Does your wife/gf dance with other men?

Does your wife/gf dance with other men?

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Classycouple28

United States

#1 Nov 18, 2009
I'm interested in hearing your experiences since my wife, for the first time, danced with other men on a recent cruise we went on...I had different emotions while watching...

Stories don't have to be xrated or anything, just real.

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Since: Sep 09

United States

#2 Nov 18, 2009
I love dancing with other men. Some just want to be sociable and some like to rub against me and get their bit of excitment. But, I have to admit I enjoy them all. My husband also dances with other ladies. I don't ask his intent.
Classycouple28

United States

#3 Nov 18, 2009
AStone wrote:
I love dancing with other men. Some just want to be sociable and some like to rub against me and get their bit of excitment. But, I have to admit I enjoy them all. My husband also dances with other ladies. I don't ask his intent.
so, you do enjoy it? What do you enjoy about it? As i said, it was my wife's first time dancing with another man (she's 29 and I've known her since she was 15) and after getting over the oddness if it, she warmed up to it.

Since: Sep 09

United States

#4 Nov 18, 2009
I have to admit that I get a little horny when another man is pressing his member against me. I have come home with moist panties several times.
Rusty

AOL

#5 Nov 18, 2009
We don't dance often but when we do she frequently dances with other men. Invariably they will cop a feel and/or rub against her. I love it because it makes her horny as hell. Later when we go home I find that they did the work and I get the benefits.
Classycouple28

United States

#6 Nov 18, 2009
As a younger man (30) with a wife that is incredibly hot and innocent at the same time, I am curious about what goes on in the head of both the hubby and wifey when this is happening.

One of the guys bought my wife on the drink in the middle of a dance and that got me upset, while another guy out his hands on her and that turned me on...
SAK

North Hills, CA

#7 Dec 9, 2009
When we go out to dance, my wife is asked to dance often by other men. I am very turned on by it. She usually wears short flaring skirts and so I get the chance to watch as she is spun around and I can see her very tiny sheer panties and thigh highs. Of course all the other men in the room get to see as well and eventually a guy will slow dance with her, rubbing his cock against her. She loves it and will allow him to feel her up. She has occasionally left with them, blowing them and sometimes screwing them.
jag

La Palma, CA

#8 Dec 15, 2009
I love it but I have yet to go out with her. She usually goes with her friends and dances with men.
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Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#9 Dec 15, 2009
AStone wrote:
I have to admit that I get a little horny when another man is pressing his member against me. I have come home with moist panties several times.
My husband allows me to accept when another guy asks but he really looks annoyed. It does happen that some guys will get hard and i dont let on I notice. that happened before we got married earlier this year,& it was one of his best friends. I didnt tell him to avoid a big thing.
I recall one boy I didnt know back when we first were dating. He got so hard and red in the face, it was sooo cute. Lucky I didnt say anything untill we left,but then I told him and was laughing because I thought it was funny. OMG my husband wanted to go back and punch the guy. I would not say anything if it happens again but I try to avoid dancing now when I can.

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#10 Dec 15, 2009
Dancing is not the same as having sex. But for some strange reason, there are men and women who seem to equate the two..............
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#11 Dec 15, 2009
Queue wrote:
Dancing is not the same as having sex. But for some strange reason, there are men and women who seem to equate the two..........
The way dancing is these days there is sex involved to a degree. Have you been to a high school dance lately? Things can get out of control big time. Ive seen old movies where dancing is an art or romantic but not in a obviously sexy way. To be honest there is a lot of sex going on parents dont know about. Now Im married and we want kids but I hope things change before my kids get to teenage years.

“Walking Attitude”

Since: Aug 07

The Q continuum

#12 Dec 15, 2009
Louisa D wrote:
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The way dancing is these days there is sex involved to a degree. Have you been to a high school dance lately? Things can get out of control big time. Ive seen old movies where dancing is an art or romantic but not in a obviously sexy way. To be honest there is a lot of sex going on parents dont know about. Now Im married and we want kids but I hope things change before my kids get to teenage years.
What little "walking hormones" do at the local school dance, is not what I consider dancing. It's vertical f$%king. There is a huge difference.
boozooby

Penn Valley, CA

#13 Dec 15, 2009
My wife went to a meeting on the coast with six co-workers. After a couple of tequila shooters, they all danced, most with their husbands. Having no parnter present, to avoid being left out, my wife danced with strangers.

She feels dancing is fun and not cheating since its not sex. I agree with her.

During the slow dances she could feel the guys' erections pressing against her through their pants.
She definitely enjoyed dancing with these men.

So dancing has an element of eroticism, but its not the same as having sex.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#14 Dec 15, 2009
Queue wrote:
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What little "walking hormones" do at the local school dance, is not what I consider dancing. It's vertical f$%king. There is a huge difference.
You said it right. Its out of control in schools. Colleges are even worse. Male & female strip parties and drinking etc. No ones in charge or they just dont care.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#15 Dec 15, 2009
boozooby wrote:
My wife went to a meeting on the coast with six co-workers. After a couple of tequila shooters, they all danced, most with their husbands. Having no parnter present, to avoid being left out, my wife danced with strangers.
She feels dancing is fun and not cheating since its not sex. I agree with her.
During the slow dances she could feel the guys' erections pressing against her through their pants.
She definitely enjoyed dancing with these men.
So dancing has an element of eroticism, but its not the same as having sex.
Its suggestive and causes temptations but sex is sex and dancing is dancing.
Sally P

