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Feb 22, 2009
 

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Me and my girlfriend has sex for the first time last week. In all of the anticipation, both of us didn't consider birth control. I was content to wait another day, but she "persuaded" me to pull out. I'm a little inexperienced in pulling out because my wife was on birth control for 15 years, except when decided to have a child.... I never had to pull out. While I'm almost positive I pulled out before I shot the main load, I am scared to death that I may not have.

What is the likelihood of my GF becoming pregnant? She was just off her period a day or so... I have no idea when her ovulation cycle is.

Damn, I'm worried.

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Jaspe Loco wrote:
Me and my girlfriend has sex for the first time last week. In all of the anticipation, both of us didn't consider birth control. I was content to wait another day, but she "persuaded" me to pull out. I'm a little inexperienced in pulling out because my wife was on birth control for 15 years, except when decided to have a child.... I never had to pull out. While I'm almost positive I pulled out before I shot the main load, I am scared to death that I may not have.
What is the likelihood of my GF becoming pregnant? She was just off her period a day or so... I have no idea when her ovulation cycle is.
Damn, I'm worried.
If I were you, I'd consider a vasectomy! Failure rates for the withdrawal method are over 25%! There are sperm present in the pre-cum even before you fully ejaculate. Even condoms have a 15% failure rate. A woman who would engage in such risky unprotected sex sounds like she actually wants to get pregnant by you. Think about it.

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Feb 22, 2009
 
Don't mean to be alarmist, but have you thought of STDs too?

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Feb 23, 2009
 
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Don't mean to be alarmist, but have you thought of STDs too?
I guess STDs are a always are a risks, but she's only had one other partner in the last 9 years. I've only had 3.
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Feb 23, 2009
 
Mate,
If you don't want to get her preganant then you need to use a more reliable option.!!

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Feb 23, 2009
 
la la la lola wrote:
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If I were you, I'd consider a vasectomy! Failure rates for the withdrawal method are over 25%! There are sperm present in the pre-cum even before you fully ejaculate. Even condoms have a 15% failure rate. A woman who would engage in such risky unprotected sex sounds like she actually wants to get pregnant by you. Think about it.
The more I think about this, the more I'm inclined to agree. We've been seeing each othe for 2 1/2 years and we're both married. Please don't judge because you don't know the circumstances. This was really stupid on my part.
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Feb 23, 2009
 
I used the pull out method with my ex-girlfriend and it doesn't work, she got pregnant. It wasn't even last moment pull out, I pulled out at least 10 second before I came.

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Jaspe Loco wrote:
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The more I think about this, the more I'm inclined to agree. We've been seeing each othe for 2 1/2 years and we're both married. Please don't judge because you don't know the circumstances. This was really stupid on my part.
Oh my goodness - NO!!! I don't judge at all. I have fetishes and sexual perversions many could judge, and I never judge anyone for having consentual sex. I'm just a former uro nurse who assisted on hundreds of vasectomies. I want people to have the freedom to have really great sex because they have a reliable method of birth control. If she is not going to protect you both from an unwanted pregnancy, then you need to take the active role. You were not the only stupid one, as you said. A woman needs to be responsible for birth control just like a man does. I know the heat of the moment and passion can make people do things; that's why birth control needs to be planned before we get to that point with each other.
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Jaspe Loco wrote:
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I guess STDs are a always are a risks, but she's only had one other partner in the last 9 years. I've only had 3.
Yeah, she's been with one guy...so she says. Even still, what if that ONE guy was with 30 other partners? Do you know anything about him? If he planted anything in her, you've slept with it too now.
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when we were teens, my gf and i used the pullout method when we had run out of condoms. i never failed to pull out, i just didnt pull out in time sometimes. our 16 year old daughter is proof. we got married and everything worked out, but you are married and messing around with a married woman. you all are crazy to use pulling out. dont forget about precum too

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