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Cousins make dozens

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<quoted text>I think you should talk to her about how what happened in the past is in the past and you have moved on with your life and you dont want to continue the relationship in a sexual way. If she doesnt react well to that, just eliminate her from your life, so you can eliminate the problem.
Man, why the hell are you ALWAYS butting into these discussions like this. Hell, in this case, you're basically telling him to disown his cousin if she still feels something for him. Why kind of caring and compassionate guy are you??? Don't you have some guy to go fuck?
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Man, why the hell are you ALWAYS butting into these discussions like this. Hell, in this case, you're basically telling him to disown his cousin if she still feels something for him. Why kind of caring and compassionate guy are you??? Don't you have some guy to go fuck?
Why? Because he asked for an opinion. Secondly, I am telling him to do what he NEEDS TO DO to keep is life under control, because his cousin is clearly not in control, and is RUINING HIS LIFE. His life and his happiness should be his #1 priority, and if his cousin continues to press about a sexual relationship when he does not want one and has made it be known he doesn't want one, then he needs to distance himself from her so she wont continue to be an issue for him. Compassionate? Well, should you be compassionate to someone who does not care about your feelings? No.

Lastly, why are you so affected by my posts? You are so affected and defensive, by me just giving an opinion. Then you wonder why I call you insecure? Digging up and old thread and an old response to attack me is INSECURE.

P.S. Cute how you bring up my sex life. Like I said, if you are so straight, why bring up my/im general homosexuality so much? Yeah.

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<quoted text>Why? Because he asked for an opinion. Secondly, I am telling him to do what he NEEDS TO DO to keep is life under control, because his cousin is clearly not in control, and is RUINING HIS LIFE. His life and his happiness should be his #1 priority, and if his cousin continues to press about a sexual relationship when he does not want one and has made it be known he doesn't want one, then he needs to distance himself from her so she wont continue to be an issue for him. Compassionate? Well, should you be compassionate to someone who does not care about your feelings? No.
Reread his first post, you dope....that is NOT what he is saying. He says that when she comes around again, he [still] has a "weird" feeling for her, EVEN THOUGH he has another g/f. There's nothing in there about her "ruining" his life.

If anything, he is confused. He's asking what he should do with his cousin of whom he's had sexual relations with before while still having a regular g/f. Because of YOU'RE bias against incest, you automatically assume that she is "ruining" his life.
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Reread his first post, you dope....that is NOT what he is saying. He says that when she comes around again, he [still] has a "weird" feeling for her, EVEN THOUGH he has another g/f. There's nothing in there about her "ruining" his life.
If anything, he is confused. He's asking what he should do with his cousin of whom he's had sexual relations with before while still having a regular g/f. Because of YOU'RE bias against incest, you automatically assume that she is "ruining" his life.
If he has a GF, and he is not comfortable with the situation or around her when she is being sexual around him, HE SHOULD TELL HER. Then, if she CONTINUES to act in that manner even though he has told her he does not want to make the relationship sexual, HE SHOULD DISTANCE HIMSELF FROM HER so he does not continue to feel awkward. It's that simple. And "ruining his life", well, when he is with someone and now you have another girl who is family in the picture you are not into and it becomes an issue in your life and uncomfortable, that is damaging your life's happiness. You really are stretching, you are a VERY defensive and insecure person. I'm not even THINKING from an incest perspective, only from a do what is best for you perspective. You really need to take a chill pill and not have this front on all the time and being so defensive about everything.

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<quoted text>If he has a GF, and he is not comfortable with the situation or around her when she is being sexual around him, HE SHOULD TELL HER. Then, if she CONTINUES to act in that manner even though he has told her he does not want to make the relationship sexual, HE SHOULD DISTANCE HIMSELF FROM HER so he does not continue to feel awkward. It's that simple. And "ruining his life", well, when he is with someone and now you have another girl who is family in the picture you are not into and it becomes an issue in your life and uncomfortable, that is damaging your life's happiness. You really are stretching, you are a VERY defensive and insecure person. I'm not even THINKING from an incest perspective, only from a do what is best for you perspective. You really need to take a chill pill and not have this front on all the time and being so defensive about everything.
I think judging from the three "judgements" on our respective posts here, I believe I won this arguement.

I'm not insecure...it is you who is insecure, as you're constantly trying to convince us that homosexuality is not harmful and not a sin, when many religious faiths clearly claim it it, while incest isn't because for those who take the Adam & Eve story seriously, we're all products of incestuous breeding. If God had created two men (or two women for that matter) in the beginning of time, I'm pretty sure, we'd been fucked as a species. No pun intended. God knew what he was doing...apparently you're still confused.

