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OnWheels

London, UK

#1 Jan 14, 2008
Ok, im a 22yo guy from northern ireland, i was knocked down 2 years ago and broke my back in 2 places which has left my paralised with no feeling or movemen below my neck.

My question is are there anygirls out there who would be interested in a guy like me, as before my accident i had no problems finding girlfriends but now girls just dont seem interested anymore.

I am fully able to get and errection by taking viagra and although the girl would have to do all the work as i cant move my body i can still have intercourse and ofcourse i can still use my tongue.

I would just like some female views on this as i often get myself down thinking my love and sex life is over for good.
Ruby

Pittsburgh, PA

#2 Jan 14, 2008
Did you know that all sex is in the head first???You sound like a really nice guy. I think your biggest problem is getting to where the girls are. That wasnt meant to be funny just fact. Go where people hang out.. May I suggest taking a few class at college. I know. The first thing you are going to say is that you cant do that but you CAN if you really want to. It wont be easy but it would be worth it. You will find the main thing a girl is looking for is a good decent man.

Since: Jan 08

London, UK

#3 Jan 14, 2008
Yes i know that sex can be more menal than phiscial. and i do go to a computer class as i need to use special equipment to use a computer and there are lots of girls there but even if i try to chat to them they always seem to shy away from me, i think its the wheelchair that scares them away. Its very shallow but it happens an awful lot
Ruby

Pittsburgh, PA

#4 Jan 14, 2008
Have patience and keep trying. When that chemistry is there its there and that wheelchair will not make a difference.....Smile, be friendly, and forgoodness sake, dont play the pity card. Nobody wants a whinner...The CHAIR does scare some people off but there are some that realize its just a mode of transportation.

Since: Nov 07

Canberra, Australia

#5 Jan 14, 2008
OnWheels wrote:
Ok, im a 22yo guy from northern ireland, i was knocked down 2 years ago and broke my back in 2 places which has left my paralised with no feeling or movemen below my neck.
My question is are there anygirls out there who would be interested in a guy like me, as before my accident i had no problems finding girlfriends but now girls just dont seem interested anymore.
I am fully able to get and errection by taking viagra and although the girl would have to do all the work as i cant move my body i can still have intercourse and ofcourse i can still use my tongue.
I would just like some female views on this as i often get myself down thinking my love and sex life is over for good.
I'd definitely be interested. There must be some ladies in your area that would love to ride you. What about an add in the personals?
The thought of you makes me horny. I can only imagine what it would be like riding your viagra fueled penis hour after hour.

Since: Jan 08

London, UK

#7 Jan 15, 2008
anyone else interested?

“Live and Love Fully”

Since: Dec 07

Nth Qld, Australia

#8 Jan 15, 2008
I have always wondered too how it would be to have wheelchair sex.
You are a quadraplegic so I can imagine the fact that you don't have any or limited sensory input from the neck down would be a deterent to most females as they like to get feedback during sex so they know u are enjoying it too... it is purely a subconscious reaction on their part and you can't judge them for that.
You need to somehow let it be known that you still enjoy the idea of sex and that there will be benefits for both of you... you will certainly appeal to someone who is experimental and maybe even someone with dominating tendencies.
Are you in any wheelchair groups or organisations?
I have one question, silly as it may seem... you take Viagra to get an erection... but do u ever cum? and if so are u aware of it?

Since: Jan 08

London, UK

#9 Jan 16, 2008
Lirael wrote:
I have always wondered too how it would be to have wheelchair sex.
You are a quadraplegic so I can imagine the fact that you don't have any or limited sensory input from the neck down would be a deterent to most females as they like to get feedback during sex so they know u are enjoying it too... it is purely a subconscious reaction on their part and you can't judge them for that.
You need to somehow let it be known that you still enjoy the idea of sex and that there will be benefits for both of you... you will certainly appeal to someone who is experimental and maybe even someone with dominating tendencies.
Are you in any wheelchair groups or organisations?
I have one question, silly as it may seem... you take Viagra to get an erection... but do u ever cum? and if so are u aware of it?
I have yet to try taking viagra, but i am going on what my spinal doctor and occupational therapists have told me as this works on allmost all other patiants in my situation. With regards to cumming, yes i can still cum but will most likely have no knoladge of it.

The only pleasure i will get from having actual intercourse is the feeling that i know a woman can still get pleasure from meand from talking to a few other patiants thas can lead to 'a mental orgasm' which i am very curious to expierence, but can understand how it might happen.
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Todd

Gainesville, FL

#11 Jan 16, 2008
I posted a similar post on the thread "Whatever happened to 'My aunt's Panties". Found it recently on page #10. I had an aunt who needed a wheel chair for part-time use. One morning I prepared cereal for her breakfast when I was home from school, but spilled it on her. After cleaning it up, she wanted me to assist in cleaning her up, which I thought strange, because she was quite capable of showering by herself, because her shower was a handicapped shower. She got me to come into the shower with her, and afterwards, I placed her onto her bed and she pulled me on top of her and proceeded to seduce me. From that day on, the routine around our house changed. She had never had sex when she was stricken and required the use of a wheelchair. But I must say that she was wonderful in bed. I have no idea how she became so adept at sex, since she had been a virgin when we had our first experience. I think we were wonderful for each other. If I had it to do over, I'd probably try it sooner, and I would be the "seducer".
ryan

