Since: May 09

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#407 May 24, 2011
Nick24 wrote:
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Your three categories interested me greatly. I have been following this discussion in an absent-minded sort of way but your post got me thinking: "What category am I?" I went backwards and forwards between Categories 1 and 2 for quite some time but didn't feel totally comfortable with either of them.
I'm fairly certain I'm straight but I have let guys give me a blowjob occasionally. I actually have no real interest in THEIR junk, but I am a very courteous guy and it has always seemed rude to me not to show at least a passing concern that they get their rocks off too. I don't touch but I do stand by and watch if it seems the right thing to do. So I'm either a VERY polite straight guy or I'm bi-curious, I guess.
I can't help but recall something my older brother once told me: "If you've got your dick in another guy's mouth then you are definitely not straight!" I didn't pay much attention at the time but now I'm wondering what the hell he'd been up to that day!
I donít think you are in any of those categories at all. I think that you are more submissive by nature than you are dominant and thatís not a bad thing to be. I believe in all species there has to be a mix between dominant and submissive.
Judging by your comments I believe you would rather give a gift than receive one. I think you would rather watch a child eat chocolate for the first time than eat it yourself and I believe you are usually the one in a party who retrieves a drink for others and you donít even think about it.
I bet youíre a people watcher. You go to public places like the mall to watch other people rather than to look at the merchandise for sale.
Iím betting you find yourself holding the door open for everyone before you enter yourself and it donít matter if the youíre holding it for a man or a woman, young or old.
I donít believe you should worry about your sexuality. You shouldnít label yourself nor should you feel guilt for any natural urges you may or may not have. Itís more than clear that you are filling your slot in life. You do what is comfortable for you to do and I think thatís a beautiful thing.
Trust me, you donít need to look for a life partner. wife, soul mate or even friends. With your personality they would find you and you can count me as one and I would be honored.

“Peace & Goodwill”

Since: May 11

Location hidden

#408 May 24, 2011
LetNatureHpn wrote:
<quoted text>I donít think you are in any of those categories at all. I think that you are more submissive by nature than you are dominant and thatís not a bad thing to be. I believe in all species there has to be a mix between dominant and submissive.
Judging by your comments I believe you would rather give a gift than receive one. I think you would rather watch a child eat chocolate for the first time than eat it yourself and I believe you are usually the one in a party who retrieves a drink for others and you donít even think about it.
I bet youíre a people watcher. You go to public places like the mall to watch other people rather than to look at the merchandise for sale.
Iím betting you find yourself holding the door open for everyone before you enter yourself and it donít matter if the youíre holding it for a man or a woman, young or old.
I donít believe you should worry about your sexuality. You shouldnít label yourself nor should you feel guilt for any natural urges you may or may not have. Itís more than clear that you are filling your slot in life. You do what is comfortable for you to do and I think thatís a beautiful thing.
Trust me, you donít need to look for a life partner. wife, soul mate or even friends. With your personality they would find you and you can count me as one and I would be honored.
Well, thank you LetNatureHpn, and I too feel honoured to consider YOU as a friend. Your comments are very insightful and not far off the mark in most respects. You are 100% correct about the deference I give in doorways and also about the chocolate I would cheerfully forgo! And, at the risk of being thought a voyeur, I really do like to observe the people around me - not in order to live vicariously, but simply because there is nothing more infinitely variable, nothing more interesting to me than people and the sad, funny, crazy and wonderful things they say and do.
25Joe

United States

#409 May 24, 2011
I'm a straight, married guy and let gay guys blow me all the time. My wife doesn't like to suck anymore (imagine that), so I've gone bisexual, just for oral. I have to admit, on a few occasions I have returned the favor to a nice young twink.

I seriously think that woman should keep oral a part of the marriage for this very reason. I'd guess that 99 percent of married guys would not bother with gay bjs if their old lady would suck them.

“Marriage Equality”

Since: Dec 07

Lakeland, MI

#410 May 24, 2011
25Joe wrote:
I'm a straight, married guy and let gay guys blow me all the time. My wife doesn't like to suck anymore (imagine that), so I've gone bisexual, just for oral. I have to admit, on a few occasions I have returned the favor to a nice young twink.
I seriously think that woman should keep oral a part of the marriage for this very reason. I'd guess that 99 percent of married guys would not bother with gay bjs if their old lady would suck them.
Many of us gay guys have been quietly grateful to the women that won't give bjs for generations now.

I've had several married straight "regulars" over the years. They don't have any interest in me or any other guy, or even another woman, but they DO want their manhood sucked and sucked well and often. They'd prefer their wife do it, but if she won't, there are many other ways to get the job done. And I, for one, am glad to oblige.
25Joe

United States

#411 May 24, 2011
eJohn wrote:
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Many of us gay guys have been quietly grateful to the women that won't give bjs for generations now.
I've had several married straight "regulars" over the years. They don't have any interest in me or any other guy, or even another woman, but they DO want their manhood sucked and sucked well and often. They'd prefer their wife do it, but if she won't, there are many other ways to get the job done. And I, for one, am glad to oblige.
Thank the Lord for you guys, eJohn. The hardest part was for me to allow a guy to kiss me. I could suck his d!ck but not want to kiss him. Weird, huh?

