Do boys with foreskins masturbate ear...

Do boys with foreskins masturbate earlier?

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Gillian

India

#1 Oct 19, 2009
Some of the guys I've been with have said they started to masturbate before puberty. Apparently, they learned that pulling their foreskin back feels good, did it a few times and eventually kept doing it while it felt better and better until they had some sort of climax.

Can't see this being half as likely with no foreskin. When did you first masturbate and did you have a foreskin to use. Do you think a foreskin makes a young boy more likely to masturbate?

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#2 Oct 19, 2009
Gillian wrote:
Some of the guys I've been with have said they started to masturbate before puberty. Apparently, they learned that pulling their foreskin back feels good, did it a few times and eventually kept doing it while it felt better and better until they had some sort of climax.
Can't see this being half as likely with no foreskin. When did you first masturbate and did you have a foreskin to use. Do you think a foreskin makes a young boy more likely to masturbate?
Yes, it does. This is why the puritans perfected the "American style" cicumcision, which is far more complete than most others around the world. It is designed to remove 14 feet of the most sensitive nerve endings of the penis, to effectively kill much of the sexual sensations.
Gillian

India

#3 Oct 19, 2009
Queue wrote:
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Yes, it does. This is why the puritans perfected the "American style" cicumcision, which is far more complete than most others around the world. It is designed to remove 14 feet of the most sensitive nerve endings of the penis, to effectively kill much of the sexual sensations.
I know that it is said that stopping masturbation was seen as one of the aims of circumcision. However, did it actually stop you circumcised guys masturbating young?
4rdq

New Zealand

#4 Oct 19, 2009
Queue wrote:
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Yes, it does. This is why the puritans perfected the "American style" cicumcision, which is far more complete than most others around the world. It is designed to remove 14 feet of the most sensitive nerve endings of the penis, to effectively kill much of the sexual sensations.
I grew up surrounded by cut Yanks. I began hearing the phrase "beating off," "jerking off," "beating your meat" when I was 11. I never heard anything implying it was a challenge for a cut male. Did not read that cut men often use lube until I was over 40.

I concluded that the late Victorian strategy of using routine infant circumcision to stamp out boys masturbating was pretty much a total failure. But correct me if I am wrong. Of one thing I am sure: curtailing masturbation is NOT a reason why American parents circumcise their baby boys today.

The standard issue American circ is about as radical as Jewish and Moslem circ. For that matter, if an American boy is cut loose (and in my day, quite a few were), that's fine with most parents. In the 1980s, some docs, sometimes at the parents' request, began leaving so much skin behind that a boy did not look cut until after puberty. The general trend if to cut less off to reduce the chance of painful or deformed erections as an adult.

A lot of intact boys can't masturbate because they can't peel the foreskin back. Being unable to fully expose the glans before age 15 or 18 is normal, and is no problem at all if there is no infection or discomfort under the foreskin. I would predict that in some cases, being intact delays the onset of masturbation.

Q, if you want to stop American circumcision, you have to convince, in a non-snarky way, young unmarried American women, that cutting a baby is gross and sexually weird. More and more young women are thinking that way already. The tipping point is within sight, whereby the Bald Eagle look will be simply out of fashion.

“Men should be submissive”

Since: Nov 07

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#5 Oct 19, 2009
4rdq wrote:
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I grew up surrounded by cut Yanks. I began hearing the phrase "beating off," "jerking off," "beating your meat" when I was 11. I never heard anything implying it was a challenge for a cut male. Did not read that cut men often use lube until I was over 40.
I concluded that the late Victorian strategy of using routine infant circumcision to stamp out boys masturbating was pretty much a total failure. But correct me if I am wrong. Of one thing I am sure: curtailing masturbation is NOT a reason why American parents circumcise their baby boys today.
The standard issue American circ is about as radical as Jewish and Moslem circ. For that matter, if an American boy is cut loose (and in my day, quite a few were), that's fine with most parents. In the 1980s, some docs, sometimes at the parents' request, began leaving so much skin behind that a boy did not look cut until after puberty. The general trend if to cut less off to reduce the chance of painful or deformed erections as an adult.
A lot of intact boys can't masturbate because they can't peel the foreskin back. Being unable to fully expose the glans before age 15 or 18 is normal, and is no problem at all if there is no infection or discomfort under the foreskin. I would predict that in some cases, being intact delays the onset of masturbation.
Q, if you want to stop American circumcision, you have to convince, in a non-snarky way, young unmarried American women, that cutting a baby is gross and sexually weird. More and more young women are thinking that way already. The tipping point is within sight, whereby the Bald Eagle look will be simply out of fashion.
As a nurse I always tried to convince parents to let the child decide if he wants to be circumcised when he reaches adulthood - it is only fair to give a man a choice about his own body. Problem with new parents not cutting their boys is when the parents all grew up in a "cut culture" and often do not know how to care for the intact member. They need guidance from health cae professionals and intact friends when it comes to retracting the foreskin and general hygiene practices.
Lorenzo123

