To chicks who say size doesn't matter...

To chicks who say size doesn't matter - come clean thread

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Reality

Montgomery, AL

#1 Oct 11, 2008
Are you actually saying that you don't react more with an 8 inch long x 2 inch thick dick digging up in you than you do when a 5 inch long x 1.5 inch dick is in, and expect me to believe you?
Time to be 100% truthful and stop the double talk. For instance, some chicks say size doesn't matter, but then they proceed to contradict themselves by stating they would take an average one that knows how to use it over a big one that doesn't. If they really truly felt size doesn't matter they wouldn't feel the need in their example of giving the smaller guy an advantage of knowing how to use it and the bigger guy a disadvantage of not knowing how to use it. What happens if the big penis guy also knows how to use it?
Perhaps you haven't actually had one that big yet and don't actually know?
Or perhaps you are in denial, not likeing the idea that penis size has any power over you? Perhaps you don't like the attitude of some guys with big dicks so you aren't about to admit to preferring their dick sizes?
Perhaps you are pissed at a big ex who cheated on you with his big dick and now you have resentment towards guys with big dicks?

Reality

Montgomery, AL

#3 Oct 11, 2008
Bump.
It's almost 2009. Come clean.

“I'm not just white, I'm pasty”

Since: Sep 08

Columbia, MO

#4 Oct 11, 2008
Reality wrote:
Are you actually saying that you don't react more with an 8 inch long x 2 inch thick dick digging up in you than you do when a 5 inch long x 1.5 inch dick is in, and expect me to believe you?
Time to be 100% truthful and stop the double talk. For instance, some chicks say size doesn't matter, but then they proceed to contradict themselves by stating they would take an average one that knows how to use it over a big one that doesn't. If they really truly felt size doesn't matter they wouldn't feel the need in their example of giving the smaller guy an advantage of knowing how to use it and the bigger guy a disadvantage of not knowing how to use it. What happens if the big penis guy also knows how to use it?
Perhaps you haven't actually had one that big yet and don't actually know?
Or perhaps you are in denial, not likeing the idea that penis size has any power over you? Perhaps you don't like the attitude of some guys with big dicks so you aren't about to admit to preferring their dick sizes?
Perhaps you are pissed at a big ex who cheated on you with his big dick and now you have resentment towards guys with big dicks?
Size does matter, but bigger isn't always better (and I think that's what most women are trying to actually say)... A two incher looses sure... but once you get past 7.5 or 8, that's just too big for most women. It'll actually hurt.

I think a 5-7 inch (really doesn't matter as long as they know how to use it, where in that range they are) is perfect. I've been with a guy who was 8, and it was great, don't get me wrong, but there were positions we couldn't do, we had to go slow longer because otherwise it would hurt me. Though we made it work, there were a lot of inconveniences. He knew how to use it and I loved it, but it wasn't as good as a guy who has the 5-7 comfy range.

Anything less than 5 and it'll be disappointing. I'll be honest it may be the motion in the ocean not the size of the boat, but you can't get to England (I'm in the states) in a rowboat.
Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#5 Oct 11, 2008
FairSkinnedGirl wrote:
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Size does matter, but bigger isn't always better (and I think that's what most women are trying to actually say)... A two incher looses sure... but once you get past 7.5 or 8, that's just too big for most women. It'll actually hurt.
I think a 5-7 inch (really doesn't matter as long as they know how to use it, where in that range they are) is perfect. I've been with a guy who was 8, and it was great, don't get me wrong, but there were positions we couldn't do, we had to go slow longer because otherwise it would hurt me. Though we made it work, there were a lot of inconveniences. He knew how to use it and I loved it, but it wasn't as good as a guy who has the 5-7 comfy range.
Anything less than 5 and it'll be disappointing. I'll be honest it may be the motion in the ocean not the size of the boat, but you can't get to England (I'm in the states) in a rowboat.
well said.

Most of the really "honest sounding " comments I have read .. and I have read over 1000 in the last two years ... sound similar to what you said.

SOme women do indeed have wider and deeper vaginas and in their case they do require more size to have the same feeling of tightness that women of average proportions really need ..

