Tell us about threesome experiences. What are the chances?

[Cindy1685]

The Dreadmuse wrote:

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Well... is this something that you have talked about before? If it is something he just dumped on you... then it is not cool.
If you wish to do this for him, you need to be the one in control. You know if you are attracted to women, will you mind watching your husband with another woman? Will this be something that you must control?
Ok, here is an approach for you. Yes, a couple drinks would help... but DO NOT GET DRUNK! If you want control of the situation, make it your rules. blind fold him, tie him down. Blind fold him and tell him the rules (if the blindfold is removed it all stops).
You don't have to be bi to have a threesome, but you must be willing to have another woman enjoy your husband. It is a difficult thing to do. Some people cannot. I think you should both discuss it a great deal. Know what the limits are and how far things can go.
Best of luck... hmmmm... that put's father's day in a whole new light for me.
Dreadmuse
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thanks i am going to talk about it to my husband. i mean he has takin me to strip clubs and had girls give me lap dances...i guess i dont see anything wrong with that....but thanks for the advice i'm gonna hav talk to him tonight.

[husband]

My wife and i often fantasize about 3somes, both MMF and MFM. My wife tells me she wants a FFM, but that i cannot participate. When she is excited she also speaks of sucking cocks etc. She becomes a real slut.

Now, there are number of chances to do it. One day it will happen for sure, so i want to know what i should do.

Having FFM is fine with me, although i would prefer at least soft threesome.

However MMF, although very exciting, I fear will destroy me later. I read one comment of the guy who said that his wife was also open to it. Then she needed it more, and then she became a sex addicit, a classic slut. He tried talking to her, but he feared that he lost respect as others have been fucking her, and basically although sex was great the relationship was not.

Basically 3somes, especially MMF are taboo. You let it out and your woman could become so liberated, that she will be fucking strangers in clubs, holidays, etc. Its a start to denger.

Do you agree? HOw was your experience? How did you feel (guys) not at the time of 3some MMF but day later, when she was alone, with kids, your mother etc.

[Pizzaman]

It works out with the right people. My first was many, many years ago. I was in high school and our "gang" had one girl who was always with us. One night at my parents house, in the basement.... Well, she brought up sex and before long we were all together and in her. There were only 5 of us guys but she was enough for us all. That was the only time with her but she became a frequent thing for all of us one at a time. She was the one who made out! She had sex all she wanted after that.

[Pizzaman]

In my other post I told of my first but after that, in 1980 I had a girlfriend who wanted a threesome. She was very, very sexual. We were both still underage though. However, we were at her brothers house and they weren;t home, I had my best friend with me and she took on the both of us all night. She started it all and I just went with it. Was very, very, very good. Her and I had many adventures like that for over 5 years. We finally broke up because she moved onto doing things without my knowledge, as in cheating. It's one thing to be involved but when it's sneakign around, that's way different. But I certainly miss her. 5' 3". blonde and blue.....

[FCGuest]

I did a FFM once, I am male. I had a couple of young ladies, one of whom had been a HS girlfriend, to my apartment while in college and we had all been swimming and got a little wasted. When we went back in to change, I took a chance and went in the room where the girls were changing and caught them kissing. One thing led to another and I f*cked my ex doggy while the she ate the other who was licking her p#ssy and my johnson at the same time. In no time, I blasted in the one I was f*cking and after a few minutes, I was able to recover and I ass f*cked the other one, who wasnt on any birth control. When it came time to cum, she told me to take it out and shoot in her mouth. I happly did so. The girls did a 69 and were fantastic. Both spent the night in my bed and my ex blew me the next morning before they left.

[Moondancer]

If a couploe is very secure in their own relationship, 3somes are a great way to livin the sex life. If the woman is bi, then ffm works great but mmf is also fun if the guy likes to watch his girl make love to another guy. With 3, there are so many options for fun things to do.

[Pj Bottoms]

My Hubby and I are talking about having a FMF. This would be our first threesome together. I believe we can use this to learn new ways to please one another. We both are interested in the idea of a new pussy to play with. What would be a good way of finding a local swingers party?

[robiam]

i have done both MFM and FMF ....

MFM was in college ... me and a buddy ...some drunk girl ... she loved it and we just had a blast .. it didnt last long and all she wanted was as much c#ck as she could get.

the FMF was INCREDIBLE with an old GF. She had a friend in town and invited her over for the evening ..only i had no idea. she had me tied to the bedposts and blindfolded. the rule was i was not allowed to "enter" her friend, as we had talked about doing something liek this before.

So with me tied up to the bedpost i could not initiate anything that might upset my gf ... which was fine with me. The two BEAUTIFUL women enjoyed each other with me helplessly watching and both of them gave me oral... with my GF riding me to climax while her friend sucked on her nipples.

REALLY HOT!

[moondancer]

Pj Bottoms wrote:

My Hubby and I are talking about having a FMF. This would be our first threesome together. I believe we can use this to learn new ways to please one another. We both are interested in the idea of a new pussy to play with. What would be a good way of finding a local swingers party?

I assume you are bi if you are intereted in a ffm. Best way to get a third is for you to become friends with a bi woman who would be willing to play with you and your husband. I have done this a number of times with friends. You need to be very secure in your relationship before you do this. would you consider playing with another couple. They are much easier to find on the internet. Meet in a public place and make sure you are ok with each other. I would suggest several social get togethers before moving into the bedroom.

[Pj Bottoms]

I am not interested, at least for now, in another man. Been there, done that and quite happy with the one I'm doing now. I played with a girlfriend in childhood, many times, but now that I actually know what I'm doing and what I want, I would like to experiment further with a woman. I know he is wary of seeing a guy with me, I don't know if that will change, or if I want it to.

[flyboy]

I have had a MMM threesome and a MFM threesome, and both experiences were SO exhilerating and its fun to give pleasure to 2 people and too add another hot body to the sex, it means that you can do alot of things and get alot of fun things accomplished!