Anyone ever had sex with a minor on accident?

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#1 Feb 13, 2009
I met this girl at a club. You are suppose to be 18 to get in and 21 to drink. I met this girl, bought her a few drinks and danced with her for a while.
I took her home and we made out, started to get naked but she fell asleep. Nothing really happened. I took her home the next day and found she was only 16 and her father was mad as hell but would not listen to me. He is trying to prosecute me for underage rape. What can I do? Nothing really happened, mostly just kissing and we did get naked but no actual intercourse happened. She really looked older than 21
someguy

Greensburg, PA

#2 Feb 13, 2009
I work with sex offenders and what you did would constitute a sexual offense but not rape.

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#3 Feb 13, 2009
someguy wrote:
I work with sex offenders and what you did would constitute a sexual offense but not rape.
So what can I do? I thought she was just a little younger than me, Im 23 she wass the aggressor

Since: Nov 08

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#4 Feb 14, 2009
nightwolf909 wrote:
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So what can I do? I thought she was just a little younger than me, Im 23 she wass the aggressor
It counts as a sexual offense. And there really isn't a whole lot you can do.

I understand this wasn't completely your fault, but to everyone else, you appear to be the pervert and bad guy in the situation. If they don't press charges, you may be fine.
JustConcerned

Greensboro, NC

#5 Jun 9, 2009
Well then the club needs to be sued as well since they let a minor in. IF she is in a place like that its a natural assumption on this guys part that she was of age. Who asks any girl in a place like that if they are over 18, Its natural to think someone is of age. I think he needs a good lawyer for she was misleading. Its almost like someone being setup or something.

Also wouldnt it be the fathers word against his. I mean if this guy says he didnt do anything with her then there is no dna evidence that he did anything with her. Its almost like falsely acusing someone without proof. THe only thing is he took her home after she fell asleep at his place. Its her fault for being out and being underage and the fathers fault for letting her.
B thats it

Houtzdale, PA

#6 Jun 9, 2009
nightwolf909 wrote:
I met this girl at a club. You are suppose to be 18 to get in and 21 to drink. I met this girl, bought her a few drinks and danced with her for a while.
I took her home and we made out, started to get naked but she fell asleep. Nothing really happened. I took her home the next day and found she was only 16 and her father was mad as hell but would not listen to me. He is trying to prosecute me for underage rape. What can I do? Nothing really happened, mostly just kissing and we did get naked but no actual intercourse happened. She really looked older than 21
your screwed, if he cant get you for stagitory if you did not have sex with her he can get you for "curroption of a minor" isnt it great, the rule is DONT EVEN TALK TO A GIRL THAT IS UNDERAGE.
B thats it

Houtzdale, PA

#7 Jun 9, 2009
Shinso wrote:
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It counts as a sexual offense. And there really isn't a whole lot you can do.
I understand this wasn't completely your fault, but to everyone else, you appear to be the pervert and bad guy in the situation. If they don't press charges, you may be fine.
not true, if the cops get wind of any sort they can press charges themselves.

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Since: May 09

Las Cruces, NM

#8 Jun 9, 2009
If you are telling the truth about meeting her at a club that was 18 and over, that may save your behind in court if this goes that far.

If she got into the club its likely she had a fake ID, so even if you did question her age and she presented you with a fake ID - what are men also supposed to be trained in spotting fake ID's of the women they meet in clubs supposed to be for adults? And if the club couldnt spot the fake how could they possibly expect you to.

No, you didn't check her ID, but you were reasonable to assume her being of age from a legal standpoint if you did meet in her in an 18+ Club.

Google what happened to Akon, and see if he was charged as a while back he dry humped a minor on stage in an 18+ club that she used a fake ID to get into. Not sure whatever happened to him on that, but most people were siding with him and against the club that let her in and the parents that didn't watch their minor daughter.

On the otherside.. come on due. I know girls can look older than their age and granted, many can be mature in the way they speak but typically, if you can't visually tell a girl is 18 all she has to do is say a few lines and you can figure it out. If she has to make up an excuse to her mom to stay out later - she's not 18.

If you are picking up barely legal girls (18) and are over 21, best to do your homework before taking them home and get to know them and be sure of their situation. Being labeled a sex offender would ruin your life.
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flyboy

Richmond, VA

#9 Aug 4, 2009
So man, what has happened since this situation happened? Did the family press charges? What happened with the girl? Did she admit she went into the club underaged? And that you 2 did not have sex?

Legally, you are screwed in that if they do press charges, then you are going to have a sex offense charge on your record for life, and will be considered a sex offender. However, if you can prove she was in the club underaged, if you can prove you 2 did not have sex, or the club allowed her in without checking ID, you may/will have a case in court. And the club can be sued if they did not check her ID.

You were basically set up, the best thing would be to coercer her into telling the truth of what happened. If that does not work, then you need to get a really good lawyer.

Since: Jan 09

Atlanta, GA

#10 Aug 5, 2009
Gey yourself a great lawyer---FAST !
lankylane

Hamburg, Germany

#11 Aug 5, 2009
nightwolf909 wrote:
I met this girl at a club. You are suppose to be 18 to get in and 21 to drink. I met this girl, bought her a few drinks and danced with her for a while.
I took her home and we made out, started to get naked but she fell asleep. Nothing really happened. I took her home the next day and found she was only 16 and her father was mad as hell but would not listen to me. He is trying to prosecute me for underage rape. What can I do? Nothing really happened, mostly just kissing and we did get naked but no actual intercourse happened. She really looked older than 21
Oh, simply have a few words with the prospective orgasmic wonder in the brains department. 15 yo usually do not offer much there aside from their phyhsical aspects and too much babyfat.-

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