Why do women lie about penis size desires?

[Objective]

Objective wrote:

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Just because a woman doesn't reject a size doesn't necessarily she doesn't have a size preference if given a choice. It may just mean it's not an important issue to her and that she will still enjoy it. In a poll by Pyschology Today of almost 1000 women 1/4th answered that extra size didn't matter whatsoever. Almost 1/3rd answered it mattered mildly and almost 1/3rd answered that it mattered moderately. Only about 1 out of every 8 considered it important. So if a woman doesn't reject it she could indeed be in the it doesn't matter whatsoever group, but she might also be in the matters mildly group or the matters moderately group. It's not an 'either or' with most women like most posts try to make it out to be, most women consider it to count but do not consider it important. Most women are in the mildly counts and moderately counts groupings (when both groups are added together). They don't base their selection of men on size but it does make some difference to them.

If one considers that the 'matters nonewhatsoever' and matters mildly' groups are almost the same about this then that's half of all women who wouldn't ever even think about penis size when in a relationship. The ladies in the 'matters moderately' grouping wouldn't reject a guy either but might do a bit of wishful thinking every once in a long while and some of those women might be proned to cheat with a guy for extra size.

[Dirtymind111]

Objective wrote:

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Interesting how you bypassed the big ones and went directly to the huge ones. Just because huge ones aren't favored by most women doesn't mean big ones aren't. In general there is a bell curve when it comes to penis size preferences.

Big, as in 6 - 9 in..? That's good to have, all I was implying was that guys lie about there size and most girls lie about wanting a huge one becuase they can't handle it, being big is an advantage, ;).

Still boils down to, how you are at sex and how you use it.

[Objective]

Dirtymind111 wrote:

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Big, as in 6 - 9 in..? That's good to have, all I was implying was that guys lie about there size and most girls lie about wanting a huge one becuase they can't handle it, being big is an advantage, ;).
Still boils down to, how you are at sex and how you use it.

That's too vague a range statement. What's considered big varies by race and within each race it varies with some women.

[mmmmyess]

Objective wrote:

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What your post boils down to is you said 'size counts' but is 'not important'.

If it counted it would be important. It doesnt count, therefore, of no importance to me, personally. Not going to speak for others. Curiosity doesnt mean that one automatically wants to experience something.

[bigrocks4207]

Why is it every other thread in this place relates to dick size? Ok now do we all like the same brand of car? Alcohol ? Smokes? No we dont thats why some like big and some like small. Some like a dick any way they can get it. My wife likes above average sizes, yet her sister prefers average to below. Thats why i married my wife and not her sister we dated for 2 and a half months and only tried sex once she didnt like my package and told her older sister about it. We were a miss match sexually she found it too uncomfortable to enjoy it. Guys trust me someone will like you for who you are not what you got. Confidence goes a lot further than a horse sized dick.

[Tangerine Manl]

bigrocks4207 wrote:

Why is it every other thread in this place relates to dick size? Ok now do we all like the same brand of car? Alcohol ? Smokes? No we dont thats why some like big and some like small. Some like a dick any way they can get it. My wife likes above average sizes, yet her sister prefers average to below. Thats why i married my wife and not her sister we dated for 2 and a half months and only tried sex once she didnt like my package and told her older sister about it. We were a miss match sexually she found it too uncomfortable to enjoy it. Guys trust me someone will like you for who you are not what you got. Confidence goes a lot further than a horse sized dick.

Very precise and succinct, Sir! I really don't think many women actually take a tape measure to a prospective husband's wedding tackle (because for one thing, they've got more sense!) It's really the men who are self conscious about their 'size'- as a supposed expression of themselves - a bit like how some men will choose to purchase an oversized car, or express their 'status' in their company by choosing a 'Presidential' sized desk!In both cases they seldom fool anybody, and in some extreme cases their exhibitism only serves to enhance their real inadequacy and/or incompetence etc.

[tampabayallstar]

bigrocks4207 wrote:

Why is it every other thread in this place relates to dick size? Ok now do we all like the same brand of car? Alcohol ? Smokes? No we dont thats why some like big and some like small. Some like a dick any way they can get it. My wife likes above average sizes, yet her sister prefers average to below. Thats why i married my wife and not her sister we dated for 2 and a half months and only tried sex once she didnt like my package and told her older sister about it. We were a miss match sexually she found it too uncomfortable to enjoy it. Guys trust me someone will like you for who you are not what you got. Confidence goes a lot further than a horse sized dick.

First of all it is mismatch but thats not the point. You had sex with your wifes sister and she pawned you to your wife? lmao. Zero credibilty. You mention penis size does not matter but than in a roundabout way you brag that you are big. Your post is such a bs post.

