Sex Angel

Aberdeen, UK

#1554 Dec 1, 2008
a wet orgasm is far betta thn a dry, even if it dirties the sheets. it is way more fun than a dry 1

“''I should have known better."”

Since: Oct 08

Somewhere in S. E. Kent. UK

#1555 Dec 1, 2008
franko wrote:
<quoted text>might?
In this case that probably means yes (under the right circumstances, with the right guy, and proper technique?)
I've only known one woman who did this ... my ex-wife.
It was the first time we had sex .. about 3 weeks after we met. I was giving her oral and to her surprise as much as mine she started to squirt all over my face ... and soak the mattress ....
At first I thought it was pee .. but without the strong smell/taste ... I also chose not to stop since she was obviously enjoying herself so much.
In later discussion, she said she had tiny little "mini-squirts" before but never anything like what she did that day.
From that point on I knew our sex had gone exceptionally whenever she squirted (she did not do it every time).
WOW, Nice!
You just proved that 'clueless many-named numpty' wrong. Well done you.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#1556 Dec 1, 2008
Sweet Fanny wrote:
<quoted text>
WOW, Nice!
You just proved that 'clueless many-named numpty' wrong. Well done you.
so, next question "when it happens" is the overall feeling stronger and better? Does it leave you more exhausted afterwords? HAve you ever felt embarrased by it, or did any guy ever treat it as strange/odd? The reason I ask is because I felt my ex was never 100% comfortable with it and I think she suppressed them more over time.

“''I should have known better."”

Since: Oct 08

Somewhere in S. E. Kent. UK

#1557 Dec 1, 2008
franko wrote:
<quoted text>so, next question "when it happens" is the overall feeling stronger and better? Does it leave you more exhausted afterwords? HAve you ever felt embarrassed by it, or did any guy ever treat it as strange/odd? The reason I ask is because I felt my ex was never 100% comfortable with it and I think she suppressed them more over time.
Yes & yes.
Yes.
No & no/no.
(~_~)
Right, if you say you felt like your ex was never 100% comfortable with it ~ then yes ~ I believe she was holding back, and I reckon the longer she did ~ the harder it was for her to 'release'. Either that or she may have thought there was something wrong with her. Was she in any way shy or even the naive type?
That's why I always maintain that openness is a key factor in any relationship, there should be no holds barred... or in plain English,'open and unrestrained'{no pun intended} as far as keeping each other satisfied in the sexual department.
It's a shame you couldn't get her to open up more {Ha!...there was no pun intended there either....honest.}
I can fully understand the shyness at the beginning of any relationship, but as a couple get to know and understand one an other's feelings and sexual desires ~ then there shouldn't be any need for either to be embarrassed.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#1558 Dec 1, 2008
Sweet Fanny wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes & yes.
Yes.
No & no/no.
(~_~)
Right, if you say you felt like your ex was never 100% comfortable with it ~ then yes ~ I believe she was holding back, and I reckon the longer she did ~ the harder it was for her to 'release'. Either that or she may have thought there was something wrong with her. Was she in any way shy or even the naive type?
That's why I always maintain that openness is a key factor in any relationship, there should be no holds barred... or in plain English,'open and unrestrained'{no pun intended} as far as keeping each other satisfied in the sexual department.
It's a shame you couldn't get her to open up more {Ha!...there was no pun intended there either....honest.}
I can fully understand the shyness at the beginning of any relationship, but as a couple get to know and understand one an other's feelings and sexual desires ~ then there shouldn't be any need for either to be embarrassed.
Ahhh .. those questions are too complex for yes/no answers *butt, you handled that admirably m'dear).

In the first couple of years of our marraige we started to discover the ways in which we were different, and acceptance of our differences was not great (I would blame her but long reflection has revealed that I did not always accept her different ways idealy either).

SO, arguements ensued. Also, financial strains placed an underlying stress on everything.

After a while we discovered that she and I were opposites even in how we "resolved disputes" ... I was the one who wanted to talk about what happend and why and to have both sides of the situation considered.

More often than not she was quite happy to point out my mistakes, and when I tried to air my side, rather than aknowledge any validity she would fire back her arguement which she already had the chance to discuss. This happened over and over, it was like going in cirlces inside a revovling door .. I never had a chance to step out and state my piece and have it acknowledged.

SHe was oblvivious to what she was doing , but instead formed the opinion that I "never let anything go" ...

This lack of two way fairenss in how disputes were resolved caused us to grow apart.

Aside from that, in those first two years our sex life went down the tubes .. partly I think because she realy did not like sex all that much, but also because of the growing list of unresolved disputes acting like a cancer in our marraige. ALso, the fact she gave more BJ's in the beginnig than after the wedding ... it felt like our sex life had gone backwards almost from the honeymoon on.

