Since: Jan 08

Astoria, NY

#65 Aug 9, 2008
i dont think girls care, its just how u carry urself and how much confidence u got. sometimes when i get a good haircut, feel good and dress nice, people are like dauymmmmm this guy's hot. and some other days, when my eyes are all black, dressed poorly i walk like a loser people are like "loser". anyway i dont think it has anything to do with me,i htink its just people are so self centered and worried about looks so much.
Elisa

Bedford Hills, NY

#66 Aug 10, 2008
OOOoooohhhh def buff! i'm 5'5 and about 116. I've been told i'm petite and for me the total opposite is such a turn on! Short/slender with Tall and muscular. There's just something enticing about buff guys...it's like they can overpower you but in a good way if you know what i mean....but can still be gentle when you like. Also, there's something protective about them....you feel so safe and warm in their arms.:)
jab

Islamabad, Pakistan

#67 Sep 15, 2008
i like sex

“And tell me he's not comfy...”

Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#68 Sep 15, 2008
never been a skinny guy

either been fat or buff

I was getting quite buff recently then after my gf got sick i stopped working out I gained lots of weight

“And tell me he's not comfy...”

Since: Feb 08

Westminster, MD

#69 Sep 15, 2008
but also I'm naturally a big guy anyway, like broad shouldered
no way

East Kilbride, UK

#70 Sep 27, 2008
i prefer skinny guys
as long as there not so skinny that there ribs are sticking right out
muscly guys are nice
but i actually prefer skinny guys
tall skinny with dark hair ;)

and your not underweight
your bmi is ideal :)
Sarah

Atoka, TN

#71 Oct 30, 2008
I like skinny guys with ribs poking out:/
Which is probably just as bad as when guys say they like skinny girls with ribs poking out. So I apologize:(
Guy

Seabrook, TX

#72 Oct 31, 2008
First of all, as far as the suggestion of working out... and bulking up... that'll solve everything type of thing. It's not that easy. If you are a skinny guy you could be a hard gainer and not put on much bulk or mass no matter what. Plus, in order to see results you have to lift just right, eat just right, sleep just right, etc. etc. It's a hard road and a permanent lifestyle change and routine. Not as easy as one would think. There's alot of research and trial and error involved.

Next, I am as skinny as you are. 5'10" and 135lbs and I have had only few girls tell me that I was too skinny for them. Carry yourself well, be confident, be yourself and make em' laugh and you should be fine.

Oh... and wear clothes that fit your body. The wrong clothes could make you look even scrawnier. Wear clothes that are flattering to your dimensions and your body. Hope this helps.
Cheers!
Join Free

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#73 Oct 31, 2008
In the US, most of the women don't like guys at all.

“GETTING MARRIED!!!!!”

Since: Jan 08

South Bend, IN

#74 Nov 2, 2008
Most women like guys.......
london boy

Russia

#75 Nov 2, 2008
my gf is efinitely one of the "muscle lovers". she loves watching me lifting weights and doing stuff like writing the numbers 1-6 on my six pack. lol. and she tell me to flex my biceps so she can squeeze them and she looks as if shes about to orgasm or something. lol. im not like a bodybuilder or anything. im naturally muscular and i work out quite a lot and play a lot of sports. i dont take supplements or anything.
mince

Watford, UK

#76 Nov 2, 2008
i think that girls just don't want a guy skinnier than them because they'll feel fat ...its true
Nyx

Since: Oct 08

Bolton, Canada

#77 Nov 2, 2008
I honestly have no preference when it comes to this.

I've been attracted to really skinny guys, to chubbier guys, to muscular guys, and to "normal" guys. Really, it's not at the top of my list of things that are really important.

