How many married men or women have cheated?

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How many of yall have cheated? How many times, and what's the reason u did it for?
And for the ones that have been cheated on what's some of the clues that hinted ur spouse did or was cheating?
I'm very interested to know I won't judge!
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43 years and never have never will. Might flirt once in awhile but never cheated.
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U might be a first lol

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I have two times in 15 years. The first time I was 21, been married a little over a year. I flew home to go to class reunion. There was a party at one of my classmates home afterwards. I got a little buzzed and had sex with an old boyfriend. The second time was like 3 years ago. I was out with a girlfriend and we allowed ourselves to be picked up by a couple of 22 yo guys. She's married too.

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I have two times in 15 years. The first time I was 21, been married a little over a year. I flew home to go to class reunion. There was a party at one of my classmates home afterwards. I got a little buzzed and had sex with an old boyfriend. The second time was like 3 years ago. I was out with a girlfriend and we allowed ourselves to be picked up by a couple of 22 yo guys. She's married too.
hi mutha did ur hubby ever find out ? And would u do it again if u want to chat my email e51190@yahoo.com
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If he did find out did u tell him or did he find out?

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I have lived and learned. I cheated one time. I was 20 yrs young and married less than a year. My husband and I worked different shifts. I cheated with a coworker. I lived with guilt for a long time and despised myself for allowing it to happen. My husband never knew because he was too good of a man to be hurt in such a manner and I never told.
Through the self loathing I swore it would never happen again and it hasn't.
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barefoot n it wrote:
I have lived and learned. I cheated one time. I was 20 yrs young and married less than a year. My husband and I worked different shifts. I cheated with a coworker. I lived with guilt for a long time and despised myself for allowing it to happen. My husband never knew because he was too good of a man to be hurt in such a manner and I never told.
Through the self loathing I swore it would never happen again and it hasn't.
are u still married to him.
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Previous study had indicated 50% of guys had cheated on a gf or on a wife at least once and 33% of women had cheated at least once on a bf or a husband. More recent study indicates 50% men and 50% women. Those included long spans of time. In just a year's time I think the occurrance is suppose to be about 5% of women and 5% of men cheat.
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Wow! So the guy u cheated on him with... Has he tried an black mailed u or try to get some more?

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<quoted text> are u still married to him.
Sadly, no, I am not. That is another huge mistake I made. Looking back, I was just a kid and that is just what you did back then. Finish high school and get married not having a clue. I didn't understand how sacred marriage is like I do today. I think there should be a law that one should be 30 yrs old before thinking about marriage. More and more people I know are waiting these days. Hope it works for them.

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Wow! So the guy u cheated on him with... Has he tried an black mailed u or try to get some more?
There was no black mail and it wasn't about getting some. I saw the other guy for a while. The day came when he looked into my eyes and said, "I love you and I love my wife too". What would you do?

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I was never married, just had a longterm bf. If i did get married i don't believe in cheating, hopefully it would never come to that for either of us, if I ever did get married.
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Ithink you made a good choice about not telling him. He would have never believed or understood how bad you felt and probably never completly trusted you again, but you were trustworthy. As they say "the proof is in the puddin'" normaly I say complete honesty is best, but not this time.
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<quoted text>Sadly, no, I am not. That is another huge mistake I made. Looking back, I was just a kid and that is just what you did back then. Finish high school and get married not having a clue. I didn't understand how sacred marriage is like I do today. I think there should be a law that one should be 30 yrs old before thinking about marriage. More and more people I know are waiting these days. Hope it works for them.

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I have two times in 15 years. The first time I was 21, been married a little over a year. I flew home to go to class reunion. There was a party at one of my classmates home afterwards. I got a little buzzed and had sex with an old boyfriend. The second time was like 3 years ago. I was out with a girlfriend and we allowed ourselves to be picked up by a couple of 22 yo guys. She's married too.
Do you think you would ever do it again??

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In my 1st marriage I got heavily involved with one of my wife's friends..Long story short: she divorced me...took the house, car, money along with my sanity.
Never, ever want to go through that again. Besides my current wife has me so p**sy whipped I don't have the energy...

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saltydog wrote:
Ithink you made a good choice about not telling him. He would have never believed or understood how bad you felt and probably never completly trusted you again, but you were trustworthy. As they say "the proof is in the puddin'" normaly I say complete honesty is best, but not this time. <quoted text>
Thank you. Needed to hear that. I feel bad dscussing it 25 years later.
Now, if he doesn't read the H/S forum and recognize my toes, I'm finished with it.

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Doug77 wrote:
In my 1st marriage I got heavily involved with one of my wife's friends..Long story short: she divorced me...took the house, car, money along with my sanity.
Never, ever want to go through that again. Besides my current wife has me so p**sy whipped I don't have the energy...
YAY for your "whoopin":)
Divorce is a livin nightmare. I swore ten years ago that I would never do that again either. I haven't and I won't.
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<quoted text>Thank you. Needed to hear that. I feel bad dscussing it 25 years later.
Now, if he doesn't read the H/S forum and recognize my toes, I'm finished with it.
yup, that's the reason I asked. After 25 yrs it would have been a sham for him to learn of it now. No sense in hurting him now. But, I agree, your secret is safe.
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mutha of four wrote:
I have two times in 15 years. The first time I was 21, been married a little over a year. I flew home to go to class reunion. There was a party at one of my classmates home afterwards. I got a little buzzed and had sex with an old boyfriend. The second time was like 3 years ago. I was out with a girlfriend and we allowed ourselves to be picked up by a couple of 22 yo guys. She's married too.
So your a cheater in life!
I hope your kids find out and your husband. You sound like a bottom feeder.

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