Can women orgasm during anal sex? Experts: Yes, No, Maybe

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#1 Oct 17, 2011
Is it physiologically possible for a woman to orgasm during anal sex without any other stimulation?

My playmate is adamant that his ex used to love anal: "she'd scream for 5 minutes" not from the pain who would painstakingly point out!

But I don't believe it!

We asked some experts and here's a surprise: they don't seem to agree! Some said 'yes', some say 'no', and there were a few 'maybe's thrown in.

But if yes, this is how:
http://iionsex.com/...

Has anyone cum during anal sex or had sex with a woman who's had an orgasm?

Cheers Harriet
Big Boy

Midrand, South Africa

#2 Oct 17, 2011
Harriet
Yes just be relaxed and yes clitoral stimmulation does help. Fantastic stuff

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#3 Oct 17, 2011
Oh, Big Boy, are you implying I'm uptight? Well your probably right!
But we just had someone say that their girlfriend SQUIRTED during anal sex (without any other stimulation)! Is that possible - really?
Harriet iionsex.com
Big Boy

Midrand, South Africa

#4 Oct 17, 2011
Harriet
My girlfriend comes loads during anal bertsteynberg@gmail.com I am fairly big so she enjoys it a lot

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#5 Oct 17, 2011
No, can't see how that's possible physiologically, unless lots of clitoral stimulation has taken place immediately prior to anal penetration?, Then the brain would take over here reacting to bodily stimuli, taking a woman to orgasm from sheer excitement if she was in expectation of this taking place , wanting it to finish off. The brain is known to be the biggest sex organ of the body, after all!! Powerful.......just heightened concentration would do it......I know it is possible this way, but certainly have to agree, not on it's own as an act.....
Big Boy

Midrand, South Africa

#6 Oct 17, 2011
Heather
Can be done as I stated previously my girlfried c@#$s and it is not facked
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#7 Oct 17, 2011
HarrietB wrote:
Is it physiologically possible for a woman to orgasm during anal sex without any other stimulation?
My playmate is adamant that his ex used to love anal: "she'd scream for 5 minutes" not from the pain who would painstakingly point out!
But I don't believe it!
We asked some experts and here's a surprise: they don't seem to agree! Some said 'yes', some say 'no', and there were a few 'maybe's thrown in.
But if yes, this is how:
http://iionsex.com/...
Has anyone cum during anal sex or had sex with a woman who's had an orgasm?
Cheers Harriet
My husband always spends a good amount of time doing oral before he penetrates either vaginally or anally. Lucky for me he just loves doing oral. I am quite turned on by the time he puts his penis into me. I do orgasm with anal sex. It feels like another g-spot. I dont think its the same g-spot because my vaginal g-spot is on the front wall of my vag. I also have a second g-spot very deep in my vagina.
I can only say he hits a place anally that puts me over the top.
onemale

Mattoon, IL

#8 Oct 17, 2011
Different women feel differently about this.
I have dated one who loved to be done anally, she would always climax a couple times before I did. I have been with about 50 women and she was the first who actually loved it.
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#9 Oct 17, 2011
Big Boy wrote:
Heather
Can be done as I stated previously my girlfried c@#$s and it is not facked
(Er...FAKED)
The thread questioned "WITHOUT any other stimulation" You mentioned WITH stimulation, different story....your size has nothing to do with HELPING it, no offense.....I don't dispute the fact women can orgasm anally, just not completely without other stimulation! Hey, just enjoy it, does not matter how! Whatever....
hereforfun

United States

#10 Oct 17, 2011
Ladies my wife also orgasm during anal sex but it is when she wants anal. I don't even try anal its always on her terms and she certainly orgasms.

“Life is short. Play naked.”

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collegedood.topix@gmail.com

#11 Oct 17, 2011
I tried anal stimulation on my ex. it was in the middle of a couple hour long sex session, but I wasn't giving any other stimulation besides anal at the time...and she had an orgasm. I don't know if the fact we had been fooling around for a while or that she had already had several orgasms matters, but there ya go.
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#12 Oct 17, 2011
College Dood wrote:
I tried anal stimulation on my ex. it was in the middle of a couple hour long sex session, but I wasn't giving any other stimulation besides anal at the time...and she had an orgasm. I don't know if the fact we had been fooling around for a while or that she had already had several orgasms matters, but there ya go.
I am not sure what you did for her but its working! I can say there is a lot of sensative skin in that area. My husband starts by having me lay on my tummy. He kisses my thighs from bnack of knees up to just below my ass cheeks for some time. Gradually he pulls my legs apart and goes deeper into my ass with kissing and licking. Finally he is doing oral on everything and I am in ecstacy. By now I am kneeling to give him more access. Of course he lubes his penis and slowly penetrates me and its just amazing as it slowly goes deeper inside. I like the fact that he takes a lot of time on me. I am about ready to explode before he even gets his penis in. I really think the foreplay is the best part. I bet a lot of guys just want to stick it in and go. Thats a definate no no.