Armagh, UK

#6 Oct 19, 2009
All young boys play with their pen*ses, and it's hard to say when the average boy does it more for pleasure than curiousity. I am uncut and I played with my pen*s from the moment I could reach it lol. I ej*culated for the first time aged 8, and had no idea at the time what had happened or why. I was never given any 'birds and bees' talk by my folks, so I guess that's why I discovered it by accident. I hit puberty the next year and had gotten the hang of it by then, if you'll pardon the pun :-)

Since: Oct 09

Lonsdale, MN

#7 Oct 19, 2009
Gillian wrote:
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I know that it is said that stopping masturbation was seen as one of the aims of circumcision. However, did it actually stop you circumcised guys masturbating young?
it didn't stop me from masturbating at a young age... but i didn't start at 11 i started pretty much when i first hit puberty.. and boy is it nice.
Dave

Lynnwood, WA

#8 Oct 19, 2009
I'm cut and started at 10/11. IMO uncut looks weird.
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Buzz

Saint Paul, MN

#9 Oct 20, 2009
I first did when I was in 1st grade. That little thing got hard just from washing it. I kept doing it. It felt so good then and still does. ;-)
4rdq

New Zealand

#10 Oct 20, 2009
la la la lola wrote:
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As a nurse I always tried to convince parents to let the child decide if he wants to be circumcised when he reaches adulthood...
You are a guardian angel of the pink bits... And a Jewish one to boot.
la la la lola wrote:
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Parents need guidance from health care professionals and intact friends when it comes to retracting the foreskin and general hygiene practices.
The kind of conversations you advocate here often don't happen.
An intelligent understanding of the intact member is still not taught in USA medical schools, and if it's been added to the nursing curriculum, nobody blogs about that. So health care professionals vary considerably in their sympathy to, and understanding of, the foreskin.

The vast majority of American parents would be very reluctant to seek and accept advice about their young son's tackle from an intact adult man. They would talk to a medical professional or to another mother they respected. But all too often, a man willing to talk about this tender subject is dismissed as a weirdo, even a pervert with a highly suspect fascination with infant genitalia. I have never been asked for advice, and have stopped volunteering advice after my doing so made a mother highly indignant, even though she freely admitted she completely agreed with me. She was outraged that I had dared raise this tender subject with her. The world outside Topix is far more prudish than here.
Lorenzo123

Armagh, UK

#11 Oct 20, 2009
Each to their own Dave, IMO cut looks mutilated... lol
dadsf

Indianapolis, IN

#14 Mar 18, 2012
Dave wrote:
I'm cut and started at 10/11. IMO uncut looks weird.
You are weird because you live in a stupid trashy weird country of circumcision fetishism so you think normal people from most places in the world are weird.

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#15 Dec 14, 2012
I don't think it matters one way or the other. I was cut at birth. I was a very curious kid, and I discovered masturbation & the wonders of orgasm when I was only 5. Quite a few of my childhood friends also started when they were younger, and most of them were also cut. On the other hand, some guys don't start until they're in their late teens. I think the age at which boys and girls discover masturbation is primarily determined by their level of curiosity.
Sonia

