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ana_a

Spokane, WA

#1 Dec 13, 2011
Do any girls have sisters they compared chest size with? I always wished I had a sister or girlfriend to show me how masturbation works.

Does having a sister help with growing up?

“Love me because I deserve it”

Since: Aug 09

Arlington, VA

#2 Dec 13, 2011
It doesn't hurt lol

You can ask your sister anything, stuff you would never dare tell anybody else. If you have a really best friend it works pretty much the same way with them.
ana_a

Spokane, WA

#3 Dec 13, 2011
Yes,
unfortunately, I am the oldest in my family and they are not very open with talking about sex and stuff like that. My friends are the same way.

Most of what I learn is from the internet, but having someone to talk to helps. I just want to know if I'm normal or weird.

“Love me because I deserve it”

Since: Aug 09

Arlington, VA

#6 Dec 13, 2011
If you are aroused by other girls in general there will always be the possibility that being nude around your sister will make you feel sexually attracted to her in one way or another. But this is still by no means a certainty.

Since: May 11

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#7 Dec 13, 2011
ana_a wrote:
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Thanks for the links.
I have been to solo touch before and it is a little helpful, but there is still the question in my mind if girls can just be nude together without it being arousing. More curious what other girls have experienced with regards to same sex interaction. Most people just respond that your a lesbian and leave it at that. Not very helpful.
Thanks for the support :)
U are so welcome. Did you try lesbian lolita ?
i would say its hard to be naked with others whether they are
female or male. In a general sort of way to be in nude with others
is hard to not become aroused in same sex interactionit is simarlar between female and male we are all human and as
such have some of tthe same reactions. to heck withwhat others say
who cares about if you are bi or lesbian if you would like i would really like to help if i may try to help in understanding of who you are i do not ask for emails or pixs anna you can leave a message here at topix in the in-box
MonteW
ana_a

Pullman, WA

#8 Dec 13, 2011
sumai wrote:
If you are aroused by other girls in general there will always be the possibility that being nude around your sister will make you feel sexually attracted to her in one way or another. But this is still by no means a certainty.
I'm not aroused so much as I am curious, but what little I find on girls being nude together either results in sex, or its pornographic, neither of which answers my questions. I know people are different, so I am asking if other girls have sisters or close friends who have been naked with each other and what they felt?
ana_a

Pullman, WA

#9 Dec 13, 2011
MonteWishes wrote:
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U are so welcome. Did you try lesbian lolita ?
i would say its hard to be naked with others whether they are
female or male. In a general sort of way to be in nude with others
is hard to not become aroused in same sex interactionit is simarlar between female and male we are all human and as
such have some of tthe same reactions. to heck withwhat others say
who cares about if you are bi or lesbian if you would like i would really like to help if i may try to help in understanding of who you are i do not ask for emails or pixs anna you can leave a message here at topix in the in-box
MonteW
I have not tried lesbian lolita yet.
I would agree that being naked with others is difficult, and that is part of my hesitance. I do not think I could just go up to a girl friend and ask such questions.

I appreciate your support, again, and the ability to chat about this, explore my own sexuality and why things make me feel the way I feel. And thank you for not asking for pics. That makes me feel a lot more at ease.

Since: May 11

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#10 Dec 13, 2011
ana_a wrote:
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I have not tried lesbian lolita yet.
I would agree that being naked with others is difficult, and that is part of my hesitance. I do not think I could just go up to a girl friend and ask such questions.
I appreciate your support, again, and the ability to chat about this, explore my own sexuality and why things make me feel the way I feel. And thank you for not asking for pics. That makes me feel a lot more at ease.
anna just saw your reply i would never recommend that to any one in the same or similar situation to just ask like that I do hear your thinking and words
not knowing where and how you feel about what you are going thru is tough you must lean to be comfortable with who you are and your desires. once you start finding the right path never let others put you down live your life for you not any one else
even family and friends most people are negative they are not happy unless they can be crass and crude and pull you down
anaa some people walk to a diffent drum beat if you are like that
there is no harm it is your life live it the way you choose
a friend
MonteW
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#11 Dec 14, 2011
anaa R U around today ?

MonteW
achyfi

Arlington, MA

#12 Dec 14, 2011
ana, I'm not a girl, but I can tell you that it's different for each girl. Some girls have no trouble being naked around each other comfortably; others are private and embarrassed to be, while still others find it arousing. It doesn't make you a lesbian simply because you get a little aroused by being naked in front of other girls or seeing them naked.

