My boyfriend thinks about me while he masturbates?

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MyBaby

Virginia Beach, VA

#1 May 17, 2010
OK, so I'm only 16, so I may seem young and naive. Plus, somehow I was thinking this was a good spot to post my question besides yahoo. Anyway, But here it goes...

So, I've heard many times that most guys don't fantasize about their girlfriends during masturbation. But today, my boyfriend admitted that majority of the time, he thinks about me when doing it. It's not that I'm creeped out like most girls, to be honest, I'm a bit flattered, actually. But I'm just surprised. I'm not quite sure if he's lying, because I know I read and heard in some places, that if a guy says he thinks about you, he's lying. But when I told him I don't think about him when I do it, he acted offended. As if he wasn't good enough for me or something, when he is. And then we started talking about models that he prob thinks about, and I mentioned Angelina Jolie. And he said "eww." to that.
Is he really lying to me? Even though he told me he'd never lie to me and how it's wrong to lie in a relationship? Or is he really that different from other guys and really thinks that way about Angelina?

Since: Dec 08

Poughkeepsie, NY

#2 May 18, 2010
MyBaby wrote:
OK, so I'm only 16, so I may seem young and naive. Plus, somehow I was thinking this was a good spot to post my question besides yahoo. Anyway, But here it goes...
So, I've heard many times that most guys don't fantasize about their girlfriends during masturbation. But today, my boyfriend admitted that majority of the time, he thinks about me when doing it. It's not that I'm creeped out like most girls, to be honest, I'm a bit flattered, actually. But I'm just surprised. I'm not quite sure if he's lying, because I know I read and heard in some places, that if a guy says he thinks about you, he's lying. But when I told him I don't think about him when I do it, he acted offended. As if he wasn't good enough for me or something, when he is. And then we started talking about models that he prob thinks about, and I mentioned Angelina Jolie. And he said "eww." to that.
Is he really lying to me? Even though he told me he'd never lie to me and how it's wrong to lie in a relationship? Or is he really that different from other guys and really thinks that way about Angelina?
Angelina is an acquired taste. I don't get her either. As far as your BF thinking about you when he's getting his rocks off - you should be happy and proud!
dave

UK

#3 May 18, 2010
MyBaby wrote:
OK, so I'm only 16, so I may seem young and naive. Plus, somehow I was thinking this was a good spot to post my question besides yahoo. Anyway, But here it goes...
So, I've heard many times that most guys don't fantasize about their girlfriends during masturbation. But today, my boyfriend admitted that majority of the time, he thinks about me when doing it. It's not that I'm creeped out like most girls, to be honest, I'm a bit flattered, actually. But I'm just surprised. I'm not quite sure if he's lying, because I know I read and heard in some places, that if a guy says he thinks about you, he's lying. But when I told him I don't think about him when I do it, he acted offended. As if he wasn't good enough for me or something, when he is. And then we started talking about models that he prob thinks about, and I mentioned Angelina Jolie. And he said "eww." to that.
Is he really lying to me? Even though he told me he'd never lie to me and how it's wrong to lie in a relationship? Or is he really that different from other guys and really thinks that way about Angelina?
im jerking over you now
Nobodyyouneedtok now

United States

#4 May 18, 2010
U should be happy. And believe him.

Since: Jun 08

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#5 May 18, 2010
MyBaby wrote:
OK, so I'm only 16, so I may seem young and naive. Plus, somehow I was thinking this was a good spot to post my question besides yahoo. Anyway, But here it goes...
So, I've heard many times that most guys don't fantasize about their girlfriends during masturbation. But today, my boyfriend admitted that majority of the time, he thinks about me when doing it. It's not that I'm creeped out like most girls, to be honest, I'm a bit flattered, actually. But I'm just surprised. I'm not quite sure if he's lying, because I know I read and heard in some places, that if a guy says he thinks about you, he's lying. But when I told him I don't think about him when I do it, he acted offended. As if he wasn't good enough for me or something, when he is. And then we started talking about models that he prob thinks about, and I mentioned Angelina Jolie. And he said "eww." to that.
Is he really lying to me? Even though he told me he'd never lie to me and how it's wrong to lie in a relationship? Or is he really that different from other guys and really thinks that way about Angelina?
from a woman's point of view,,,,,,,,,, is he saying this to get into you niks?? are you having sex with him now,,,, i only ask cos the legal age is 16 in the UK,,,,,,,, so,,,,,,, he's basically saying he's hot for you,,,, which is all 16 year old boys think about anyway,,,, as far a believing him,,,, i guess he's telling the truth,,,,,, cos i think he really wants to get into you.
Al Bundy

