.

Ahh crap, perhaps I should just pluck up the courage to see the doctor - how embarrassing!
mike

Iver, UK

#16 Jul 18, 2007
Yep - does your ejaculant smell like bleach?
If it does you might want to be check for diabetes!
My exhusband found out after months like that!
Nope - my sexual discharge does not smell like bleach, though it does come out by the bucket-load!

Perhaps I should see the doctor, regardless of my own interpretation of things.
john

Mansfield, OH

#17 Jul 18, 2007
Let me have your girl for the weekend ill strech that hole wide n deep.
Saveninja

Canada

#18 Jul 19, 2007
Matt just ask your local doctor lol
Kstar

Reading, MA

#19 Jul 19, 2007
Wow women actually orgasm 6-7 times?? and can go for an hour!!!? I can't stand if the actual sex is longer than 20 minutes, and rarely (very rarely) have I orgasmed more than 2x... Even with oral, it's very difficult, but every so ofen it's found, and I can orgasm a whole lot... That actually doesn't feel too good though! The clitoris is entirely too soar in the morning, and it is very uncomfortable.
Ringo

Brisbane, Australia

#20 Jul 20, 2007
My girlfriend climaxes.. alot. I don't understand how you women can go so much like just with foreplay and fingering she goes wild 6-7 just from fingering. It's kinda intimidating, because when she makes me go once (takes a while, and no i'm not fat we're both very slender and in shape) i can't help but feel exhausted (dunno how but she always gets bucket loads out of me) and I'm out for the rest of the day..and the day following. She's the same i think we go at it a bit too hard, as for the vagina tightening i find that sometimes that does happen and when it does we both just take a break to cuddle.
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