I Have A Fantasy Of Getting Raped/Gan...
Moondancer

Rumford, RI

#125 Jul 8, 2009
You really do not want to be raped. You may want wild rough sex but rape is not about sex. It is about abuse, domination and torture. Rape is a horrible experience whether you are teen girl in Africa being brutalized as part of tribal warfare or a girl who is date raped. The physical damage may not be great but the mental damage can affect your whole life. A lot of men on here talk about their wives not being responsive. I wonder how many of them had bad experiences that inhibit their ability to enjoy intimacy.
fantasy man

Appleton, WI

#126 Jul 8, 2009
Moondancer wrote:
You really do not want to be raped. You may want wild rough sex but rape is not about sex. It is about abuse, domination and torture. Rape is a horrible experience whether you are teen girl in Africa being brutalized as part of tribal warfare or a girl who is date raped. The physical damage may not be great but the mental damage can affect your whole life. A lot of men on here talk about their wives not being responsive. I wonder how many of them had bad experiences that inhibit their ability to enjoy intimacy.
Oh boy another bible banger. who said rape was good you uptight, stuck up, never had sex, dough head? We are saying that those who have a FANTASY of being raped, which means it s planned and both parties agree to the GAME. Why don't you put a crow bar between your legs and actually try having sex? maybe, you may enjoy it. just maybe you should think that not all women hate men like you do. But you are entitled to your opinion as I AM
Moondancer

Hallowell, ME

#127 Jul 9, 2009
fantasy man wrote:
<quoted text> Oh boy another bible banger. who said rape was good you uptight, stuck up, never had sex, dough head? We are saying that those who have a FANTASY of being raped, which means it s planned and both parties agree to the GAME. Why don't you put a crow bar between your legs and actually try having sex? maybe, you may enjoy it. just maybe you should think that not all women hate men like you do. But you are entitled to your opinion as I AM
Somebody is a little uptight. Now pay attention. Rape has nothing to do with sex. The word should be used in its context of brutalizing another person - woman or man and yes men get raped. If someone wants to fantazise or have rough wild sex, go for it and enjoy it. Just don't think of it as rape. Save the term rape for the crimanal act that it is. I understand that the person was just using a word to explain their fantasy. I am just saying that we should not use the word rape in a fun sexual context. For a person who has been raped, there is nothing fun about it. Fy the way, even though I am older, I do get a fair amount of sex and some of it rather kinky.
Otto

Encino, CA

#129 Jul 9, 2009
For the rapist, rape is about sex. He usually has an orgasm, although some rapists can't even get it up. The rapist can have sex with women who would otherwise be unavailable to him. You see the same behavior among primates. The smaller male apes wait utnil the alpha male is away or asleep, then go after the females.

Since: Feb 08

Hsinchu, Taiwan

#130 Jul 9, 2009
Otto wrote:
For the rapist, rape is about sex. He usually has an orgasm, although some rapists can't even get it up. The rapist can have sex with women who would otherwise be unavailable to him. You see the same behavior among primates. The smaller male apes wait utnil the alpha male is away or asleep, then go after the females.
i dont know how feminists would React, but, my mom said to me : if a woman accepts The Advances of A Man, and becomes toy for His Sexual Pleasure(Provided He isnt carrying STD), a woman can avoid Rape
CrazyWomen

Prince George, Canada

#131 Jul 12, 2009
I'm sad that you fantasize about this because i'm am no older then 14 and i have already been raped many time by the same person and a couple of other people

Not only was i hurt and violated i was embarrassed that men could take advantage of me so easily especially if you can't fight back for the reason that i have no muscle at all. when i did try to tell someone who i trusted very much i ended up getting a "suck it up its not that bad" and "you know deep down you like it why don't you try it with me?" and ending up with a bruised hip and a black eye for trying to fight back

I hope that this never happens to you or anyone else for these reasons and morre
BellaAdellaItali ana

Nacogdoches, TX

#132 Jul 14, 2009
I agree, the system only makes the pain so much worse. long story short, I had to have a rape kit done when I was not sure whether I was raped or not. I was just recently in Germany, and I am sure it happened. I did not report it because I was still in so much emotional pain from the last rape kit that I didn't wish to spend my time in and out of police offices and hospitals...and with the language barrier it would all have just been too much for me.
kickback

“I want a piece of that steak”

