I Need Help!!! {squirting}
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CrazyForYou

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#1 May 14, 2007
I've been reading and reading about squirting and I just can't do it. My boyfriend wants to make me do and brags that he has done it to 4 other girls in the past. I feel like i'm not sexual pleasing him, i'm happy with a dry orgasm, but it seems like he's not and I find myself trying to focus on trying to squirt, which makes me more nervous,causing me not to even be horny anymore. Can anyone help me?
KittyKat

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#2 May 15, 2007
well, tell him to lay off, he sounds like an a**hole anyways

Since: May 07

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#3 May 15, 2007
KittyKat wrote:
well, tell him to lay off, he sounds like an a**hole anyways
Well, no he wants me to do it so bad because all of the other girls told that it was the best they ever had, he just wants me to be sexually please. Someone please tell me how to squirt!!!
HotStuff

Deland, FL

#5 May 19, 2007
CrazyForYou wrote:
I've been reading and reading about squirting and I just can't do it. My boyfriend wants to make me do and brags that he has done it to 4 other girls in the past. I feel like i'm not sexual pleasing him, i'm happy with a dry orgasm, but it seems like he's not and I find myself trying to focus on trying to squirt, which makes me more nervous,causing me not to even be horny anymore. Can anyone help me?
It sounds to me like you're just trying too hard. Stop worrying about squirting and focus on good sex. Not all women squirt & that's prefectly normal.
so so squirting

Phoenix, AZ

#6 May 19, 2007
i can squirt -- but i certainly dont find that its all that great and it certainly in no way compares to an orgasm while the guy is inside. That said I do have some tips. First off I don't know of anyone who can squirt with more than one finger inside of her. I can do it with one finger -- but I would recommend trying while either getting head or self or other masturbation. What you need to do -- making sure you don't need to fart or go to the bathroom is by pushing out -- sometimes I think
this helps to have an orgasm and if you're being fucked most guys love it. You should feel like you are trying to push pee out, but NOOOOO pee should come -- you should
be able to tell by where the liquid comes out of -- if its the pee hole you need to be more turned on because most people cannot pee during intercourse masturbation etc. While sometimes I can squirt during an orgasm most of the time its a weaker orgasm and many times its not during an orgasm at all. Ultimately I think squirting is something girls and pornos do for show not really for the pleasure of the thing. I know I HATE when I guy pulls out when I just start cumming or when Im cumming -- therefore I dont see the point other than for the sake of knowing i can do it. anyway tell your boyfriend, who really seems like he needs to learn how to get off by pleasing YOU -- not the notions in his head -- that many stupid girls lie about orgasm and maybe squirting is all that he thinks its cracked up to be.
CrazyForYou wrote:
I've been reading and reading about squirting and I just can't do it. My boyfriend wants to make me do and brags that he has done it to 4 other girls in the past. I feel like i'm not sexual pleasing him, i'm happy with a dry orgasm, but it seems like he's not and I find myself trying to focus on trying to squirt, which makes me more nervous,causing me not to even be horny anymore. Can anyone help me?
HotStuff

Deland, FL

#7 May 21, 2007
so so squirting wrote:
i can squirt -- but i certainly dont find that its all that great and it certainly in no way compares to an orgasm while the guy is inside. That said I do have some tips. First off I don't know of anyone who can squirt with more than one finger inside of her. I can do it with one finger -- but I would recommend trying while either getting head or self or other masturbation. What you need to do -- making sure you don't need to fart or go to the bathroom is by pushing out -- sometimes I think
this helps to have an orgasm and if you're being fucked most guys love it. You should feel like you are trying to push pee out, but NOOOOO pee should come -- you should
be able to tell by where the liquid comes out of -- if its the pee hole you need to be more turned on because most people cannot pee during intercourse masturbation etc. While sometimes I can squirt during an orgasm most of the time its a weaker orgasm and many times its not during an orgasm at all. Ultimately I think squirting is something girls and pornos do for show not really for the pleasure of the thing. I know I HATE when I guy pulls out when I just start cumming or when Im cumming -- therefore I dont see the point other than for the sake of knowing i can do it. anyway tell your boyfriend, who really seems like he needs to learn how to get off by pleasing YOU -- not the notions in his head -- that many stupid girls lie about orgasm and maybe squirting is all that he thinks its cracked up to be.
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My understanding is that the squirt comes from the eurethera like your pee does, but the source is different. I have successfully helped my girlfriend to a squirting orgasm and she tells me that they were the most fantastic orgasms she had. The trick to it is to stimulate the g-spot, a soft spungy area on the top of the vagina.

Since: May 07

Overland Park, KS

#8 May 21, 2007
CrazyForYou wrote:
I've been reading and reading about squirting and I just can't do it. My boyfriend wants to make me do and brags that he has done it to 4 other girls in the past. I feel like i'm not sexual pleasing him, i'm happy with a dry orgasm, but it seems like he's not and I find myself trying to focus on trying to squirt, which makes me more nervous,causing me not to even be horny anymore. Can anyone help me?
Tell him to get over it. You are not a squirter. Some girls are some are not. Most of those porn women are just pissing anyway. I for one am not a squirter and I have no problem with that. As long as you stay wet and have an orgasm you are a normal healthy woman. If he cannot deal with that then he needs to get over his ego. Or you could just piss on him. LOL, just kidding, but not really.
KittyKat

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#9 May 21, 2007
Carmel1978 wrote:
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Tell him to get over it. You are not a squirter. Some girls are some are not. Most of those porn women are just pissing anyway. I for one am not a squirter and I have no problem with that. As long as you stay wet and have an orgasm you are a normal healthy woman. If he cannot deal with that then he needs to get over his ego. Or you could just piss on him. LOL, just kidding, but not really.
LMAO, maybe I will piss on him just in spite of his ego.
KinkyLawyer

North Charleston, SC

#10 May 21, 2007
I think my wife has done this twice lately. After 24 years of marriage it was the first time it had ever happened. I thought she wet the bed. She was extremely horny at the time. I wasn't particularly turned on by it. In fact, I didn't like it at all.

