Losing Virginity - Positions
Ama rap rap

Europe

#52 Dec 28, 2012
I rily want 2 bt am afraid cuz we r both virgins help mi a good style 2 do it plz
Bella

Akron, OH

#53 Feb 18, 2013
lexie wrote:
I had sex for the first time, but i didn't bleed.. He say im not a virgin, but i am.. May somebodyy help me please
I don't think anyone can help you with that unfortunately... If he does not believe you it might just be that he is ignorant or maybe looking for an excuse to fight with you and leave you after he got what he wanted. I would just tell you he is probably not worth your time. Just move on and show him you have dignity if he loves you maybe he will see then what a jerk he was. Good luck!
iCarlotta

Portland, OR

#54 Feb 18, 2013
so when I did my first time it was really kind of just to get rid of my virginity because it was freaking me out in such a big deal in my mind that I just wanted over with, anyway this friend of my step dads was my first one so he was way older but he knew what he was doing plus he's the one who had a vasectomy so I didn't have to worry about that. Anyway for a position what he did was on his back and had me on top straddled him so I could lower myself down onto him and that way I controlled everything and I was scared to go all the way down on them at first I only went up and down a little bit taking just ahead of him inside me but then without warning me he reached down and shoved on my hips and broke me and yes it hurt, but not really bad like I was scared of – more like a bee sting or something. I was sure glad to have that over!
I need you love

Huntington Beach, CA

#55 Apr 15, 2013
iCarlotta wrote:
so when I did my first time it was really kind of just to get rid of my virginity because it was freaking me out in such a big deal in my mind that I just wanted over with, anyway this friend of my step dads was my first one so he was way older but he knew what he was doing plus he's the one who had a vasectomy so I didn't have to worry about that. Anyway for a position what he did was on his back and had me on top straddled him so I could lower myself down onto him and that way I controlled everything and I was scared to go all the way down on them at first I only went up and down a little bit taking just ahead of him inside me but then without warning me he reached down and shoved on my hips and broke me and yes it hurt, but not really bad like I was scared of – more like a bee sting or something. I was sure glad to have that over!
Can I call you?
Larry

New York, NY

#56 Apr 15, 2013
Had sex with 6 virgins. 4 had already lost their hymens, so wasnt painful and no bleeding obviously. For the first one, we did it missionary, and it was painful for her, and some blood. We didn’t actually finish the deed that night, but all was well 3 days later. For the second, we tried to do it with her on top, but every time I would push against her hymen, she would backoff. Finally we went to missionary, and I broke through. We stopped immediately, and I just stayed inside her until the pain subsided. I kept telling her how thankful I was she was giving this to me, and how much I wanted to reward her with an orgasm. After waiting about 5 minutes, we started, and she didn’t feel pain. I got her to orgasm about 20 minutes later while we were doing doggy.
curious

Ashburn, VA

#57 Apr 28, 2013
I am 22 gona turn 23 soon am still a virgin n stl scared 2 lose my virginity. My bf n I had skin 2 skin touch or fun , he placed her ,,, nxt 2 my Virgin while standing, my Q is can that mean am nolonger a virgin ?
Luthando

South Africa

#58 May 1, 2013
I've had sex a couple of tymz bt it stl hurts.Is it because I have sex after a long time or what?I hv never tried being on top is it painful
Anonymous

Fairfield, Australia

#59 May 1, 2013
lorelai evangeline wrote:
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She's my age, in college. With all due respect, once your daughter goes off to college the chances of her never having a boyfriend or doing anything are very unlikely. I waited a long time to have sex, my parents gave me good morals and made sure I knew I was worth more than just giving it to anyone. They never held me on a leash, and I never did have sex until much later. The best you can do is teach your daughter to respect herself, and expect the same from others. Don't try and completely control her... that tends to make teenagers rebel.
Of course, you don't have to listen to any of this. I don't have kids, I don't know your daughter. I'm just telling you what I think based on myself and friends I've grown up with, of course I don't expect you to follow them. Just some friendly perspective.
you sound like a well balance individual who listens to good advice when you recognise it! any girl may lose her virginity in any position just as long as it doesn,t hurt and that he is in control and cans top at any time it gets painful. for some its doggy since its easyer to penetrate and access. as for MISSIONARY, not so easy and can be painful!
TheMainer

Portland, ME

#61 May 1, 2013
I'm a little late but, my boyfriend of almost 2 years and I broke up recently, we don't have any hard feelings and are still talking (we might get back together). I really love him and want to lose my virginity to him. We've done everything else and I was just looking to see if it was a good idea or not. Also, I'm 16, I know I'm young but I don't see the use in waiting. I love him and if we do do it and it doesn't work out I don't think I'd be upset
Johnnyreb

East Lyme, CT

#62 May 1, 2013
My wife says the best position for the girl for the first time is doggy style. she says there is no weight on her and it lets her move away from the guy if he gets too intense.
ABW

Tappahannock, VA

#63 May 1, 2013
The younger the girl the more she needs to control the penetration which might mean sitting on it the first time. But by trying to sit on it and doggie you are less relaxed than in missionary.

