Do your parents allow you to enjoy masturbating?

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Josh

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Dec 15, 2009
 

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I am a 15 year old boy living in the USA and my parents and I have a very good relationship. Long story short, my mom and dad are fully aware that I enjoy masturbating by myself in my bedroom and they allow me to enjoy sex play in the privacy of my bedroom whenever I like. I have enjoyed sexual play by myself since I was like 10 years old and they have never had a problem with me doing this. I want to make it clear that I'm not hiding the fact I masturbate from my parents, they know I do it and they are completely cool with it and they allow me the privacy and time to enjoy playing with my body when I fell like doing it.

I mean I don't really talk about what I do with my parents but they know I take my clothes off and play with my body in various ways for sometimes an hour or more with the door of my bedroom locked. I forgot how this exactly started but I have just always been allowed to do it ever since I was old enough to want to masturbate around age 10 or so and if I have my door closed and locked my parents respect my privacy and leave me alone to do what I like with myself.

When I first started to want to masturbate I remember my parents and I had a talk about sex stuff and they said it was perfectly normal and even healthy for me to have the sexual feelings I was having. They wanted me to feel good about my body and not feel that masturbation was wrong. They did make it clear that if I felt like masturbating I had to do that in privacy and to not talk about it with others and any questions I've had about how babies are made were answered. I was given books to read on human sexuality and reproduction when I was around 13 and I learned a lot from reading them. The only thing my dad ever said to me about masturbating was to be very careful not to anything that might hurt myself such as the dangerous things some people try like choking themselves, using pins or other cutting things for stimulation etc. I don't like doing anything dangerous to myself anyway so this is not a problem.

I mean is kind of cool that my parents understand that I need to masturbate and they are just ok with it. Like I said, I don't come out of my bedroom afterwords and discuss what I do but they KNOW I'm doing something sexual by myself and they are perfectly fine with it. My parents have told me they would rather me enjoy private sex play with myself than be out getting some girl pregnant or catching diseases, using drugs, etc.

I do play sports at school and do very well in school so there is no type of problem at all with what I do.

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Dec 15, 2009
 
Since I was completely alone most of my childhood, I guess the answer would be yes.

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When I was about 13 my mother complained to me that I was "staining" my sheets. Then she said, "Here. Use this old dish towel instead." She wasn't specific about what I was to it for.

The towel was regularly washed, folded, and placed under my pillow.

That was the only conversation we had about masturbation.

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I always made sure that my kids had a clean hand towel and a jar of Vaseline in their nightstands. I've also known many parents who've talked to me about how they have the same relationship with their own kids. I think as Josh pointed out, it is more common than we know becuase this is something that is kept under their own roofs... As it should be.
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My husband and I have three daughters, so he got off the hook on this one. It was up to me to have these talks with each of them. I did it as simply and directly as I could -- I made it part of the menstruation talk as they were nearing puberty. I told them that masturbation was the best way to handle the urges they would inevitably be feeling soon. It turned out each of them had already been doing it, without knowing what it was called, and they were relieved to hear it was OK. I told them I did it when I was their age, and that I still did it. S
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shm3 wrote:
My husband and I have three daughters, so he got off the hook on this one. It was up to me to have these talks with each of them. I did it as simply and directly as I could -- I made it part of the menstruation talk as they were nearing puberty. I told them that masturbation was the best way to handle the urges they would inevitably be feeling soon. It turned out each of them had already been doing it, without knowing what it was called, and they were relieved to hear it was OK. I told them I did it when I was their age, and that I still did it. S
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Dec 16, 2009
 
Well one day during a weekend that my mom and I were arguing, my mom kept asking me to mow the lawn and I kept ignoring her. I was jacking it and my mom once again yelled at me to get outside and start. I yelled back I'd do it soon. She opened the door and told me to "put that thing away and get your ass outside and mow the lawn all you do around here is play with yourself". I was never so embarrassed or mad in my life.
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I have been married for 7 years, I always have and always will say that masturbation is more pleasurable and enjoyable than real sex. Yes, I'm serious. I believed this when I was young, during my teen years and now even as an older adult who has been happily married for 7 years, I still say masturbation feels better than real sex. Yes, my wife and I have great sex, we experiment with new things but it's just not the same for me as when I masturbate alone to internet porn which I feel is much more enjoyable than all the work of real sex where I have to worry about HER needs.

When you masturbate, all you have to focus on is what feels good for you. When you have sex with a woman, you have to be in tune with what makes HER feel good. You have to wait to ejaculate till she wants you to, etc. It's more like doing a job or performing a service for someone. As a man, this need to please her distracts from your pure enjoyment of the sexual experience. Also, when your with a real woman, it's very different than watching porn on the internet where you can see all those perfect bodies in perfect settings.

If you ask me, masturbation just makes much more sense for the average guy than living the now outdated life of family, kids, and marriage. My advice to all guys is: STAY SINGLE, Don't ever marry. It's a TRAP, one that you will find yourself wanting out of eventually. Sure there are positives but they are few and far between. It's better to stay single and just date or better yet just watch porn! Being single is NOT lonely, any guy can go out and make friends with people, it's not like you life alone unless you choose to be alone in today's times.