“Marriage Equality”

Since: Dec 07

Lakeland, MI

#412 May 24, 2011
25Joe wrote:
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Thank the Lord for you guys, eJohn. The hardest part was for me to allow a guy to kiss me. I could suck his d!ck but not want to kiss him. Weird, huh?
Not weird at all. To many people, kissing is a far more intimate and meaningful act than a bj, giving or receiving. Bjs are about sexual pleasure. Kissing is an intimate communication between two people. I don't want that level of intimacy with a woman in the same way you don't want it with another guy.

BTW--I'm the same as you, but in the opposite direction. While I've never let a woman blow me, I can see where it would be possible for me to feel comfortable with it.

But NO WAY would I be comfortable kissing a woman. I tried it once. Definitely not my thing at all!! And why would a woman want to kiss me anyway when there are so many hot straight boys out there just waiting to make out with them??
camping friends

Danby, VT

#414 May 30, 2011
Im straight and have friends that are gay.
one is my bestfriend I didn't know he wa gay tell
my wedding when he meet a guy there. my wife did know. he is still my best friend alway.
But anyways before I get merried.
about 10 guys and myself went on a camping trip for a weekend.one of our friends ask me if I wanted to go hiking for the day so I did. I new he was gay but didn't think much of it. we hike for a good four hours he know the trail well can to a big pound in the woods no one around for miles.
so we where hot so we toke a swim nude we played around in the water like guys do. after an hour we got out and just layed in the grass to dry off.
that is when he ask if he could suck me off I said no way. I was thinking about it and told him I like to have him suck on me so he did. it was the best blow job I ever had..
Joe

Washington, DC

#415 May 30, 2011
eJohn wrote:
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Many of us gay guys have been quietly grateful to the women that won't give bjs for generations now.
I've had several married straight "regulars" over the years. They don't have any interest in me or any other guy, or even another woman, but they DO want their manhood sucked and sucked well and often. They'd prefer their wife do it, but if she won't, there are many other ways to get the job
done. And I, for one, am glad to oblige.
i'm str8 but love to show gay men my nude pics. Any pose or pic u desire. R u game ??
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“Peace & Goodwill”

Since: May 11

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#417 May 30, 2011
Joe wrote:
<quoted text>i'm str8 but love to show gay men my nude pics. Any pose or pic u desire. R u game ??
I say whatever floats your boat then go for it. But I am curious - is there a reason why you want other guys to see your tackle? Is it spectacularly large or something? Is it: "you can look but don't touch?" Or - and I have no difficulty in agreeing that male bodies can be as beautiful as female bodies - is it that you look very handsome, sensuous and erotic in your pictures? I have to say that a nude picture of me is just ... well, a nude picture of me, and probably not particularly interesting to anyone.
zacksc

Simpsonville, SC

#418 Jun 14, 2011
i'm to the point to where i can't stand being around my friend anymore.. and it's kind of hard being as we live together. idk what to do anymore. on one hand, i just wanna jump his bones. on the other i know he's straight and i wouldn't wanna do anything to ruin our friendship. he flirts with me all the time, only when we're alone tho (like i said, he's straight) he's talked about getting head and having sex with girls before, i guess i shoulda been like, dudes give better head lol. i can't stand it, i get so jealous sometimes.. if he's talking to a girl ha.. sometimes he will be watching porn on the computer or phone, but has it turned to where i can't see.. but its like i know what he's doing because.. yea i just do lol. what would you do? would you mention giving him a bj? i dont care about him touching me or anything, id just like to let him lay back and enjoy some nice head. how do you even go about asking, though???
yours

Simpsonville, SC

#419 Jun 15, 2011
just ask him lol

Since: May 08

Greenville, TX

#421 Jun 15, 2011
eJohn wrote:
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Many of us gay guys have been quietly grateful to the women that won't give bjs for generations now.
I've had several married straight "regulars" over the years. They don't have any interest in me or any other guy, or even another woman, but they DO want their manhood sucked and sucked well and often. They'd prefer their wife do it, but if she won't, there are many other ways to get the job done. And I, for one, am glad to oblige.
eJohn... I so totally agree with you.
I too am grateful to the non-sucking wives out there. I have been able to find many horny married men who just want their cock sucked, and it so enjoyable to suck them off. I have 3 regulars I suck about once per week, and I'm working on a couple others to become dependable regulars. I now have married guys texting me fairly often asking when I am free to hook up. I really enjoy it. It is sexy and erotic to discreetly suck off my married guys. Got 2 lined up for tomorrow... can't wait.
Curiousguy

Bangor, UK

#422 Jun 27, 2011
NYC Guy wrote:
Bi guy here and I always have the urge to suck off my str8 buddies - but am too scared to ever mention it to them. I am very happy to provide no stings service - they just need to sit back, I do all the work, they shoot, I swallow, and we go our seperate ways..
Any guys have an idea?
How can I ask my buds to let me suck them off?
I'm have a gf but I'd like to suck a c**k just to see what it's like. I dunno how I can. Have no gay friends.
Any ideas?
Joe

Washington, DC

#423 Jun 27, 2011
Curiousguy wrote:
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I'm have a gf but I'd like to suck a c**k just to see what it's like. I dunno how I can. Have no gay friends.
Any ideas?
Go to where gay guys work. U can find em like in retail shops or working the cash register at the supermarket. Or u can s*ck mine. I'll let you.