Bexleyheath, UK

#16 Dec 15, 2009
Once when my husband and I (hes quite a bit older so not so keen to dance)were on a holiday in Benidorm we went to a club/bar and a young man from our hotel spotted us. I was surprised to see him there as he always seemed to be alone at meal times, by the pool, at the bar etc. He came over and asked why we were not up dancing and hubby just said i'm taking it easy for a while, why dont you two go and have a dance. We went on to the dance floor and a few fastish numbers were played and we did the normal on the spot moving (not much room for anything else. I was wearing a very flimsy summer button through dress that simply flowed and moved around me like a cloud and a pair of strappy high heeled sandals, He was wearing a casual button through shirt and thin summer casual slacks. he music eventually turned to the usual very slow romantic slushy type and he pulled me up close and held me tight. As we moved (again not very far) around I could feel him getting rather hard down below as our two very thin clothings rubbed together. He started to push up against me harder and his leg went between mine and he started to grind. It must have been the alcohol and atmosphere but I must have responded. I felt his hands slide down my back and cup my bum cheeks. He whispered in my ear, I can feel your knickers through your dress, tell me about them. Again it must have been the situation cos I felt very flushed and excited (my husband would never do such a thing and would be horrified to think I joined in with such banter). I heard my self saying they are black seamless high cut Vanity Fair specials. His hand snaked round the front and inserted itself between the buttons of my dress and stroked in circles over my panties. I would like to see them he said, go and take them off for me. I wandered in a daze back to the table and told hubby I was going to the loo. When I got in there again it was very crowded and everyone was excited and again I just got carried away. When it was my turn to go, I slipped my knickers off and put them in my bag and returned. I made some excuse to go over to my dance partners table to thank him and passed him my knickers and just walked away. We returned to our hotel later and I just went into the bathroom and stripped off and put on my nightdress. my hubby was none the wiser and the next morning I found out that my new friend had already left for the airport, presumably with my knickers tucked away somewhere for enjoyment later. I wouldnt dare tell hubby but I do get very excited and wet everytime I think about my crazy behaviour with a stranger in a hotel in Benidorm. I wonder if I would have the courage or opportunity to do it again sometime.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#17 Dec 15, 2009
Sally, I think if your husband wasnt with you this could have turned into a very hot romantic evening and "more"! Im excited just reading about it and imagining it happening to me. He sounds like a very hot guy, your dance partner. Whew!!
Sally P

Bexleyheath, UK

#18 Dec 15, 2009
Hi Louisa I agree, had it been possible for him to stay a little longer who knows what else could have happened, maybe I could have got my knickers back, or maybe lost some more and God knows what else, Oh I can dream cant I.
Stupid me in all the rush and excitement I didnt even get a name let alone an address, alchohol and schoolgirl sexual excitement has a lot to answer for.
Has nothing untoward happened to you, cant believe it hasnt as I have read you on here quite a lot.
Louisa D

Hawthorne, NJ

#19 Dec 15, 2009
Sally P wrote:
Hi Louisa I agree, had it been possible for him to stay a little longer who knows what else could have happened, maybe I could have got my knickers back, or maybe lost some more and God knows what else, Oh I can dream cant I.
Stupid me in all the rush and excitement I didnt even get a name let alone an address, alchohol and schoolgirl sexual excitement has a lot to answer for.
Has nothing untoward happened to you, cant believe it hasnt as I have read you on here quite a lot.
Im only 20 and I know what you mean about young. I see milfs at times when we go out and they are smart about things. I was kinda dumb in high school and being a cheerleader and popular with boys I did get into sex early. My 1st few BFs got HJs from me. I didnt go all the way untill almost 15. I met a boy that is 2 years older. and oddly enough he was my future husbands friend. So I met him due to knowing my husband to be, from growing up on the same street.
He was charming tall and good looking. and 18 with a car!
He was also well endowed like nothing id seen before. He couldnt wait to show it to me. Im Italian & Im very tiny. My husband says I look like a 12 year old with nice curves,LOL. I loved looking at and playing with his thingy, but was afraid it was too big for sex. He finally convinced me but said he would be gentle. As it turned out I had no problem after all. I was crazy about him and the sex was fantastic. After 2 years I realized we had a lot of things that were issues. I was 18 and could not see a good future if I stayed with him. I broke it off and cried for days. Then my friend from down the street who had always looked out for me asked me if id like to go to a movie and kill time. I did and after that he took me to a chinese buffet. I was so comfortable with him and enjoyed myself so much I began to think wow hes much more fun to be with than anyone. That began our going out more and after a while he told me he had a crush on me for some time. He felt I was too young at 16 and much too popular with the boys my age to ask me out.
Once I went out with his friend he was kicking himself. Once it ended ,he made his move. We got married in September and I turned 20 shortly after. Im extremely happy with him. I may think at times about the other one and what we had sex wise, but I wouldnt trade my husband for him. We have a lot going in the bedroom and keep it interesting. So you see Im not all that wild.
Sally P

Bexleyheath, UK

#20 Dec 15, 2009
Hey Louisa 20 is a bit young to get married but what the heck if your happy together thats all that matters. However I think you may have missed out on some real fun had you stayed single until mid/late twenties. You could then be as wild as you want. Just out of curiosity, what would you have done if you were in my position with this hunk and (hyperthetically) what do you think hubbys reaction would be.

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