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ToddR

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Apr 5, 2011
 
QUESTION #1: Do find it erotic or pleasurable in any way for a man to shave your pubic hair?

I guess you can call me old school when it comes to body hair. Having gone through puberty in the early 70s, I developed my preference for a natural woman as dictated by the pages of Playboy and Penthouse. Back then --- the limitations to a woman's exposure to the camera were starting to loosen up --- especially in the "southern regions". That reference became preference as I finally got around to expose a few women myself.

My first wife was French which most often means wine, cheese and garlic. I also came to discover that being French meant being hairy down below --- really hairy --- hirsute. No complaints. At my request, she stayed natural --- but since her pubic hair was so thick, on one occasion, I nervously dabbled in a slight trim.

My second wife --- a Scottish redhead --- also has satisfied me on two counts; the collar matches the cuffs --- and the cuffs remain as nature intended -

Yet, about a month ago I again pioneered into the unknown and tried my shaky hand at trimming --- she seemed to embrace --- her sex drive fortunately supersedes mine --- but, I am unsure if again this is something that a woman would like done for her or done for herself ...
ToddR

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Apr 5, 2011
 
If your answer to QUESTION #1 was "yes" ...

QUESTION #2: How can the experience be made truly made pleasurable --- or hopefully erotic?

When I tried trimming a woman's pubic hair for the second time with my new wife I realized how little I knew --- the act that I had been looking forward to was being reduced to embarrassment -

Which produces a whole bunch of questions:

Is there foreplay before trimming?

Do I trim with scissors first?

Should I ask if she has a preference?

How close can I get to the vagina?
ToddR

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Apr 5, 2011
 
QUESTION #3: Will the shaved areas grow back thicker?

This. This is the core reason for this endeavor. To get that red bush to be even bushier -

These days --- the norm is to be shaved clean --- to each his own. Personally, I find it kinda creepy as the look gravitates toward pre-pubescence.

But, if I were to shave her clean -

Would it grow back different in any way?

I ask this because sometimes those that need to shave their heads for an operation find it growing back curly when it was straight or vice versa.
ToddR

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Apr 5, 2011
 
LAST QUESTION: What is the itch factor for the time frame that your pubic hair is growing back?

Personally, I have adopted the practice of just shaving my balls. Partly because of aesthetics --- partly as a turn-on --- partly to reduce the itch factor.

Not sure if women experience a parallel here -

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Apr 5, 2011
 
I once shaved a girl friend she had a big bush and when we had sex the hair would follow my Equipment in along with the shaft it would give me brush burns on it.So i asked if i could shave it for she said sure.It lead to some of the best sex we every had. And she still keeps it shaved today.
ToddR

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Apr 5, 2011
 
Yep. I can see that --- and, obviously you can feel that --- but, seeing my woman naked is part of the experience --- unwrapping her is always a pleasure --- and revealing all the beauty underneath is part of the experience --- to shave her would change her look and diminish my arousal --- fortunately, this does not run contrary to her preferences --- she is happy being my "natural" woman -(not sure if this is what Aretha had in mind)

Again. To each his own -
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Apr 6, 2011
 
... a little help?

“16 is NOT my age. ”

Since: Mar 11

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#9
Apr 6, 2011
 
ToddR wrote:
... a little help?
A lot of questions here...

1.) ya, sure
2.) I gave my BF a razor and gel and told him to make it look how he wanted it to look..but BE careful.
3.)No. that's a myth you don't add hair folicle locations
4.) Ya there is an itch factor. the iching part is when the hair begins growing back. Shave EVERY time your in the shower and use a good lotion. Thats helps.
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ToddR

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Apr 6, 2011
 
... thanks.

Curious. No. This is not a come on --- but, if you were to shave yourself what "shape" would it be?

“16 is NOT my age. ”

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Apr 6, 2011
 
ToddR wrote:
... thanks.
Curious. No. This is not a come on --- but, if you were to shave yourself what "shape" would it be?
I'll mix it up.
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Apr 6, 2011
 
... Okay. A little help. A little out of the loop since this concept is completely cross grain to what I like --- which is a hirsute woman.

For instance, today --- what shape are you today?

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Apr 6, 2011
 
since bathing suit weather is almost here, I keep the bikini line trimmed, and also go over myself with a pair of clippers using a guide., (if it's any of your business).
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Apr 6, 2011
 
. . . sorry. Did not mean to tread too deep -

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Apr 6, 2011
 
ToddR wrote:
... sorry. Did not mean to tread too deep -
lol-!
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Apr 6, 2011
 
. . . apparently, the women on line here prefer to shave themselves -

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Apr 6, 2011
 
ToddR wrote:
... apparently, the women on line here prefer to shave themselves -
well no, not necessarily,...
brenda

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#18
Apr 6, 2011
 
i have let several different guys shave me i enjoy it and they seem to get turned on doing it
Imagination

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Apr 6, 2011
 
brenda wrote:
i have let several different guys shave me i enjoy it and they seem to get turned on doing it
I have trimmed my wife; it's hot!!!
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Apr 6, 2011
 
... got a no-work weekend comin' up and I just want to indulge some of my fancies and fetishes --- tried trimmin' the wife before but was so self-conscious and nervous --- almost apologetic --- wanna try again with more confidence and a "plan" -

The wife is so giving and our marriage is so new that I think she pretty much will let me do anything just to be good natured -

Whereas, I was curious as to what "lines" are drawn by other women when it comes to allowing their man to cut, trim and shave in a very private area. On top of that, I have got to assume that women are more attentive to that area and would prefer that if it is addressed by someone else that it is done right.

Just looking for an introductory course -

I want to have the confidence that what I am doing is being accepted while still staying within the realm of being erotic and maybe even romantic.

Probably the place to start would be in a warm shower so that hair trimmed hair falls away with ease ...

Scissors? Razor? Shaving cream?

“16 is NOT my age. ”

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#21
Apr 7, 2011
 
The shower is a good idea. There are shaving gels that you can buy that are made for women. Just make her feel comfortable and you will too. Take your time and be careful. Have fun. Good luck

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