Men and Women Sharing a Locker Room o...

Men and Women Sharing a Locker Room or Changing in a Bus

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Hot and I know it

United States

#1 Jun 29, 2012
I am in a mainly male softball league. We have expanded our schedule, and will be traveling up to 2 hours away. The trouble is some of the places have only small single-sex locker rooms. Now, I am allowed to use the locker rooms, but privacy will be limited. And we will also change in the bus sometimes. No privacy there.

I typically dress modestly, but am not a prude. I know from experience guys could care less if I see their parts when they change. I think I am OK changing in front of them, but still have some reservations. I get yeast infections, so the underwear need to be changed after I sweat a lot.

This is a super competitive league, and there are others just as good ad me who were left off the roster. No way I am going to complain about the lack of female facilities.

Anybody have a similar experience they can share?
dman

Aurora, CO

#2 Jun 29, 2012
Do i hear a fourth fifty shades book.. Maybe fifty shades DENSER... :)
dad of3

Salem, OR

#3 Jun 29, 2012
I like the idea of my daughters using coed changing rooms, being forced to strip and change and shower with teenage boys and adult men right next to them – I don't think about them being raped or abused or anything, just looked at a lot while they are naked in changing and in the shower and seeing what ever they're going to see right there next to them!
Hot and I know it

United States

#4 Jun 29, 2012
dad of3 wrote:
I like the idea of my daughters using coed changing rooms, being forced to strip and change and shower with teenage boys and adult men right next to them – I don't think about them being raped or abused or anything, just looked at a lot while they are naked in changing and in the shower and seeing what ever they're going to see right there next to them!
I love your sarcasm. I am not a teenager, and guys stare at me when I am dressed modestly. But it is not a showering together named scenario. I can keep covered most of the time. But not all of the time. My first game is tonight.
Hot and I know it

Northville, MI

#5 Jun 29, 2012
dman wrote:
Do i hear a fourth fifty shades book.. Maybe fifty shades DENSER...:)
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dman

Aurora, CO

#6 Jul 1, 2012
Hot and I know it wrote:
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Exactly right...... Reservation confirmed..:)
Gillian

UK

#7 Jul 2, 2012
I work at a Young Offenders Centre, & we have unisex changing rooms & toilets.
It can be a bit daunting at first, getting undressed in a cubicle with one of your male work mates undressing next door, but you still have complete privacy, so you get used to it.
After spending all day doing strip searches etc, me having to use unisex changing facilities is not a problem.

“It wasn't me. Honest.”

Since: Jun 12

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#8 Jul 2, 2012
Gillian wrote:
I work at a Young Offenders Centre, & we have unisex changing rooms & toilets.
It can be a bit daunting at first, getting undressed in a cubicle with one of your male work mates undressing next door, but you still have complete privacy, so you get used to it.
After spending all day doing strip searches etc, me having to use unisex changing facilities is not a problem.
I have no problems with sharing facilities. If I'm in a change room or a toilet area, I'm there to shower, change clothes or take a leak. I'm not there to check out other people's bodies or to flaunt my own.
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Gillian

UK

#9 Jul 2, 2012
LIkely Lad wrote:
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I have no problems with sharing facilities. If I'm in a change room or a toilet area, I'm there to shower, change clothes or take a leak. I'm not there to check out other people's bodies or to flaunt my own.
Yeah, good point, but is that in a same sex environment or unisex. I mean if i am in a shop changing area where its female only, then i might check out those around me briefly to see how i compare, LOL, but when i am at work, & i have been there 8 yrs now, it still gives me a little tingle knowing one of my male work mates is in the next cubicle, & knows i am stripping or maybe peeing.

“It wasn't me. Honest.”

Since: Jun 12

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#10 Jul 2, 2012
Gillian wrote:
<quoted text>Yeah, good point, but is that in a same sex environment or unisex. I mean if i am in a shop changing area where its female only, then i might check out those around me briefly to see how i compare, LOL, but when i am at work, & i have been there 8 yrs now, it still gives me a little tingle knowing one of my male work mates is in the next cubicle, & knows i am stripping or maybe peeing.
Thanks. I see now that my post did not make it clear that I meant a unisex environment (and same sex too of course). I've used change rooms and toilets that were unisex and I usually have no sexual thoughts in my head while doing so. I say usually because I DID once get quite turned on by someone, but I think that was her intention anyway! And I did once get cruised by a guy and that surprised me greatly! Most of the time I find myself surrounded by people intent on getting changed or showered and that's it.

Re peeing - if there's no urinal, I admit that I deliberately make as much noise as possible if I think a woman can hear me. No aiming for the sides of the bowl and a soft landing - I direct the stream directly into the water for maximum effect. I think it's some vestigial thing from caveman days - man rejoicing in the fact that he can pee standing up!

achyfi

Arlington, MA

#11 Jul 2, 2012
As a young man I was in an amateur theater group. Our peformance space was rather small, and we all had to change together, men and women in the same dressing room.

