Wife wants to go to a swing club

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A husband

Bloomington, IN

#1 Aug 23, 2009
My wife and I started out talking about having a FMF 3-way. At first she was pi$$ed off, but now she seems to be interested in trying it. She seems to have done some thinking and decided to be honest with herself about her sexual attraction to other women.

We have shared fantasies about going to a swing club (NOT swing dancing, LOL!) She seems interested in that, too. She claims she doesn't want other men to f**k her, but sometimes I wonder...

I think we both would be okay with "soft swinging" (everything but intercourse, including oral).

Sometimes, I think it would be hot to watch a M/F couple have their way with her, no holds (or holes) barred - but then sometimes I'm not sure about other guys f**king her.

Other times, it seems like swapping with another couple - women on bottom lying next to each other (tongue kissing), men f**king the s**t out of the other woman as we watch each other - would be insanely hot.

We have talked about going to a nearby swing club to "see what happens." We have talked about the need to be safe (use condoms) and to be VERY selective in who we choose to play with.

And before all you high and mighty moralizers and make-believe Christians start up: I love my wife and she loves me. We are trying to be honest about our fantasies and have a miore exciting and fulfilling sexual relationship - and NO, I am not using her as my own personal 3D porn actress or a bargaining chip to get to f**k other women, so do us all a favor and take your piousness and judgement elsewhere, okay??

Now, back to the rest of you: How best to proceed? Your thoughts, please...
rmc1

Anchorage, AK

#2 Aug 23, 2009
Communication is key here. My husband and I started about the same way but we talked it through many many times before. Write me at rmc@gimail.com and we can discuss it more.

Becky

Since: Aug 09

Location hidden

#3 Aug 23, 2009
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A husband

Bloomington, IN

#4 Aug 24, 2009
rmc1 wrote:
Communication is key here. My husband and I started about the same way but we talked it through many many times before. Write me at rmc@gimail.com and we can discuss it more.
Becky
Becky, I tried to email you at the address you gave me (above) but got a failure to deliver notice. Please contact me @ fredandwilma99@yahoo.com
LessonLerned

Chestnut Mountain, GA

#5 Nov 13, 2009
My wife and I talked about this off and on for years in the bedroom. She then wanted one day to go to swingers club. Like 'A husbend' she told me she just wanted to check it out and if something happened it would happen. No intercourse at most oral.

I did some research and went to club to see how it was. We were nervous but excited to try the next level. To make a long story short, my wife did more than just oral. She ended up letting loose and had intercourse with four guys - three of them unprotected. While I wasn't pleased about this she couldn't be happier. Since this event about six months ago, she been insatiable and wants to go again. I'm not complaining about the fun I have in the bedroom now but I feel like I've help create a monster.
mint jelly enema

Brooklyn, NY

#6 Nov 13, 2009
she is a pig.
rusty

Canada

#7 Nov 13, 2009
LessonLerned wrote:
My wife and I talked about this off and on for years in the bedroom. She then wanted one day to go to swingers club. Like 'A husbend' she told me she just wanted to check it out and if something happened it would happen. No intercourse at most oral.
I did some research and went to club to see how it was. We were nervous but excited to try the next level. To make a long story short, my wife did more than just oral. She ended up letting loose and had intercourse with four guys - three of them unprotected. While I wasn't pleased about this she couldn't be happier. Since this event about six months ago, she been insatiable and wants to go again. I'm not complaining about the fun I have in the bedroom now but I feel like I've help create a monster.
Yes, a "monster" ! One that most guys would kill to have. Have fun and enjoy yourself. To soon we get old.
nearrosebowl-aol

AOL

#8 Nov 13, 2009
Lesson learned, I think that it is totally hot to have a women that will do that for me. I also enjoy having her after she has done it. It's just fun sex.
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sara

Portland, OR

#9 Nov 14, 2009
LessonLerned wrote:
My wife and I talked about this off and on for years in the bedroom. She then wanted one day to go to swingers club. Like 'A husbend' she told me she just wanted to check it out and if something happened it would happen. No intercourse at most oral.
I did some research and went to club to see how it was. We were nervous but excited to try the next level. To make a long story short, my wife did more than just oral. She ended up letting loose and had intercourse with four guys - three of them unprotected. While I wasn't pleased about this she couldn't be happier. Since this event about six months ago, she been insatiable and wants to go again. I'm not complaining about the fun I have in the bedroom now but I feel like I've help create a monster.
You didnt create a monster but, you did open the door and let one out.

