Should I ask my girlfriend for anal sex?

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John Dickenson

Hackettstown, NJ

#1 Sep 16, 2010
I have a wonderful girlfriend who is a virgin. We have tried to have intercourse, but my phallus gets soft as soon as she stops pumping it with her hand. Her vagina is also EXTREMELY tight. I cannot get a finger inside due to her uncomfortable nature. She says it feels alien to her, yet my penis seems to lessen her stress. I have had sex before and find myself fantasizing about anal more than vaginal. I'm not a homosexual (although I have no problem with anyone who is). I might be a little bi-curious at times. My question is this:

Do I ask my girlfriend for anal sex (I'm pretty sure I would have no problem maintaining an erection if we tried), or go to my urologist to obtain some Viagra or Cialis and try intercourse again?

We have had oral sex and role played. As long as she keeps the friction going, or I use my imagination of what I would do to her if she would let me, then I can hold the erection. Vaginal intercourse just doesn't turn me on, but I have never found a man attractive in respect to giving anal.
Joe

Bronx, NY

#3 Sep 16, 2010
Yes!

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#4 Sep 16, 2010
you dont have to ask exactly. try a finger in her ass during foreplay, and if she likes it, then work your way in. have fun!
mark

Silver Springs, NV

#5 Sep 16, 2010
Try getting in the dog style position. Massage your c#ck between her butt cheeks. Use some lube to make it slide easier. If you stay hard then quickly slam it in her poop chute without asking her. It will be great!
OMGG

Melbourne, FL

#6 Sep 16, 2010
no I wouldn't suggest you slam anything into her butt. You have to take it slooooooooooooowwwww! It has to enter two different points in her butt before it will be less painfull and you cannot rush the process. If you take Mark's advice you will ruin it for her

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Since: Jul 07

Gresham, OR

#8 Sep 16, 2010
What's the harm in asking? The worst that will happen is she'll say no.
mark

United States

#9 Sep 16, 2010
OMGG wrote:
no I wouldn't suggest you slam anything into her butt. You have to take it slooooooooooooowwwww! It has to enter two different points in her butt before it will be less painfull and you cannot rush the process. If you take Mark's advice you will ruin it for her
Slooooooooooooooooooowwwwwwww makes if hurt longer.
John Dickenson

Hackettstown, NJ

#10 Sep 16, 2010
LOL I know how to perform anal sex. Nobody has to worry about that. Nice and slow with lots of lube and communication. An enema and condom wouldn't hurt either. I would definitely ask her before sticking it in. I just need to know if I should or go through the long and arduous process of getting medication.
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John Dickenson

Hackettstown, NJ

#11 Sep 22, 2010
Great news for anyone who is interested! I asked my girlfriend if we could try anal sex. She said yes! So we are going to continue to try having intercourse while experimenting with her butt :)

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#12 Sep 22, 2010
I can't speak for all girls, but I love anal sex. I have tried it in all sorts of positions-doggy style, on my back with him holding my legs in the air, sitting on his lap, and once, standing. It is especially nice if he plays with my clitoris while his d**k is massaging back and forth in my rectum. Use plenty of lubricant and the sensation is completely wild.
John Dickenson

Hackettstown, NJ

#13 Sep 23, 2010
We just performed anal sex tonight! Wow. That was really nice and extremely tight. I am not worried about intercourse anymore. We'll make it work :D
John Dickenson

Hackettstown, NJ

#14 Sep 27, 2010
We were able to do it again last night! I am still going to get some Viagra or Cialis, because it takes way too long for me to become erect. I would recommend anal sex to anyone! Plowing into my girl, leaving my seed in her rectum and hearing her moan in pleasure is the highlight of my night.
Seneca2010

Findlay, OH

#15 Sep 27, 2010
Good Job John, I love hearing the moaning. The women seem to be loader during anal.
Erin

Dublin, CA

#16 Oct 21, 2010
Almost all my boyfriends have asked. Only one (my current BF) was lucky enough to do it.
mark

Grass Valley, CA

#17 Oct 21, 2010
Erin wrote:
Almost all my boyfriends have asked. Only one (my current BF) was lucky enough to do it.
Did you enjoy it?
Erin

Dublin, CA

#18 Oct 21, 2010
mark wrote:
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Did you enjoy it?
If I feel naughty, I can enjoy it. Otherwise, it's OK. Sorry but it's not something I'm crazy about.

Since: Aug 10

United States

#19 Oct 21, 2010
Just make sure she doesn't eat corn or peanuts!

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#21 Oct 22, 2010
John Dickenson wrote:
We were able to do it again last night! I am still going to get some Viagra or Cialis, because it takes way too long for me to become erect. I would recommend anal sex to anyone! Plowing into my girl, leaving my seed in her rectum and hearing her moan in pleasure is the highlight of my night.
How old are you and your g/f

Since: Feb 09

Gilbert, AZ

#22 Oct 22, 2010
BadDanna wrote:
I can't speak for all girls, but I love anal sex. I have tried it in all sorts of positions-doggy style, on my back with him holding my legs in the air, sitting on his lap, and once, standing. It is especially nice if he plays with my clitoris while his d**k is massaging back and forth in my rectum. Use plenty of lubricant and the sensation is completely wild.
That sounds like fun! But you can't have all of the fun- you'd have to put on a strap-on and do me too! LOL!
John Dickenson

Hackettstown, NJ

#23 Oct 22, 2010
matt416 wrote:
<quoted text>How old are you and your g/f
I am twenty one and she is about to turn twenty. I think this is the perfect age to start experimenting. She let me give her anal sex for a while. I can still get it anytime I want, but we are trying to have intercourse. I have had sex before, but my girlfriend has not.

After trying for a long period of time with no success I came to the conclusion that she has vaginismus. It seems that she becomes very nervous and tightens up her vaginal muscles whenever I get near her. Even my fingers hurt her (I am positive it is mostly psychological). My suspicions were confirmed when she went to someone at a Planned Parenthood center. I couldn't be there with her due to my class schedule (We are both in college), and she started crying as soon as the doctor came in.

Anal sex is incredible and I would advise anyone in a relationship to simply ask there partner to try it. Don't be embarrassed, because the potential pleasure for both lovers can be extremely satisfying.

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