Why do men like to share their girl-friend / wife with other men?

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Nisha

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Apr 6, 2014
 
On Topix one can find lot of posts by men describing their girl-friend / wife being screwed in a group. While very few women write about thier boy-friend / husband being shared with other women.

Why?
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Personally I wouldnt do this, I'm surprised how other guys don't mind doing it. Everytime I'd date a girl, I'd actually cherish her and value her. If some guy gives any type of bad attitude towards her, I'd punch his face. That's why I don't hit on girls that are dating, nor do I act perverted around them
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Apr 7, 2014
 
Pat9000 wrote:
Personally I wouldnt do this, I'm surprised how other guys don't mind doing it. Everytime I'd date a girl, I'd actually cherish her and value her. If some guy gives any type of bad attitude towards her, I'd punch his face. That's why I don't hit on girls that are dating, nor do I act perverted around them
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That's like a man Pat! Hope the reverse is also true and you will not like to share girl-friend / wife of other man even if he likes to share her (or will you?)
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Apr 7, 2014
 
I have only a 5 inch cock so ill let her as long as she tells me

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I'd guess that 98% of them threads are fantisy, I find it hard to believe so many men share their wives/gf's so much! If they do they clearly have relationship problems! Me and my partner have had several 3sums in the 12 years we have been together but that's not the same as what most of these guys say they do!

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Apr 7, 2014
 
Our situation is unique. My wife is very independent, and has an incredibly high sex drive. I'm bisexual, and even so, can't keep up with my wife's needs. So, it works for us! Also, I don't feel I "share" my wife with any man. The decision of whom she has sex with is hers alone. The idea that a man is actually sharing his wife is myth - the woman has all the power in most of these type of marriages!
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Apr 7, 2014
 
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I'd guess that 98% of them threads are fantisy, I find it hard to believe so many men share their wives/gf's so much! If they do they clearly have relationship problems! Me and my partner have had several 3sums in the 12 years we have been together but that's not the same as what most of these guys say they do!
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Nisha wrote:
On Topix one can find lot of posts by men describing their girl-friend / wife being screwed in a group. While very few women write about thier boy-friend / husband being shared with other women.
Why?
I would ask those men directly. To someone like me, it's unthinkable.
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Nisha

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Apr 8, 2014
 
staceyGstring wrote:
I'd guess that 98% of them threads are fantisy, I find it hard to believe so many men share their wives/gf's so much! If they do they clearly have relationship problems! Me and my partner have had several 3sums in the 12 years we have been together but that's not the same as what most of these guys say they do!
What kind of 3somes did you have? Only MFM or also FMF?
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Apr 8, 2014
 
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Our situation is unique. My wife is very independent, and has an incredibly high sex drive. I'm bisexual, and even so, can't keep up with my wife's needs. So, it works for us! Also, I don't feel I "share" my wife with any man. The decision of whom she has sex with is hers alone. The idea that a man is actually sharing his wife is myth - the woman has all the power in most of these type of marriages!
Yes, this I can understand. But many of the posts - may be fantasies or myths as you have said - describe it as if 'the man' gets pleasure watching his grild-friend / wife being screwed by many men together or one-after-another.

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Nisha, the vast majority of the posts you see where men share their wives or girlfriends is pure fantasy from men who watch way too much pornography, have little or no actual sexual experience, little or no relationship experience and do not know what it means to form a loving bond with a partner other than their own hand.

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Apr 8, 2014
 
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Yes, this I can understand. But many of the posts - may be fantasies or myths as you have said - describe it as if 'the man' gets pleasure watching his grild-friend / wife being screwed by many men together or one-after-another.
Some men do enjoy that, and some don't. I fall into the latter group. But I can tell you we are friends with several couples in varying states of open marriage, and in every one the woman has total control over the styles and circumstances of every sexual encounter!
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Nisha wrote:
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Yes, this I can understand. But many of the posts - may be fantasies or myths as you have said - describe it as if 'the man' gets pleasure watching his grild-friend / wife being screwed by many men together or one-after-another.
not sure why I enjoy watching my wife getting fucked by my best friends I know its weird. I think it was growing up a little insecure about my size after seeing my friends bigger cock growing up. I talked to my wife asking if she would have a threesome at first she said no. But eventually said yes when she knew I could handle it and it wouldn't effect our relationship, its was quite obvious she enjoyed it better. But before it happened we had talked about that being why we would do this. I felt a rush only the first time of jealousy and over came it, this is about pleasure and fun. I trust my friends and he respects our relationship this is about pleasure for all of us.
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My one main BS does, he shares me with his brother. He says it's only right because they grew up sharing everything, if one of them had something in the other didn't they would share. Well, the IDF has me in his bro is flying solo these days, and so that's why it happens. I mean I don't really care since it's only just sex, and my behalf he doesn't like to watch her anything kinky like that. He just has me go in the other room sometimes or if I go over there and it's just me and him than we do it if he wants to. But we always have to tell my BS when we did it, so it's not behind his back or anything. I asked if it ever went the other way and they said yes, for like a while my guy didn't have a gf and his brother did so they shared that way but she didn't like it after a while so they dumped her. Whatever! Like I said it's only just sex.
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Apr 8, 2014
 
