Since: Nov 11

United States

#453 Apr 17, 2012
All the wide open holes....... very ssccccarey in here!!! Oh dear me , wide open holes

Since: Nov 11

United States

#454 Apr 17, 2012
sexo-sexi wrote:
I love the feeling it gives - such an emotional high when my gf goes with other guys.
It feels dangerous and wrong and crazy and so horny at the same time.
She has only done it once so far and i wasnt there. But she told me everything that happened afterwards.
Im not into the domination thing but love the feeling of sharing her with others.
Yeah, wow!
you say your not into the domination thing,, but isn't she dominating you that she is banging another dude an you know about it and are ok with it. Isn't this a form of a women dominating a man , namely you???

“look out!”

Since: Apr 12

Australia

#455 Apr 17, 2012
docreflex wrote:
<quoted text> you say your not into the domination thing,, but isn't she dominating you that she is banging another dude an you know about it and are ok with it. Isn't this a form of a women dominating a man , namely you???
Yes i agree - it is a form of control/domination. But im not into some of the more extremem cuckolding stuff where i'd enjoy to be told to sit in the corner or being told i had a small dick.

Its completely fascinating - and again there are so many different shades and angles to it.

Sharing her i love - but i would also like to have a threesome with her.

What is your take on this? Is it illness or thrillness?!?!
submissive husband

United States

#456 Apr 17, 2012
babycuck wrote:
Best thing that ever happened to me
Why?

Since: Nov 11

United States

#457 Apr 17, 2012
sexo-sexi wrote:
<quoted text>
Yes i agree - it is a form of control/domination. But im not into some of the more extremem cuckolding stuff where i'd enjoy to be told to sit in the corner or being told i had a small dick.
Its completely fascinating - and again there are so many different shades and angles to it.
Sharing her i love - but i would also like to have a threesome with her.
What is your take on this? Is it illness or thrillness?!?!
my take?? Not sure. You say you are actually married an love to watch or share her. I jus went out with a neighbor hood slut once an she slept around. I decided not to sleep with her, cuz scared of std , besides she jus liked playing me an found out she had s drug problem also. So I do not have as much experiance as you. What I will say I am going by intuition here but women can get bored with a guy also , so a hot women may appreciate this kink. Some women may not depends on the person an the couple.

Since: Nov 11

United States

#458 Apr 17, 2012
Sorry you said girlfriend, would you marry a girl that wanted this?? Does she want to do this with you also or is she jus doing it for you. I mean does she get off on it as much as you do?? I am trying to understand this.
carl

Port Perry, Canada

#460 Apr 18, 2012
IsuckonmymomsNIPPLES wrote:
The naughtiest thing I've ever fantasized about before actually doing was to cuckold my own father. He was already a pathetic half- feminized submissive cuck, but when I started putting the moves on my incredibly sexy mom (right in front of the wimp), she responded very favorably and my idiot father didn't do anything to stop us. She loved the fact that neither of us seemed to have the least bit of respect for the moron! My mom isn't some old hag, she had me when she was fourteen and we grew up more like best friends than mother and son, plus she's one of those women who look almost ten years younger than they are. And when she broke the news to the old man, that I was now permanently the man of the house and that he would be sleeping in my old room while I would be sleeping with her, my dad was finally totally mentally and spiritually crushed. After a while he looked like his mind was half gone ... I guess he just couldn't take witnesing (and being made to film!) his twenty-two year old son constantly breast-feeding on mommy's thick, meaty nipples and our wild love making! Sometimes he cries and sobs while filming us, but that just makes mom's nipples stretch out and get even harder! Any way, breaking my dad's will, taking his place AND his woman and driving him to the very edge of his sanity (not to mention making him our pathetic lil' slave! LOL!) is probably the naughtiest thing I've ever done. But he's weak, I'm strong and therefore MOM'S NIPPLES are ALL MINE!!! Thanks dad! LOL!
OKAY...a little overdose on the big Freudian ramble there!!!
Fuckles