London, UK

#17 Dec 23, 2013
Gillian wrote:
Some of the guys I've been with have said they started to masturbate before puberty. Apparently, they learned that pulling their foreskin back feels good, did it a few times and eventually kept doing it while it felt better and better until they had some sort of climax.
Can't see this being half as likely with no foreskin. When did you first masturbate and did you have a foreskin to use. Do you think a foreskin makes a young boy more likely to masturbate?
Don't think it makes much difference. Friends with uncircumcised sons tell me that once they learn the joys of rolling their foreskins back and forwards it's like the best new toy they'll ever get. One of my friends has a circumcised boy, she says he has discovered how nice it feels if he gently strokes it when wet in the bath. Boys will be boys!
David

Market Rasen, UK

#18 Dec 26, 2013
Sonia wrote:
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Don't think it makes much difference. Friends with uncircumcised sons tell me that once they learn the joys of rolling their foreskins back and forwards it's like the best new toy they'll ever get. One of my friends has a circumcised boy, she says he has discovered how nice it feels if he gently strokes it when wet in the bath. Boys will be boys!
Probably right about it not making much difference to age a boy starts.

But I remember when I was a young boy discovering how good it felt to push my foreskin repeatedly back and forward. And to push my foreskin right back in the bath and gently rub the small wet kn0b or even better, soap it.

I remember we had a circumcised boy in my class at school when I was young. Word got round that his penis looked different. Girls would ask to see it in the playground and would shriek when they saw it. But it just looked the same as mine with the foreskin pushed right back. The girls didn't know this because young boys don't retract their foreskins in front of other people (don't think all my friends could do it anyway). But it was then I realised that there was nothing a circumcised penis could do that mine can't. Yet they can't do everything I can.
Toby lerone

Cambridge, UK

#19 Dec 26, 2013
I'm in cut and doing it now. Snap me to see if you think it looks weird. tobylerone123
Matthew Smith

Bristol, UK

#20 Dec 26, 2013
I used to play with the end of my foreskin from an early age, it felt good. I didn't learn about wanking and pulling my foreskin back til a friend told me aged 12
island boy

Yulee, FL

#21 Dec 27, 2013
Well I am cut and have been since I was a baby. I have no doubt that uncut guys probably discover masturbation much quicker than cut guys though due to the extra skin, nerves, sensitivity, and natural lubrication.

Here are quotes about my early experiences:

"When I was eleven something told me to try out my penis on the jets of the pool. It was before I went through puberty. One can have an orgasm before puberty and for boys before puberty there is no refractory period so that means a boy can have one orgasm after another without having to take a break or very short breaks in between and there is no end to how many times. I just wished I learned how to orgasm sooner because if I would have known I was capable of having an orgasm and how to get one I would have started as early as possible before puberty when ones gets a refractory period after they start ejaculating semen.

It was during the summer and I would pull down my swimsuit and let the water jet in the pool get my pecker from soft to hard in an instant and would let the stream shoot directly into the head and I would see it part the lips of the meatus on the glans and the opening of the glans had a sweet sensation to it even sweeter than the frenulum that was also being stimulated. I would come to a strong penile orgasm within seconds that seemed to be more intense and last a little bit longer than orgasm via traditional masturbation. A vibrating massager or vibration from the handle of a push mower would have a similar effect but the jets were the best. The bath tub had a large fall of water from the faucet and I'd let it hit the top side of my erect penis until it got me off. Going back to the pool jets I couldn't get enough that day. Two minutes would go by and I'd swim back over to the jets again and get off again. I think I got off 4 or 5 times from it in a half hour period. Once I started ejaculating I would no longer do that in pools."
island boy

Yulee, FL

#22 Dec 27, 2013
Continued:

"My first official orgasms were at age 11. The first time I really had an orgasm was when I got out of the bathtub and walked to my bedroom naked and for some reason felt the need to wrap my legs around the pillow and lie on it. My penis was flaccid and bent down with the head facing behind me and I ground into the pillow a bit and I started getting this tingle/tickle sensation and got an orgasm. At orgasm I'd get about 5 strong spasms and then it decreased in intensity after that to about 7 more spasm I guess. Before, during, and after I'd breathe real fast and get this good feeling all over my body and pant.

