Do really str8 guys ever let their gay buds suck them off?

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NYC Guy

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#1 Sep 2, 2008
Bi guy here and I always have the urge to suck off my str8 buddies - but am too scared to ever mention it to them. I am very happy to provide no stings service - they just need to sit back, I do all the work, they shoot, I swallow, and we go our seperate ways..

Any guys have an idea?

How can I ask my buds to let me suck them off?

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imstraightheyyy

Irvine, CA

#5 Oct 29, 2008
the answer is yea.
im 100% straight and im only into chicks...but my friend randomly asked me one day (he seemed to be straight until this...yet he has a girlfriend) and i was shocked. i said no, then the next time we chilled after the gay thing blew over, he said he wouldnt bring it up again because it made me feel uncomfortable, but he did it as we were talking about chicks, then i was already horny so i was joking and said suck it....then he went to work, and i let him any chance i get

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DolVliNanT

Lake Luzerne, NY

#6 Oct 29, 2008
i would say yes to you dont listen to that d1.k
daniel

Daleville, AL

#8 Oct 29, 2008
im bi-curious. so one time i let curtis blow me. and hes straight.
daniel

Daleville, AL

#9 Oct 29, 2008
NYC Guy wrote:
Bi guy here and I always have the urge to suck off my str8 buddies - but am too scared to ever mention it to them. I am very happy to provide no stings service - they just need to sit back, I do all the work, they shoot, I swallow, and we go our seperate ways..
Any guys have an idea?
How can I ask my buds to let me suck them off?
where do you live? we might can try the experience on each other baby. and it'll feel good!

:)

“Son of Abraham”

Since: Aug 07

Natural Deviant

#10 Oct 30, 2008
daniel wrote:
im bi-curious. so one time i let curtis blow me. and hes straight.
Newsflash: A guy who sucks c*ck isn't "straight".

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RealityDealer

Columbus, OH

#11 Oct 30, 2008
McMike wrote:
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Newsflash: A guy who sucks c*ck isn't "straight".
I totally agree. The definitions of straight, bi, and gay are pretty clear.

Like come on, stop with the denial. If you are sucking c*ck or getting pounded in the ass by another dude, you must be out of your mind to be claiming your straight. Just admit, be happy, and live your life.

Since: Oct 08

Wiener Neudorf, Austria

#12 Oct 30, 2008
RealityDealer wrote:
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I totally agree. The definitions of straight, bi, and gay are pretty clear.
Like come on, stop with the denial. If you are sucking c*ck or getting pounded in the ass by another dude, you must be out of your mind to be claiming your straight. Just admit, be happy, and live your life.
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#13 Oct 30, 2008
NYC Guy wrote:
Bi guy here and I always have the urge to suck off my str8 buddies - but am too scared to ever mention it to them. I am very happy to provide no stings service - they just need to sit back, I do all the work, they shoot, I swallow, and we go our seperate ways..
Any guys have an idea?
How can I ask my buds to let me suck them off?
i consider myself straight,, i did a 69 with a guy once 28 years ago,, but i think i want to do it one more time,, if your freinds now your bi just ask them ,, say hey you know im bi can i give you a bj? i would accept
jay man

Bolton, Canada

#14 Oct 30, 2008
ive always wanted to suck off like 10 guys at once but not my friends cause that would make it weird
cool guy

United States

#15 Oct 30, 2008
I know allot of my straight friends that get blown by dudes the ones who say they dont or mostly say the wont DO !
mike

United States

#16 Oct 30, 2008
I agree cool guy nothing like a good BJ why are girls ok with doing it with eachother but guys are so scared of addmitting
DolVliNanT

Lake Luzerne, NY

#17 Oct 30, 2008
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!
Gary

Troy, MI

#18 Oct 30, 2008
NYC Guy wrote:
Bi guy here and I always have the urge to suck off my str8 buddies - but am too scared to ever mention it to them. I am very happy to provide no stings service - they just need to sit back, I do all the work, they shoot, I swallow, and we go our seperate ways..
Any guys have an idea?
How can I ask my buds to let me suck them off?
While I would not say everyone will react as strongly as labia lover, you do have to be prepared for very strong negative reactions from truly straight guys. Strong enough that they likely will not be comfortable continuing to hang out with you. Others might be ok with it. My question is...is it friendship you want from them or some sort of thrill? If you just want to blow guys...then have some gay friends and you won't need to risk losing the friendship of straight guys.
panTsniffr