[bigrocks4207]

tampabayallstar wrote:

<quoted text> First of all it is mismatch but thats not the point. You had sex with your wifes sister and she pawned you to your wife? lmao. Zero credibilty. You mention penis size does not matter but than in a roundabout way you brag that you are big. Your post is such a bs post.

ok if you feel that way. Yes i do deeply regret sleeping with her sister and as much as she says it dont and didnt bother her i know it did. But it was her idea to set us up in the first place. I was after my wife in the first place we were young but that is no excuse i know

[Tangerine Manl]

bigrocks4207 wrote:

<quoted text> ok if you feel that way. Yes i do deeply regret sleeping with her sister and as much as she says it dont and didnt bother her i know it did. But it was her idea to set us up in the first place. I was after my wife in the first place we were young but that is no excuse i know

Well that's him told then!lol:)

[Dennis]

I asked my wife about the matter of size, she said it didn't matter. I told her I disagree she lol and asked why, I said because it depends on the girl if its a good size or not. My wife said your fine dont worrie, I asked her if she had been with any bigger. My wife said the other guys where very simular to mine in size. I asked her if she would be interested in doing a test. She wanted to know what kind of test I had in mind. I said a size test, my wife said that would be interesting. I told her I was going to buy some dildos before I came home from work. I went to the sex shop and must have looked like a freek I bought several different size dildos. The girl at the counter didn't seem fazed lol Im sure she seen it all lol. Me and my wife ate dinner and went into the bedroom. I dumped the bag of dldos on the bed my wifes eyes got big I had a 4" thin 5" my girth {Im 6" long and 5 1/4" around} a 8" that was 6" around a 9" 5 1/2" around, 9 1/2" 6 3/4" around, 12"long 7 1/4" around, 14"long 8" around.
My wife got excited and I fucked her with the 4" one and she giggled and said too small lol. I used the 8" and was surprised it slid in I worked her with it and she smiled saying ok theres a difference with size. My wife said she liked its thickness. I held up the two 9" dildos and said so the thicker one wins lol. My wife said yeah lets see I want to thicker one. I slid it in about 7" without any resstance I worked it and she began to cum. She was shaking and jumpy and flew into a ball in the opposite corner of the bed. OMG that was intense she said laying there looking at me. Are you glad we did this I asked, YES!!!! I will be back later to continue

[Objective]

Dennis wrote:

I asked my wife about the matter of size, she said it didn't matter. I told her I disagree she lol and asked why, I said because it depends on the girl if its a good size or not. My wife said your fine dont worrie, I asked her if she had been with any bigger. My wife said the other guys where very simular to mine in size. I asked her if she would be interested in doing a test. She wanted to know what kind of test I had in mind. I said a size test, my wife said that would be interesting. I told her I was going to buy some dildos before I came home from work. I went to the sex shop and must have looked like a freek I bought several different size dildos. The girl at the counter didn't seem fazed lol Im sure she seen it all lol. Me and my wife ate dinner and went into the bedroom. I dumped the bag of dldos on the bed my wifes eyes got big I had a 4" thin 5" my girth {Im 6" long and 5 1/4" around} a 8" that was 6" around a 9" 5 1/2" around, 9 1/2" 6 3/4" around, 12"long 7 1/4" around, 14"long 8" around.
My wife got excited and I fucked her with the 4" one and she giggled and said too small lol. I used the 8" and was surprised it slid in I worked her with it and she smiled saying ok theres a difference with size. My wife said she liked its thickness. I held up the two 9" dildos and said so the thicker one wins lol. My wife said yeah lets see I want to thicker one. I slid it in about 7" without any resstance I worked it and she began to cum. She was shaking and jumpy and flew into a ball in the opposite corner of the bed. OMG that was intense she said laying there looking at me. Are you glad we did this I asked, YES!!!! I will be back later to continue

Did you buy the lifelike realistic kind or the hard plastic kind? Also, if it has balls connected then when determining length you'll need to measure from the very top at the base to the tip and not necessarily trust the size said on the label. The length that can actually enter her may be different from the stated size on the label because manufactuers may go by the length of the penis if measured from underneath but that part of the penis isn't going in her because of the lifelike balls connected.

You mentioned an 8 l x 6 g. I went into a porn shop years ago and while I was in there I held a realistic 8 l x 6 g up beside a realistic 6 l x 5 g just to get a good comparison at the difference and those two dildos looked so very different from each other in size. They were both in box packages and they both had ball sacs connected. I'm good with numbers and suddenly I realised that those dildos were 1" shorter than the stated size. They were 7" and 5" long from the top. What was happening was the dildos' lengths were being stated if one were to measure from underneath but that is improper when balls are connected, that's not going into a woman.

