ttown

United States

#25 Sep 19, 2008
you never really got specific with us. was there oral sex going on? were you part of it?
Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#26 Sep 20, 2008
I think I found my new part time job .... where do I apply?
rag1965

AOL

#27 Oct 22, 2008
You would be out the door-quick
in fun or not my g/f plays with another mans c-ck-I would consider her a slut with slutty friens-later

Since: Sep 08

Saint Louis, MO

#28 Oct 22, 2008
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
Ha. Honey, don't sweat it. You don't even want to know what he was probably doing on the Bachelor Party.
wise guy

Baltimore, MD

#29 Jun 22, 2009
yeah its bad when people cant be open with each other in a relationship, but really.. Its kinda bad when you jerk off another dude the day before your wedding. Its one thing to have him shaking his dick in your face (i mean its his job)but, the whole jerking thing.. I'd be kinda pissed about that
The Bionic One

Wichita, KS

#30 Jul 15, 2009
Well if anyone wants to know what goes on at bachelorette parties all one needs to do is google "bachelorette party" under the video tab and be sure and turn off your safe search filter.

I think it is safe to say that there was more than "just playing" going on here. Something tells me there was alot of oral action happening, especially since she will not address exactly what happened.
panTsniffr

United States

#31 Jul 18, 2009
tell him! he should be happy you didnt give the freakin stripper a full on 10minute head job like i found out my drunk girlfriend did at her best friends bachelorette party, everyone told me all about it and how baad it was AFTER we broke up 2years later!)-:
honestly he shouldnt get mad over some playful touching especially if everyone was doing it, i mean thats what happens at bachelorette parties (unless my ex is there) lol
William

Lehigh Acres, FL

#32 Jul 18, 2009
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
Don't tell him. He'll have that mental picture forever and probably exaggerate it in his mind. It's possible he has never done anything like that but if he has and tells you about it that would be different.
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William

Lehigh Acres, FL

#33 Jul 18, 2009
What a great job to be a stripper!!
charles barkley

United States

#34 Jul 18, 2009
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
TELL HIM WHAT HAPPENED AND THEN HAND HIM A PADDLE AND THEN SAY U R SORRY........BUT U DESERVE WHATEVER HE GIVES U WITH THE PADDLE........then all will be forgiven but u wont like sitting down.....
bingo bango

Italy

#35 Sep 9, 2009
i've a good idea for you.
send me your photos and i'll judge them...:D
MnM

Butler, OH

#36 Sep 9, 2009
WTF
why bother with the pretense of marriage?
just get all your girlfriends together,
have your hubby be the stripper,
then you all can give him HJs and BJs,
and have hime penetrate you all

Since: Jul 08

Alexandria, VA

#37 Sep 9, 2009
its NOT about being "open" with your sig other ... ITS ABOUT REPSECT.

and she has none. for herself OR her fiance.

the rule for my bachelor party was NO WOMEN. Cant a group of friends jsut get together and celebrate WITHOUT having all that crap going on??

how about a weekend camping trip??...or a golf outing for the guys ??.. or a fishing trip??

Girls go to the beach for the weekend ..

it doesnt have to be that way.

I have been at my share of "parties" and left one or two and stayed sober at some others just to keep the proposed groom from doing things he ought not be doing .... and was thanked the next day.
toriano

San Bernardino, CA

#38 Dec 3, 2009
don t tell him sh**t he probably did the same sh**t on his
Jimmy

San Antonio, TX

#39 Apr 10, 2010
Exactly, just said robiam said, it is about RESPECT which she obviously has none. And justifying your actions by saying 'who knows what he did' is a far reach. You don't know what he did or if he did anything at all, so don't even use that BS excuse.

I really don't know what the hell is wrong with women sometimes at bachlorette parties, they seem to be FAR more wild than men at bachelor parties. And keep in mind, when you are in a relationship and engaged to be married...you are not "single" and it is not OK to do things like this.

And let say one more thing...men going to a strip club getting stage dances and lap dances where you cannot TOUCH and are rarely/barely touched and its topless is a hell of a long way from a fully naked man throwing his cock around in your face and you playing with it or his balls, giving a hand job, blowing him, etc...that is so far beyond any boundaries...just wow. What would make someone think something like that is ok??
Jacob

Hempstead, NY

#40 Jun 9, 2010
No cell phone allowed in these things. I have a few wild parties, and everyone has to turn the cell phone away at the door. We keep them safe and you'll get it at the end. No exception, or you go back home.
marla

Plainsboro, NJ

#41 Jun 9, 2010
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
what did he do at his bachelor party?

“Gravity is a drag!”

Since: Jun 09

Washington, DC

#42 Jun 9, 2010
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
If he has a problem with it tell him to grow up.
mem

Redmond, WA

#43 Jun 9, 2010
i think we make a huge deal about these bachelor and bachelorette parties. I think its totally fine to fool around in these parties. After all, the relationship should be based on trust and not on forceful rules. I have been in relationships where I felt so controlled that even if I look at a girl, my gf would make a huge deal out of it and such relationships never went far as one or both of us ended up cheating. On the otherhand, the relationships that were solid including the one with my wife were when we let each other go nad do whatever they wanted (even if it wasnt for real, atleast we projected an environment where it was ok). I should thank my wife for that. She always says "you go have fun with the boys. have fun in the strip clubs". I never crossed the line. Did I get a few lap dances, yes. But thats it. I let my wife do it as well. She never had a bachelorette party and so I actually got one of her friends arrange it and I asked her to have all the fun. Touching the guy's unit was ok. She had so much fun it only ended up strengthening our relationship more.

I'd say dont make a big deal out of it. i am sure he had his fun at his bachelor party. Its hard not to. Lets be practical. How can you expect a guy not to get turned on when a hot girl is up on his lap and face? Same way, how can you expect a girl not to get turned on when there is a hot dude dangling his huge thing up on her face? Just grow up guys and gals!

Since: Jun 10

Location hidden

#44 Jun 9, 2010
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
what do you think he did at his party i bet he went a lot further than you. Dont worry

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