Girls - is bareback more fun for you?

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Julia - I want to know

Seattle, WA

#1 Jan 2, 2011
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.

Since: Jul 10

Milan, Italy

#2 Jan 2, 2011
One night stands with guys you never met are way more fun if you dont make them wear a condom, also i wont bother with HIV tests, they are overrated....i also would stop taking birth control pills if i was you, it will make things even more fun.

“"That's the berries, Norman!"”

Since: Dec 10

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#3 Jan 2, 2011
Julia - I want to know wrote:
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.
Come on girls. This is a good topic.

“hello people”

Since: Mar 09

would'nt you like to know

#4 Jan 2, 2011
Wearing a condom is a must especially if you are sleeping with people you've just met.You just dont know who has what and can't believe what they say when asking them about any std's they may have,bareback may feel better but you dont what you might catch for feeling.
Ashley

United States

#5 Jan 2, 2011
You must make them wear a condom! Bareback feels better, but getting pregnant or an STD will ruin your life!!

Since: Aug 10

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#6 Jan 2, 2011
Julia - I want to know wrote:
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.
From a guy YOUR age you will generally hear how great it is to have unprotected sex. Chances are, his only interest is getting off and you are just an object to him, a masturbatory toy. As someone, probably ten years older I can tell you that unquestionably, having unprotected sex is like playing Russian roulette. It can be lethal. AIDS is no laughing matter. It's a disease with no cure and it can kill. Beyond that, the new right wing, religionist politicians coming into power in DC...they will try to criminalize abortion. If they succeed, they will make it difficult if not impossible for everyone but the rich who can afford to travel of see highly paid, closeted physicians to terminate pregnancy. If you're going to play adult games you had better think like an adult.
mwb0302

Bethlehem, PA

#7 Jan 2, 2011
Julia - I want to know wrote:
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.
You've got some catching up to do Julia. I hope you do at least 30 guys this semester!

“Horny guy talking about sex!”

Since: May 10

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#9 Jan 2, 2011
Julia - I want to know wrote:
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.
Out of curiosity, did you ask the other guys in high school if they had a recent HIV test or not?

I ask because it seems you already live on the edge. You have already allowed some guys to come inside you without knowing their "status". So why ask now?

If you haven't asked before, don't let it be an issue now. You have so many young men willing - why deny them? Get those legs open and get that flesh tunnel filled with potent, young, warm seed. That's how you like it, right? You know how it feels when a man comes inside you - AND you like the feeling. So I say strip the condoms off and feel the jets of fresh come shooting deep inside you. Because THAT's how you like it and that's how you want it.
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“Insatiable”

Since: Dec 10

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#10 Jan 2, 2011
As someone who is allergic to latex, I haven't had a guy wear a condom in years. Any woman will tell you that the feeling of a guy emptying himself in you is amazing. But, it's a lot like Russian Roulette. I guess you need to be very picky.

“"That's the berries, Norman!"”

Since: Dec 10

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#11 Jan 2, 2011
I hate to say this, because I really hate wearing condoms. But there are certain STDs you can get and not really know it. Of course, the biggie is AIDS but you are probably not going to contract that through normal heterosexual activities, although it is not impossible. Especially if you do anal or extra rough sex, any type of sexual contact where a break in the skin may be caused.
Fortunately, almost all other STDs are treatable. Except for Herpes, which many males can have and not know it at all. The way things stand now, once you have Herpes you have it the rest of your life.(That is actually true of any disease. Penicillin does not kill the viruses or bacteria completely, trace amounts are still in your system, just not enough to pass on, and in low enough numbers that your immune system keeps it in control. Kinda like a flu shot, where they give you a small dose of the flu so your body builds up a resistance to it.)

But some STDs, including but not restricted to HPV, can affect the womans ability to reproduce. And also, the guy you are with probably does not know he has it.

Hate to be a killjoy, because I DO hate condoms. All that being said, I have very rarely used condoms in 51 years. Except for 15 years of marriage, I have had sex with a variety of women, even the ocassional escort. I have been treated for 2 STDs in those 51 years, both before I was married. We never had children, but the doctor did not think it was STD related, although he knew my history (and hers).

So I don't know, you have the info, and have to make your own choice. BTW, barebacking is gonna keep happening more than people like to admit, because quite frankly, guys think the feeling of emptying themselves into you is amazing, too. I am definitely not a "pull out" guy.

