black essex chick

Plymouth, UK

#360 May 17, 2009
yaIsaidit wrote:
<quoted text>It is not a complete lie, most females do act 2 faced towards their boyfriends about penis size. I've seen it all my life throughout school and college. I don't make sh!t up I just say it how it is. Plus you wouldn't be getting so defended if you weren't a 2 faced C*m guzzling Sl*T towards your boyfriend lol. Why don't you grow up and stop being a retarded b!tc* lol.
no i just hate it wen poeople like you say all women are like it coz there not...x i hate stereotypes so stop..x and im sorry, but how often would u even here a girl say behind her b/f back that her b/f penis is small...x and waht are the chances of u being there lol..x u need to stop watching american teen movies and separate schemas from reality
black essex chick

Plymouth, UK

#361 May 17, 2009
Reality wrote:
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Earlier in this thread you said you prefer it to be average. And you still never did really address the girth issue. Indicates to me that even though it's not an important issue to you your top preference is average length with extra girth but you won't straight up say it.
but did i not not also say earlier that just as long as its past the first three centimetres of my wall that im fine lol...x stop selective reading dude...x anyway im not here to argue just saying that i dont like it massive lol..x and i prefer my man to be good looking otherwise i aint getting wet lol..x peace
Reality

Indianapolis, IN

#362 May 17, 2009
black essex chick wrote:
<quoted text>but did i not not also say earlier that just as long as its past the first three centimetres of my wall that im fine lol...x stop selective reading dude...x anyway im not here to argue just saying that i dont like it massive lol..x and i prefer my man to be good looking otherwise i aint getting wet lol..x peace
Ok, it's settled then: He's got to be good looking to get to first base. Then, provided he's got at least a few inches in length it's fine but given a choice you'd prefer he have average. You like extra thickness but it's not an important issue either provided it's average thickness, but you don't want thin. There, I put it all together for you. Like pulling teeth trying to get a 100% straightforward answer so I put it all together.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#363 May 17, 2009
Calls It wrote:
<quoted text>
The point being that with women its more mental than anything.
Look at the porn site Amatuer Allure.
http://www.amateuralluregallery.com/
He has a tiny penis compared to most pornstars. But the girls still have a great time.
He looked too wide to me.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#364 May 17, 2009
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>
As you may be aware those 8% to 13 % are commonly referred to as size queens. True, it isn't the only thing they consider, of course, but it is nevertheless 'very important' to them and therefore top priority for sex. You're trying to downplay how much they prefer a big one even though they say it's very important, lol. That's was the ones who voted 'very important'. The next group on the list said it's 'moderately important'. In other words, it counts quite a bit to them but doesn't 'have' to be top priority. There were far more of women in this group than there were size queens. It mattered quite a bit to the moderately important group but they would be more willing than the size queens to work around it provided he's at least average, but he would have to have a lot else going on in the bedroom to keep the 'moderately important' type women happy enough in bed. The guy can probably never rate a 10 on a scale of 10 with the moderately important group but high marks are possible if he excels otherwise. The matters only mildly and matters not at all groups are where you should be pointing if you want to say size isn't all that. Those two groups added up to more women than in the important and moderately important groups. Instead you focus on the size queens and ignored the moderately important group. Not an unbiased objective review on your part. You should know by now i pay attention to whether someone is being objective or hand picking. It's a pet pieve of mine concerning people - most of the people I've ever been around only looked at things in the selective light in which they are predisposed to, whereas some of us try to overcome that and give complete across the board objective reviews.
They said size was important to them. Not that a large size is important to them. People automatically assume they mean they want big. Maybe size is important because they don't want big.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#365 May 17, 2009
Space1 wrote:
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Hey that is a good one.
I love Lionel Richie. It is amazing how an introvert shy person like him can come out of his shell and become a star.
These songs are my most favorites:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v =PDZcqBgCS74XX
http://www.youtube.com/watch...
I didn't know he was shy. He's very talented. I like his music.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#366 May 17, 2009
tampabayallstar wrote:
Here is the deal with penis size ...in my opinion. Of course, women want bigger. Its not a deal breaker. Just like men like bigger breasts, it does not mean they wont go out with women that have smaller breasts. Its all part of the 'package' for lack of a better word.
Ah, but more than a mouthful is a waste.
Reality

Warner Robins, GA

#368 May 17, 2009
Pamela in red wrote:
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They said size was important to them. Not that a large size is important to them. People automatically assume they mean they want big. Maybe size is important because they don't want big.
That is just a summary chart. It doesn't show the questions or detail. The article indicates the women were well aware that big vs average vs small was the issue. Of course they knew. You know better than that.