And I still stand by my statment that you clearly misread the OP's original post, because you read your own bias into it. And that is your constant drubbing that incest is "harmful". How can the love between two people (of the opposite sex) be harmful? Especially if it is totally consensual and between adults.

Hey, I agree that serious incestual relations between pre-teens and even early teens is "dangerous" (not "harmful" as you say), as they are just too young to understand the consequences of their actions, especially if it is forced upon the other. HOWEVER, between two adult siblings, who have either had Genetic Sexual Attraction due to being apart for years due to separation, etc. or just grew very close with one another due to bad experiences with other relationships or whatever the case, I don't see what's so wrong about an adult brother and sister hooking up in their middle-aged years...or even as early as mid-20s for that matter.

As for reproducing...have you heard about the reproductive cycle? And that you can very accurately predict when the female ovulates? All they have to do is very careful around that time, and no problemo.
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When I was twelve and my female cousin was ten we started having sex. Strictly bareback. We continued to have sex for several years until her father caught us in the act one evening and nearly beat me to death.

I have had sex over the years with at least fifteen women but no p*ssy ever felt as wonderfully silky as hers. We had no idea of pregnancy and I am sure we just lucked out because we were to young to produce babies. She lives on the other side of the continent and we haven't had sex in years. I love here very much but I have never been in love with her.
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Aug 13, 2009
 
Sex play with cousins of both sexes is fairly common among young teens and pre teens here in the South but it usually stops short of the boy cousin actually ejaculating into the girls vagina. There are some things a girl just needs to save for her first boyfriend and her first middle school dance :)
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Sex play with cousins of both sexes is fairly common among young teens and pre teens here in the South but it usually stops short of the boy cousin actually ejaculating into the girls vagina. There are some things a girl just needs to save for her first boyfriend and her first middle school dance :)
So you're saying that knocking up a 12-13 year old girl is just fine?
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I think judging from the three "judgements" on our respective posts here, I believe I won this arguement.
I'm not insecure...it is you who is insecure, as you're constantly trying to convince us that homosexuality is not harmful and not a sin, when many religious faiths clearly claim it it, while incest isn't because for those who take the Adam & Eve story seriously, we're all products of incestuous breeding. If God had created two men (or two women for that matter) in the beginning of time, I'm pretty sure, we'd been fucked as a species. No pun intended. God knew what he was doing...apparently you're still confused.
And I still stand by my statment that you clearly misread the OP's original post, because you read your own bias into it. And that is your constant drubbing that incest is "harmful". How can the love between two people (of the opposite sex) be harmful? Especially if it is totally consensual and between adults.
Hey, I agree that serious incestual relations between pre-teens and even early teens is "dangerous" (not "harmful" as you say), as they are just too young to understand the consequences of their actions, especially if it is forced upon the other. HOWEVER, between two adult siblings, who have either had Genetic Sexual Attraction due to being apart for years due to separation, etc. or just grew very close with one another due to bad experiences with other relationships or whatever the case, I don't see what's so wrong about an adult brother and sister hooking up in their middle-aged years...or even as early as mid-20s for that matter.
As for reproducing...have you heard about the reproductive cycle? And that you can very accurately predict when the female ovulates? All they have to do is very careful around that time, and no problemo.
Hahahahaha. You are funny. Won what argument? Won? Are you 8? This is a sex forum. This isn't about winning or losing. Yeah, you are pretty defensive if your objective is "winning" or trying to get ahead of me. That is pretty damn insecure dude.

Homosexuality in itself isn't harmful, and who am I constantly convincing? I never bring it up unless YOU DO. And you seem to bring it up constantly. Like I said, if your straight, gay does not and should not affect you, so the fact you let it affect you says everything I need to know about you. This thread has nothing to do with homosexuality, yet you bring it up. Says a lot.

Incest is considered sinful in the Bible, and to say it isn't would be a total lie. It is flat out called a sin. What is considered homosexuality today was not even a concept in Biblical days. So no, it isn't a sin. But personally, I never said incest was a sin either. I don't think it is. Adam and Eve IS incest. I agree with all those points. However, it is a IMPOSSIBILITY that the Adam and Eve story is true. Because incest has a MAJOR rate of death and defects during birth, the world would not be as populated as it is, there would be many more people with defects, and given the fact that was during that time where isn't the medical knowledge of today, there would be little way to actually give aid to those in need. Adam and Eve story is HOGWASH.