Theater people usually aren't particularly prudish about such things, but it's still not polite to stare. Still, we had some very attractive young ladies wearing outfits that involved some interesting underwear and I'd be lying if I said I never sneaked a peek or two.
Hot and I know it

United States

#12 Jul 2, 2012
achyfi wrote:
As a young man I was in an amateur theater group. Our peformance space was rather small, and we all had to change together, men and women in the same dressing room.
Theater people usually aren't particularly prudish about such things, but it's still not polite to stare. Still, we had some very attractive young ladies wearing outfits that involved some interesting underwear and I'd be lying if I said I never sneaked a peek or two.
I did some acting in high school. Coed changing was strictly forbidden. So was being late because of costume changes. Every guy saw me in a bra and underwear. I did turn around when I had to be topless, though. But I sure a few guys saw my breasts. I didn't care.
Hot and I know it

United States

#13 Jul 2, 2012
LIkely Lad wrote:
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Thanks. I see now that my post did not make it clear that I meant a unisex environment (and same sex too of course). I've used change rooms and toilets that were unisex and I usually have no sexual thoughts in my head while doing so. I say usually because I DID once get quite turned on by someone, but I think that was her intention anyway! And I did once get cruised by a guy and that surprised me greatly! Most of the time I find myself surrounded by people intent on getting changed or showered and that's it.
Re peeing - if there's no urinal, I admit that I deliberately make as much noise as possible if I think a woman can hear me. No aiming for the sides of the bowl and a soft landing - I direct the stream directly into the water for maximum effect. I think it's some vestigial thing from caveman days - man rejoicing in the fact that he can pee standing up!
Coed baths in college. Coed showers, toilets, etc. but everyone had a door, so you had privacy. Nobody saw anything but my cleavage, and maybe the outline of my chest if I wore a T-shirt to go pee. And I didn't like hearing guys pee, or worse, seeing them pee.
Hot and I know it

New York, NY

#14 Jul 3, 2012
I did it! A little odd, and less private than I expected.

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Since: Dec 11

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#15 Jul 3, 2012
Hot and I know it wrote:
<quoted text> ... I didn't like hearing guys pee, or worse, seeing them pee.
lol - There are several countries you'd best not visit. Guys are indiscriminate pissers. It's not really exhibitionism - we're just accustomed to peeing whenever and wherever we want. Like the other dude said, it's a throwback to when we were cavemen.
wife is hot and knows it

Dedham, MA

#16 Jul 3, 2012
My wife was on a competitive co-ed indoor soccer league.

By the end of the first season she was comfortable changing in front of the guys on the bus and would spend what she said was a good 5 minutes topless on the bus knowing some of the guys were sitting down and j/o watching her breasts. She would laugh and joke about it in front of them.

Third away game her second season and this guy I use to work with back when we were first dating pinched her nipple. She has hyper-sensitive nipples and he told her it would be my biggest fantasy and she spent the bus ride home after the game riding his big dlck and sucked another 4 guys of while riding him. It was the same every other ride home from an away game after that.

No it wasn't my biggest fantasy, but he did know from me that she had hyper-sensitive nipples and that alone it was probably enough to get her to go down on him, he add the lie about my fantasy to make her believe it ensure she would go further.
dman

Aurora, CO

#17 Jul 3, 2012
wife is hot and knows it wrote:
My wife was on a competitive co-ed indoor soccer league.
By the end of the first season she was comfortable changing in front of the guys on the bus and would spend what she said was a good 5 minutes topless on the bus knowing some of the guys were sitting down and j/o watching her breasts. She would laugh and joke about it in front of them.
Third away game her second season and this guy I use to work with back when we were first dating pinched her nipple. She has hyper-sensitive nipples and he told her it would be my biggest fantasy and she spent the bus ride home after the game riding his big dlck and sucked another 4 guys of while riding him. It was the same every other ride home from an away game after that.
No it wasn't my biggest fantasy, but he did know from me that she had hyper-sensitive nipples and that alone it was probably enough to get her to go down on him, he add the lie about my fantasy to make her believe it ensure she would go further.
What a great fictional writer you will be...
dadof2

Sarasota, FL

#18 May 9, 2013
My wife and I are completely fine with making our two daughters use coed bathrooms or changing facilities they should know about male anatomy and feel normal the presence of other males they are 17 and 15 we don't worry about them being raped because no one is going to let a screaming young girl be raped by a pervert in a public facility.
Carla

Delaware, OH

#19 May 24, 2013
I change with guys all the time. And I not wearing sweaty underwear, so I change everything with the guys right next to me. But there is something called covering up. I have a towel, and place it strategically. They can see my underwear all they want. The towel takes care of the rest, mostly.
Carla

Delaware, OH

#20 May 24, 2013
dadof2 wrote:
My wife and I are completely fine with making our two daughters use coed bathrooms or changing facilities they should know about male anatomy and feel normal the presence of other males they are 17 and 15 we don't worry about them being raped because no one is going to let a screaming young girl be raped by a pervert in a public facility.
I presume that you and your daughters change clothes together. They must see your, so seeing another guy is nothing new. And they undress with you, so undressing with other guys watching is something they are used to. I am not sure I would be comfortable with that.

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