Why do men share their wives?

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Rationality on hold wrote:
Actually, for once there have been some good points made on both sides of the issue. Men who share their wives with other men… especially complete strangers do so for the “most part” for their own voyeuristic needs (i.e., when porn just doesn’t do it for them anymore.) Few, do it at the behest of the wife.
Granted, she will, in some cases see it as part of the marital landscape that her husband wants and be OK with it…all things considered (financial security, kids, etc.) But few choose it because it is something that they want. Most women simply want to be loved and adored by their husbands. In short, they want to be valued.
However, before I rush to judgment (and not that I really can because what consenting adults do is none of my business…but I CAN have an opinion) a qualifier must be made. The vast majority of husbands abhor the thought of inviting some strange guy to have sex with his wife. So all of this is really a mute point…
A minority, however, like those in this forum fantasize about it, and fewer still act on it (though probably more would if the wife was agreeable.) If doing this brings you closer together (a head scratcher for me) or more importantly helps to avoid sexual relations with other people absent the knowledge of the partner…i.e. cheating… than from a moral relativism perspective there is nothing inherently wrong with it…
How did you come by your information, may I ask?
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Mar 14, 2009
 
Pamela, if that is your own picture for your online icon you look like you ought to be getting it from lots and lots and lots of guys often.
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No, I prefer human males. And I'm not religious. I still disagree with adultery. If they desire people other than their spouse, then why get married? Just be life-long swingers and bachelors.
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No, I prefer human males. And I'm not religious. I still disagree with adultery. If they desire people other than their spouse, then why get married? Just be life-long swingers and bachelors.
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A marriage is a contract, and if two people agree to swing, then why should they not marry? They still want to die together, not alone, partners and best friends. Adultery is a crime, a betrayal, secrecy. Polygamy was not adultery. It's the act of betrayal itself that is.
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I want to watch my wife have sex with another man and I have no desire for a guy whatsoever. I think it's because I want confirmation she is still hot and desired by others. Of course she will enjoy the sex but she has told me she wouldn't do it. If she does, then she thinks I will want her to do her girlfriend next or the mailman..... she did say she would gladly bang George Clooney or Brad Pitt though.
I would like to do sex with your wife.. if u agree please reply to jasmine.feroz@yahoo.com
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Mar 15, 2009
 
jasmine wrote:
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I would like to do sex with your wife.. if u agree please reply to jasmine.feroz@yahoo.com
Why would he let you have some of his wife for the asking....it doesn't work that way

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xcvb wrote:
Pamela, if that is your own picture for your online icon you look like you ought to be getting it from lots and lots and lots of guys often.
lol That's my own picture. If I were going to use an avatar I'd use a much better one.

Thanks.
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Mar 15, 2009
 
Let'a get back to the subject at hand

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You know, I really feel sorry for people who post here hoping to find a sympathetic ear to help them understand what could a very serious issue for them. I know I shouldn’t care. There are other ways to find validation, but issues such as this one, often inspire such fear as to how they might be judged in the real world, they feel compelled to seek the comfort of relative anonymity that a site like Topix offers them.
The “Rah-Rah, yeah go ahead do it. Don’t give it any thought, just tell us about it afterwards” antics of those who get their sexual thrills basking in the intimate details of someone else’s sexual problems, can be ignored easily enough. What bothers me is the total lack of humanity demonstrated by those who offer condemnation either by espousing religious or, what they consider to be respectable morality, or the moronic name calling that occurs in every thread,(Questioning one’s sexuality, man or womanhood, worthiness as a human being, etc). There is honestly no difference between the two different types of condemnation. They are both thoroughly disgusting and demonstrative of an absolute lack of personal honor, and, what is to me, among the very lowest forms of humanity.
What is even worse to me is the pomposity of those who are intelligent and articulate enough to express, what may seem to be, some expertise on the subject when their words are nothing more the regurgitation of another counterfeit authority's faulty or inept reasoning.
I apologize if this offends anyone. For the most part, we are fortunate enough to be graced by the company of very sympathetic and respectful people.
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Mar 16, 2009
 
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Pamela, if that is your own picture for your online icon you look like you ought to be getting it from lots and lots and lots of guys often.
i agree, the lady in the photo is a real milf.
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#93
Mar 16, 2009
 
Hell some want to do wive trading because theirs dont look attractive anymore and they want to trade in a fully depreciated woman LOL Fantasy but it doesnt work guys.

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Hell some want to do wive trading because theirs dont look attractive anymore and they want to trade in a fully depreciated woman LOL Fantasy but it doesnt work guys.
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Because they're voyeurs.

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How did you come by your information, may I ask?
I know I must come off as very judgmental, but I do speak from experience. When I was younger I did a lot of things that that I’m not proud of… there is a subculture in the US that involves sexual promiscuity in and out of marriage… wife swapping, a swinging lifestyle and everything in between. I was part of that for a time, and I simply made observations (why people were doing what they were doing and the underpinnings of what was common in many of those relationships.)