Kemp, TX

#461 Apr 18, 2012
Docreflex - I have cuckold fantasies and for me it's as simple as getting to watch living porn. I've always enjoyed the idea of my wife with another man, though it hasn't happened. The best possible answer I could give you as to why it work (at least for me) is partially wrapped up in control. It's giving tacit permission for your lover or wife to something taboo and unallowed. to have that control over her sexuality, albeit passively, can be a huge turn on for some. I know this doesn't cover the more extreme cases where men are debased by their wife, but allowing her to seek a forbidden thrill is I think what it boiils down to.
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Since: Nov 11

Chicago, IL

#462 Apr 18, 2012
Ok I get that, does she enjoy you enjoying her watch this "secrete forbidden thrill"? What I am trying to find out is also how a wife or girlfriend feel about her husband or boyfreind at that exact point when she crosses over an has sex with another man. How does she feel inside about herself and how does she feel about her husband or boyfriend? Does she love him more,, less,.is it just out of controll lust and crazy thrill?? Just want to know. I know that every single person may have a different feeling or reason. Please do tell!

“look out!”

Since: Apr 12

Australia

#463 Apr 18, 2012
docreflex wrote:
Sorry you said girlfriend, would you marry a girl that wanted this?? Does she want to do this with you also or is she jus doing it for you. I mean does she get off on it as much as you do?? I am trying to understand this.
I agree with Fuckles explanation there. I certainly would want to marry a girl that has similar needs and the sex side is admittedly important for me.

The gf is a very horny girl - and i trust her 110%. Dont get me wrong, its not a regular think and nor would it be practical.

Its such a complicated thing to explain and i think Fuckles has done a bette job than me in trying to lol!

Its a complex mixture of emotions but fundamentally i feel no jealousy. If she meets a guy who she thinks is better than me then i guess im prepared to accept that. But i know how tight we are.

Phew! Deep! Are you interested in the concept or horrified?

Since: Nov 11

Chicago, IL

#464 Apr 18, 2012
Ps, one theory is sperm competition where the husband or boyfrriend get more horney an produces more testosteron, producing more sperm . It is a evolutonn thing for pregnancy tying to ensure he still has a chance a offspring. So may be hard wired. But that woul be only in the unextreme form. I have read where the extreme forms are totally in controll of the women, so she decides if he has sex or not. I believe this form is linked to ssome form of child hood sex abuse of the man by older sister when boy was very young an unable to "take care" of much bigger sis, and or rejection from mom. This way he would be repeating the pattern an at the same time have some sort of controll of it , erotizing it, but I guess in th form where he is not alloweed to have sex with her this may be reliving the feeling of not being adaquet for the women , which is what may have happened from the bigger older sis or aunt, etc. I am not sure if this can actually help the man or not. I guess it depends on him, kind of looking at the thing that scares you as a child in the present. Jus some theories here. I personally love to hear from men or women, the fantasies they have , which ones th

Since: Nov 11

Chicago, IL

#465 Apr 18, 2012
Ps does your girlfriend or wife know you are posting here, and do you let her read it???

“look out!”

Since: Apr 12

Australia

#466 Apr 18, 2012
docreflex wrote:
Ps, one theory is sperm competition where the husband or boyfrriend get more horney an produces more testosteron, producing more sperm . It is a evolutonn thing for pregnancy tying to ensure he still has a chance a offspring. So may be hard wired. But that woul be only in the unextreme form. I have read where the extreme forms are totally in controll of the women, so she decides if he has sex or not. I believe this form is linked to ssome form of child hood sex abuse of the man by older sister when boy was very young an unable to "take care" of much bigger sis, and or rejection from mom. This way he would be repeating the pattern an at the same time have some sort of controll of it , erotizing it, but I guess in th form where he is not alloweed to have sex with her this may be reliving the feeling of not being adaquet for the women , which is what may have happened from the bigger older sis or aunt, etc. I am not sure if this can actually help the man or not. I guess it depends on him, kind of looking at the thing that scares you as a child in the present. Jus some theories here. I personally love to hear from men or women, the fantasies they have , which ones th
oooja! right we're going deep deep deep on this one!!!

