My husband caught me cheating.

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Samantha88

Australia

#1 Nov 2, 2012
My husband caught me cheating but he is turned on by it and is encouraging me to do take other men regularily.
Is this normal. I don't know what to think?

Since: Jun 12

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#4 Nov 2, 2012
Samantha88 wrote:
My husband caught me cheating but he is turned on by it and is encouraging me to do take other men regularily.
Is this normal. I don't know what to think?
Normal is whatever works for you. Message me on here if you want to talk about it.
Jake

Brooklyn, NY

#5 Nov 2, 2012
Its open relationship
PoRnKiNg

South Africa

#6 Nov 2, 2012
Its not normal Samantha but it is if you cheated on him with another girl what's your number? Then we could talk more about it

Since: Jun 12

Garden City, KS

#7 Nov 2, 2012
Samantha88 wrote:
My husband caught me cheating but he is turned on by it and is encouraging me to do take other men regularily.
Is this normal. I don't know what to think?
go for it. Think of all the excitement.
Samantha88

Australia

#8 Nov 2, 2012
I'm 24
Samantha88

Australia

#9 Nov 2, 2012
We live in an apartment block. We became good friends with a gay couple that live downstairs ben and scott. Anyway about 6 months ago they were over hanging out and my husband was working late. One thing lead to another and well. I ended up doing things with both of them. Once the seal was broken it became a regular thing they visit everytime he's out. They are both Bi and I love watching them together, helping and joining.
bret

Philadelphia, PA

#10 Nov 2, 2012
Samantha88 wrote:
I'm 24
Sam lets have some we will all enjoy text me 9788049034
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captainawesome

Cullman, AL

#13 Nov 2, 2012
No its not normal and cheating is cheating. If your husband wants you to get with other men its because he is getting with other women. And since your both cheating on one another there must not be a lot of love in that relationship, so I see divorce in your two's future.
Samantha88

Australia

#14 Nov 2, 2012
No didn't work I'm in Australia
Samantha88

Australia

#15 Nov 2, 2012
Ordinary_Guy wrote:
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Would you help me?
How can I help you?
AussieBloke

Springfield, Australia

#16 Nov 2, 2012
Where in Australia?

Since: Nov 12

Killeen, TX

#19 Nov 2, 2012
captainawesome wrote:
No its not normal and cheating is cheating. If your husband wants you to get with other men its because he is getting with other women. And since your both cheating on one another there must not be a lot of love in that relationship, so I see divorce in your two's future.
It's usually not the case that a husband who wants to be cuckolded is also having extramarital sex. It's also not usually the case that partners who cheat are lacking love for each other. Sometimes people cheat when they are bored or unfulfilled, frightened of getting older, frightened of depending too much upon one person for all their happiness and love in life, or when they are forced to be physically separated from the one they love.
As someone who has enjoyed being a cuckold in the past, I can tell you that watching or hearing about my wife's extramarital sexual adventures turned me on tremendously. Everyone wants what everyone else wants. Knowing that my wife was in such high demand made me feel proud that she consistently chose to come home to me. Of all her lovers and fuckers, I was the man who owned her heart, mind, body and soul. I knew she would not see anyone without reporting it to me, because pleasing, titillating and provoking me with her slutty ways was her whole reason for doing it. I would get so jealous that I felt it necessary to reinforce my ownership of her either with rough, selfish sex, or with tender, extremely emotional sex. Sometimes one led to the other!
Also, my wife is much younger than I am, and has always had a stronger sex drive. Honestly, I was relieved not to have to carry the duty of keeping her satisfied all by myself, all the time.
We did eventually end the cuckolding, when our children became old enough to start figuring out a thing or two about what was going on. We do plan to start again, though, when they are out on their own.
In this case, though, Samantha began cheating for her own reasons and without telling her husband. That was a mistake. It's not the sort of thing you can't come back from. I think her husband is wise and loving to take this approach to redeem their sexuality as a couple, and to refocus her sexual desires upon him, while allowing her the sexual freedom to explore that she obviously needs.
Samantha, devote yourself to pleasing your husband by being the very best slut you can be for him, and I'm sure you will both be very happy. You'll be surprised how emotionally intense and rewarding this sort of relationship can be.
Samantha88

Australia

#20 Nov 2, 2012
AussieBloke wrote:
Where in Australia?
Brisbane
Samantha88

Australia

#21 Nov 2, 2012
Ordinary_Guy wrote:
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Do u still enjoy sex with your husband?
Yes very much so.
Samantha88

Australia

#22 Nov 2, 2012
Ordinary_Guy wrote:
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Treat me like the gay couple:)
Treat you like my husband.
Samantha88

Australia

#23 Nov 2, 2012
Thank You
MallardFeelmore wrote:
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It's usually not the case that a husband who wants to be cuckolded is also having extramarital sex. It's also not usually the case that partners who cheat are lacking love for each other. Sometimes people cheat when they are bored or unfulfilled, frightened of getting older, frightened of depending too much upon one person for all their happiness and love in life, or when they are forced to be physically separated from the one they love.
As someone who has enjoyed being a cuckold in the past, I can tell you that watching or hearing about my wife's extramarital sexual adventures turned me on tremendously. Everyone wants what everyone else wants. Knowing that my wife was in such high demand made me feel proud that she consistently chose to come home to me. Of all her lovers and fuckers, I was the man who owned her heart, mind, body and soul. I knew she would not see anyone without reporting it to me, because pleasing, titillating and provoking me with her slutty ways was her whole reason for doing it. I would get so jealous that I felt it necessary to reinforce my ownership of her either with rough, selfish sex, or with tender, extremely emotional sex. Sometimes one led to the other!
Also, my wife is much younger than I am, and has always had a stronger sex drive. Honestly, I was relieved not to have to carry the duty of keeping her satisfied all by myself, all the time.
We did eventually end the cuckolding, when our children became old enough to start figuring out a thing or two about what was going on. We do plan to start again, though, when they are out on their own.
In this case, though, Samantha began cheating for her own reasons and without telling her husband. That was a mistake. It's not the sort of thing you can't come back from. I think her husband is wise and loving to take this approach to redeem their sexuality as a couple, and to refocus her sexual desires upon him, while allowing her the sexual freedom to explore that she obviously needs.
Samantha, devote yourself to pleasing your husband by being the very best slut you can be for him, and I'm sure you will both be very happy. You'll be surprised how emotionally intense and rewarding this sort of relationship can be.
PoRnKiNg

South Africa

#26 Nov 2, 2012
What's your number ?
Samantha88

Australia

#27 Nov 2, 2012
Ordinary_Guy wrote:
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I wish
Are you in Australia?

Since: Sep 12

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#32 Nov 2, 2012
I've been caught plenty of times

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