4 Reasons Why Female Orgasms Are So Hard To Achieve

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There seems to be a conspiracy. Men want women to climax, women want to climax. So why is that, according to studies, about 70% of women never reach an orgasm during intercourse?

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solo

Piacenza, Italy

#1 May 12, 2008
some men do not know how to stimulate the clitoris during sex, also can not hit the G-sport during sex.if the penis can not make her climax, use the tongue.

Since: Dec 06

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#2 May 12, 2008
solo wrote:
some men do not know how to stimulate the clitoris during sex, also can not hit the G-sport during sex.if the penis can not make her climax, use the tongue.
That's what I do... and it works every time!!
Aaron - Today is that Day

Knoxville, TN

#3 May 12, 2008
It's such a conundrum that something so physical as sex is so dependent on psychological factors.

Since: May 08

United States

#6 May 12, 2008
sarah wrote:
im 13 and iv got a vibrator and just as im about to have a orgasam i stop because i cant controle my self any nearly piss myself
That just means that you are going to have a huge orgasm, not pee on yourself

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#7 May 12, 2008
Aaron - Today is that Day wrote:
It's such a conundrum that something so physical as sex is so dependent on psychological factors.
Just about everything a human does physically is about 80%(or better) mental.
Ryan Holybox

Benfleet, UK

#8 May 12, 2008
I belong to the "come first" club. We're a group of guys that make sure the girls we're with always orgasm before we do. Once you can continuously do that, the girl will worship the ground you walk on.

“TRUTH HURTS HUH?”

Since: Nov 07

United States

#9 May 12, 2008
i used to have that problem i never could. but since i got with my husband i cant stop lol. at least i now know there is nothing wrong with me lol. now when i have one i feel like a man after wards i just pass out hehe.
Patience is a Virtue

Canada

#10 May 12, 2008
Some men just don't have the patience to wait
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“In my world your always wrong!”

Since: May 08

Newnan, GA

#11 May 12, 2008
Most of the time when I don't have one it is not because of my husband it is because i am thinking of other shit... like what i am going to make for dinner or what i need to do later.
Cole

Japan

#12 May 13, 2008
Aaron - Today is that Day wrote:
It's such a conundrum that something so physical as sex is so dependent on psychological factors.
I find this funny. Orgasms are completely mental! Of course the issues preventing a person from having them will be mostly psychological.
alli

Kalamazoo, MI

#13 May 13, 2008
when ever i have sex, i can't reach an orgasm unless my boyfriend "touches" me.
Dekiru

Fruitland Park, FL

#14 May 13, 2008
UGH... are you serious? I have faked damn near 90 percent of my orgasms. There are moments when he gets me and I find myself attempting to push him off slightly. I too feel like I am seriously about to piss on myself. And for fear of embarrassment I push him to a different position that is more appealing toward him than myself, thus cutting off the moment for myself. I was seriously about to have an orgasm?

Since: May 08

United States

#15 May 13, 2008
Dekiru wrote:
UGH... are you serious? I have faked damn near 90 percent of my orgasms. There are moments when he gets me and I find myself attempting to push him off slightly. I too feel like I am seriously about to piss on myself. And for fear of embarrassment I push him to a different position that is more appealing toward him than myself, thus cutting off the moment for myself. I was seriously about to have an orgasm?
Oh honey, you need to let go, that peeing feeling is probably a really strong orgasm!!! Let loose and enjoy!
bartender

United States

#16 May 13, 2008
Ok look.... I don't sleep around and i've only slept with 3 guys. Only 2 of them have actually been successful in giving me an orgasm. Neither their fingers or tongue work, and intercourse has only worked about 5 times. And it only works in a certain position... Is something wrong with me? I don't know what to do?

Since: May 08

United States

#17 May 13, 2008
bartender wrote:
Ok look.... I don't sleep around and i've only slept with 3 guys. Only 2 of them have actually been successful in giving me an orgasm. Neither their fingers or tongue work, and intercourse has only worked about 5 times. And it only works in a certain position... Is something wrong with me? I don't know what to do?
I think that you may be trying to hard. You need to just let loose, forget about the orgasm and enjoy!
bartender

United States

#18 May 13, 2008
JohnnyBeGood wrote:
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I think that you may be trying to hard. You need to just let loose, forget about the orgasm and enjoy!
Of course i enjoy, its just for the fact that it usually never happens. The night's over and he got off but i didn't. He always thinks it's his fault and that he sucks and isn't good, then i feel bad and that everything's my fault. It puts a damper on myself and our physical relationship.

“It's HOT as HELL”

Since: Feb 08

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#20 May 13, 2008
Dekiru wrote:
UGH... are you serious? I have faked damn near 90 percent of my orgasms. There are moments when he gets me and I find myself attempting to push him off slightly. I too feel like I am seriously about to piss on myself. And for fear of embarrassment I push him to a different position that is more appealing toward him than myself, thus cutting off the moment for myself. I was seriously about to have an orgasm?
You were about to have an intense vaginal orgasm and squirt. I'd say just let it go next time...it's very scary at first and thrilling at the same time...i thought I was having an heart attack the first time I had mine.

I also think that most women are simply not putting enough effort to get themselves off and rely way too much on their partners to do it all for them..

“TRUTH HURTS HUH?”

Since: Nov 07

United States

#21 May 13, 2008
its not good to pretend or fake a orgasm. it you cant you cant. you just gotta find that right spot. i can only have one if im on top riding no other way its weird but hey as long as i have one.

Since: Dec 07

Brisbane, Australia

#22 May 13, 2008
bumpkin wrote:
its not good to pretend or fake a orgasm. it you cant you cant. you just gotta find that right spot. i can only have one if im on top riding no other way its weird but hey as long as i have one.
Faking is never good in anything. People can always see through lies and it makes them feel bad when the truth is finally out. I feel really bad because I had to lie to someone for their own good and now I hope they never find out but it still is in my mind.

“TRUTH HURTS HUH?”

Since: Nov 07

United States

#23 May 13, 2008
Ronnnie wrote:
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Faking is never good in anything. People can always see through lies and it makes them feel bad when the truth is finally out. I feel really bad because I had to lie to someone for their own good and now I hope they never find out but it still is in my mind.
yea i wouldent want some one to fake one on me or lie for that matter. why lie or fake any thing i guess i wont never know.i been there to ronnnie but if its for there own good you was only looking out for that person.:)

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