Then I met the woman who is now my wife… and everything changed.

Most people, who are in these alternative lifestyle arrangements generally are not happy with certain aspects of their lives (certainly not all but many.) For the most part, the wives, deep down would rather be cherished and loved by their husbands… and want a monogamous loving respectful relationship with their husband...rather than what they have.

I only share what I share because I really want people to know that they “can” be much happier if they keep intimacy between each other and not bring others into the bedroom
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Rationality on Hold...Well said, your post brought a tear to my eye...I can see it both ways and I am now on your team...But maybe only because my wife of 40 years put a stop to playing around 25 years ago....It still turns me on thinking about the things we did then(which was petty kissing with a friend and she played with him and did oral a couple of times, with me there) as well as what she did before we met in college..anyone care to talk about past fun times, not just swinging and swapping.....

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I know I must come off as very judgmental, but I do speak from experience. When I was younger I did a lot of things that that I’m not proud of… there is a subculture in the US that involves sexual promiscuity in and out of marriage… wife swapping, a swinging lifestyle and everything in between. I was part of that for a time, and I simply made observations (why people were doing what they were doing and the underpinnings of what was common in many of those relationships.)
Then I met the woman who is now my wife… and everything changed.
Most people, who are in these alternative lifestyle arrangements generally are not happy with certain aspects of their lives (certainly not all but many.) For the most part, the wives, deep down would rather be cherished and loved by their husbands… and want a monogamous loving respectful relationship with their husband...rather than what they have.
I only share what I share because I really want people to know that they “can” be much happier if they keep intimacy between each other and not bring others into the bedroom
you are so full of it .. how can you know what most wives want or anyone for that matter. You have no idea what goes on in my mind or anyone else's either. Even your wife may have ideas or thought she has never shared with you and you will never really know. Things may have changed for you when you met her. So you say that you changed because of her and now you are an expert on what wives think .. A touch arrogant don't you think?? I never had what you did at an earlier age so why can't I experience it now? We are as happy now as we have ever been and this is only a small part of our lives. Fun and exciting for sure but still only part of who we are .
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JBJ wrote:
Rationality on Hold...Well said, your post brought a tear to my eye...I can see it both ways and I am now on your team...But maybe only because my wife of 40 years put a stop to playing around 25 years ago....It still turns me on thinking about the things we did then(which was petty kissing with a friend and she played with him and did oral a couple of times, with me there) as well as what she did before we met in college..anyone care to talk about past fun times, not just swinging and swapping.....
During the years that my wife has been "playing around" (approximately the last 15), we have both been in a perpetual state of sexual tension and excitement. She loves sex, especially with very endowed guys, and loves to be banged very hard. I love having sex with her while she tells me all the details of her sexual encounters, especially if our sex occurs while she is still wet and stretched from just having had sex with someone else. I enjoy watching her flirt and attract attention when we go to lounges, the beach, etc. The bolder she acts, the more turned on I get. She has very dark areola and long nipples, which are exceptional when she wears clothing that reveal these features. And although some guys don't like it, she has a very bulging cameltoe and hairy crotch, which always attracts attention at the beach or a swimming pool. She and I will always have a lot of exciting things to talk about!

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Mar 18, 2009
 
Lysette wrote:
You know, I really feel sorry for people who post here hoping to find a sympathetic ear to help them understand what could a very serious issue for them. I know I shouldn’t care. There are other ways to find validation, but issues such as this one, often inspire such fear as to how they might be judged in the real world, they feel compelled to seek the comfort of relative anonymity that a site like Topix offers them.
The “Rah-Rah, yeah go ahead do it. Don’t give it any thought, just tell us about it afterwards” antics of those who get their sexual thrills basking in the intimate details of someone else’s sexual problems, can be ignored easily enough. What bothers me is the total lack of humanity demonstrated by those who offer condemnation either by espousing religious or, what they consider to be respectable morality, or the moronic name calling that occurs in every thread,(Questioning one’s sexuality, man or womanhood, worthiness as a human being, etc). There is honestly no difference between the two different types of condemnation. They are both thoroughly disgusting and demonstrative of an absolute lack of personal honor, and, what is to me, among the very lowest forms of humanity.
What is even worse to me is the pomposity of those who are intelligent and articulate enough to express, what may seem to be, some expertise on the subject when their words are nothing more the regurgitation of another counterfeit authority's faulty or inept reasoning.
I apologize if this offends anyone. For the most part, we are fortunate enough to be graced by the company of very sympathetic and respectful people.
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This is a human sexuality forum. People talk about sex. Some have fetishes that I don't share but who am I to judge? Just because I wouldn't enjoy or want to participate in swinging doesn't mean I condemn those who practice it.

I also wouldn't enjoy BDSM, but I won't say negative things about those who do it.

Everyone is different and they all have different things that turn them on. I'm sure if some people knew all the things that go through my head they might find me kinky.

No one is forcing you or I to participate in these things so live and let live.

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