Is orgasm denial dangerous to the guy?

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Since: Mar 09

London, UK

#1 Mar 26, 2009
It's a big fantasy for me, but are there any dangers of being brought to the edge over and over but not being allowed to squirt?

Since: Nov 08

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#2 Mar 26, 2009
I think that if you eventually let it happen after like 10 times then it shouldn't be a problem, the worst that could happen is you might get blue balls. I actually read that if you do this it intensifies your orgasm like crazy, it actually works too;)

I'm also not a guy or an expert so this is just my opinion!

Since: Mar 09

London, UK

#3 Mar 26, 2009
Thanks Alyssa, but I mean for the teasing to go on for a couple of days, maybe even a week, before she makes me ejaculate.

Also, does the idea of controlling a guys orgasm turn you on? I really want it to happen but I'm not sure whether women will react positively or negatively (i.e. do it a couple of times and then decide I'm a wimp and dump me).
SRN

Timisoara, Romania

#4 Oct 28, 2009
There is no danger doing it over and over again. And yes it turns you on like hell and..it can make an disconfort almoust all the time..But if you are into this that may just turn you on more and more. And o yes...your balls may hurt too :) Try it for a few months and you will understabd what I sm talking about :)
Controlling Orgasm

Atlanta, GA

#5 May 7, 2010
I have found that orgasm denial has been really great for intensifying my sex life. Try out this site, they have some excellent sex health questions and answers http://www.sexquestions.info/how-do-i-contain...
just an allusion

United States

#6 May 7, 2010
Alyssa11 wrote:
I think that if you eventually let it happen after like 10 times then it shouldn't be a problem, the worst that could happen is you might get blue balls. I actually read that if you do this it intensifies your orgasm like crazy, it actually works too;)
I'm also not a guy or an expert so this is just my opinion!
I think that you're attempting to equate what the sensation is for a girl/woman to that of what it would be for a man which, as a man, I can tell you is an entirely different feeling all together.

Just suffice it to say that, for a man, if he's ready to cum he should.

It is, of course, an entirely different experience for a girl/woman who actually CAN be brought to the edge of climax again and again and again, only to be left unsatisfied.

This practice WILL intensify the orgasm, but also serve to infuriate the woman as well, which contributes to her overall ecstasy, but in an improper fashion, afterall, you do not want anger or frustration in the bedroom.

The best method for complete sexual gratification and THOROUGH satiation of her sexual needs is to, uh, work her through varying levels of climax as each successive one will be stronger than the one before it, helping to INCREASE the following ones by building on the momentum of the previous, their strength, intensity and duration increasing exponentially until, if you're lucky (and her as well of course), she completely loses herself within herself as her body and senses become overwhelmed by the orgasms now surging throughout her now quaking body as she calls out her OWN name...It's a hell of an experience and sense of accomplishment to be but a man able to make his woman feel this way, let me tell you.
Frank Stanton

Saratoga Springs, NY

#7 May 7, 2010
TeaseMe wrote:
It's a big fantasy for me, but are there any dangers of being brought to the edge over and over but not being allowed to squirt?
Of course it's dangerous ! It's a FACT that it leads to leads to alcoholism, hairy palms, night blindness, heart attacks, diabetes, werpies, scoliosis, Islam, scurvy, and WORST of all, ROMAN CATHOLICISM !

DON'T EVEN TRY THIS !
phephe

Lawrenceville, GA

#8 May 28, 2010
I have never heard anything that says it is unhealthy. I just learned about orgasm denial from http://www.sexquestions.info/what-is-orgasm-d... and I think I am going to need some practice
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reality

Blue Springs, MO

#9 Jun 24, 2010
I am a guy and can testify that it does not hurt you. My wife and I have done this every year or so just for fun. She will take me to the edge multiple times, have her orgasm and leave me frustrated. The effect is mind blowing. The next day I do have a serious case of blue balls which tends to subside in the aftetnoon. We repeat this each night for several nights. It keeps my mind in a very happy but horny state of mind. The longest we have ever gone is six days. I can tell you by the sixth day I was really starting to question whether going six days waw really worth it as I was so horny. But then the orgasm I had was like no other orgasm I had ever experienced. My wife was even a little scared as it went on for so long and my mind seemed to totally get wrapped up in the moment. When the orgasm was finished and I came back to reality my body had broken out in a sweat during the orgasm and I felt comepletely spent. It was awesome. Part of me wants to do it all over again and part of me thinks that the six days was just too long. We normally only go a couple of days. It is very important to keep up the teasing every night to get the full effect.
LittleMe

United States

#10 Oct 29, 2010
My husband and I practice orgasm denial through the use of a male chastity device. This is a device that we lock on him to prevent any sexual stimulation. Every once in a while I unlock him and we have fun. Sometimes it results in an orgasm for him but most of the time I leave him frustrated and climbing the walls. This is a consensual game that we both thoroughly enjoy with an undertone of love. It heightens his attentiveness, sexual desire for me and his sex drive in general. It gives me a thrill to be in control of my own sexuality as well as his and to determine when and how we make love. In my opinion, a male chastity device is a necessity to really experience the full intensity of orgasm denial.
Milfy

Berlin, CT

#11 Oct 29, 2010
In my opinion it's a good thing to do for a man... he will enjoy his release all the more..lol!
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#12 Oct 29, 2010
TeaseMe wrote:
It's a big fantasy for me, but are there any dangers of being brought to the edge over and over but not being allowed to squirt?
it may eventually result in a painful case of blue balls, but there is no danger. The body does not explode from sperm buildup. You may find your self seeping semen after being aroused, even without having an orgasm.
Also, when the vas defferens become full, it stimulates the brain, which will helpufully play a porn dream, in full technicolor, while your body becomes aroused and orgasms as the process of having a wet dream. presto, pressure relieved, problem solved.
henry

Hartford, CT

#14 Jan 6, 2014
TeaseMe wrote:
It's a big fantasy for me, but are there any dangers of being brought to the edge over and over but not being allowed to squirt?
no its wonderful i do it myself. its good for you too.
Justaguy

Tampa, FL

#15 Wednesday Jan 14
I love tease and denial, it makes you so horny and desperate to get off. As for pain, yes your balls will hurt, but that is part of the game. Blue balls and a sore cock, all the more reason to continue. She could just reject you, and leave you standing there with your ramrod all hard and no attention to be had!
tony

Banbury, UK

#16 Wednesday Jan 14
Prostatitis and aching testicles from sexual exhaustion are just two reasons for a man. Maybe they are not too dangerous reasons but they are painful as hell! Anyways; all the best.
cutedimplesxo11

Switzerland

#17 Wednesday Jan 14
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Justme

Dyersburg, TN

#18 Wednesday Jan 14
My ex used to like to see how long she could keep me hard. The longer I could stay hard, the better we both liked it.

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