My wife doesn't want ot have sex anymore

My wife doesn't want ot have sex anymore

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Skillz4

Van Nuys, CA

#1 Apr 12, 2008
Hello all,
I've been married for 7 years to a beautiful woman. We have had some great sex in the past but typically just have normal (sometimes boring), sex. I've been asking her to do something different but she just won't budge. Now, it seems that her sex drive is completely gone. We still cuddle, kiss and hold hands, but the steamy sheets have cooled down and are pretty much frozen. What can I do to get her to want to have sex and bring it to the next level?
SuperNinja

United States

#2 Apr 13, 2008
Do you have a pet dog? XD

“Horny most of the time”

Since: Mar 08

Ketchikan, Alaska

#3 Apr 13, 2008
Try picking up after yourself; do the laundry, dishes, watch the kid(s) for a day or two, buy her tickets to a spa. MOST OF ALL... MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL!!!!!!
Skillz4

Van Nuys, CA

#4 Apr 13, 2008
A R McGillvray aka Rudy wrote:
Try picking up after yourself; do the laundry, dishes, watch the kid(s) for a day or two, buy her tickets to a spa. MOST OF ALL... MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL!!!!!!
I do that already...I've been doing that for the past couple of years. LOL

“Horny most of the time”

Since: Mar 08

Ketchikan, Alaska

#5 Apr 14, 2008
I don't want to carry this conv. on too long, but it sounds like you've a serious problem dude. There are all kinds of possibilities, can you talk to one of her girlfriends who she talks to? Start checking her car's mileage day to day, check her cell phone numbers. Or perhaps she has a physical problem.

I made it only 2 yrs w/o sex from my 2nd wife before I split from her, but I was pretty full of myself at the time also. If you want to work on this w/her, I suggest you get even busier trying to find out what is going on in HER life, that seems to make making love w/you undesirable. Good Luck, Rudy

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#6 Apr 14, 2008
Reason number 1, why I would never get married. Also, the number 1 desert food that causes total loss of sex drive in women: Wedding cake!!!!
Dana

Parkville, MD

#7 May 20, 2008
Queue wrote:
Reason number 1, why I would never get married. Also, the number 1 desert food that causes total loss of sex drive in women: Wedding cake!!!!
*LOL* Don't believe the lies Queue. What these men (don't know enough to say if the OP is in this category) is that THEY drop the ball too. Usually, men who CONTINUE to do the things they did to get their woman have wives that are more than happy to continue to do what they did to get their husbands. Just don't think that you can get a huge beer belly, walk around the house in sweat stained t-shirts, and roll over the second after having your orgasm and expect your wife to behave like a porn star in the sack. ;-)
Dana

Parkville, MD

#8 May 20, 2008
Skillz4 wrote:
Hello all,
I've been married for 7 years to a beautiful woman. We have had some great sex in the past but typically just have normal (sometimes boring), sex. I've been asking her to do something different but she just won't budge. Now, it seems that her sex drive is completely gone. We still cuddle, kiss and hold hands, but the steamy sheets have cooled down and are pretty much frozen. What can I do to get her to want to have sex and bring it to the next level?
Have you tried asking her why she's changed?
joe

AOL

#9 May 20, 2008
try a NEW WOMAN. tell her time to cut the monkey loose or DOWN THE ROAD!

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