Homosexuals can reproduce and aren't sterile, so that argument is complete hogwash as well. If you didn't know, homosexuality/bisexuality (or what we consider that today) was COMMON in Biblical days. And guess what, the world is still moving. Homosexuality is rampant in nature, the nature God created. And guess what, the world is still moving. I know what I am doing, I am not confused. You are pretty defensive and abrasive though, for really no reason.
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Lincoln6Echo wrote:
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I think judging from the three "judgements" on our respective posts here, I believe I won this arguement.
I'm not insecure...it is you who is insecure, as you're constantly trying to convince us that homosexuality is not harmful and not a sin, when many religious faiths clearly claim it it, while incest isn't because for those who take the Adam & Eve story seriously, we're all products of incestuous breeding. If God had created two men (or two women for that matter) in the beginning of time, I'm pretty sure, we'd been fucked as a species. No pun intended. God knew what he was doing...apparently you're still confused.
And I still stand by my statment that you clearly misread the OP's original post, because you read your own bias into it. And that is your constant drubbing that incest is "harmful". How can the love between two people (of the opposite sex) be harmful? Especially if it is totally consensual and between adults.
Hey, I agree that serious incestual relations between pre-teens and even early teens is "dangerous" (not "harmful" as you say), as they are just too young to understand the consequences of their actions, especially if it is forced upon the other. HOWEVER, between two adult siblings, who have either had Genetic Sexual Attraction due to being apart for years due to separation, etc. or just grew very close with one another due to bad experiences with other relationships or whatever the case, I don't see what's so wrong about an adult brother and sister hooking up in their middle-aged years...or even as early as mid-20s for that matter.
As for reproducing...have you heard about the reproductive cycle? And that you can very accurately predict when the female ovulates? All they have to do is very careful around that time, and no problemo.
I didn't read ANY bias into this. You do not read my brain. You have it out for me, and are defensive, but I did NOT think of this from an incest standpoint even. Simply from a best scenario for the OP situation. Period. If his cousin continues to pursue him even though he tells her he does not want to continue a sexual relationship with her, he needs to distance himself from her. How is that even controversial? It is like you are actually looking for a reason to come at me. I never even said anything about incest in itself. I said is she continues to come at him, he needs to tell her to stop, or distance himself from her. That's it.

How can love between two people of the same sex be harmful? Especially if it is totally consensual, and between adults. Same argument.

Sex between cousins is not a big deal. Experimentation between siblings is not a big deal. A mom having sex with her child? A brother and sister having kids and getting married? Health wise it is PROVEN to be damaging for the child and for the mother during pregnancy. Then, you have the social condemnation factor. Then, you have the fact it is PROVEN incest is done a lot of times by people with poor social skills (or social ignorance), meaning they may not (all parties involved, kids and adults) be able to go out in the real world and function adequately in society.

I don't have a major issue with incest, 2 consensual people, wear a condom, no problem, whatever floats your boat, which is something I have said to you several times. I am not some warrior against incest. But to say there aren't any risks and harmful situations is just really being in denial. As I have told you, some situations are better than others. Not all situations are good nor should they be called good. This story by the OP is an example of a bad situation.
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Lincoln6Echo wrote:
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I think judging from the three "judgements" on our respective posts here, I believe I won this arguement.
I'm not insecure...it is you who is insecure, as you're constantly trying to convince us that homosexuality is not harmful and not a sin, when many religious faiths clearly claim it it, while incest isn't because for those who take the Adam & Eve story seriously, we're all products of incestuous breeding. If God had created two men (or two women for that matter) in the beginning of time, I'm pretty sure, we'd been fucked as a species. No pun intended. God knew what he was doing...apparently you're still confused.
And I still stand by my statment that you clearly misread the OP's original post, because you read your own bias into it. And that is your constant drubbing that incest is "harmful". How can the love between two people (of the opposite sex) be harmful? Especially if it is totally consensual and between adults.
Hey, I agree that serious incestual relations between pre-teens and even early teens is "dangerous" (not "harmful" as you say), as they are just too young to understand the consequences of their actions, especially if it is forced upon the other. HOWEVER, between two adult siblings, who have either had Genetic Sexual Attraction due to being apart for years due to separation, etc. or just grew very close with one another due to bad experiences with other relationships or whatever the case, I don't see what's so wrong about an adult brother and sister hooking up in their middle-aged years...or even as early as mid-20s for that matter.
As for reproducing...have you heard about the reproductive cycle? And that you can very accurately predict when the female ovulates? All they have to do is very careful around that time, and no problemo.
Oh, and yes I have heard about the reproductive cycle. And to me, that whole potential issue is simple. Wear a condom. Problem solved there.