Same thing with sisters. Some sisters are comfortable being naked in front of each other, comparing breast size, or discussing masturbation, while others would be uncomfortable. Either way, it's perfectly normal and so are you.
Tyler

UK

#13 Dec 14, 2011
hey ana babe i could be your boy sis
ana_a

Post Falls, ID

#14 Dec 14, 2011
MonteWishes wrote:
<quoted text> anna just saw your reply i would never recommend that to any one in the same or similar situation to just ask like that I do hear your thinking and words
not knowing where and how you feel about what you are going thru is tough you must lean to be comfortable with who you are and your desires. once you start finding the right path never let others put you down live your life for you not any one else
even family and friends most people are negative they are not happy unless they can be crass and crude and pull you down
anaa some people walk to a diffent drum beat if you are like that
there is no harm it is your life live it the way you choose
a friend
MonteW
Well, part of my struggle is not just finding the path, but understanding it. I am a deep thinker when it comes to things like this, so I analyze, contemplate and try and figure out not just what I feel, but why I feel it. I have a hard time just blindly following my instincts.

So, I ask questions because I want to know what other people's experiences have been, how they have reacted and what they figured out.

To follow your analogy, my drum beat may be different, but I still would like to see other drummers and how they have decided on their beat. Loose analogy, but I think it fits :)

And I still have not checked out lesbian lolita, but if it is anything like solo touch, it still frustrates me because those stories oriented around masturbation and/or sexual experiences. That is part of what I am trying to figure out, but also trying to see other girls reaction to just being nude. I'm not looking for a sex experience as mcuh as a honest discussion of sexuality.

Since: May 11

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#15 Dec 14, 2011
ana_a wrote:
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Well, part of my struggle is not just finding the path, but understanding it. I am a deep thinker when it comes to things like this, so I analyze, contemplate and try and figure out not just what I feel, but why I feel it. I have a hard time just blindly following my instincts.
So, I ask questions because I want to know what other people's experiences have been, how they have reacted and what they figured out.
To follow your analogy, my drum beat may be different, but I still would like to see other drummers and how they have decided on their beat. Loose analogy, but I think it fits :)
And I still have not checked out lesbian lolita, but if it is anything like solo touch, it still frustrates me because those stories oriented around masturbation and/or sexual experiences. That is part of what I am trying to figure out, but also trying to see other girls reaction to just being nude. I'm not looking for a sex experience as mcuh as a honest discussion of sexuality.
anaa i will be out for several hrs. I love a person who thinks things out the way you do. i read all of your reply and enjoy the way U sort of look at things ! i know you are patient and look forward to hearing that brain tick N think. see ya latter

MonteW
ana_a

Post Falls, ID

#16 Dec 14, 2011
achyfi wrote:
ana, I'm not a girl, but I can tell you that it's different for each girl. Some girls have no trouble being naked around each other comfortably; others are private and embarrassed to be, while still others find it arousing. It doesn't make you a lesbian simply because you get a little aroused by being naked in front of other girls or seeing them naked.
Same thing with sisters. Some sisters are comfortable being naked in front of each other, comparing breast size, or discussing masturbation, while others would be uncomfortable. Either way, it's perfectly normal and so are you.
Well, it's nice to be described as normal for once ;)
Well, in my family, sex was not taboo so much as it just not talked about. When I accidentally walked in to give my sister something in the bathroom, she freaked out at the invasion of privacy. I barely came in to the door before she closed it. There is a 5 year difference between her and I so I not even thought about it, but it bothered her. So, there was that wall of personal privacy built and maintainted.
As I grew up, my curiosity about sex, as mentioned before, was satisfied more through forays on the internet, but I do recall one particular experience which I believe colored my sexual opinion and growth. A friend of mine showed me porn for the first time at 16 (approximately. I don't recall my age for sure) and among the pics were lesbian activity. I did not think much of it then, but now that I am a little older and thinking more about my sexuality, I think I came to expect such behavior as "normal." Now, I think of women in far more of a sexual context, and wonder about seeing other girls nude.
Like you said, everyone is different, but I cannot help but feel that I would have turned out differently, and had different feelings, if I had not seen those pics.
TechnoCarwash

United States

#17 Dec 14, 2011
Hey ana, I don't know if you're interested in guys or not, but I'm 20 and live in Rathdrum, ID. My email is technocarwash@yahoo.com if you'd like to chat.