SO now we had a marraige where arguments of tiny significance grew into big blowouts, and a sex life that left me totally frustrated. She knew of my growing unhappiness in the sex life and instead of facing it and doing something about it, I believe that rather than feel inadequate she preferred to avoid feeling pressure during sex for things I wanted but she was not willing to do.

You can imagine - a simple thing like a BJ ... if a month passes and you have sex and no BJ .. another month passes and the second time we have sex, no BJ ... by the third time we have sex, 3 months have passed since the last Bj ... she must have felt pressure, guilt, who knows what else (maybe dread?)... and I am sure the more she felt pressure, the less she had desire to do it of her own volition. I certainly would not want anyone to do something that is supposed to be an act of giving when it is done out of pressure ....

So, I think after 4 or 5 years she started to "shut down" and that is when sex felt more and more like a chore each time we did it. We truly "made love" about 4 times in a year ... we "had obligatory sex" another 5 or 10 times.

sorry for the long answer .. but I hope that provides some understanding ... it took me several years after the divorce to figure this out.
sweety

New York, NY

#1560 Dec 1, 2008
hey franko
got my vibrator but don't know if i'm getting my g spot,i enjoyed the vide on my clits.i guess that's the only way to get my orgasm.man i wanna come from inside not by clits.
i heard that all woman can't come through vagina i guess i'm one of them,i've never got the orgasm by sex.and about my ex bf we r trying our best well lets see what will happen.god he comes sooo fast he can't hold his cum.and about my youg bf i'm not having any sex these days coz he and i can't go long way and i don't wanna be addicted to is long penis and the way he makes love to me but trust me he is soooooooo good
sweety

New York, NY

#1561 Dec 1, 2008
thankx franny .
hey so nice to know that u squirt i don't,tell me how did u learn that?
Sweet Fanny wrote:
<quoted text>
No Sweety, it's not possible to get pregnant from anal sex, but you must remember that you can become pregnant if your partner cums over you and some gets into your vagina or on even on your vulva. Also know that it can take just a small amount, and even his pre-cum is enough to get you pregnant.
Altho' pregnancy is not possible from anal sex, keep it in mind that it's still very important to use protection whilst having anal sex. Unprotected anal intercourse can put you at high risk for many sexually transmitted infections, including HIV, gonorrhea, & chlamydia.
Proper use of condoms can & will reduce the risk of contracting dangerous infections.
Just be careful and good luck.
sweety

New York, NY

#1562 Dec 1, 2008
hey
i don't know exactly what i'm rying to do but all i know is i had bad sex marriage life in my past and don't wanna repeat again so before settling down i want to clear out every thing like if i can be happy in sex or not but now i feel lke it's me who has the problem,it's me who can't orgasm during sex,but believe me i give my partner full pleasure and he loves having sex with me
franko wrote:
<quoted text>the vibrator sounds like a good idea .. if yuo can learn to give yuorself G-spot orgasms then maybe you can learn to get them from a guy as well (perhaps even the little-guy ex-bf).
Also, G-spot orgasms are more likely to cause squirting, if that is a goal ... but like I said before, squirting is rare and not many women can do it so this should not be something you should expect .... if it happens it happens, but if not, then no big deal.
So yuo are considering anal sex? With which guy? THey say this is one of the advantages of a guy being a bit smaller ... anal sex is easier for the girl.
I asked a couple of other questions in my last post to you on the page before this one .. could you read back and asnwer those?
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squirting_girl

Marcus Hook, PA

#1563 Dec 2, 2008
i love to make girls squirt!!!!!!!!
its so fun.
and i can tell they really enjoy it!!!

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#1564 Dec 2, 2008
sweety wrote:

hey franko
got my vibrator but don't know if i'm getting my g spot,i enjoyed the vibe on my clits.i guess that's the only way to get my orgasm.man i wanna come from inside not by clits.
i heard that all woman can't come through vagina i guess i'm one of them,i've never got the orgasm by sex.and about my ex bf we r trying our best well lets see what will happen.god he comes sooo fast he can't hold his cum.and about my youg bf i'm not having any sex these days coz he and i can't go long way and i don't wanna be addicted to his long penis and the way he makes love to me but trust me he is soooooooo good

hey
i don't know exactly what i'm rying to do but all i know is i had bad sex marriage life in my past and don't wanna repeat again so before settling down i want to clear out every thing like if i can be happy in sex or not but now i feel lke it's me who has the problem,it's me who can't orgasm during sex,but believe me i give my partner full pleasure and he loves having sex with me<quoted text>
they say that if a woman tries too hard then she won't be fully relaxed and that can be what prevents an orgasm from happening. Maybe (like a couple of my ex-gf's) you need to be comfortable with what you have right now, relax and enjoy the moment and don't focuss too much on getting that orgasm. Then it might just happen.