I have had experience in both roles of this as the bull and the boyfriend/partner. I say bf/partner cos cuckold was not my interest but I have been the bull in a cuckold situation.

In the right situation this can be a very intimate, special and enlightening experience, with the wrong attitudes it can only be described as desctructive.

A man must know and be comfortable with his reasoning for wanting to see his wife/partner be intimate with another male, there must be clear goals, rules and everybody must be in working in the same direction for it to go smoothly (no pun intended)

If people would like to know more, need help with trying to open up their wife to the idea or even a wife wanting to approach their husband then I am open to help.

I will not be asking for pics of your girls or looking for you to meet up with me but I can point you in the right direction. I will explain my experience etc further when the time comes.

I will be watching this thread so just note your interest and we will find a way to chat privatly about the pro's, con's and ultimatly how to get started on the road to a wonderfully pleasing and highly sexual experience.
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Trista_19 wrote:
My one main BS does, he shares me with his brother. He says it's only right because they grew up sharing everything, if one of them had something in the other didn't they would share. Well, the IDF has me in his bro is flying solo these days, and so that's why it happens. I mean I don't really care since it's only just sex, and my behalf he doesn't like to watch her anything kinky like that. He just has me go in the other room sometimes or if I go over there and it's just me and him than we do it if he wants to. But we always have to tell my BS when we did it, so it's not behind his back or anything. I asked if it ever went the other way and they said yes, for like a while my guy didn't have a gf and his brother did so they shared that way but she didn't like it after a while so they dumped her. Whatever! Like I said it's only just sex.
LOLing I think you need to proofread, you said things like BS and behalf instead of bf are you doing like voice software or something? No big deal not picking on you, I'm just saying. And BTW my bf he likes to share me also but not his brother, just a friend of his he grew up with in scouting. We do it all together sometimes mfm but oh crap if my dad ever found out he'd beat me raw where the guys eat me raw! LOL
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Apr 8, 2014
 
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<quoted text> not sure why I enjoy watching my wife getting fucked by my best friends I know its weird. I think it was growing up a little insecure about my size after seeing my friends bigger cock growing up. I talked to my wife asking if she would have a threesome at first she said no. But eventually said yes when she knew I could handle it and it wouldn't effect our relationship, its was quite obvious she enjoyed it better. But before it happened we had talked about that being why we would do this. I felt a rush only the first time of jealousy and over came it, this is about pleasure and fun. I trust my friends and he respects our relationship this is about pleasure for all of us.
Wow that's so sweetie in a twisted way lol sounds like your both happy that's what matters. But I can't understand how you get pleasure if she's all stretched out by him. I wonder what she's thinking when its your turn how it feels and stuff. That would be so crazy fun to me wouldn't mind doing that lol
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<quoted text>Some men do enjoy that, and some don't. I fall into the latter group. But I can tell you we are friends with several couples in varying states of open marriage, and in every one the woman has total control over the styles and circumstances of every sexual encounter!
Yes, we too are in relation with two other couples. We call it marriage of couples.
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<quoted text> not sure why I enjoy watching my wife getting fucked by my best friends I know its weird. I think it was growing up a little insecure about my size after seeing my friends bigger cock growing up. I talked to my wife asking if she would have a threesome at first she said no. But eventually said yes when she knew I could handle it and it wouldn't effect our relationship, its was quite obvious she enjoyed it better. But before it happened we had talked about that being why we would do this. I felt a rush only the first time of jealousy and over came it, this is about pleasure and fun. I trust my friends and he respects our relationship this is about pleasure for all of us.
Have you ever tried to have sex with your friend's wife? Will he and your wife allow you to have the same relation with his wife?

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