United States

#22 Jan 19, 2009
jay man wrote:
ive always wanted to suck off like 10 guys at once but not my friends cause that would make it weird
yea me too!
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#23 Jan 20, 2009
NYC Guy wrote:
Bi guy here and I always have the urge to suck off my str8 buddies - but am too scared to ever mention it to them. I am very happy to provide no stings service - they just need to sit back, I do all the work, they shoot, I swallow, and we go our seperate ways..
Any guys have an idea?
How can I ask my buds to let me suck them off?
Just do it. While looking at porn just sort of give off a sexual vibe.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#24 Jan 20, 2009
Labia Lover wrote:
You don't ask them unless you want your shit smeller mashed in for you.
The answer is hell no we don't let gays suck us off and for that matter we don't have gay "buds" as you put it.
Go to the gay forum. You will be welcome there.
Homophobia=gay. Most of my friends are straight, and most of my friends Ive had sex with. Its 2009, get with the program.

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#25 Jan 20, 2009
As a phone sex operator, I hear a lot of things from guys that they won't tell anyone else. A lot of guys that are very into girls and have no interest in a relationship with a guy are still very curious about having sexual experiences with other men. And many are VERY afraid to talk about it, for obvious reasons. Which is a shame because the ones that aren't afraid have SOOOO much fun with it.

Some of the best calls I do are the fantasy role plays where I'm the girl that forces a guy to suck another guy's c*ck. That little twist allows them to enjoy it fully and boy DO they!!

If more men could let go of the fear of the labels and just have fun with what feels good, they could open themselves up to exciting new possibilities.

My suggestion to the OP is that you find a way to joke about it or subtly let on that you're available so that the friends of yours that might be like these clients of mine might eventually get up the nerve to come to you. Then you don't offend or put off the homophobic, frightened ones but you open the door to the curious ones.

One caveat: I hear a lot more about men who want to suck than be sucked... haha, seems ironic to me. I don't talk to a lot of gay men so maybe one of you can help me understand that better.
flyboy

Glen Allen, VA

#26 Jan 20, 2009
TriciaThePhoneSexOperator wrote:
As a phone sex operator, I hear a lot of things from guys that they won't tell anyone else. A lot of guys that are very into girls and have no interest in a relationship with a guy are still very curious about having sexual experiences with other men. And many are VERY afraid to talk about it, for obvious reasons. Which is a shame because the ones that aren't afraid have SOOOO much fun with it.
Some of the best calls I do are the fantasy role plays where I'm the girl that forces a guy to suck another guy's c*ck. That little twist allows them to enjoy it fully and boy DO they!!
If more men could let go of the fear of the labels and just have fun with what feels good, they could open themselves up to exciting new possibilities.
My suggestion to the OP is that you find a way to joke about it or subtly let on that you're available so that the friends of yours that might be like these clients of mine might eventually get up the nerve to come to you. Then you don't offend or put off the homophobic, frightened ones but you open the door to the curious ones.
One caveat: I hear a lot more about men who want to suck than be sucked... haha, seems ironic to me. I don't talk to a lot of gay men so maybe one of you can help me understand that better.
The homophobic ones are usually gay. And yes, its sad that many men are so scared of their feelings, but things are getting better as society is getting less homophobic. And yes, alot of the curious boys love to suck a c**k, I dont know why, but who can resist a hard hot piece of man meat in your mouth.
Mike

Tuckahoe, NY

#27 Jan 20, 2009
At my dorm, my room mate is bi, and he sucks my d*ck anytime he wants to. It started after i got my p*nis pierced, and he sked if he could see it, and the next thing was that he was blowing me. He gives the best head that I have ever received, and I have been getting head since I was 13. He always swalows my load, and never has asked me to do anything to him, and I wouldn't do it anyway.

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