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#10 Nov 14, 2009
I think that there are a lot of women who will really get into this sort of thing once they have gotten over their inhibitions. While it may take some getting used to by the husband, I think the change in their wives attitude to sex may make it very worthwhile in the long run.
Curious

Chicago, IL

#11 Nov 23, 2009
Mrs Cuck wrote:
I think that there are a lot of women who will really get into this sort of thing once they have gotten over their inhibitions. While it may take some getting used to by the husband, I think the change in their wives attitude to sex may make it very worthwhile in the long run.
So do you and your husband go to swing clubs?
How is he doing as far as coping with other men f**king you?
Does he eat your cream pie after other men have f**ked you?
Does he get to f**k other women, or do you deny him that?
Do tell...

Since: Oct 09

Location hidden

#12 Nov 25, 2009
Curious wrote:
<quoted text>
So do you and your husband go to swing clubs?
How is he doing as far as coping with other men f**king you?
Does he eat your cream pie after other men have f**ked you?
Does he get to f**k other women, or do you deny him that?
Do tell...
To my surprise and his, I think. He really loves to see me with another man and get sloppy seconds. Actually he asked me if he could do the creampie thing and he is obviously very excited while doing it. The first time I was on my back but now he prefers me to straddle his face and let it all drain out into his eager mouth. He is definitly free to do another woman and we have discussed him bringing one home and letting me watch him. we have not done it yet but I think we will. I never imagined getting into this sort of thing but it is just so hot that once you get started it is difficult to stop. Yes, I know AI am going to hell but I am going to go with a smile.
AOL

AOL

#13 Nov 25, 2009
LessonLerned wrote:
My wife and I talked about this off and on for years in the bedroom. She then wanted one day to go to swingers club. Like 'A husbend' she told me she just wanted to check it out and if something happened it would happen. No intercourse at most oral.
I did some research and went to club to see how it was. We were nervous but excited to try the next level. To make a long story short, my wife did more than just oral. She ended up letting loose and had intercourse with four guys - three of them unprotected. While I wasn't pleased about this she couldn't be happier. Since this event about six months ago, she been insatiable and wants to go again. I'm not complaining about the fun I have in the bedroom now but I feel like I've help create a monster.
You've created more than a monster , because now she may do any guy she wants to with or without you there and enjoy it as well .

Since: Nov 09

Port Townsend, WA

#14 Nov 26, 2009
the thought of my girl with other guys is hot. she love black guys, and would look awesome in porn. while i'm in great shape and take care of her great in bed, i think she'd be open to trying the swing thing in the right situation
someone in wales

Reading, UK

#15 Jan 18, 2010
i would love to find a swinging club in south or west Wales. Also my wife likes to see other men and women at home. I love it, I get the best sex in the world after, and for the next month. We've done it for 12 years off and on. But it's hard to find anyone. We're both 30 and she is hot. If there's any advice out there, it would be nice.
Veronica

Yonkers, NY

#16 Jan 18, 2010
It is important that BOTH parts of the couple are ready for this step. Rushing before either party is 100% ready places your relationship at risk. My advise is to move very slowly.
someone in wales

Reading, UK

#19 Jan 19, 2010
if anybody wants to have sex with my wife. Please text me 07859424818. She's 30 and hot. Uk only

Since: Nov 09

Port Townsend, WA

#20 Jan 20, 2010
Frogman wrote:
I watched a news documentary on afternoon TV a few years ago that had on couples into swinging. 13 couples sat in a circle and visited with the host about their experience with swinging. With 2 of the couples it was the female that suggested they try swinging. The other couples it was the men. Of the 11 couples the female was against it at first and some got very angry when the husband suggested they try it. After the couples tried swinging, in most cases it was the female that wanted to keep the party going.
Not surprising. Many women are like that, but they've been so "opressed" to NOT show their sexual side for being labeled a "whore" that the thought alone repulses them. When they feel safe about it and get the green light to go for it, they can very quickly not only adapt, but thoroughly enjoy it. At that point, it's the men that start to feel threatened by the sexual energy and power that the women then have.
chris

Chattanooga, TN

#21 Aug 26, 2010
I constantly get turned on when I think of watching someone else fu%%k my wife. I have asked her if she would try it and she has said no. One time she replied "and let you watch, I don't think so" does this mean subconsiously she would if I didn't watch? any thoughts from anyone who has been in my situation?

Since: Mar 09

Jacksonville, AR

#22 Aug 26, 2010
She might have already let another man f@ck her.
chris wrote:
I constantly get turned on when I think of watching someone else fu%%k my wife. I have asked her if she would try it and she has said no. One time she replied "and let you watch, I don't think so" does this mean subconsiously she would if I didn't watch? any thoughts from anyone who has been in my situation?

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