The first time I got an orgasm the traditional way it took me about 30 minutes in the bathtub. There was a boy a year older than me who showed me Penthouse Magazine. He told me that I could make my wiener feel like it was having sex by taking the skin and moving it up and down. Even though I'm cut (circumcised), before puberty the skin would totally cover the head (only when I pull it over it). I sat in an Indian style in the middle of the bathroom and just admired the erection and played with it and squeezed on the head and slowly took my thumb and forefinger and would move the skin up and down sometimes increasing the pace and cover and uncovering the head and pulling the skin taut all the way down to where you should see the circumcision scar and frenulum stretched downwards and tugging at the glans. I had had erections before but the more I played with the penis the harder it got and it started changing to a redder hue and the glans was more swollen and purplish. I started to get tingles throughout the shaft and heads and tiny throbs in the head. My shaft felt electrified or something. I eventually came to an orgasm which was better than the one via the pillow but very similar. It was the feeling I had expected to get after my friend told me how to masturbate since I had already experienced similar via humping the pillow. I don't know why it took me so long to get feeling in the penis the first time jacking off. For the first several minutes it was just a blank feeling but felt good being hard. It had to be hard and stimulated a while before any feelings. After that session I could get to orgasm a lot quicker. It took me a while the first several months to get to an orgasm when masturbating."
island boy

Yulee, FL

#23 Dec 27, 2013
Continued:

"I know I've mentioned the first time I had an orgasm was at 11 but something happened when I was probably 6. I think it was in 1987. It was the year Madonna's song La Isla Bonita came out. Every time I hear that song I think about my I guess you'd say orgasmic experience. I'm going to describe everything the best I can remember and put into words. I knew this man who slept naked all the time (he never did anything inappropriate with me, actually I was the one being naughty without his knowledge when he was asleep) but I was just a kid and was curious. I remember thinking the idea of sleeping naked was kind of naughty and felt good and was envious he got to and that I didn't get to in my own bed. I climbed into bed with him and from the little light coming from under the doorway or something or from the radio I could see his butt. He was lying on his side facing away from me and in a deep sleep. I remember staring at his butt and feeling what I know now when I'm older as being really horny and having lust. I remember wanting my butt to be bigger like that of grown men. I was wearing tighty whities and put my butt next to his. I remember not liking the barrier of the material in between my buttocks and his. I was like screw this and pulled my undies down to my ankles and later I just took them off completely. 80s songs were playing in the background and I was relishing the feeling of his skin against mine butt to butt. I couldn't just lie still. I started moving my butt against his and touching every inch of it with every inch of mine. At some point I noticed my penis got really hard and I had no idea why. I remembered in the past it usually only got hard when I fondled it or had to pee bad. I always liked the feeling of having an erection (the firmness and fullness and how the length and width was much, much bigger) but this time it felt different and even better and would not go down nor was I touching or touched it prior. I just remember liking it a lot more than usual and felt like I'd love for it to stay hard forever and never go down again. The fullness felt even better than prior erections and I just felt great there naked with my butt exposed. I started getting these weird sensations in and on my butt too. My heart was beating really, really fast. I could hear it in my ears. I started getting these good sensations all over my body. The more I rubbed my butt against his the more the sensations increased and the shorter of breath I became. I started getting these constant pants that I couldn't even take a full breath anymore. The more I moved my butt the more I'd pant and it would be sound like I was whispering something like huh, huh! HUH! HUH! HUH! It was hard to breathe but I didn't want it to stop it felt so good. My penis got so hard and got these sensations I never felt before and would jump, throb, and twitch involuntarily. After the erectile feelings I started getting good feelings which started with this electrical feelings like it was all happening along veins or nerves or some sort in different parts throughout the shaft. I then started getting some electrical tickly, tingly feelings that would start at the base or balls and would travel up real fast to the head and make the head spasm and contract similar to a traditional orgasm but a bit weaker almost as if it were getting close to a penile orgasm but it seemed things would feel too good and intense and make me a bit nervous so I kept backing off. All I have to say is this is better than any sexual sensation I've ever felt as an adult or teenager even with the Aneros toy. The more I'd stay active doing what I was doing the faster the penile throbs would come and make my penis dance around feel fast with a tickly feeling that kept happening in the penis head. My regular head was feeling all weird and high and I was getting this crawly sensation at the top of my skull and tingles on my face."

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