"...the number one reason women preferred a thicker penis was that it was "more satisfying during intercourse..."

"Women who rated themselves as more attractive were particularly concerned with larger size. Of women describing themselves as "much more attractive than average," 64 percent cared strongly or moderately about penis width, and 54 percent cared about penis length. Women who rated their own looks as average were about 20 percentage points lower."

"Women who disliked a large penis offered two arguments: too large a penis can be painful, and well-endowed men can be unimaginative lovers. A British woman wrote, "Men with big penises are all too prone to think they've got all it takes, and therefore don't show much variety/ingenuity/empathy. Ordinary or even small-sized men have provided me with more orgasms."

"But many women who extolled exceptional dimensions maintained that women saying otherwise were deluding themselves. One exuberant 44-year-old stated, "If women say the size of a man's penis doesn't matter they haven't been with a man with a big one!! Fabulous!" A 32-year-old commented, "Penis size matters much less in terms of appearance than in tactile terms. When women say size doesn't matter, they're usually lying."
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“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#369 May 17, 2009
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>
That is just a summary chart. It doesn't show the questions or detail. The article indicates the women were well aware that big vs average vs small was the issue. Of course they knew. You know better than that.
"...the number one reason women preferred a thicker penis was that it was "more satisfying during intercourse..."
"Women who rated themselves as more attractive were particularly concerned with larger size. Of women describing themselves as "much more attractive than average," 64 percent cared strongly or moderately about penis width, and 54 percent cared about penis length. Women who rated their own looks as average were about 20 percentage points lower."
"Women who disliked a large penis offered two arguments: too large a penis can be painful, and well-endowed men can be unimaginative lovers. A British woman wrote, "Men with big penises are all too prone to think they've got all it takes, and therefore don't show much variety/ingenuity/empathy. Ordinary or even small-sized men have provided me with more orgasms."
"But many women who extolled exceptional dimensions maintained that women saying otherwise were deluding themselves. One exuberant 44-year-old stated, "If women say the size of a man's penis doesn't matter they haven't been with a man with a big one!! Fabulous!" A 32-year-old commented, "Penis size matters much less in terms of appearance than in tactile terms. When women say size doesn't matter, they're usually lying."
So is the answer for men to date ugly girls? Some of these results are funny. I've always thought of myself as a plain Jane. Skinny brunette with small boobs. Never thought I was anything special but never lacked for attention either. I could easily get breast implants but would rather not. I'd rather have a man who is fine with what I have. Maybe some men should adopt the same attitude.
Reality

Mountain View, CA

#370 May 17, 2009
Pamela in red wrote:
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He looked too wide to me.
Too wide? He's average thickness for white guys. Few women would say that is too wide (I would have previously said that no white women would say that is too wide but apparently that isn't the case). In, fact, it would be a "Is it in yet" for some. You must be tighter than most white women are if that looked too thick to you. I don't shock easily but your saying too wide caught me off guard. I would only expect that thickness to be tight to some Asian women and dominated by black women.

“Rudeness is the weak man's”

Since: Nov 08

imitation of strength.

#371 May 17, 2009
Reality wrote:
<quoted text>
Too wide? He's average thickness for white guys. Few women would say that is too wide (I would have previously said that no white women would say that is too wide but apparently that isn't the case). In, fact, it would be a "Is it in yet" for some. You must be tighter than most white women are if that looked too thick to you. I don't shock easily but your saying too wide caught me off guard. I would only expect that thickness to be tight to some Asian women and dominated by black women.
I was told by a Korean man that I'm built like a Korean woman.

