What's the psychology behind men who ...

What's the psychology behind men who like "golden showers"

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Astoria, NY

#1 Feb 7, 2011
I've been dating someone for a few years now and within the first year that we met he asked me to use a strap-on on him. I thought that was weird but I said ok. That's something he very rarely asks for, but it happens. Then about a year after that he told me he'd really like it if I pee'd on him. I thought that was also really weird, but I said ok. Now he seems to have advanced to the point where he wants the pee in his mouth. He puts the stream right into his mouth (I have no idea if he drank it, and I really DON'T want to know) I try to stay open-minded, but this last thing was too much for me. What exactly is the psychology behind these sexual fantasies? It seems to me that wanting these things stems from feeling inadaquate in some way- or am I wrong about that?
Tom in CA

San Carlos, CA

#2 Feb 7, 2011
There is some sort of hormone in the pee Especiallyt in the first 2 weeks of your cycle

Kent, WA

#3 May 20, 2011
Your bf likes to be dominated. He wants you to take his ass with a strap on, and he wants you to pee on him. Both are submissive actions. I wouldn't worry about it. If his turn ons turn you off, you shouldn't feel bad about that, either. You have a right to your feelings about the type of sexual activity you and he engage in. If it's not working for you, stand up for yourself. But his desires aren't that far beyond the pale. Many men have a desire to submit to their girlfriends, but are too ashamed to admit it. Being submissive is the no. 1 unshared fantasy men harbor.


#4 May 2, 2012
I love being peed on! I enjoy the humiliation of it and the warmth of it. My ex wife loved it too. She enjoyed holding me my while I peed and aiming it where she wanted. We both loved the feel and the kinky aspect of it. We even once had a guy pee on us while we had sex outside on the ground. We loved it!
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