I donít think you are in any of those categories at all. I think that you are more submissive by nature than you are dominant and thatís not a bad thing to be. I believe in all species there has to be a mix between dominant and submissive.<quoted text>
Your three categories interested me greatly. I have been following this discussion in an absent-minded sort of way but your post got me thinking: "What category am I?" I went backwards and forwards between Categories 1 and 2 for quite some time but didn't feel totally comfortable with either of them.
I'm fairly certain I'm straight but I have let guys give me a blowjob occasionally. I actually have no real interest in THEIR junk, but I am a very courteous guy and it has always seemed rude to me not to show at least a passing concern that they get their rocks off too. I don't touch but I do stand by and watch if it seems the right thing to do. So I'm either a VERY polite straight guy or I'm bi-curious, I guess.
I can't help but recall something my older brother once told me: "If you've got your dick in another guy's mouth then you are definitely not straight!" I didn't pay much attention at the time but now I'm wondering what the hell he'd been up to that day!
Judging by your comments I believe you would rather give a gift than receive one. I think you would rather watch a child eat chocolate for the first time than eat it yourself and I believe you are usually the one in a party who retrieves a drink for others and you donít even think about it.
I bet youíre a people watcher. You go to public places like the mall to watch other people rather than to look at the merchandise for sale.
Iím betting you find yourself holding the door open for everyone before you enter yourself and it donít matter if the youíre holding it for a man or a woman, young or old.
I donít believe you should worry about your sexuality. You shouldnít label yourself nor should you feel guilt for any natural urges you may or may not have. Itís more than clear that you are filling your slot in life. You do what is comfortable for you to do and I think thatís a beautiful thing.
Trust me, you donít need to look for a life partner. wife, soul mate or even friends. With your personality they would find you and you can count me as one and I would be honored.