“Horny guy talking about sex!”

Since: May 10

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#13 Jan 2, 2011
cuninglingwist wrote:
Im a guy, I never where condoms, never have but get a free test every six months,
I know all you girls are always looking for big black cock to try, but most blacks are smaller than whites ,you will be disapointed but they are very potent babymakers. try to minimize getting aids or hep C or herpies, hears the latest from the health dpt. Blacks are only 13% of the population, but in NY city alone count for 75% of the aids population,including black girls who get it from black men and homosexuals,
20% hispanic 1% druggies.
4% are white, so stay away from barbacking black and white male bisexuals, stay away from whites guys that do black girls, get on the pill, and start eating more pussy.
She said nothing about wanting a black man. Nothing at all. Keep your vitriol to yourself next time. Thanks.

Since: Feb 10

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#14 Jan 3, 2011
i hate condoms as well, skin to skin is way better, so i dont really mess around much, bur sometimes it feels good to live on the edge

Since: Feb 10

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#16 Jan 3, 2011
Michgold wrote:
i hate condoms as well, skin to skin is way better, so i dont really mess around much, bur sometimes it feels good to live on the edge
It is nice to see that your computer is still working. Hope you are doing good.
lady

Spring, TX

#17 Jan 3, 2011
You must use a condom if you want to prevent STD's. Also, cervical cancer is more common in people who have multiple sex partners. I was like you when i was younger and have had a cervical cancer scare. Use condoms, be safe.

Since: Feb 10

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#18 Jan 3, 2011
sorry been away, back now, will chat shortly

“Bowing in the Wind”

Since: Dec 10

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#19 Jan 3, 2011
Sex definitly feels better without a condum. When I was younger, HIV was not a big concern but now girls can not go unprotected unless they really know a guy. Even without HIV, there are still a lot of nasty bugs around and getting pregnant can be very inconvenient. I am in my 60's and still active but restrict myself to guys I know and trust.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#20 Jan 3, 2011
Davide7515 wrote:
One night stands with guys you never met are way more fun if you dont make them wear a condom, also i wont bother with HIV tests, they are overrated....i also would stop taking birth control pills if i was you, it will make things even more fun.
I know you were being sarcastic, but some young reader in here might not realize that.

BAd advice in ruth.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#21 Jan 3, 2011
Julia - I want to know wrote:
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.
if yuo or any other woman is goign to sleep around that much, then who cares if the condom is a little awkward or doesn't feel quite as good .. protect yourself!!!

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#22 Jan 3, 2011
DoverBen wrote:
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From a guy YOUR age you will generally hear how great it is to have unprotected sex. Chances are, his only interest is getting off and you are just an object to him, a masturbatory toy. As someone, probably ten years older I can tell you that unquestionably, having unprotected sex is like playing Russian roulette. It can be lethal. AIDS is no laughing matter. It's a disease with no cure and it can kill. Beyond that, the new right wing, religionist politicians coming into power in DC...they will try to criminalize abortion. If they succeed, they will make it difficult if not impossible for everyone but the rich who can afford to travel of see highly paid, closeted physicians to terminate pregnancy. If you're going to play adult games you had better think like an adult.
excellent advice. INteresting that even an adult woman (presumably she is at least 18 if going to college) needs this advice.

“guess who Lois?”

Since: Dec 06

A little hole in the wall.

#23 Jan 3, 2011
Julia - I want to know wrote:
I'm 18 and I've been sexually active for 2 years. Until recently I was always with a boyfriend or a guy who was a good friend. There were been 8 guys total that I had sex with in high school. I never asked the guys to wear condoms. But now that I'm in college 300 miles from home, if I want to get laid it's with guys I've just met. So far I've had sex 6 times and with just 4 guys. Some girls I know are getting laid like 2 or 3 times a week and have done it with a couple dozen guys in the first quarter alone. Since I know nothing about these guys, I make them wear a condom. But I think it feels different. Also, I miss it when I don't feel the guy shoot his cum into me. I think it's so hot. How do other girls feel about it? Should I ask guys if they have taken a recent HIV test? I know you can get them at the student health center.
my sister had an STD when she was in her early 20's ... she could never have kids after that, and she regrets that greatly now.

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