Start with some woman-on-woman adult DVDs - watch them with him, talk to him about woman-on-woman sex and s**k his c**k as he watches the pretty ladies do each other.I am a woman who would love to get with other guys while my husband watches but he is super jealous and wont even consider it. any advice on how to change his mind
After a few times of this, ask him if he'd like to try a FMF 3-way with you and another woman. Get him to participate in a FMF 3-way a few times. Next, bring him home two chicks for the 3-way. Of course, any time you want to hop in and eat the other woman or women, I'm sure he would love that, too.
Next, find a couple who would like to have sex with the two of you. Start out with being just friends - have them over for drinks or dinner, do non-sexual things with them.
Slowly start to talk to your husband about how you are attracted to the other woman, how you are beginning to have fantasies about doing her, etc. Have them over for dinner & drinks sometime and start playfully coming on to the woman. The goal is for you to end up having sex with her as your men watch.
Once that happens, have them over for a repeat encounter. After a second or third repeat, suggest that the men join in, you doing your husband, the other couple doing each other - in the same room so that you can all watch each other. do this a couple of times before taking the last step.
The last step is to suggest to your husband that when the four of you are having sex together that there be no restrictions - that if he wants to f**k the other woman, he has your blessing. Then ask him for his blessing to do likewise with the other man. Hopefully by this point he will be okay with the thought of allowing this to happen.
What you are doing is opening doors for him sexually, broadening his horizons and giving him some very enticing sexual options.
With some gentle guidance on your part and being very attentive to his emotions, fears, concerns, etc. you should be able to ease him into swapping with another couple.
Every man has fantasies about this - alot of men are afraid to try it, though. It is important to go slowly and gently with him and ease him into this.
You want to f**k other men and this may be a way to make your fantasy come true. If this works for your husband, you will get to f**k other men.
Once he is comfortable with this, you can slowly widen your circle of swapping friends to include other couples so that you have some variety in men.
The most important thing is to go slowly, ease him in to this and above all, impress upon him that he is the only man you love, that he is #1 in your life and that the fun with other couples is just that - fun only.
Make sure he knows that no matter what happens with other couples it is HE that you love and only HE that you curl up in bed with every night.
This is extremely important because alot of men's fears in allowing their wives/GFs to play with other men come from the fear that some other guy will have a bigger c**k than they do, that some other guy will satisy you better than he can - and that it will result in him losing you.
Good luck - let us know how things turn out for you two.