Since: Apr 07

Tazmania

#133 Jul 14, 2009
CrazyWomen wrote:
I'm sad that you fantasize about this because i'm am no older then 14 and i have already been raped many time by the same person and a couple of other people
Not only was i hurt and violated i was embarrassed that men could take advantage of me so easily especially if you can't fight back for the reason that i have no muscle at all. when i did try to tell someone who i trusted very much i ended up getting a "suck it up its not that bad" and "you know deep down you like it why don't you try it with me?" and ending up with a bruised hip and a black eye for trying to fight back
I hope that this never happens to you or anyone else for these reasons and morre
The women who have this fantasy want it to be a fantasy. It does seem discrespectful to women that were actually raped but these women with the rape fantasy picks the guy and they tell him how far he can go. Make the guy in an awkward position though, there will be many rules of what he can do or not to how or he has to stretch it to the limit without knowing the limit.
CrazyWomen

Prince George, Canada

#134 Jul 15, 2009
the point i was making was even if you do have this fantasy you might not always be able to pick who it is and you could get hurt in alot of different ways (emotionally, physically, mentally)
and sometimes if you do get to pick who the man could get over whelmed and end up not respecting your request and wishes.
Eebabo

Perth, UK

#135 Jul 20, 2009
Dan Tripper wrote:
Wow that is hot. I get turned on by rape as well. I had a fantasy of seeing my wife raped for a long time. About 3 months ago it finally happened. I took her to a bar and when we left 3 men grabbed us tied me up and gang raped her. Part of me felt bad because of what she was going through but yet I was so turned on by it. I honestly hope it happens again.
Why the hell is she still with you ? I hope you have a traumatic experience that ruins your life entirely and everyone you know takes great enjoyment from it. Dickhead.

“system.animal.pr imate.sapien”

Since: May 09

Utah/Kansas

#136 Jul 20, 2009
Moondancer wrote:
<quoted text>Rape has nothing to do with sex.
Wow... how does someone even respond to this?
Moondancer wrote:
<quoted text>
Save the term rape for the crimanal act that it is. I understand that the person was just using a word to explain their fantasy. I am just saying that we should not use the word rape in a fun sexual context.
Their fantasy involves something illegal. Sex that is forced upon you without consent. Rape describes this. Semantic argument like this are such a huge waste of time.
Moondancer

Hallowell, ME

#137 Jul 21, 2009
carbon-soul wrote:
<quoted text>
Wow... how does someone even respond to this?
<quoted text>
Their fantasy involves something illegal. Sex that is forced upon you without consent. Rape describes this. Semantic argument like this are such a huge waste of time.
I know that I am just playing semantics but rape can be such a horrible experience that I hate to see any positive connotations associated with it. I have no problem with a person desiring rough, wild sex and the desire for a woman to be fully taken by her man. I would just like a different word for it. Picky, Picky. Sorry
kickback

“I want a piece of that steak”

Since: Apr 07

Tazmania

#138 Jul 21, 2009
Moondancer wrote:
<quoted text>
I know that I am just playing semantics but rape can be such a horrible experience that I hate to see any positive connotations associated with it. I have no problem with a person desiring rough, wild sex and the desire for a woman to be fully taken by her man. I would just like a different word for it. Picky, Picky. Sorry
I feel exactly the same way. The word rape itself is a major turn off. I'm pretty sure many women have this fantasy but to be raped by the man they are in love with, it's kind of an oxymoron and many women don't mind using the term rape but they don't understand how a decent man feels about that word but for many it doesn't matter as long as you do it.
Cryos

West Palm Beach, FL

#139 Jul 21, 2009
A lot of women have rape fantasies. There's a dichotomoy of simple/complex reasons why, but that doesn't mean any of them want to be raped in reality. Rape is a violent act which leaves it's victim objectified and powerless, and very, very few women would actually find such an intrusion welcome.

As far as "rape" play goes, I've always felt it would be better defined as "ravaging".

Since: Jul 09

Ilford, UK

#140 Jul 21, 2009
I like being "ravaged" LOL
tommy hummer

Clondalkin, Ireland

#141 Jul 22, 2009
rape is a gud laugh bt nt for d victim its mostly sore for them anyway im off out nw for a gud nite
Moondancer

Hallowell, ME

#142 Jul 24, 2009
sexyjo wrote:
I like being "ravaged" LOL
Ravaged is cool. I think we all like to be ravaged a bit.

Since: Jul 09

Ilford, UK

#143 Jul 25, 2009
Ooh yes ravage me anytime !! LOL
win

Singapore, Singapore

#145 Aug 6, 2009
KinkyEmo wrote:
<quoted text>
Thats true.:)
Cocks will enter you every min
Angela

Decatur, IL

#146 Aug 17, 2009
I have always wanted to be raped can someone like rape me???
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