My wild bachelorette party.

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sylvia

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Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?

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May 5, 2008
 
I think that's sad that you couldn't tell him about it.

My wife and I love to share stories of our pasts.

Obviously, it was fun, wasn't it?

Any chance of letting him have similar fun?

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May 5, 2008
 
well, how much do you trust him and his reaction? how open are the two of you about your respective sexualities? i'm a big fan of honesty, so i say come clean. but that doesn't always work in everyone's favor. if you didn't have any kind of sex with the guys, there shouldn't be too big a deal. if he's secure in your relationship. if he's the insecure type, however, there could be problems. but in all honesty, what are the chances of him finding out later, if you hide it? things would only be worse after time, i think.
though i could be completely wrong. that's happened at least once.
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sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
I'm curious as to what you mean by "We had to play with them." Why did you "had to"?

That said, I have been to bachelor parties where the stripper has hand-cuffed the groom, pantsed him, and gotten him hard by rubbing herself on him. Maybe I think too much, but I always found that disturbing. This pracice always felt way too "rape-ish" for me to approve of.

Does something similar go on at bachelorette parties? Or by "had to" were you just referring to peer presure?
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He does not have to know... keep to yourself... Good Memories... Relax

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May 6, 2008
 
Like your friends are going to destroy theirs.... LOL

They are probably already uploaded on the internet somewhere or several places.....

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May 6, 2008
 
what does he think goes on at bachlorette parties? Sipping daiqueries and talking about the cute new boy in homeroom. If he is a grown man ,who didn't grow up in a Catholic boarding school, he should have had an idea about what might go on at your party. I agree with Divnity, some of your friends may destroy them, but trust me, all of them won't. The pics will resurface.

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May 6, 2008
 
Semper Fi wrote:
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I'm curious as to what you mean by "We had to play with them." Why did you "had to"?... Or by "had to" were you just referring to peer presure?
I want to know that, too. Who said you "had to"?

That being said, if you don't know enough about your betrothed to know what his reaction will be to learing of the information, then maybe you don't know him well enough. If you had known him well enough, you would have known prior to the party whether he would have been cool with your participating in the hijinks or whether you should have just looked on, but not touched.
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sylvia

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May 6, 2008
 
Thanks for the comments and support. I know him well but sometimes just looking at the pictures you may have a different opinion of what happened. Now days everyone have a digital cam and if you ever been at one of this parties, the girls wait for the moment to take a pic. When you are around a group of girl cheering and stimulating, you tend to go with them. I know that was my fault. Really dont know if is a good idea to tell him what happen...

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May 6, 2008
 
That is exactly why I have a strict no camera or any other recording device policy for bachelor parties or even guys night out...

Any guy that pulls out a camera or phone to take a pic, gets punched square in the mouth by the closest one available right where he stands.....

It's stated before we go and everyone is aware and agrees to it.

A few pics while eating before the festivities is fine. But once the festivities begin, all cameras must be put away.
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Congrats to your hubby, I am sure he is getting a gem!:) He deserve to get the left overs of the party for getting married, only a fool marries this days. Enjoy

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May 7, 2008
 
Divnity wrote:
That is exactly why I have a strict no camera or any other recording device policy for bachelor parties or even guys night out...
Any guy that pulls out a camera or phone to take a pic, gets punched square in the mouth by the closest one available right where he stands.....
It's stated before we go and everyone is aware and agrees to it.
A few pics while eating before the festivities is fine. But once the festivities begin, all cameras must be put away.
Good rule. Smart.
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May 7, 2008
 
Hmmm...

You still haven't told us what actually happened that night...

You shy?

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May 7, 2008
 
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
AND you SAY you're from Redondo Beach??????????

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May 8, 2008
 
After you come clean with hubby and have a clear conscious again, then come back here and post the pics!!! LOL
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TO THINK THAT SOMEONE HAS TO HAVE A CAMERA TO TAKE A PICTURE IS VERY FOOLISH!LOOK UP YOUR LOCAL SPY SHOP AND YOU WILL SEE DEVICES THAT CAN RECORD A BACHELORETTE PARTY FROM A CLOCK ON THE WALL,A PEN,BUT THE POINT IS YOU CAN NOT HIDE WHAT YOU DO OUTSIDE YOUR HOME.SO HAVE THIS POLICY,DO NOT DO ANYTHING OUTSIDE THAT YOU DO NOT WANT THE WHOLE WORLD TO WATCH!AND TO THE BRIDE TO BE,NO MAN WILL BE HAPPY WITH ANOTHER MAN TOUCHING YOU SEXUALLY IN ANY WAY!
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There is nothing you can do about the pictures the other girls took. However, the pictures you have can easily be destroyed. The question is how willing are you to destroy them? If you truly love your bf/husband and are completely and entirely satisfied with your relationship with him, then the pictures should be of no importance to you and it shouldn't even cross your mind as to whether you want to keep them or not. Secondly, if you have a good relationship with your husband and if he finds out anything else about the party (via pics your friends have) then he probably shouldn't be too upset about them, especially if you tell him about it up front (meaning BEFORE he hears it from another source).

As for what you were doing at the part; if you were just feeling these guys up, grabbing their c@cks and maybe jerking on em here or there, that's probably not that big of a deal. On the other hand, if you were licking or sucking on em and giving them bj's left and right and possibly even were f@cking them, well, that's another story. If you were dong this much with them, then I'd have to say that there is and has been something wrong with your relationship from the start and perhaps any negative consequences that come out of this may be the right thing for both of you because the relationship you have probably shouldn't have gone as far as it has.....but that's for you to think about I guess.
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Sep 18, 2008
 
It is a really BAD SIGN when 2 married people can't be open and honest about their sexual thoughts or activities.

If you can't be honest about some minor things at a party, than I can only imagine the trouble you might be into in the future.

The "had to play with them" part sounds like hand jobs or oral sex.

If you 2 are not the honest types, than I guess you say nothing, hide, and hope your friends don't rat you out in the future.

If you are honest, than you tell him. Hopefully you have a husband that can handle openness about sex and appreciates honesty without trying to bash you over the head for it.

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You could always take him to a topless club and divulge the big secret while he's getting a lap dance...that you generously paid for.
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Sep 18, 2008
 
sylvia wrote:
Few weeks ago my friends had a bachelorette party for me. They hired two strippers that dance and played lots of games with us. At one point the strippers took their thongs and dance completely naked for us... We had to play with them and many of my friends took lots of pictures showing their hard ons and us touching and playing with them. Now im afraid that my husband will ever find out about the pictures. What should i do? destroyed the pics and ask my friends to do the same or I just worring to much? Help me ?
Keep the pictures! Just tell him and if he is man enough he will let it be.

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