If you are with someone who really cares about you and will listen to your needs then missionary is probably best as you can relax more. Your nerves will cause you to tense up; the more you relax the easier the penetration and the less discomfort.

Since: Jan 11

Location hidden

#64 May 1, 2013
My gf and I both lost ours together on a deserted island lying on grass of all places. We were dropped of from a game fishing club boat. My gf ate an apple while I was at it eventually asking me if I was finished yet at the time. I can still hear the sounds of that crunchy apple in my ears even years later laughing to myself.
anonymous

United States

#65 May 7, 2013
Well im almost 20 and im still a virgin. I use tampons and i masturbate as of many girls do. Ive never had a boyfriend but im still worried for when the time comes...and hopefully it does soon.
montero yup

United States

#66 May 9, 2013
is a ready to sew
tom

Kitwanga, Canada

#67 May 9, 2013
All I can remenber it was missionary and I miss the target and I ejaculate on her. Plus my [email protected] was circumised and she didnt like that.... Finally it all workout... and we still enjoy the world of nudity together..,,
kita

Santa Cruz, Bolivia

#69 Jun 14, 2013
so... i had my first two days ago, and am not sure if we did it right! it hurt like hell, thank god hes an awesome guy, and every second he asked if i was feeling ok
the thing is that i didnt bleed in that moment, but the morning after, just a few drops tho, so maybe am still a little virgen maybe?
i love him to death, and hes so in love with me as well, but am afraid to do it a second! i cant stand the pain!!!
plus, because of the pain that i was feeling i had to stop him...
anonymous

Cincinnati, OH

#70 Jun 15, 2013
Larry wrote:
Had sex with 6 virgins. 4 had already lost their hymens, so wasnt painful and no bleeding obviously. For the first one, we did it missionary, and it was painful for her, and some blood. We didn’t actually finish the deed that night, but all was well 3 days later. For the second, we tried to do it with her on top, but every time I would push against her hymen, she would backoff. Finally we went to missionary, and I broke through. We stopped immediately, and I just stayed inside her until the pain subsided. I kept telling her how thankful I was she was giving this to me, and how much I wanted to reward her with an orgasm. After waiting about 5 minutes, we started, and she didn’t feel pain. I got her to orgasm about 20 minutes later while we were doing doggy.
6 virgins? what happened to the other 66 virgins?
Chrishelle

Jacksonville, FL

#71 Jun 23, 2013
jbsmoove wrote:
in front of your father!! that way you won't do anything. How old is this girl? My daughter is 17 (and a virgin)and I want her to have sex when she is at least 30, out my house, finished college and choosing the house she wants to buy.
Then she can buy a toy. And I don't even want to think about the rest.
wow
annymous

Ridgeland, MS

#72 Jul 30, 2013
My boyfriend and I have been together for six years I am now six teen n he's eight teen he's never pressured me to have sex but now I want to I trust and love him allot he's always been there for me and I can't se myself being with anyone but him what should I do?
monogamous

Coeur D Alene, ID

#73 Aug 8, 2013
My fiancee and I lost our virginities together in missionary.
The first time sex didn't hurt her was her second time on top (her first time on top, we had to switch to missionary because it was hurting her too much). So, if you're one of those girls it's going to hurt, I'd suggest the following:
-Make sure you're well-lubricated and he's very hard upon penetration! Use both birth control and a condom unless you're trying to get pregnant.
-Get on top and have him just lie there for now. Grab his erection and rub the head of his penis against your vaginal opening to get it wet. Now, try to relax and lower yourself until his erection fully penetrates you. Lean over him so your weight is distributed onto your arms and not just your knees.
-If it hurts, scoot back (towards his feet)very slightly. The pain may have been because he wasn't angled right inside you.
-Neither of you move for a minute. You focus on relaxing while he gently plays with your chest: you need your vagina to adjust to penetration.
-Do not try to bounce or do any porn moves. While he lies still, slowly start humping him by thrusting your hips. Once you get the hang of it and feel comfortable, let him know he can start matching your thrusts. This way it won't get too rough and make you sore.
-Alternatively, if this turns you both on, have him lie still while you do all the work. This works well for women who enjoy a sense of accomplishment by making her man orgasm.

If you experience any pain, keeping using this position until it stops hurting. Once my girlfriend figured out this position, I was flat on my back for two weeks straight before every other position became pain-free.
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