Average fits with average most of the time ...
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#6 Oct 12, 2008
An average penis is a sort of 'one size fits all' tool. That doesn't mean it's optimal. It's a 'practical tool' that can probably get the job done with most chicks. It's nature's practical solution. It works quite well on a tight shallow vagina, well enough on an average vagina, and can perhaps get by on a big vagina. The reason why guys are the ones expected to 'bring it' in bed is because males are recognised as more powerful than females and the penis is a pushing tool and a 'power' symbol. The vast majority of women state they prefer girth of extra size. So the girth part is so obvious that isn't even up for debate.'Size doesn't matter' articles talk about the clitoris, the g-spot, using ones fingers, and tongue. All well and good, except for the factors those articles leave out and the spinning that they do. Lets start with the spinning. Those articles say that a long penis can hit the cervix and cause pain. However, the cervix tilts almost completely out of the way when a woman is aroused. It can take up to 20 minutes before it is fully tilted, depending on factors such as how quickly turned on she is, if she had been already anticipating, how good a foreplay job he is doing, etc. Also, when a woman isn't fully aroused her vagina isn't fully expanded and her cervix isn't fully tilted, so it doesn't require a long penis to reach it at that stage. When the vagina is fully expanded and cervix tilted the penis will slide by the cervix. It may rub on it, but that is pleaureable, not painful. It will not be the impact, which is painful to most women, that those articles try to claim. Nature has seen to it. So those articles are not telling it like it is. Also, they always leave out that some women say there is a 'deep area' sensation and some of those women even say it creates a more powerful orgasm than the clitoris or g spot does. The posterior fornix, located close to the posterior(bottom) wall, is believed to be that deep area sensation. Also, the "cul de sac" (technically known as the Pouch of Douglas)is another deep area that is believed to create sensation and can even create powerful orgasms. The cul de sac isn't inside the vagina. It's located between the bottom vaginal wall and anal canal. If a penis is long enough it can push the bottom wall into it and create some powerful reactions in some women. The bottom wall becomes elastic just like the side walls do. It expands and will move when pushed on. Those articles don't mention that the bottom wall stretches. They want to make it seem like the vagina is of a certain container depth with nowhere for long penises to go. Notice that the inaccuracies and leave outs just so happen to pertain to those factors which indicate size may make a difference. Those politically correct feel good articles aren't telling the entire picture. They state that the vagina doesn't have as many nerves deeper within and then they quickly move on. It's true that there aren't as many nerves, but since there are nerves that means there is sensation. Those articles move on as they don't want to highlight that part, they just want to make it seem like the deeper area walls don't count. Those articles will only mention girth in a sentence and then quickly move on. They say there are women who prefer extra girth. What they don't mention, of course, is that the vast majority of women prefer extra girth. Sure, it's not an important issue to most women, but it is still a preference if they have a choice. Yes, sex can be good with only the clitoris and g spot stimulated, but that is not the entire picture.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#7 Oct 12, 2008
I want to clarify that I'm not saying penis size is an important issue. It's not to the vast majority of women. But just because it's not an issue doesn't mean that it doesn't make a differnce.
rahul

Chennai, India

#8 Oct 12, 2008
i have only 2 inch of penis.
josey wales outlaw

Cambridge, MA

#9 Oct 12, 2008
Reality wrote:
Are you actually saying that you don't react more with an 8 inch long x 2 inch thick dick digging up in you than you do when a 5 inch long x 1.5 inch dick is in, and expect me to believe you?
Time to be 100% truthful and stop the double talk. For instance, some chicks say size doesn't matter, but then they proceed to contradict themselves by stating they would take an average one that knows how to use it over a big one that doesn't. If they really truly felt size doesn't matter they wouldn't feel the need in their example of giving the smaller guy an advantage of knowing how to use it and the bigger guy a disadvantage of not knowing how to use it. What happens if the big penis guy also knows how to use it?
Perhaps you haven't actually had one that big yet and don't actually know?
Or perhaps you are in denial, not likeing the idea that penis size has any power over you? Perhaps you don't like the attitude of some guys with big dicks so you aren't about to admit to preferring their dick sizes?
Perhaps you are pissed at a big ex who cheated on you with his big dick and now you have resentment towards guys with big dicks?
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Franko