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#13 Oct 17, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I am not sure what you did for her but its working! I can say there is a lot of sensative skin in that area. My husband starts by having me lay on my tummy. He kisses my thighs from bnack of knees up to just below my ass cheeks for some time. Gradually he pulls my legs apart and goes deeper into my ass with kissing and licking. Finally he is doing oral on everything and I am in ecstacy. By now I am kneeling to give him more access. Of course he lubes his penis and slowly penetrates me and its just amazing as it slowly goes deeper inside. I like the fact that he takes a lot of time on me. I am about ready to explode before he even gets his penis in. I really think the foreplay is the best part. I bet a lot of guys just want to stick it in and go. Thats a definate no no.
I totally agree with Joyce here, this is the point I was trying to make with foreplay first, lots of external stimulation works wonders for relaxation & enjoyment!

“Life is short. Play naked.”

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#14 Oct 17, 2011
Joyce Oh wrote:
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I am not sure what you did for her but its working! I can say there is a lot of sensative skin in that area. My husband starts by having me lay on my tummy. He kisses my thighs from bnack of knees up to just below my ass cheeks for some time. Gradually he pulls my legs apart and goes deeper into my ass with kissing and licking. Finally he is doing oral on everything and I am in ecstacy. By now I am kneeling to give him more access. Of course he lubes his penis and slowly penetrates me and its just amazing as it slowly goes deeper inside. I like the fact that he takes a lot of time on me. I am about ready to explode before he even gets his penis in. I really think the foreplay is the best part. I bet a lot of guys just want to stick it in and go. Thats a definate no no.
Yeah...but most guys are just interested in their own climax, which is sad. I have never finished first, and I can't imagine changing that.

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#15 Oct 18, 2011
It's amazing how different women's experience is with anal sex!!! I always find it painful and so uncomfortable.... Honestly I thought when my playmate talked about his ex having an orgasm he was talking a load of crap!
Harriet
http://iionsex.com/...
Big Boy

Johannesburg, South Africa

#16 Oct 18, 2011
Harriet
Wow it is possible just relax and take it slow. My gf loves it more than normal penetration
Joyce Oh

Yonkers, NY

#17 Oct 18, 2011
HarrietB wrote:
It's amazing how different women's experience is with anal sex!!! I always find it painful and so uncomfortable.... Honestly I thought when my playmate talked about his ex having an orgasm he was talking a load of crap!
Harriet
http://iionsex.com/...
Its important to do it right or it will hurt you. Once it hurts its a turn off to try again. For one thing lots of lube. Also he must take it slow. If he gets anxious and tries to enter as if it was your pussy, its going to hurt. Another trick is expanding your anus by pushing out like when you go poops.(Of course you have to be empty and clean)!! Its very hard to do but it works. If you cant get yourself to do that at least relax totally. He has to be patient and enter you slowly. Tell him you will let him know when to push more of his penis into it. Once he gets a few inches in you will like it and he can begin pumping. Its a slower process than vaginal pumping but feels amazing. If your up for it again try some of my suggestions.
Communicate!

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#18 Oct 18, 2011
i don;t think it's possible without any other stimulation, at least it didn't work on me

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#19 Oct 18, 2011
The other part to this, is that once I had a lover who I ended up having to ask: "did that hurt?" and he replied... "um, it was tight, very tight". Anal sex always takes a huge thump and then... squeeze .... squeeze...can that really be pleasant for a man and his penis?
harriet http://iionsex.com/...
Erica

Hughesville, PA

#20 May 11, 2012
I don't know about other women. I can only speak for myself in this matter. If I'm having anal sex, which is very enjoyable, I have to have my clit stimulated. Otherwise, I will not have an orgasm. This is one of the most intense orgasms that I have ever had!

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