Lastly, really, you are going to have to check your obsession with homosexuality and bringing up gay this and gay that. Really. If you aren't into homosexuality, cool. No one is telling you you have to be. But to constantly bring it up, over and over, shows you are affected by homosexual sex. And people who are secure in themselves and heterosexuality are not obsessive or affected with homosexuality. Period. Incest doesn't affect me, I don't really care either way, it isn't something I am into. So, why would you constantly bring up homosexuality if you aren't into it? It says a lot about you dude.
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Aug 14, 2009
 
Lincoln6Echo wrote...So you're saying that knocking up a 12-13 year old girl is just fine?

It's called sarcasm Lincoln ... look it up :).
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Aug 14, 2009
 
WOW for one thing learn how to spell..... and just be glad you didn't get her prego. Wouldn't want another one of you running around......
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there was once i had a very petting with my boyfriend near the swimming pool of my house downstair, till i was damn horny and yet it was really inconvenient for him to penetrate me. We left each other reluctantly. When i reach home, i saw my aunty and cousin in my house playing mahjong. My cousin chat with me and he claim that he saw how i petting with my boyfriend earlier on. I was so shy and went on to my room, where he follow. The next moment, he hug me tight and begin to touch around my body starting from my back to my breast. Although i tried to resist in the beginning, but i eventually give in as i myself are damn horny. Slowly he remove puiece by piece of my clothing till i am topless. that is where i started to throw myself on him. we have a great sex together. After that incident, we do keep in touch occassionally. Whenevr he come over to my house or i go over to his house, we will find opportunity to have another great sex together again, in despite i have a boyfriend and he have his girlfriend. Till now it have been years and we never stop having sex whenever we meet together. I wish to stop as i know it is wrong. However i really enjoy throwing myself on him. Please help.

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there was once i had a very petting with my boyfriend near the swimming pool of my house downstair, till i was damn horny and yet it was really inconvenient for him to penetrate me. We left each other reluctantly. When i reach home, i saw my aunty and cousin in my house playing mahjong. My cousin chat with me and he claim that he saw how i petting with my boyfriend earlier on. I was so shy and went on to my room, where he follow. The next moment, he hug me tight and begin to touch around my body starting from my back to my breast. Although i tried to resist in the beginning, but i eventually give in as i myself are damn horny. Slowly he remove puiece by piece of my clothing till i am topless. that is where i started to throw myself on him. we have a great sex together. After that incident, we do keep in touch occassionally. Whenevr he come over to my house or i go over to his house, we will find opportunity to have another great sex together again, in despite i have a boyfriend and he have his girlfriend. Till now it have been years and we never stop having sex whenever we meet together. I wish to stop as i know it is wrong. However i really enjoy throwing myself on him. Please help.
Please help you do what?

You said you enjoy throwing yourself on him. So what's the problem?

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<quoted text>Oh, and yes I have heard about the reproductive cycle. And to me, that whole potential issue is simple. Wear a condom. Problem solved there.
Lastly, really, you are going to have to check your obsession with homosexuality and bringing up gay this and gay that. Really. If you aren't into homosexuality, cool. No one is telling you you have to be. But to constantly bring it up, over and over, shows you are affected by homosexual sex. And people who are secure in themselves and heterosexuality are not obsessive or affected with homosexuality. Period. Incest doesn't affect me, I don't really care either way, it isn't something I am into. So, why would you constantly bring up homosexuality if you aren't into it? It says a lot about you dude.
You know, flyboy, you are doing one hellava job impersonating Charlie Brown's teacher.

You are constantly saying that I have an obsession with homosexuality. I don't. YOU do. I just have a problem with HYPOCRITS. And you are probably the biggest one here. You lead what is considered an alternate lifestyle. And that is being Bisexual. Then you go on your Crusade to demonize those who have or are considering enaging in other alternative lifestyles or simply those who have a sense of taboo on them due to society claiming as such.

So let me just say this, flyboy..."Those who live in glass houses...shouldn't throw stones."

I bet you lean Left politically, right? Big Barrack Obama supporter, I'm guessing?

One great lady once said, "If you really want to know what the Left is up to, listen carefully to what they accuse you of."
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It's spelled hypocrites. I take it your political leanings are to the right.

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Aug 16, 2009
 
There is nothing wrong with cousin marriage and/or cousin sex. It is legal in most states and is the custom in many countries, and has ben for thousands of years.
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Lincoln6Echo wrote:
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Please help you do what?
You said you enjoy throwing yourself on him. So what's the problem?
Nothing wrong my dear. Bcos he can bring me to heaven. Real Heaven.

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