Port Coquitlam, Canada

#10 Oct 12, 2008
Reality wrote:
An average penis is a sort of 'one size fits all' tool. That doesn't mean it's optimal. can probably get the job done with most chicks.. It works quite well on a tight shallow vagina, well enough on an average vagina, and can perhaps get by on a big vagina. The vast majority of women state they prefer girth of extra size.. Those articles say that a long penis can hit the cervix and cause pain. However, the cervix tilts almost completely out of the way when a woman is aroused. when a woman isn't fully aroused her vagina isn't fully expanded and her cervix isn't fully tilted, so it doesn't require a long penis to reach it at that stage. When the vagina is fully expanded and cervix tilted the penis will slide by the cervix. It may rub on it, but that is pleaureable, not painful. It will not be the impact, which is painful to most women, that those articles try to claim.some women say there is a 'deep area' sensation and some of those women even say it creates a more powerful orgasm than the clitoris or g spot does. The posterior fornix, located close to the posterior(bottom) wall, is believed to be that deep area sensation. Also, the "cul de sac" (technically known as the Pouch of Douglas)is another deep area that is believed to create sensation and can even create powerful orgasms. The cul de sac isn't inside the vagina. It's located between the bottom vaginal wall and anal canal. Those politically correct feel good articles aren't telling the entire picture. They state that the vagina doesn't have as many nerves deeper within and then they quickly move on. It's true that there aren't as many nerves, but since there are nerves that means there is sensation. Sure, it's not an important issue to most women, but it is still a preference if they have a choice. Yes, sex can be good with only the clitoris and g spot stimulated, but that is not the entire picture.
you are probably right about the physiology, and therefore perhaps in some situations it applies.
The reality seems to be that many women don' have the cervix move enough out of the way so it ends up hurting them ...
I read an article where one group had done research on the "optimal size" ... which size gave optimal pleasure ... and accornig to that, the optimal size was 7 to 7.5 long and 5.5 to 6 girth. The difference in pleasure at 8 inches dropped dramatically becasue of the "hitting the cervix" issue. Also, becasue of that, the man could not go as hard and fast, which also reduced pleasure .. women like the feeling of the pubic bones hitting together. Thus a shorter penis had two huge advantages.
BY contrast, the pleasure at 6 inch length dropped only nominally. ALso if the girth went down to 5 inches the pleasure dropped only nominally, whereas a 7 inch girth was uncomfortably tight for many women.
I had one GF who was only 4' 9" tall and she was exceptionally tight and had a short vagina .. so to her my 6 incher was like an 8 incher to a larger woman ... and I can confirm that she found it difficult to take me in easily much of the time .. she had to be very relaxed and turned on to accept me fully in.. I purposley used positions that limited depth sometimes.
YOu seem determined to prove that women should want a larger than average to huge penis ...
where does that leave the 75% of men who do not have those proportions?
Perhaps there is a good reason to down-play the "deep inside" benefits during sex.
Maybe it is good for society in general, to give the population the idea that average is good enough, rather than sending every woman on a search for the big guys only ...
There would be a lot of frustrated "average guys" getting no women at all, while all the huge guys will have 3 women each. All because women are convinced that bigger is better ...

Since: Sep 08

Malaysia

#12 Oct 12, 2008
rahul wrote:
i have only 2 inch of penis.
Hey man .. its cool your indian ... don't sweat it
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#13 Oct 12, 2008
I said it's not an important issue. It's only an issue with 10% of women. 20% of women don't care about penis size at all. It's just that we are fed so much slant in the media and papers. Not only in this subject, but in just about any subject in which opinions abound. Even in the race for President and VP every one of the candidates have spun some stuff about the other candidate. Granted, some candidates are worse about it than others, but they all do it.

“Hemp for building materials”

Since: Sep 08

Hampstead

#14 Oct 12, 2008
rahul wrote:
i have only 2 inch of penis.
Rahul, the most intense feelings for a woman is within the first 2 inches of her vagina. sounds like you got it made. No waste.
josey wales outlaw

Cambridge, MA

#15 Oct 12, 2008
rahul wrote:
i have only 2 inch of penis.
think of the bright side! if someone tells you to go f-yourself,you tell them you can't,''literally'',!

“I'm not just white, I'm pasty”

Since: Sep 08

Columbia, MO

#16 Oct 12, 2008
Yanear wrote:
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Hey man .. its cool your indian ... don't sweat it
Actually.... there's that 8inch guy I mentioned.... I wouldn't dog on Indian guys. Genetically speaking their average falls above the world average.

Since: Sep 08

Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

#17 Oct 12, 2008
FairSkinnedGirl wrote:
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Actually.... there's that 8inch guy I mentioned.... I wouldn't dog on Indian guys. Genetically speaking their average falls above the world average.
.. No kiddin??

who knows maybe this guy knows how to use his 2 inches which atleast would be better than someone who doesn't know how to use his right??
Carlos

AOL

#18 Oct 12, 2008
My c*ck is uncircumcised and is 11 inches long and 8.75 inches around. I was blessed with the tool and know how to use it. I never had a complaint from any girl that I f*cked.
Reality

Montgomery, AL

#19 Oct 12, 2008
Carlos,

Not even Mandingo has a dick that big. You act as though they've all taken all of you. Only 1 out of every 15 white chicks take all of Mandingo and only 1 out every 5 black chicks takes all of him so what you say isn't believable, not at all. No one believes you and knows better, so why post it.

“How much you worth?”

Since: Oct 08

OKLAHOMA

#20 Oct 12, 2008
I prefer the width of it more than size.
Carol

Bedford, VA

#21 Oct 12, 2008
Reality wrote:
Carlos,
Not even Mandingo has a dick that big. You act as though they've all taken all of you. Only 1 out of every 15 white chicks take all of Mandingo and only 1 out every 5 black chicks takes all of him so what you say isn't believable, not at all. No one believes you and knows better, so why post it.
I think that Carlos may work on a farm somewhere,and enjoys working with the livestock..lol
Bob

UK

#22 Oct 12, 2008
ms malaaysia wrote:
I prefer the width of it more than size.
i've got about 4 inches around, but only like 6/7 long...is this a good size?

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