All i know is i like it - not sexual abuse in the past in my case or an oldler sister.

Prior to this long term relationship i have a long term conventional relationship and i just got bored.

I just describe the occasional cuckold thing as "non conventional" whereby if we were out together and i saw some guy chatting up the gf i wouldnt want to bottle him - i would give her the space and hope that they would end up in the beer garden snogging.

And it doesnt always have to be full intercourse thats a turn on. A guy stroking her legs or rubbing her feet also drives me insanely horny.

I think you should try it lol!

Since: Nov 11

Chicago, IL

#467 Apr 18, 2012
Well maybe to deep for you, but sometimes there are forces out of our controll. In mancows book , he was a famouse dj an had tons of women. One women that he was having sex with asked him to squeez her tits, than slap her ass , at she got real hot , an kept begging for more. She asked if he would punch her. He did not,, but the day after he thought it went out of controll as she had bruises allover her . Finally later she rvealed that her dad used to beat her, as he forced her for sex. Yet it turned her on now. Guess at least she controlled it now somewhat. PS you like getting her feet rubbed, I am doc~reflex. I have studied foot reflexology an love to give foot massage to women. I love dominant fwomen ,, an love to kiss their feet. I have some luck with that attimes.(snogging , is that an english term)

Since: Oct 11

Piotrków Trybunalski, Poland

#468 Apr 18, 2012
docreflex wrote:
Ok I get that, does she enjoy you enjoying her watch this "secrete forbidden thrill"? What I am trying to find out is also how a wife or girlfriend feel about her husband or boyfreind at that exact point when she crosses over an has sex with another man. How does she feel inside about herself and how does she feel about her husband or boyfriend? Does she love him more,, less,.is it just out of controll lust and crazy thrill?? Just want to know. I know that every single person may have a different feeling or reason. Please do tell!
your right here..often for the woman it is "secret", that only she can see and feel and not tell
Nash

Mumbai, India

#469 Apr 18, 2012
mythicalus wrote:
<quoted text> your right here..often for the woman it is "secret", that only she can see and feel and not tell
I totally agree that she will never ever share such secret with any one.
Lionbar

Taunton, UK

#470 Apr 20, 2012
docreflex wrote:
Ok I get that, does she enjoy you enjoying her watch this "secrete forbidden thrill"? What I am trying to find out is also how a wife or girlfriend feel about her husband or boyfreind at that exact point when she crosses over an has sex with another man. How does she feel inside about herself and how does she feel about her husband or boyfriend? Does she love him more,, less,.is it just out of controll lust and crazy thrill?? Just want to know. I know that every single person may have a different feeling or reason. Please do tell!
Hi, Doc.

My wife and I have been involved in this kind of activity for quite a few years now and our feelings for each other, our respect and our love, has increased in intensity over the years.

She gains a lot of pleasure from the attention of two men, plus the excitement from the anticipation to a forthcoming meeting. She receives lust from her lover followed by love from me, absolutely lapping it all up.

I'll see if I can persuade her to let you know, on here, how she feels about things from her perspective, in her own words.

Since: Nov 11

Chicago, IL

#471 Apr 20, 2012
Very interesting, I would love to write a book based on fantasies and fantasies fullfilled. I do think I can understand it. But I guess there are a variety of reasons and different feelings around this.. I guess some might say this is weird , but some might say you are lucky, to have such a range of experiance and experimenting!
Mrs Lionbar says

Plymouth, UK

#472 Apr 23, 2012
It's not a case of having less love for my husband, it's an enhancement to our existing life. He gets pleasure from watching me with another man and I get double pleasure from being with two men, one watching, one penetrating. It is all very open, we each are aware of the others activities and there is no need for 'cheating' as we get to meet each others playmate.

And boy, do we have fun when the lover has gone !!!

“look out!”

Since: Apr 12

Australia

#473 Apr 23, 2012
Well put Mrs Lionbar!

I agree - espcecially with the last comment and it does bring you closer together.

Can i ask whose idea was it first as i tend to think the guy usually raises the subject....but maybe im incorrect?

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