“Marriage Equality”

Since: Dec 07

Lakeland, MI

#425 Jun 27, 2011
Curiousguy wrote:
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I'm have a gf but I'd like to suck a c**k just to see what it's like. I dunno how I can. Have no gay friends.
Any ideas?
The guy doesn't have to be gay, he just has to be willing. Surely you have a guy friend or two with a really open mind you could discuss it with. You might end up surprised.

Most of the truly casual c*cksucking I've done has been with straight guys, mostly because it's so hard for them to get decent head from women. God love all those up-tight gals who refuse to suck dick!! Their husbands and boyfriends are *SO* appreciative when they get really good head from me!

Come to think of it, maybe you should start with your guy friends that have a really sex-negative wife or GF.... You know, the ones that complain about not getting any very often???

:-)
JJM

Salinas, CA

#426 Jul 1, 2011
What really makes me laugh is how guys admit to have engaged in homosexual sex, yet they insist that they're straight, LOL. Sorry guys, no cheating! No such thing as "straight" if you're secretly allowing other men to blow you on the side. Even if you're the "man" and he's the "chick" during sex, you're still not straight, bozos...

“Marriage Equality”

Since: Dec 07

Lakeland, MI

#427 Jul 1, 2011
JJM wrote:
What really makes me laugh is how guys admit to have engaged in homosexual sex, yet they insist that they're straight, LOL. Sorry guys, no cheating! No such thing as "straight" if you're secretly allowing other men to blow you on the side. Even if you're the "man" and he's the "chick" during sex, you're still not straight, bozos...
Using that "logic", any guy that jerks off is gay, right?? He's a guy being sexually pleasured by a guy, right??

THINK before you post, okay??
johny

United States

#428 Jul 1, 2011
My oldlady gives good head but sometimes you find yourself at the right placce and a willing mouth to do you and change up is real rewarding when a dude does you I like it sometime never had a bad b/jcould use one now

Since: Jul 11

Location hidden

#429 Jul 2, 2011
Here is my case.A mate stayed over at mine after falling out with his parents. The first two nights he slept on the floor beside my bed in a sleeping bag on the 3rd night he asked if he could sleep in my bed as his back was hurting from sleeping on the floor. I agreed he is a good mate so no probs. He is a it of a fighter infact he is top dog among my friends.I have never had a gay thought in my life until that night.

Anyway I usually have a quick Jiggle at my pickle before getting off to sleep addiction I suppose but for obvious reasons I could not that night. I only have a single bed I was at the inside facing the wall he was at the outside facing out the way.Because I had not had my nightly Jiggle I was struggling to get to sleep after a while probably about an hour my mate turns round to face my back and sort of cuddled into me my bed is small but he was still closer than he had to be so close I could feel his cock against my ass through my boxers. Had this been any other friend I think I would have kicked out to push him away but I was worried that he would cause a scene in my house in the early hours so just lay there pretending I was asleep.The next thing his hand is around me and resting on the front of my boxers. I honestly don't know why as I say I had never thought gay before but for some reason I sprang a bonner. I am not sure if my cock moved towards his hand or if his hand moved on to my cock through the boxers but he started moving my cock through the material. At this point I was just so turned on I knew a guy was playing with my dick and was just lying there letting him. The next thing his hand is inside my boxers and he is Jiggling me so fast my foreskin was burning hot and I just came all over the inside of my boxers and his hand making a right mess. He wiped his hand on the front of my boxers and turned around to face out the bed again. I could tell by his movements he was Jiggling then he let out a grunt then I could feel movement as he cleaned upbut I am still not sure what he used. I just fell asleep after that the following day he made up with his parents and went back home he has not stayed since and neither of us have mentioned what happened that was nearly two weeks ago. I just hope he falls out with his parents again soon as I cant stop thinking about it. Lets just say that he will be invited to sleep in my bed from the first night. jiggleyourpickle at live dot com. if you want to comment privately

“Marriage Equality”

Since: Dec 07

Lakeland, MI

#430 Jul 2, 2011
johny wrote:
My oldlady gives good head but sometimes you find yourself at the right placce and a willing mouth to do you and change up is real rewarding when a dude does you I like it sometime never had a bad b/jcould use one now
Can you tell us how you, as a married straight guy, end up getting your d*ck s*cked by another guy? How do you let him know that you're willing and how does he let you know that he's interested?

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