He looked too wide to me. My husband isn't that wide. He's a bit too long, not sure how long.
CheeseNip Studmuffin

UK

#375 May 17, 2009
Pamela in red wrote:
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So is the answer for men to date ugly girls? Some of these results are funny. I've always thought of myself as a plain Jane. Skinny brunette with small boobs. Never thought I was anything special but never lacked for attention either. I could easily get breast implants but would rather not. I'd rather have a man who is fine with what I have. Maybe some men should adopt the same attitude.
Nice post and I agree, everything else that is superficial will never last anyways.
Wet Member

Mc Lean, VA

#376 May 17, 2009
Pamela in red wrote:
<quoted text>
I was told by a Korean man that I'm built like a Korean woman.
He looked too wide to me. My husband isn't that wide. He's a bit too long, not sure how long.
I like to give my wife a swat on the fanny before doing her doggy style, I finger her a little afterward to see if she is getting wet, once she is lubed up good I put my c--k head just inside her pu--y mouth and make her beg for it all. I keep backing out just letting the head stay in. Finally when she is really wet and hot I let her do all the work and just be still, she can f--k back real good. I can keep a stiff d!ck as long as she wants.

I'm still wondering if you like to have your clit finger doodled by your husband ? Does it make you c-m ? Is it as good as oral ?
pmyster12

San Jose, CA

#377 May 18, 2009
It is pretty much how you have forplay, Get her mind into the joy of sex and it probably would not matter what size you had as long as you can stick it in. I have a 5 X 2 inches and did some exercises to make it that thick. I feel pretty good about my size.
Just Saying

San Francisco, CA

#378 May 27, 2009
In my opinion just asking, "Does size matter" is not sufficient to get the answers most people desire. Does size matter? It does in many respects. In one respect size matters in that there are standards for what is considered normal and what is not. So we can ask the question does cranium size or hand size matter? of course it does! but that's because we judge based on what is normal. Now that being said, size does matter but that's because size is rooted in our understanding of what is normal.In a different respect, if size matters, we then have to ask why does it matter? and when you ask this question there is no way to generalize the answers given. Two women can say they prefer a bigger size for distinct reasons. It just becomes very subjective when you ask why. Many people have also brought up the issue of girls lying to their boyfriends and being hypocrites. What I have to say about that is that the reason they do it, is because its something they have learned to do as a type of social tool. The same way in which people my say they like black or white people but would not concede of their daughters and sons marrying one. Is that not the same form of deceit? The reason why people do it is because they have already been socialized to make the distinction between color or size. With each persons color or size we have attached a certain privilege or stigma. We can accept people for how they are or look but we are also completely aware that if we should decide to do so we can attack them on the grounds of their physical appearance. We know we have to power to do so and sometimes we do it just because we know we can or because there is no other grounds to retaliate except using a type of prejudice. So a girl can talk smack behind her boyfriends size but she is doing so because she knows its something she can do that everyone has already agreed can be demeaning. This does not imply that she is not satisfied with the way he makes her feel in bed. If girl were to say to her friends god I hate the fact his elbow size is only such and such inches, it would not be such a hurtful statement but that is because no one understands or has already learned or can correlate elbow size with a type of personal worth. My last point is that all the judgments we use about size are just relevant to the society we live in. If porn websites were filled with images of women and men being idolized for larger than normal body parts other than penis and vagina you would have another forum just like this asking the same question about things that to us are completely irrelevant at this moment. My last point is that pleasure is not something that is only given by someone other than one self. There are people who can can get extremely aroused by themselves. There are women and men who do not require much for them to be almost freakishly around and turned on. So in this sense pleasure is only something that is given but that is created within our mind.
Denise