As for the bragger, he's full of shit.
R-Dizzle

United States

#11 May 21, 2007
CrazyForYou wrote:
I've been reading and reading about squirting and I just can't do it. My boyfriend wants to make me do and brags that he has done it to 4 other girls in the past. I feel like i'm not sexual pleasing him, i'm happy with a dry orgasm, but it seems like he's not and I find myself trying to focus on trying to squirt, which makes me more nervous,causing me not to even be horny anymore. Can anyone help me?
my girlfriend doesnt squirt but im ok with that
R-Dizzle

United States

#12 May 21, 2007
oops it posted twice sry
KittyKat

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#13 May 24, 2007
R-Dizzle wrote:
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my girlfriend doesnt squirt but im ok with that
you should talk to my boyfirend then, lol. He is OBSESSED with it. It's really ruining our relationship =[

Since: May 07

Overland Park, KS

#14 May 24, 2007
KittyKat wrote:
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you should talk to my boyfirend then, lol. He is OBSESSED with it. It's really ruining our relationship =[
That is really sad KittyKat. I think your man's mind has been warped by porn. I love porn but to much can make some men think all women are like squirter's like that...
HotStuff

Deland, FL

#15 May 25, 2007
KittyKat wrote:
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you should talk to my boyfirend then, lol. He is OBSESSED with it. It's really ruining our relationship =[
There might be something else ruining your relationship that you haven't noticed yet. It sounds like instead of loving you for what you are, he want's to turn you into something that he imagines. IMHO you deserve more respect than that. You deserve a better lover than that.
nette

Altadena, CA

#16 May 27, 2007
why does it take me a long time to get an orgasm during oral sex; and why don't i have an orgasm during sexual intercouse ever

Since: May 07

Australia

#17 May 27, 2007
KinkyLawyer wrote:
I think my wife has done this twice lately. After 24 years of marriage it was the first time it had ever happened. I thought she wet the bed. She was extremely horny at the time. I wasn't particularly turned on by it. In fact, I didn't like it at all.
As for the bragger, he's full of shit.
I understand where you're coming from, 100%. But the fact that you could please her so much to make her squirt doesn't please you at all?
HotStuff

Deland, FL

#18 May 28, 2007
nette wrote:
why does it take me a long time to get an orgasm during oral sex; and why don't i have an orgasm during sexual intercouse ever
Two things come to mind 1)Sex is about 80% mental. What do you have on your mind during sex? If you are thinking about something else, like what you have to do at work, or if you're consumed with the thought that you have to orgasm, you probably won't. 2) Technique. Does your mate know what would make you feel good? Do you ask for the right attention? Do you know yourself what makes you orgasm? Practice having orgasms may help you. Do you masturbate? It would help you all ways around if you do.

“One day at a time”

Since: May 07

Dallas, Texas

#19 May 28, 2007
so so squirting wrote:
i can squirt -- but i certainly dont find that its all that great and it certainly in no way compares to an orgasm while the guy is inside. That said I do have some tips. First off I don't know of anyone who can squirt with more than one finger inside of her. I can do it with one finger -- but I would recommend trying while either getting head or self or other masturbation. What you need to do -- making sure you don't need to fart or go to the bathroom is by pushing out -- sometimes I think
this helps to have an orgasm and if you're being fucked most guys love it. You should feel like you are trying to push pee out, but NOOOOO pee should come -- you should
be able to tell by where the liquid comes out of -- if its the pee hole you need to be more turned on because most people cannot pee during intercourse masturbation etc. While sometimes I can squirt during an orgasm most of the time its a weaker orgasm and many times its not during an orgasm at all. Ultimately I think squirting is something girls and pornos do for show not really for the pleasure of the thing. I know I HATE when I guy pulls out when I just start cumming or when Im cumming -- therefore I dont see the point other than for the sake of knowing i can do it. anyway tell your boyfriend, who really seems like he needs to learn how to get off by pleasing YOU -- not the notions in his head -- that many stupid girls lie about orgasm and maybe squirting is all that he thinks its cracked up to be.
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Best reply I've seen. Gets me going just reading it. Thanks!

“One day at a time”

Since: May 07

Dallas, Texas

#20 May 28, 2007
I enjoy an orgasm as much as the next guy, but when it happens my 'sex-interest' declines immediately. I prefer to make certain my partner gets off, hopefully several times, before I do. If I don't get off at all sometimes, I still want my partner to. Maybe it's ego, but I love those smiles when I walk into the room. Is this typical?

Since: May 07

Overland Park, KS

#21 May 28, 2007
Sergeant Bob wrote:
I enjoy an orgasm as much as the next guy, but when it happens my 'sex-interest' declines immediately. I prefer to make certain my partner gets off, hopefully several times, before I do. If I don't get off at all sometimes, I still want my partner to. Maybe it's ego, but I love those smiles when I walk into the room. Is this typical?
It is not as typical as it should be. You are a very generous lover.
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