Tarboro, NC

#6 May 18, 2010
stacked and proud wrote:
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from a woman's point of view,,,,,,,,,, is he saying this to get into you niks?? are you having sex with him now,,,, i only ask cos the legal age is 16 in the UK,,,,,,,, so,,,,,,, he's basically saying he's hot for you,,,, which is all 16 year old boys think about anyway,,,, as far a believing him,,,, i guess he's telling the truth,,,,,, cos i think he really wants to get into you.
...If you can guess who I am thinking about right now I'll give you what I am holding in my hand.
SillySarah

Bronx, NY

#7 May 18, 2010
No doubt.. Be glad he thinks of you.. My BF "says" he's thought of me.. "when" he does it.. He's always wanting ME to get him off.. Hellooo, I have a life outside Ur masterbation world.. Lol. I've overheard him talk about celebrity girls and how Fn hot they are.. So I doubt he's "thinking" of me when I'm not around. But, oh well.. I've pictured a hunky star or two in my day.. Lol
Rick Sard

Harrison, NJ

#8 May 18, 2010
SillySarah wrote:
No doubt.. Be glad he thinks of you.. My BF "says" he's thought of me.. "when" he does it.. He's always wanting ME to get him off.. Hellooo, I have a life outside Ur masterbation world.. Lol. I've overheard him talk about celebrity girls and how Fn hot they are.. So I doubt he's "thinking" of me when I'm not around. But, oh well.. I've pictured a hunky star or two in my day.. Lol
Everyone, male or female, fantasizes about people other than their partners. It's called fantasizing! It's normal. It's healthy.
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Al Bundy

Tarboro, NC

#9 May 18, 2010
SillySarah wrote:
No doubt.. Be glad he thinks of you.. My BF "says" he's thought of me.. "when" he does it.. He's always wanting ME to get him off.. Hellooo, I have a life outside Ur masterbation world.. Lol. I've overheard him talk about celebrity girls and how Fn hot they are.. So I doubt he's "thinking" of me when I'm not around. But, oh well.. I've pictured a hunky star or two in my day.. Lol
...Thanks Sarah for thinking of old Al Bundy, while you pleasure yourself. I am a hunky star you know.

Since: Jun 08

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#10 May 18, 2010
Al Bundy wrote:
<quoted text>...If you can guess who I am thinking about right now I'll give you what I am holding in my hand.
your sooooooo saucy Al :):)

Since: Dec 08

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#11 May 18, 2010
When Im in a relationship, I often think about my partner when masturbating, not always, but at least 50% of the time.
SillySarah

Bronx, NY

#12 May 18, 2010
Al Bundy wrote:
<quoted text>...Thanks Sarah for thinking of old Al Bundy, while you pleasure yourself. I am a hunky star you know.
Lol.. Oh yes.. You know it Al.

Since: Jun 08

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#13 May 18, 2010
TonyFilton wrote:
When Im in a relationship, I often think about my partner when masturbating, not always, but at least 50% of the time.
well who else do you think of??
mem

Redmond, WA

#14 May 18, 2010
I am with Tony. 40-50% about the partner. Remaining for me is scattered across a number of people from strangers to colleagues to friends wives, partner's friends, family members, in laws, celebs.. etc

Since: Jun 08

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#15 May 18, 2010
mem wrote:
I am with Tony. 40-50% about the partner. Remaining for me is scattered across a number of people from strangers to colleagues to friends wives, partner's friends, family members, in laws, celebs.. etc
sooooooo basically no one is safe??!!:)
mem

Redmond, WA

#16 May 18, 2010
lol. just being honest. Actually mom is safe. everyone else is game. what about u?

Since: Jun 08

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#17 May 18, 2010
mem wrote:
lol. just being honest. Actually mom is safe. everyone else is game. what about u?
soooo what about me??:)
mem

Redmond, WA

#18 May 18, 2010
who do you think about when masturbating?

Since: Jun 08

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#19 May 18, 2010
mem wrote:
who do you think about when masturbating?
um,,,,,,,,,,OMG!!!! i've never thought about that before,,,,,,,,, um,,,,, i really have to say about a 6 ft 4 inch bloke ,,,,,,,,,, he's a biker,,,,, with a lot of hair and a big nose that i always think that he rubbing my clit with it,,,,,,,, so yes i know who i think about!! oh that and the porn on my phone :

Since: Dec 08

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#21 May 18, 2010
stacked and proud wrote:
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sooooooo basically no one is safe??!!:)
I pretty much agree with mem there too, no one is safe!

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