Oh, and NO my parents did not allow me to enjoy masturbation but I WISH they would have when I was a kid.
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Yes, my parents think it's better that we do it to ourselves than to mess around with boys.
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Dec 17, 2009
 
Missy wrote:
Yes, my parents think it's better that we do it to ourselves than to mess around with boys.
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No my parents would never let me masturbate because they would think it's wrong but when they are gone I love to take my clothes off and swim naked in our pool. This always gets me very horny and I'll try to fight the overpowering urge to masturbate as long as I can. After about 20 minutes I will not be able to stand it any longer, I'll be so hard and my body will feel like it's about to explode with sexual energy. At that point I'll climb out of the pool and often I'll sit on the edge of the diving board Indian style and rub my penis till I have a massive overpowering full body orgasm and shoot my load everywhere. It feels so awesome to masturbate outside in the sunlight and feel the wind and water on my nude body. I don't know why doing this turns me on so much but it's so great I just love doing it and the orgasm I have is mind blowing. It has something to do with the thought that I'm outside and what if someone saw me and how my parents would never let me do this. Sometimes I do it when I think they might be about to come home and find me swimming naked and this excites me even more. I'm 15 by the way and I also live in the USA.
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Dec 28, 2009
 
I just shot in my sheets , the starch is good for the fabric and since they were white I dunt think my mom even noticed and I never got caught , I did have a lock on my door , but when 95% of boys are doing it , they gotta know whats up anyways and just lets boys be boys. lol. I like natures idea of giving the towels , but then I would have known that they knew I was wankin it, and that might have got a little creepy , at least with my parents anyways.
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Dec 28, 2009
 
I started at ten and now Im 15 no one knows
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Dec 28, 2009
 
sarah wrote:
I started at ten and now Im 15 no one knows
fun isn't it!

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sarah wrote:
I started at ten and now Im 15 no one knows
Don't fool yourself. Parents are not idiots and you have to remember that they were once your age too. In fact those years may be those of their fondest memories. They may never have seen you do it, but don't think that they don't know.
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Jan 3, 2010
 
Is it normal to think of your 0lder hotter sister while masturbating? I imagine her stroking me and blowing me...

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Is it normal to think of your 0lder hotter sister while masturbating? I imagine her stroking me and blowing me...
Sexual fantasies are like dreams. Everyone has them and for the most part we can't control them. The only "defence" we do have is "after guilt" that is after the fun is over we have a sence of guilt for what we were thinking about.
All I can say is don't beat yourself over the head "AHHUM!" over this. Listen, if we were to get arrested for the things we fantasize about, we would all be in prison for life.
Your fantasies are like your private diary. They are yours and yours alone and it's none of anyone elses business. The only time it is, is when you invite someone to share in your fantasies or if you choose to act on them and then it becomes someone elses business.
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Mar 8, 2010
 
Hey it's me again the kid who started this post. Thanks to everyone who commented, I really just wondered if anyone else has the freedom that I enjoy of being able to masturbate freely without all the shame of trying to hide it from everyone in your family. I really love the fact that I can enjoy masturbating freely as often as I wish and my dad and mom are cool with it and don't make a big deal out of it.

I think part of the reason my parents are cool with me enjoying masturbation is the fact that I am an only child so I don't have any brothers or sisters to worry about or influence. It's just me, I also have discovered a great new way to masturbate that is really awesome.

I bought a vibrator online and it's a Doc Johnson bullet vibrator that is silver and about 4 inches long and 1 inch wide. What I do is take an ace bandage like the kind you use for sports to wrap your knee and I place the vibrator on my penis and wrap it in the ace bandage till it's snug around my penis. Then I turn the vibrator on and the feelings are just amazing. I can lye there for like an hour or more just enjoying the pleasurable feelings that flow through my body. I have done this to the point I can go very long without ejaculating and it's just heaven. It feels so good I cannot really describe how great it feels to use this vibrator in this way, hands free and I can experience several orgasms over and over but I don't actually ejaculate, it's just a felling of absolute pleasure that flows over me like a wave and then subsides again. Then after say an hour or more of this where I am just dripping pre-cum like crazy and just driven into a state of sexual extacy I'll turn the vibrator on full speed and just blow my load like a volcano erupting. The volume of my ejaculation is massive and very pleasurable. I feel SO relaxed afterwords.

I am so thankful that I can enjoy such pleasure in my life. I am very happy, unlike most of my friends who do drugs, have social problems, and take anti-depressants. I think the problem with society is all these people who don't know how to enjoy the sexual pleasure that your body has to offer for free. I mean why be depressed when you can have such a great time loving yourself?
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No problems with my parents. They just told me "to be careful"

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karol I have a 15 year old brother who I had found out not that long ago had been masterbaiting for me daily. He Takes my panties and gets off on them and fills them with sperm

so I told him i understand why hes doing it, young men can get so so horny they dont think. so i start giving him my underwear and bras right after i take them off. he has such a good time with them.

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