Auburn, WA

#379 May 29, 2009
My BF owns a smallish 5 inch penis. We joke about it. Yes, it would be nice if he were bigger, 6.5 t 7.5 inches would be ideal. I've had a partner or three who were in excess of 8 inches with one reaching an incredible length of 9.5. But the bigs ones hurt when they tried to bottom out in me. Here's the thing, he treats me sooo well. He brings me flowers just because. Calls me just to see how I'm doing. He loves my kids and they adore him. He is an expert at back rubs and foot rubs. I get occassional migranes and he knows exactly how to rub my temples and neck to make the pain lessen. When I'm having a bad day he does all the little things to brighten my day. During my last period, I was having particularily bad cramps so he came over and cooked dinner for me and the kids knowing that a booty call was out of the question. By the way, he's a much better cook than me. Nobody, I mean nobody ever performed oral sex on me like he does. He loves my chubby thighs, looks past my faint stretch marks and doesn't mind that my 30 something breasts aren't as perky as a Playboy centerfold's. Small penis? Who cares.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#380 May 29, 2009
Denise wrote:
My BF owns a smallish 5 inch penis. We joke about it. Yes, it would be nice if he were bigger, 6.5 t 7.5 inches would be ideal. I've had a partner or three who were in excess of 8 inches with one reaching an incredible length of 9.5. But the bigs ones hurt when they tried to bottom out in me. Here's the thing, he treats me sooo well. He brings me flowers just because. Calls me just to see how I'm doing. He loves my kids and they adore him. He is an expert at back rubs and foot rubs. I get occassional migranes and he knows exactly how to rub my temples and neck to make the pain lessen. When I'm having a bad day he does all the little things to brighten my day. During my last period, I was having particularily bad cramps so he came over and cooked dinner for me and the kids knowing that a booty call was out of the question. By the way, he's a much better cook than me. Nobody, I mean nobody ever performed oral sex on me like he does. He loves my chubby thighs, looks past my faint stretch marks and doesn't mind that my 30 something breasts aren't as perky as a Playboy centerfold's. Small penis? Who cares.
Nice guys who aren't quite as good in intercourse sometimes get cheated on at some point. They don't deserve it to happen but it does. Guys are a competitive bunch and they realise that women will marry nice guys who make good husbands and fathers for the kids. There are guys who will see you are with a nice guy, see he isn't packing any kind of bulge at all and will figure you haven't had a power fucking put on you in a long time and will see if you can be tempted. I know that's blunt but I've known guys with above average and more who did and sadly many of the women cheat.
the kid

Middletown, OH

#381 May 29, 2009
i dont think ALL women lie about the size they want/like. i had a roommate in college that had a small one, not even a full 5" and he himself made jokes about it. BUT he got girls and had one in the room almost everynight so he must have been doing something right! i mean if you are small but you still get alot and they come back for more why complain?!
Denise

Auburn, WA

#382 May 29, 2009
Reality wrote:
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Nice guys who aren't quite as good in intercourse sometimes get cheated on at some point. They don't deserve it to happen but it does. Guys are a competitive bunch and they realise that women will marry nice guys who make good husbands and fathers for the kids. There are guys who will see you are with a nice guy, see he isn't packing any kind of bulge at all and will figure you haven't had a power fucking put on you in a long time and will see if you can be tempted. I know that's blunt but I've known guys with above average and more who did and sadly many of the women cheat.
There is no way I would cheat on him. My ex cheated on me so I now the pain and sense of betrayal. The women who you refer to who have cheated on nice guys need to grow up and realize that you cannot get everything in life. What I ahve with my BF is so good, jeopardizing it for a few minutes of pleasure is just stupid and reckless. Power fuck? How about power stupidity.
Lani in Seattle

Auburn, WA

#383 May 29, 2009
Hey Denise from Seattle, I'm from Seattle too. Does your BF have a brother? LOL But I just turned 30 and realized that I'm craving a quality relationship. I've had my share of penises large (8-1/2 inches) and small (4-1/2 inches). The big ones are impresive to look at and fondle and even suck. But I've been with my share of sizable guys and I'm tired of finding that most of them like to go at it fast and furious without considering my pleasure or discomfort. Give me a sweet caring guy with a 5 inch organ over a well hung but selfish oaf. Hold on to your BF, guys like him don't come along often.

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