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#18 Dec 14, 2011
ana_a wrote:
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Well, it's nice to be described as normal for once ;)
Well, in my family, sex was not taboo so much as it just not talked about. When I accidentally walked in to give my sister something in the bathroom, she freaked out at the invasion of privacy. I barely came in to the door before she closed it. There is a 5 year difference between her and I so I not even thought about it, but it bothered her. So, there was that wall of personal privacy built and maintainted.
As I grew up, my curiosity about sex, as mentioned before, was satisfied more through forays on the internet, but I do recall one particular experience which I believe colored my sexual opinion and growth. A friend of mine showed me porn for the first time at 16 (approximately. I don't recall my age for sure) and among the pics were lesbian activity. I did not think much of it then, but now that I am a little older and thinking more about my sexuality, I think I came to expect such behavior as "normal." Now, I think of women in far more of a sexual context, and wonder about seeing other girls nude.
Like you said, everyone is different, but I cannot help but feel that I would have turned out differently, and had different feelings, if I had not seen those pics.
hey anaa just got back. very interesting and very insightful
post. it gives a lot of helpful info. i do not feel that if you had not seen those pictures of nude girls you would still be the
same. the way society puts labels on everyone and says this a " normal and the rest is not " is absurd. They want to hang that yoke of guilt around your neck like a anchor. i have been there.
you have to learn to build a mental file in your head and forget what others say and think. if not you will a miseriable life trying
to please others
a friend MonteW
ana_a

Post Falls, ID

#19 Dec 14, 2011
MonteWishes wrote:
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hey anaa just got back. very interesting and very insightful
post. it gives a lot of helpful info. i do not feel that if you had not seen those pictures of nude girls you would still be the
same. the way society puts labels on everyone and says this a " normal and the rest is not " is absurd. They want to hang that yoke of guilt around your neck like a anchor. i have been there.
you have to learn to build a mental file in your head and forget what others say and think. if not you will a miseriable life trying
to please others
a friend MonteW
Thanks again.
I looked at lesbian lolita and I just do not see how it works for me. Sorry, I appreciate the link, but the whole basis of that site is more sex stories that made me feel more uncomfortable than anything else. Sorry, there is a wide range of pedophilla, and teacher-student stories. Very few feel applicable to me though it does illustrate to me how varied people's sexual experiences are.
But, all it shows ME is that once girls get naked together it becomes a free for all. In my opinion, these stories are either written by males with a perchance for girl on girl action, who people out there have much more sexual experience than I.
Like I said before, I have seen a variety of lesbian porn, and tried to sift through it to make sense of myself. I feel that I have come away from that with more of skewed perspective than being helped.

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#20 Dec 14, 2011
ana_a wrote:
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Thanks again.
I looked at lesbian lolita and I just do not see how it works for me. Sorry, I appreciate the link, but the whole basis of that site is more sex stories that made me feel more uncomfortable than anything else. Sorry, there is a wide range of pedophilla, and teacher-student stories. Very few feel applicable to me though it does illustrate to me how varied people's sexual experiences are.
But, all it shows ME is that once girls get naked together it becomes a free for all. In my opinion, these stories are either written by males with a perchance for girl on girl action, who people out there have much more sexual experience than I.
Like I said before, I have seen a variety of lesbian porn, and tried to sift through it to make sense of myself. I feel that I have come away from that with more of skewed perspective than being helped.
i feel like i have failed to try N help U If you find yorself attracted to other girls you are normal. U may be bi but i would like to see and hear how this goes for U

MonteW
ana_a

Post Falls, ID

#21 Dec 14, 2011
MonteWishes wrote:
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i feel like i have failed to try N help U If you find yorself attracted to other girls you are normal. U may be bi but i would like to see and hear how this goes for U
MonteW
Don't worry about-please. I hate making people feel bad especially when they are trying to be so helpful.
Like I said, I am not really looking for a sex experience with another woman so much as just an opportunity to discuss with other girls and maybe see them nude or something like that.
I don't know if that makes much sense. Any time I google "girls comparing" it just gives me list of porn. I feel like the only person who is thinking this way

Since: May 11

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#22 Dec 14, 2011
ana_a wrote:
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Don't worry about-please. I hate making people feel bad especially when they are trying to be so helpful.
Like I said, I am not really looking for a sex experience with another woman so much as just an opportunity to discuss with other girls and maybe see them nude or something like that.
I don't know if that makes much sense. Any time I google "girls comparing" it just gives me list of porn. I feel like the only person who is thinking this way
anaa you do not make me feel bad. i am past that
i just tried on google a liitle different wording in searching
Try this on google " women who question their sexuality "
see if that may help you
i am here
MonteW

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