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mem

Redmond, WA

#45 Jun 9, 2010
yeah possible. did you end up bj ing this stripper or just touching his stuff and fondling etc? I think bj would be crossing a line if you and your fiance hadnt talked about it.
mlbsniper1

Hayward, CA

#46 Jul 10, 2010
Did you have intercourse with the strippers? Did you perform oral sex? Did you spread your legs and let them suck your muff? Even if you did anything, so what! Tell him the truth otherwise it might be too painful later. I would love to watch my wife have sex with male strippers, it would be great and erotic. Now don't be so prudish and tell him the truth!
just thinking

United States

#47 Jul 10, 2010
mem wrote:
yeah possible. did you end up bj ing this stripper or just touching his stuff and fondling etc? I think bj would be crossing a line if you and your fiance hadnt talked about it.
somehow I think her fiance would not have given prior approval to her giving the stripper a b.j.
Joe

Windsor, Canada

#48 Jul 12, 2010
And we wonder why the divorse-rate is up so much. Pick someone, have an understanding that if you want to do things with someone else (and actually follow through as this girl did) then you simply break it off and you're free to go. Have some respect...next time he shows how devoted he is to you just think of the how you slapped him in the face by stroking the strippers dong. That should give you a good idea on how to proceed.
just thinking

United States

#49 Jul 13, 2010
The marriage was doomed before it started. That's what happens when you marry a sl*t
moraliste

United States

#51 Sep 2, 2010
This is an interesting question, and the answers are even more interesting than the question. On the one hand you have people so narcissistic and self-absorbed they think if every woman about to get married doesn't have sex ( and yes, it is sex, even if it isn't copulation ) with a gigolo then on the night before they smugly and hypocritically stand in a church and say wedding vows,then the bride to be is some kind of loser or idiot. Bachelorette parties titillate me, I admit that freel. Obviously I wouldn't have visited this site if that was not true. But like a hangover after drinking too much, my feeling about them is sadness. Sadness that this isn't a wild fling or a taboo event,but its considered a normal social ritual. ( I feel the same way about bachelor parties.) Sorry for that answer, but its true.

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#52 Sep 2, 2010
I forget the name of it, but the bachelor/ette parties remind of how a pack mentality takes over and people react in a way they would not if they were alone. One needs to take this into account, if judgement is to be passed (and there is a lot of it in here).
Joan

Bronx, NY

#53 Apr 10, 2011
This does prove that women are just as, and even worse in so many cases, than men are. If you're already in a committed relationship, which is about to go lifetime, why would you need to 'enjoy' someone else? If you think this isn't come crashing down on you, you're in serious denial. The same for your husband if he did the same.
I went to a friend's sister's bachelorette party recently, and these women (doctors, attorneys, etc) ended up giving and getting BJs to/from the strippers. Strange world we live in, where people think that sort of thing is ok. I wonder what our kids will/would think of us....
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Couda Shouda

Jamison, PA

#54 Apr 11, 2011
mlbsniper1 wrote:
Did you have intercourse with the strippers? Did you perform oral sex? Did you spread your legs and let them suck your muff? Even if you did anything, so what! Tell him the truth otherwise it might be too painful later. I would love to watch my wife have sex with male strippers, it would be great and erotic. Now don't be so prudish and tell him the truth!
Tell us your experiences at these parties.
Alice

San Francisco, CA

#55 Apr 21, 2011
It's sad. I feel sorry for him wasting his life with a women of no control.
Jody

Tupelo, MS

#56 Jul 2, 2011
sad u couldnt be honest u sound like a cheating &*&*&*&. if he is the jealus type better for him to find out from u then someone else. grow up
Mike

Gainsborough, UK

#57 Oct 14, 2011
Personally I think you have little choice but to confess and tell him EXACTLY what happened. Then hope for the best. If you are lucky you will get past it.

You cannot live your life in fear. It would destroy the marriage anyway and also any prospect of happiness.

I'm a guy so I will give you a male perspective.
If I found out I'd be absolutely horrified and very upset but whether or not I ended the relationship would depend on exactly what had taken place and also upon your honesty about it. You need to be 100% honest.

Secrets do not lead to happy marriages. Marriage is about sharing, support, trust and forgiveness.

Who would want a dishonest wife who is too spineless to face up to what she has done?
Tired of Idiots

Hilton Head Island, SC

#58 Apr 18, 2012
Look, if you were handling another man's junk in any capacity then you had no right to get married. The fact that you are worried about him finding out shows two thing; He obviously wasn't ok with what you were doing, and he obviously cannot trust you.

Yes you should tell him what you did and accept any consequences that may come of it. You deserved it and if I were him I would ditch you for a more trust worthy woman, because you obviously have or at least had no respect for him and you are a complete embarrassment as a wife and (possibly?) future mother. You should be ashamed.

As for the geniuses here who speak of the no camera rule. I find it completely amazing that you admit to being pieces of **** who are incapable of being trusted to a degree that you refuse to take cameras for the risk of being caught in the act. You all should have your asses kicked, but I figure the loneliness and liver failure in your future will be fitting enough.
Jackie

Dracut, MA

#59 Jul 12, 2012
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
I am on the end of a similar situation, I danced at a friends bachelorette party and things went to far. I have never done this before and now I regret doing it. A few of the girls at the party have been talking about what happened. At one point they blindfolded me and removed my g-strings and someone at the party jerked me off!

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#60 Jul 12, 2012
Fact! I know.
just thinking wrote:
The marriage was doomed before it started. That's what happens when you marry a sl*t

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#61 Jul 12, 2012
I was at a bachelorette party for one of my sisters once. They also hired a stripper. He went around to all the ladies (about 10 of us) and enticed us. Some of us sucked his cock a bit. There was a girl there I had never met. Very tall and petite. Flat chested (which is just fine considering I love ALL sizes of breasts!). She sucked the stripper until he came in her mouth. She unfortunately spit it into a glass and set the glass on a small side table where it sat the rest of the night. What a waste of a good load! She could have swallowed or atleast let him cum into her drink and sipped on it the rest of the night! lol! It was sexy as hell to watch though!
dancingbear

Sacramento, CA

#62 Jan 17, 2013
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
do you still have the pictures? can you send some to me?

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