I do love my boyfriend's body though. He's slender, but not too skinny... a bit of muscle on the arms and chest but nothing too built up... mmm. His body type is perfect for his height... and he looks fucking sexy in skinny jeans and a leather jacket.
RocSteady

Madison, WI

#78 Jan 28, 2009
I'm a thick guy (solid not chunky) and girls seem to like broad shoulders and toned muscles. Think about it this way, at what stage does the human body function with maximum proficiency? Aim for THAT and stop worrying about it so much. As far as the anxiety with girls, I would say just be yourself but that's not entirely correct. Be who you WANT to be and I'm sure you don't want to be that skinny, weird, antisocial kid. Ever seen Fight Club? Be your Tyler Durden myspace.com/hxcstunna

“Coco Fesse, the sexiest seed”

Since: Dec 08

Praslin Island-Iles Des Palmes

#80 Jan 29, 2009
It depends on the woman taste and type.
Ten years ago i would have chosen tough, muscular and large guys, not so tall.

Today am more sexually experienced and my body is thicker, i would go for those who are sexually strong and hard regardless of their body appearances.
I've realised that strength have nothing to do with physical look. i've always underestimate men who are smaller and thinner than myself, until one really rock my world and i left the task unfinished.

so my criteria is simply, guys who can satisfies and fullfil my sexual drives to the most.
Usually such are shy guys, simple and they are'nt loud, proud and show off, but during sex completely the opposite. Their physical appearance vary.

“To love and be loved”

Since: Jun 08

right here, right now...

#82 Jan 29, 2009
Kimmy wrote:
It depends on the girl, so the answer is entirely objective.
If you’re asking for my own opinion, I am partial to skinnier guys who are in adequate shape. Most women I know prefer the media’s display of lean and muscular guys, hence the unrealistic standards of the ideal body type for both men and women. Yet, guys' bodies have a wider range of acceptance than girls. So your body is probably fine, maybe you could start lifting...
Knock, knock! Here's KissandTell. Please to meet you!!!

That's a good idea "Kimmy"!!!
my2cents from the soapbox

United States

#83 Jan 29, 2009
ladygeva wrote:
It depends on the woman taste and type.
Ten years ago i would have chosen tough, muscular and large guys, not so tall.
Today am more sexually experienced and my body is thicker, i would go for those who are sexually strong and hard regardless of their body appearances.
I've realised that strength have nothing to do with physical look. i've always underestimate men who are smaller and thinner than myself, until one really rock my world and i left the task unfinished.
so my criteria is simply, guys who can satisfies and fullfil my sexual drives to the most.
Usually such are shy guys, simple and they are'nt loud, proud and show off, but during sex completely the opposite. Their physical appearance vary.
I agree!!! The best lovers come in the most surprising packages! I gave up my "ideal" physique ages ago. As I matured I discovered it boils down to a great personality that gets me hooked, and then I allow the possibility for chemistry to happen without putting mental restrictions on that chemistry based on physical size/weight/condition.
ByTheWay

London, KY

#84 Jan 29, 2009
Some women simply will not look past someone's physical appearance. But the number 1 key to getting women to like you and/or want to date you? Make them laugh! It works every single time. If you're confident and look like you care about how you look then you're going to get laid. No questions asked.

I'm a thin guy too. But I take care of myself, I eat right and I lift regularly. I also play a lot of basketball (because I love it) and I do fine with women. I'm only 5'10" and 165lbs. I've been in bars and seen guys that are swollen and musclebound leave by themselves. While I've been laughing and having fun with a really cute girl. They were to busy looking badass to relax.

If you're feeling self-conscious about it bro, just get in the gym and do something about it. Get out there and do it!
Boberton

Oceanside, NY

#85 Feb 2, 2009
Who likes fat people? they:

1 are lazy
2 unable to run a mile
3 unable to "do it"
4 DISGUSTING ON A BEACH
5 will die of a heart attack or cancer
6 are laughed at their fat
7 can't say no to a cheeseburger
8 DISGUSTING EVERYWHERE ELSE
9 Eat pounds of food while other people in the world die everyday from starving }:0
10 Have more diseases and problems than a skinny anerextic person

The list could go on 4 ever, but it's pretty obvious that most women would either like strong guys or skinny guys
EWWW

Oceanside, NY

#86 Feb 2, 2009
Think about it wrote:
I like fat guys, but, I am a guy...sooo
ew!

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