How Many times do you have sex while dating and after marriage.

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Aileen

Tucson, AZ

#1 Oct 8, 2006
Ok ladies and gents,whats your quota:)) And also needs some advice or opinions are welcome too.3 yrs ago used to have it w/ fiance then,husband now for 9-10x a day.We do it everytime we get a chance to.But after having two kids,it went down at least twice a day or sometimes too few for my expectations,in a week.
I feel that im not desirable anymore for him.I'm rather used to having my hubby get it on with me day in ,day out.Anyways, im just feeling insecured that he may be wanting to taste other p****, because weve been togetherfor 6 years. Growing up in a culture where man can have many mistresses and is accepted in the society,which i feel im resigned that man are somehow not made to be fully committed in their relationship.Though he assured me he wont astray, i cannot get over my beliefs that he will just like other guys, that would want to have variety.
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#2 Oct 8, 2006
THis is an excelelnt topix to discuss. It is one that has been a factor in my own life and I see it in nealry every long term relatsionahship and lamarraige.

I can't believe that you and your husband would have sex 9 times a day. Maybe playing around a bit, touching and fondling and cuddling, but actual sex?

NO wonder that your activity reduced, no ne can keep that up. If only from total boredom because there would be not time or energy for anything else.

I think most couples have sex 4 to 10 times a week when they date, and that reduces to 2 or 3 times a week after being married 1 or two years. After 5 years, maybe twice a week is normal.

If I had met someone as interested in sex as you I think I would have been a very happy man.
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#3 Oct 8, 2006
Aileen wrote:
Ok ladies and gents,whats your quota:)) And also needs some advice or opinions are welcome too.3 yrs ago used to have it w/ fiance then,husband now for 9-10x a day.We do it everytime we get a chance to.But after having two kids,it went down at least twice a day or sometimes too few for my expectations,in a week.
I feel that im not desirable anymore for him.I'm rather used to having my hubby get it on with me day in ,day out.Anyways, im just feeling insecured that he may be wanting to taste other p****, because weve been togetherfor 6 years. Growing up in a culture where man can have many mistresses and is accepted in the society,which i feel im resigned that man are somehow not made to be fully committed in their relationship.Though he assured me he wont astray, i cannot get over my beliefs that he will just like other guys, that would want to have variety.
Aileen, I suppose I'm actualy guilty of wanting to taste other p@ssy, as you candidly stated...I've been married 4 years now, and before I was married,we would get it on damn near every night. But that's gone down to twice a week. It doesn't help matters that my wife likes hanging out at her fave bar, whilst I stay home, and watch either old movies, or porn to give myself some release...But it's not just the same ol same ol routine in bed, it's the same ol routine everywhere else. I got married later in life (36), and never had any childeren. The wife's kids are grown, and have lives of their own. When the wife and I are together in the evenings, we sit around watching TV, because that's what SHE wants to do...If I pick up a book, or do anything else, she'll start whining that i'm ignoring her...what's the difference?? Either I just want to be single again, so I could taste other p@ssy, or I'm going through a midlife crisis...anyone have a 1967 GTO for sale?
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#5 Oct 10, 2006
Having a child does slow you down a little but not that much! Put the child in bed at 8:00 and have fun the rest of the night!:)
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#6 Oct 10, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
Having a child does slow you down a little but not that much! Put the child in bed at 8:00 and have fun the rest of the night!:)
Couples do need quality time together...
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#7 Oct 10, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69 wrote:
<quoted text>Couples do need quality time together...
Exactly! Maybe that will happen for me one day!
bob

Brisbane, Australia

#8 Oct 10, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

...anyone have a 1967 GTO for sale?

I take it you just won the lotto,cus thats whot its going cost to you.

Iv only had to fords XP and XT about 18 16 years ago. both cost me $500 each.I swapped the XT for HT Holden.
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#9 Oct 10, 2006
bob wrote:
James Bond AKA Falcon 69
...anyone have a 1967 GTO for sale?
I take it you just won the lotto,cus thats whot its going cost to you.
Iv only had to fords XP and XT about 18 16 years ago. both cost me $500 each.I swapped the XT for HT Holden.
Bob...I'm going to take it for granted that you're in OZ...Because not many yanks besides myself would know the differences between a XP Falcon and a XT...Personally I'd like to have a HK Holden Monaro GTS 327, but there are NONE in the states that I know of...except the models thaT I have built...

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James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#10 Oct 10, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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Exactly! Maybe that will happen for me one day!
With the right guy...
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#11 Oct 10, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69 wrote:
<quoted text>With the right guy...
Hopefully!!
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#12 Oct 10, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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Hopefully!!
May happieness be right around the corner?
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#13 Oct 10, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69 wrote:
<quoted text>May happieness be right around the corner?
Thanks! You too!:) Wish the best for you.
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#14 Oct 10, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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Thanks! You too!:) Wish the best for you.
I'm wishing the best for you too, Sweet Cheeks...
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#15 Oct 10, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69 wrote:
<quoted text>I'm wishing the best for you too, Sweet Cheeks...
I am trying to make the best out of everything!:)
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#16 Oct 10, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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I am trying to make the best out of everything!:)
Same here...
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#17 Oct 10, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69 wrote:
<quoted text>Same here...
We have alot in common!!:) See ya tomorrow. I will miss our conversations, but I have to go get my child now! Sweet dreams and hope everyone has a wonderful day!:)
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#18 Oct 10, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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We have alot in common!!:) See ya tomorrow. I will miss our conversations, but I have to go get my child now! Sweet dreams and hope everyone has a wonderful day!:)
I'm outta here in about 15 minutes...C ya !:)
Sweet Cheeks

United States

#19 Oct 11, 2006
James Bond AKA Falcon 69 wrote:
<quoted text>I'm outta here in about 15 minutes...C ya !:)
Good Morning! Hope you had a great afternoon yesterday! Hope I did not drive you away? I'm glad to be moving on just wish it would stop hurting soooo much!
James Bond AKA Falcon 69

Dearborn, MI

#20 Oct 11, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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Good Morning! Hope you had a great afternoon yesterday! Hope I did not drive you away? I'm glad to be moving on just wish it would stop hurting soooo much!
I like you, Sweet cheeks, I hope we could beome good freinds...Nah! you won't drive me away...I hope I can help with the hurting...This is your most vulnerable time. If you want to talk, just say the word...
franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#21 Oct 11, 2006
Sweet Cheeks wrote:
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Good Morning! Hope you had a great afternoon yesterday! Hope I did not drive you away? I'm glad to be moving on just wish it would stop hurting soooo much!
THat kind of hurt doesn't go away quickly. IF there was no child it would be mmcuh easier.

The more sure you are of the decision the easier it will be. If there is lingering doubt it is harder.

Falcon and I have a friend on another forum that just broke up with her guy and she was lucky and met a new guy shortly after, althuogh we warned her not to have rose coloured glassess because she just broke up. Moving on to a new guy too soon after a breakup may cause one to make more mistakes too. TIem alone mught actually be better. ALso, she has not kid although she was really attached to his kid.

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