Dave

United States

#1 Aug 30, 2012
Any ladies out there have this problem or had this problem? Don't be shy. My wife is going through this. Really hasn't helped out marriage.:( Because of it, she has almost no sex drive. Very depressing. Looking for tips, comments, anything.

Since: May 12

Harrow, UK

#2 Aug 30, 2012
Aww, sorry to hear this. I have vaginismus too and if your wife hasn;t been to see a gyno or a sex specialist she needs to talk to them immediately.

I use vaginal-dilators to try and get used to objects inside me, but it is very slow going and still hurts a lot. Every now and again, I seize up and it's back to Square 1.

It is very frustrating because I want to have sex that way and I know my bf does too. But we have to make do by doing 'other stuff' in bed instead.

Just be patient and understanding with her, talk to doctor, and use dilators regularly. Good luck, hun...
Dave

Euless, TX

#4 Sep 1, 2012
racetrack wrote:
Aww, sorry to hear this. I have vaginismus too and if your wife hasn;t been to see a gyno or a sex specialist she needs to talk to them immediately.
I use vaginal-dilators to try and get used to objects inside me, but it is very slow going and still hurts a lot. Every now and again, I seize up and it's back to Square 1.
It is very frustrating because I want to have sex that way and I know my bf does too. But we have to make do by doing 'other stuff' in bed instead.
Just be patient and understanding with her, talk to doctor, and use dilators regularly. Good luck, hun...
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