[Objective]

Dennis wrote:

I asked my wife about the matter of size, she said it didn't matter. I told her I disagree she lol and asked why, I said because it depends on the girl if its a good size or not. My wife said your fine dont worrie, I asked her if she had been with any bigger. My wife said the other guys where very simular to mine in size. I asked her if she would be interested in doing a test. She wanted to know what kind of test I had in mind. I said a size test, my wife said that would be interesting. I told her I was going to buy some dildos before I came home from work. I went to the sex shop and must have looked like a freek I bought several different size dildos. The girl at the counter didn't seem fazed lol Im sure she seen it all lol. Me and my wife ate dinner and went into the bedroom. I dumped the bag of dldos on the bed my wifes eyes got big I had a 4" thin 5" my girth {Im 6" long and 5 1/4" around} a 8" that was 6" around a 9" 5 1/2" around, 9 1/2" 6 3/4" around, 12"long 7 1/4" around, 14"long 8" around.
My wife got excited and I fucked her with the 4" one and she giggled and said too small lol. I used the 8" and was surprised it slid in I worked her with it and she smiled saying ok theres a difference with size. My wife said she liked its thickness. I held up the two 9" dildos and said so the thicker one wins lol. My wife said yeah lets see I want to thicker one. I slid it in about 7" without any resstance I worked it and she began to cum. She was shaking and jumpy and flew into a ball in the opposite corner of the bed. OMG that was intense she said laying there looking at me. Are you glad we did this I asked, YES!!!! I will be back later to continue

When she orgasmed from working the 9" dildo in did she say whether she could tell if the sensation that caused the orgasm was from deep within. I suspect she may have had a posterior fornix sensation, or perhaps more likely, a cul de sac sensation. The posterior fornix is located inside the vagina at the bottom wall on the far side of the cervix where the vagina tunnel leads around the cervix. The cul de sac (Pouch of Douglas) is located between the vagina and anal canal, it's not actually inside the vagina but contact can be made with it by pushing the posterior wall to it. Did she experience a deep sensation and which position was she in when the orgasm or deep sensation occurred with the 9"?

[an actual woman]

women are telling you your girth is enough because they don't want to make you feel bad about your hockey puck of a dick.

[MGu]

There is a lot of guys that are pretty insecure. And as a male I do understand them. For young guys dick size tells how "manly" you're.
Dick size probably do matter whatever they say and if girl's muscles aren't great and pussy is like a bucket it's no good.
And like been said it matters how you use your love stick. How it feels depends of angles and position.

[Lazmo]

As long as my girl loves me for who I am it doesnt matter...my girl loves me from head to toe inside and out, that she adores my penis is a bonus and I have to admit as a healthy man its an ego boost..sex is more mental than physical...a carpenter can have the biggest and best hammer in the world but the doesnt make him the best carpenter..foreplay is key and foreplay doesnt begin in the bedroom it starts as soon as you pick your girl up and make her feel wanted respected and beautiful..you

[Kristy]

Every guy I've ever dated has asked the size question lol. The first few guys I told them there wasn't a difference it was the truth at the time because they where very similar in size. I was 16 the first time I had a BIG ONE I started lol when I seen it. I asked him if it was real he laugh i spent a good 30 minutes sucking him off. It was fun eye candy I rolled over on my back speady legs pulling him into me. I quickly realised there is an absolutely different experience when size is involved. After that a few guys who asked I would tell them the truth to the different size questions they would ask.

[group]

Seems honest and in line with what girls here say thanks

[G in CT]

woody-woo wrote:

I agree with you, mine is not big i dont think, it's about 7" long and 5" around, avg i would say, but never had any complaints and it has always led me to orgasm, so what more could i ask for?

His reminds me of the old joke: How can you tell when your woman has had an orgasm? Answer: who care? ;-) Size only matters if it matters. Making love to a women is about showing her how you feel about her - pleasuring her to orgasm (hopefully several) which you can and should do with your hands, mouth as well as your dick. If it's just recreational sex, then having a whopper might get you more action. I was at a party in college where one little hottie lined us up with our dicks hangin out and grabbed the biggest one and took him upstairs to a bedroom. No doubt she got pounded but it wasn't making love was looking for;-)

[Mandy]

Im 5 foot 109 lbs asian and it takes well over 7" to give me uterine orgasms (cul de sac) they are amazing. literally life changing. Even better than gspot by far as these give full body contractions. Yes in some positions 7 might bump it but honestly guy u need like 7.5-8 n good girth n then were talking. Sorry guys under 7" thats just unfortunate for you....yes im a size queen. Need at least 7"

[Pam]

Mandy wrote:

Im 5 foot 109 lbs asian and it takes well over 7" to give me uterine orgasms (cul de sac) they are amazing. literally life changing. Even better than gspot by far as these give full body contractions. Yes in some positions 7 might bump it but honestly guy u need like 7.5-8 n good girth n then were talking. Sorry guys under 7" thats just unfortunate for you....yes im a size queen. Need at least 7"

Im French Italian Hawaiian also very petite and it seems like guys with huge cocks always want to stuff it in tiny girls lol. I'm 5' and 108 lbs and love thickness allot ;) the biggest is my oldest daughters dad who has a 9 1/2" long and 7 1/4" around cock. I have never been able to be sexually satisfied by another man after being with him for 6 yrs. it has a lot to so with my personal happiness I find my self fucking him every time I drop off my daughter. Some times I just go over and stay the night lol I'married to a guy who provides me with the life style I want but my ex provides the sexual satisfaction.