Adelaide, Australia

#12 Mar 9, 2008
i like sex
Blossom

Winter Springs, FL

#14 Apr 6, 2008
I actually have fallen in love with a man in a wheel chair. I never knew him before. I don't see him as disabled. He is wonderful and I can't imagine my life without him in it. Yes, my life has changed but for the better. I have always loved being kissed, lip, neck , ect. He is the best kisser. The way he looks at me makes me insane. I trust him and feel very safe with him. I did have to get use to him having a lower drive than me but I have to admit that just being in his arms and holding him is much more meaningful than I could have ever believed. Hang in there. The right lady will come along for you. She will fall in love with you for you. Until then flirt with the girls. I didn't realize that he was interested in me until he stepped up his game. I feel like the most blessed women in the world to have found him. He was born with spinabifida and is a para. He tells me how amazing I am to be with him for who he is, I always tell him it's him that is amazing as he is the one who opened my heart. You will find a woman who will see past what is outside and see your heart. Until then know that it does happen. Will keep you in our prayers
Jester

Barnesville, OH

#15 Apr 6, 2008
Dude I knida know how you feel. I was in a bad car crash a couple months back. I was lucky enough that one of my friends didn't veiw me any differantly. Her and I are in what seems like a normal relationship. You just have to have a good friend or find a chick who's not shallow. You wouldn't want to be with a bitch like that anyways.

Jester
khuyetthu

Hanoi, Vietnam

#17 Apr 11, 2008
I love to make love in wheelchair very much. And I am interested in you.
kristen

United States

#18 Apr 20, 2008
I have had a fantasy of being with someone in a wheelchair for the longest time. I thought I was the only one who fantisized about that..
kristen

United States

#19 Apr 20, 2008
I saw an educational porn through my sexuality class and one of the pornos was a guy in a wheelchair doing it with his girlfriend. I thought it was incredibly hot...
Mercaptan Stabbin

Hinesville, GA

#20 Apr 20, 2008
I almost slept with a girl who had muscular dystrophy. She wasn't in a wheel chair, but she had a most peculiar gait to her. She looked as if she was a puppet on the strings of a drunken puppeteer. I was quite drunk when things were getting intimate, and I was becoming more sober as my blood (I imagine) was accelerated. (Massive erection). I suddenly realized that if I had got her pregnant...I would be stuck to all her medical problems for at least 18 years. I shoved her on the floor and went to sleep.
danny

Luton, UK

#21 Apr 20, 2008
ryan wrote:
i like sex
so do i.how old are you im 17
Wheelchair User

Abilene, TX

#23 May 29, 2008
I have been using a wheelchair for over 8 years. I had a cervical injury at the age of 17 and was still a virgin up until then. I began college 4 years after that. I joined a fraternity the day I turned 22 and never looked back. I made more friends, especially girlfriends (they loved the chair and giving me attention) than any of my other fraternity brothers. I quickly became the go-to guy to hook up my friends with girls. At first my confidence was low, but by the end of my first semester I had rediscovered myself again and realized times have changed. I lost my virginity in college, and had sex with multiple girls (all meaningful by the way, just felt I should mention that). And not to talk myself up since this is anonymous anyway, but I could have slept with plenty of promiscuous girls, stereotypical sorority groupies. Nothing against sorority girls in general, just that most of the girls I hung out with were Greek. Girls understand wheelchair users are quite capable of satisfying them, and providing security for them. I'm going to graduate school, and my fiance and I just bought TONS of sex-toy goodies online. She loves getting dressed up for me. I digress, but the point is I am getting married with plans of being a major contributor in the relationship financially.

If sex is difficult for you, other than lying on your back, check out www.intimaterider.com . My sex life is great, and my partner and I can barely keep our hands off of one another.

Also, there are many online drug stores where you can purchase ED pills for a fraction of the going rate in the US and they are 100% safe, such as edselection.com .

There are lots of positions that you can contribute to in the meantime, even without the intimate rider. Doggie style in the chair is fun. Just have your girl lean over the bed or a chair and grab her by the hips, pulling her into you. Or lay on your sides and penetrate her from behind. Also, sitting on the couch is fun for the intimate moments, allowing her to ride you and have face to face to chest moments. I'm a biter, so I like to be able to reach her breasts and neck.

Anyhow, I'm just here to say girls will look past the chair if you give them a reason to. When I'm at the clubs, I'm on the floor riding wheelies and dancing if it's a crazy nights. I'm drinking, buying drinks, and most importantly paying attention to my friends and not chasing girls proactively. The surest shot you'll have is being INTRODUCED by a friend, not introducing yourself to a complete stranger. Girls feel intimidated and uncomfortable with this. Anyhow, good luck, from one w/c user to the next. Hope this helps.

Since: Feb 08

I'm bringin' sexy back

#24 May 29, 2008
Wow. What a doll.

I would so take you for coffee if you were in California.
kelly

AOL

#25 May 31, 2008
OnWheels wrote:
Ok, im a 22yo guy from northern ireland, i was knocked down 2 years ago and broke my back in 2 places which has left my paralised with no feeling or movemen below my neck.
My question is are there anygirls out there who would be interested in a guy like me, as before my accident i had no problems finding girlfriends but now girls just dont seem interested anymore.
I am fully able to get and errection by taking viagra and although the girl would have to do all the work as i cant move my body i can still have intercourse and ofcourse i can still use my tongue.
I would just like some female views on this as i often get myself down thinking my love and sex life is over for good.
hey if you can still us your tongue i would luv that mmmmm sometimes getting a tongue is better then sex
and then when you are hard id ride ya

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