Facesitting / Queening

[FSManAtl]

Hi All,
The dialog was posted on fetlife.com by MsWicked. I truly thank her for her contribution. It is a historical account of the art and practice of Facesitting. It truly captures the essence of why this is my favorite fetish. It's a long dialog, so it may take several posts to get it all in.

I'd like to hear different perspectives from the Dominant and submissive sides.

Queening is, in the sado-masochistic pantheon of arts, the use of the male face, mouth, and nose and tongue, as a substitute for sexual intercourse and masturbation, by the dominant woman.

It places the man in the most slavish, subservient position, under the woman's buttocks and crotch. She sits on his face, or has his head trapped between her thighs. The whole event is devoted to her pleasure, her orgasms, and her time schedule. The man's pleasure or pain, satisfaction or frustration, desires or fears are of little importance, if any. The woman's clitoris, vulva, labia and vagina demand service.

This thrilling, delicious sexual practice has an ancient and traditional history. Ladies of medieval households often had pages provide them with mouth, lip and tongue service under their skirts while their husband were absent, thus remaining, technically faithful. Many a young boy had his first lessons in. sex with his head under Madame’s backside, with her quim vigorously riding his face. Many young girls still virgins, enjoyed orgasms on a male servant's mouths as the earliest sexual experiences. In ancient Chinese courts one long tongued, trained male slave was used by female royalty and court ladies as casually as if they were going to the lavatory. The slave would be summoned, face-fucked then dismissed casually and serenely. In old Japan, brothels would provide male victims for such use by visiting, paying women and girls.

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[FSManAtl]

'Queening' by definition, requires a dominant, demanding woman and a subservient, obedient man. The woman must be concerned only with her personal pleasure and satisfaction. His mouth, lips, tongue and nose are merely live tools there to pleasure her labia, clitoris, vulva and vaginal passage. He must be trained, if necessary by painful punishment, in the proper use of his facial features. She must gain the maximum delight and orgasmic satisfaction without concerning herself with her victim's possible distress, humiliation and discomfort. He is nothing more than a sexual toy or playing, as of no more importance than her lavatory pan, her sanitary towels, her dildo, her handkerchief, her lavatory paper, her condoms or contraception pills, or her vaginal douche - all quite necessary to her private sexual and private well being, but all useable and disposable.
The choice of type of slave is up to her. She may wish to have a wimpish male twit under her backside and quim. She may find more delight in subduing a macho strong male. She may have a cuckolded husband to humiliate, taunt and sit on. She may have developed her talents as a schoolgirl, together with her girlfriends, taking the school wimp into the girls' lavatory and taking turns in squatting on his face. She may have gained experience by dominating a younger brother, riding his face selfishly while their parents were asleep or away from home.
Some women like to have a mouth-dildo attached to their slave's head, sticking up from his open mouth as a rideable accessory. This provides pleasant, full, vaginal passage orgasms, but prevents sucking and licking by the male victim. Other women blindfold their prone slaves, thus deleting any possible visual pleasure they might obtain. A few cruel ladies inevitably urinate on to his face after having orgasmed. Others enjoy demanding mouth service right after enjoying satisfactory adultery with a lover, thus making the victim more humiliated. Most talented queening ladies humiliate, taunt, torment, degrade and tease their victims before and after this enforced cunnilingus.

[Becky]

I have done this with my female partner, so it is enjoyed by subs of both genders actually. Very nice description!

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[Becky]

hey a/o out there dom or sub?

[FSManAtl]

Hi Becky,
Thanks for your post. I myself am mostly sub, but not a lifestyler. I have, however been on top on occasion.

I love to see pics and vids of F/f facesitting. I think it is very hot! I have done some M/m play as well.

[Becky]

My partner is a larger and older lady (she's 5'9 about 160, age 40) while I'm smaller and younger (5'3, 130-135 age 27). She's like a queen totally when she does this and she has a gorgeous a** and totally shaved vag***. She does it like you describe she'll watch TV or read or whatever while I pleasure her. She likes it at the end of long, stressful days.

[FSManAtl]

Wow, Sounds totally yummy and hot. She can physically dominate you as well. Question; does she ever wear any panties while sitting on you. I find clothed facesitting highly erotic as well. Especially after a stressful day, the natural scent of her daily activities would still be fresh!

[Becky]

Yes she does occasionally do it like that. I find her size to work well when I'm put over rhe knees ;)

[Dave]

becky, want to chat?

[Becky]

Dave wrote:

becky, want to chat?

only here

[Dave]

not horny?

[Dave]

we could cam? have some fun...i am very adventurous. what ever to please you

[Becky]

Dave wrote:

we could cam? have some fun...i am very adventurous. what ever to please you

hey dave I'm not too into guys but we can chat here if you want otherwise hope you find s/o else hot and fun!

[FSManAtl]

Becky,
Are you always the bottom? Ever switch? Ever have a third party join you? My fav scenario is to be the low person on the totem pole, to be used by a Domme and her sub.

[Becky]

FSManAtl wrote:

Becky,
Are you always the bottom? Ever switch? Ever have a third party join you? My fav scenario is to be the low person on the totem pole, to be used by a Domme and her sub.

I have switched but only for spanking which my top occasionaly enjoys - and I too actually
We just had a third join us a week or two ago for the first time in three years. It was a sub frienf of mine named Susan and it was awesome. I was absolutely the lowest on the totem pole just how I wanted it. The best was pony play where Susan rode me with my partner supervising. Also worshipping both their pu**ies and as*es was really hot! They also took turns fu**ing me with her bright pink strap-on, back and forth like a wh*re

[FSManAtl]

Becky,
You and I have very similar tastes when it comes to submission. That type of scene sound totally awesome! I hope they both took turns sitting on your face and making you worship their Ass*s & pu**ies.

I've done that with a few married couples. Some where the Female was domme, and a couple where the male was dom. They were all hot. Something about being the lowest puts me in a sub-space that I love.
Thanks for your responses.

[sweetblackpussy]

Mmmm Becky. I would love to use that face. I have a sub now that I love to do the same thing with. Just sitting on her face while I watch tv, and talk on the phone. Gives me total control over her. I have a big black ass, so it gives me pleasure that she fears it but it also turns her on. How did u and ur partner start this relationshp?

[Becky]

married couples are hot. my partner is a married woman w/ a more submissive husband but a threesome hasn't happened yet...

[Becky]

sweetblackpussy wrote:

Mmmm Becky. I would love to use that face. I have a sub now that I love to do the same thing with. Just sitting on her face while I watch tv, and talk on the phone. Gives me total control over her. I have a big black ass, so it gives me pleasure that she fears it but it also turns her on. How did u and ur partner start this relationshp?

her husband works in the same building and we went out for coffee. we were friends for a while until I ticked her off once and that's how we slowly worked into the spanking thing. I've wanted an older dom. woman for a while (I'm 27, she's 40). She's a mom and also taller and bigger so it works really well.
omg I love big black a** I would love to be your seat ;) tell me more

[FSManAtl]

You Bet! Once I was beneath the sub wife, pleasuring her at her husbands request. She saw straddling my shoulder, facing my feet. He then got behind her and began F*cking her in the A*s. I was commanded to lick them both as he was impaling her. It was totally, totally hot!

I know that your not into guys per se, but if your partner commanded you to do so, wouldn't it be a turn-on?