For some women it does not happen until later in life .. a couple of the women in this forum say they did not have theri first vaginal orgasm until they were past 30.

ALso, not all women have G-spot orgasms ... it seems to be a spot that is strongly sensitive for some and barely has any feeling for another.

IT sounds to me like both your BF's are not ideal for you .. one is a godo personality but too small and comes to quickly (you did not explain if he does other things well sexually) and the other is a better lover but maybe too young and immature.

YOu can't have two men to fullfil your needs, you need to find one man who has ALL the qualities you want.
sweety

New York, NY

#1565 Dec 2, 2008
yo u r right that i should find someone with the qualities that i want that's why i'm still not deciding to settle down.my x bf is mature but very immeture in sex.i'm the first girl in his life and i tought him everything but then for how long man....i'm tired,i don't know if he will be a man that i want,he doesn't do a lot to pleasure me,i have to tell everything.
now he started to watch porno and learning some stuff but don't know if that will really work,any way he comes too fast.
and about me i'm 30 years old lady who is chubby and has big boobs,guys says that i look very sexy and i'm beautiful too,but then i know what those guys want.i think i'm really unlucky in matter of love.i want to settle down and have kids but then can't find a man with whom i feel like yes this is the one that i'm looking for.life is so confusing,so for now i'm trying to stay away from both of the guys and enjoy my life alone.
franko wrote:
<quoted text>they say that if a woman tries too hard then she won't be fully relaxed and that can be what prevents an orgasm from happening. Maybe (like a couple of my ex-gf's) you need to be comfortable with what you have right now, relax and enjoy the moment and don't focuss too much on getting that orgasm. Then it might just happen.
For some women it does not happen until later in life .. a couple of the women in this forum say they did not have theri first vaginal orgasm until they were past 30.
ALso, not all women have G-spot orgasms ... it seems to be a spot that is strongly sensitive for some and barely has any feeling for another.
IT sounds to me like both your BF's are not ideal for you .. one is a godo personality but too small and comes to quickly (you did not explain if he does other things well sexually) and the other is a better lover but maybe too young and immature.
YOu can't have two men to fullfil your needs, you need to find one man who has ALL the qualities you want.
flight 764 black male

United States

#1567 Dec 3, 2008
kim wrote:
i really want to squirt but whenever i am masterbating and it feel s too intence i usually just stop. what can i do?
thats a fantasy of mine for a female to squirt while i am pleasing her orally
flight 764 black male

United States

#1568 Dec 3, 2008
squirter wrote:
i was thinking that something was friekesh for me. i can make myself squirt for hours. still not comfortable to do it with boyfried but now that i know it happens to other women things may change. it is the most amazing sensation.
that sound so hot!!!!!!
flight 764 black male

United States

#1569 Dec 3, 2008
Philippines wrote:
I am not playing with myself.I can live without having sex.When i meet my french boyfriend online I started falling in love with him.Then one afternoon I was thinking a lot of him and I tried rubbing my clitoris until i was shock a splash of fluid that goes out at the time of my climax.I thought it was a pee then I ignore it.Finally,after 2 months chatting with my boyfriend online we meet in person.On our first sex I never had the chance of having an orgasm but then on third night while i'm sitting on his face and he was eating my pussy i got the extreme feeling and surprisingly he like near drowning when i started to withdraw a lot of fluid .
We both shocked and we stop and he wonder what is that fluid that comes out from my pussy and he said it was lot of fluid ,tasteless and odorless .
He likes it so much and that was his first time to meet someone like me who can squirt.Then we continue making love and had a towel on the bed.
We make love 3 - 5 times a week inside of his 3 weeks vacation with me.It was so great knowing that i can squirt easily and not all woman can do that.
My boyfriend back to france now and i can easily make myself squirt just rubbing my pussy then after 2 -3 minutes ,,i squirt with a cupful level of fluid.
Your boyfriend is so fortunate! hello, nice to meet you :)
anna

Algeria

#1570 Dec 4, 2008
anna ever
sexy chocolate

Hyattsville, MD

#1572 Dec 6, 2008
HOw log does it take befor you squirt
sexy chocolate

Hyattsville, MD

#1573 Dec 6, 2008
how long does it take befor you can squirt
Keith Morrison To SEXY

United States

#1574 Dec 6, 2008
sexy chocolate wrote:
how long does it take befor you can squirt
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Shawn Chick Magnet

United States

#1575 Dec 6, 2008
sexy chocolate wrote:
how long does it take befor you can squirt
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connor

San Francisco, CA

#1576 Dec 9, 2008
Jenna069 wrote:
<quoted text>
I do, I squirt almost every time I have an orgasm. I started another forum on this subject: http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/T6P4P3V9I...
what do you feel when you finger yourself?

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